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Living w a gf is a no brainer

You get to share the bills and you end up with a roomate who...
Cerebral opaque theater stage legend
  02/28/18
tbf you can do those things with any roommate
bateful nursing home
  02/28/18
true, but only chads can have GFs in modern America so its j...
self-centered space
  02/28/18
haha enjoy getting henpecked into chores whenever you try to...
Laughsome Garnet Coldplay Fan
  02/28/18
Wtf thats not gf material dude
Cerebral opaque theater stage legend
  02/28/18
sorry did i miss a hidden parameter for your thread that we'...
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  02/28/18
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  02/28/18
incredibly cr. not to mention all of the "shared activi...
charismatic domesticated therapy
  02/28/18
couples tv is the worst. no, i don't want to rewatch episode...
Laughsome Garnet Coldplay Fan
  02/28/18
horrible
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  02/28/18
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  02/28/18
Almost sounds like you lived in "a den of proles."...
180 dark party of the first part
  02/28/18
Downside: they’re ALWAYS there. You know how no matter how b...
irradiated rehab
  02/28/18
separate bedrooms bro
Laughsome Garnet Coldplay Fan
  02/28/18
would love this but lol at any good woman not freaking the f...
Beady-eyed shimmering roommate market
  02/28/18
i think about this often.
glittery fanboi
  02/28/18
I only need about a 1.5 foot sliver of the mattress to sleep...
violent stead
  02/28/18
Also an upside if it's the right girl
Pale razzmatazz messiness
  02/28/18
Sure but OP is talking about moving in with any gf
irradiated rehab
  02/28/18
*for 2 years max
charismatic domesticated therapy
  02/28/18
Nah
chocolate bbw field
  02/28/18
wtf how about not dating women who are clingy
Cerebral opaque theater stage legend
  02/28/18
No choice, i’m only into genetic females
irradiated rehab
  02/28/18
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violent stead
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  02/28/18
Sucks for you, I've only dated non-clingy girls
Fear-inspiring boyish ceo cruise ship
  02/28/18
this. no time to yourself. incessant nagging about chores...
wild scourge upon the earth locale
  02/28/18
jfc
arrogant box office water buffalo
  02/28/18
It's a relief that she's cheating on you and you pretend not...
spectacular amethyst orchestra pit
  02/28/18
Mods!
milky base roast beef
  02/28/18
haha mods
charismatic domesticated therapy
  02/28/18
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peach spot
  02/28/18
Women who want to "do" something are the worst. Th...
180 dark party of the first part
  02/28/18
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wild scourge upon the earth locale
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Lol
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  02/28/18
this is false. wife stays the fuck on her side unless she in...
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  02/28/18
This recommendation to shack up is among the worst advice on...
crimson provocative windowlicker
  02/28/18
CR. i couldn't get an ex-gf to take her shit from my apart...
wild scourge upon the earth locale
  02/28/18
Bagged exgfs shit up and left it in the package storage spac...
irradiated rehab
  02/28/18
Every city poasters live is expensive as fuck.
spectacular amethyst orchestra pit
  02/28/18
not you and me
slippery thriller prole
  02/28/18
Kiev is cheap af
violent stead
  02/28/18
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  02/28/18
agreed
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  02/28/18
It is great in two circumstances. 1. You're getting marri...
chocolate bbw field
  02/28/18
Living w a gf is a no boner
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  02/28/18
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  02/28/18
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Ruddy Razzle Puppy
  02/28/18
nominating this for worst ever post on XO
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  02/28/18
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  02/28/18
Nah. I've never lived with someone I wasn't dating/married ...
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  02/28/18
There is nothing worse than living with a girlfriend. After...
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  02/28/18
so what is a man to do
charismatic domesticated therapy
  02/28/18
The only benefit to having a long term relationship, or marr...
internet-worthy lake office pistol
  02/28/18
Wtf?!?!? Are u serious?!?!??!?!
Cerebral opaque theater stage legend
  02/28/18
You have a lifetime full of disappointment ahead of you.
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  02/28/18
Sounds like you have a lifetime of disappointment behind you...
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  02/28/18
spin, ratfucks
Bat-shit-crazy Gunner National Security Agency
  02/28/18
Long term relationship =/= romance.
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  02/28/18
I'm sorry you feel that way. But it probably works to defin...
chocolate bbw field
  02/28/18
spin, ratfucks
Bat-shit-crazy Gunner National Security Agency
  02/28/18
You're talking to a female who once said that doggystyle sex...
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  02/28/18
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Bat-shit-crazy Gunner National Security Agency
  02/28/18
"The only benefit to having a long term relationship, o...
chocolate bbw field
  02/28/18
You should never live with a gf. Only good reason to move i...
Vermilion parlour dragon
  02/28/18
STRAIGHT DOPE
spectacular amethyst orchestra pit
  02/28/18
Just kick her out. Problem solved.
Cerebral opaque theater stage legend
  02/28/18
"If you're not going to propose, given that any girl th...
irradiated rehab
  02/28/18
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Cerebral opaque theater stage legend
  02/28/18
You've written some truth on this boart re: women, but this ...
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  02/28/18
There are two fundamental risks of moving in together: first...
Vermilion parlour dragon
  02/28/18
That is how Americans play it out yet we have a 59 percent d...
Cerebral opaque theater stage legend
  02/28/18
59% divorce rate? lol no
internet-worthy lake office pistol
  02/28/18
You're right. It's much, much, much higher.
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  02/28/18
No. The biggest risk isn't any of that. It is just that yo...
chocolate bbw field
  02/28/18
What kind of "man" cares about furniture?
Slap-happy embarrassed to the bone persian area
  02/28/18
The kind of man that actually lives in his house.
chocolate bbw field
  02/28/18
"Running a household together"? Seriously? First...
Vermilion parlour dragon
  02/28/18
But for some chicks it's not ikea. It's pottery barn. Or wor...
180 dark party of the first part
  03/01/18
100% agree.
chocolate bbw field
  02/28/18
Speaking as someone who has been divorced, having to commenc...
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"Living w a gf is a no brainer" is true you hav...
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  02/28/18
spin, ratfucks
Bat-shit-crazy Gunner National Security Agency
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spin, ratfucks
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  02/28/18
LJL at all the dumbfuck aspies complaining about having to d...
comical sepia halford
  02/28/18
Yep, we have a maid. Reduces bickering by a huge percent.
chocolate bbw field
  02/28/18
Live in maid?
Slap-happy embarrassed to the bone persian area
  02/28/18
Nah. In fact, once every 2-3 weeks is fine. When we lived ...
chocolate bbw field
  02/28/18
Is this poast supposed to be supportive of the OP's. Just do...
red french marketing idea
  02/28/18
Scarily accurate
milky base roast beef
  02/28/18


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Date: February 28th, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Cerebral opaque theater stage legend

You get to share the bills and you end up with a roomate who you can bust a nut in. Much better than living w a random person.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35503583)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 12:24 AM
Author: bateful nursing home

tbf you can do those things with any roommate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35503594)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 12:25 AM
Author: self-centered space

true, but only chads can have GFs in modern America so its jsut another example of CHAD winning out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35503598)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 12:26 AM
Author: Laughsome Garnet Coldplay Fan

haha enjoy getting henpecked into chores whenever you try to relax, bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35503602)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 12:27 AM
Author: Cerebral opaque theater stage legend

Wtf thats not gf material dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35503610)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Laughsome Garnet Coldplay Fan

sorry did i miss a hidden parameter for your thread that we're in the mid-20th century for this hypo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35503617)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 5:41 AM
Author: spectacular amethyst orchestra pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504324)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 9:15 AM
Author: milky base roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504674)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 8:11 PM
Author: Chartreuse hateful useless brakes



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35509736)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:10 PM
Author: charismatic domesticated therapy

incredibly cr. not to mention all of the "shared activities" like "watching TV" (which i'd rather not watch) and cleaning (which requires cleanup0

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506187)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:13 PM
Author: Laughsome Garnet Coldplay Fan

couples tv is the worst. no, i don't want to rewatch episodes of the office or shitty reality tv

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506210)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:14 PM
Author: spectacular amethyst orchestra pit

horrible

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506214)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 8:17 PM
Author: talented henna genital piercing travel guidebook



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35509783)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:26 PM
Author: 180 dark party of the first part

Almost sounds like you lived in "a den of proles."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508066)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: irradiated rehab

Downside: they’re ALWAYS there. You know how no matter how big the bed is, your gf is always right next to you needing to be close to you so you can’t sprawl out in your sleep? Imagine that fulltime.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35503624)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Laughsome Garnet Coldplay Fan

separate bedrooms bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35503630)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:30 PM
Author: Beady-eyed shimmering roommate market

would love this but lol at any good woman not freaking the fuck out over such a suggestion

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508112)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 12:31 AM
Author: glittery fanboi

i think about this often.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35503636)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 12:32 AM
Author: violent stead

I only need about a 1.5 foot sliver of the mattress to sleep properly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35503652)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 12:35 AM
Author: Pale razzmatazz messiness

Also an upside if it's the right girl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35503669)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 12:39 AM
Author: irradiated rehab

Sure but OP is talking about moving in with any gf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35503708)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:12 PM
Author: charismatic domesticated therapy

*for 2 years max

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506201)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:29 PM
Author: chocolate bbw field

Nah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506326)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 12:40 AM
Author: Cerebral opaque theater stage legend

wtf how about not dating women who are clingy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35503715)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 5:35 AM
Author: irradiated rehab

No choice, i’m only into genetic females

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504323)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 5:41 AM
Author: spectacular amethyst orchestra pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504325)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 9:13 AM
Author: violent stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504669)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: red french marketing idea



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507321)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:14 PM
Author: charcoal dashing international law enforcement agency stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507927)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:40 PM
Author: magenta high-end shrine cumskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508211)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:56 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring boyish ceo cruise ship

Sucks for you, I've only dated non-clingy girls

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508365)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 5:42 AM
Author: wild scourge upon the earth locale

this.

no time to yourself. incessant nagging about chores. can't sleep in on the weekends because they want to "do" something. get bitched at for drinking. constant struggles with bathroom/shower usage in the mornings.

familiarity breeds contempt. the more you are around each other, the more you get annoyed by each other's idiosyncrasies. the relationship inevitably weakens. it also stirs the desire for something novel, since your relationship becomes stale and boring. she starts facebook messaging / texting chad, and it's all over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504326)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 5:46 AM
Author: arrogant box office water buffalo

jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504331)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 6:18 AM
Author: spectacular amethyst orchestra pit

It's a relief that she's cheating on you and you pretend not to be aware.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504368)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 9:16 AM
Author: milky base roast beef

Mods!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504677)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:12 PM
Author: charismatic domesticated therapy

haha mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506204)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:12 PM
Author: peach spot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506206)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:28 PM
Author: 180 dark party of the first part

Women who want to "do" something are the worst. They should all be put in forced labor camps where they can "do" things to their hearts content.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508091)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:42 PM
Author: wild scourge upon the earth locale



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508239)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 5:59 PM
Author: godawful filthpig location



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508885)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 8:12 PM
Author: Trip tanning salon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35509743)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 8:44 PM
Author: fishy feces kitty cat

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35509926)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:43 PM
Author: Motley station

this is false. wife stays the fuck on her side unless she intends to touch my penis.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508251)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 6:22 AM
Author: crimson provocative windowlicker

This recommendation to shack up is among the worst advice on xo.

Breaking up is a mini-divorce. Property must be separated, someone has to move, and friends are divvied up. Highly recommend against this new-age faggotry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504372)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 6:30 AM
Author: wild scourge upon the earth locale

CR.

i couldn't get an ex-gf to take her shit from my apartment after she broke up with me.

it enraged me. i told her i wasn't a free storage facility and finally picked a day, said if your stuff isn't gone by this day i am throwing it in the dumpster.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504380)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 9:11 AM
Author: irradiated rehab

Bagged exgfs shit up and left it in the package storage space with the doorman. She has like a week to get it before the building was going to junk it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504663)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 6:32 AM
Author: spectacular amethyst orchestra pit

Every city poasters live is expensive as fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504381)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 9:14 AM
Author: slippery thriller prole

not you and me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504670)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 9:14 AM
Author: violent stead

Kiev is cheap af

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504673)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 6:50 AM
Author: Pungent center volcanic crater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504392)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 9:24 AM
Author: idiotic haunted graveyard

agreed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504694)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:27 PM
Author: chocolate bbw field

It is great in two circumstances.

1. You're getting married sooner or later.

2. There's a natural end date. In other words, someone is going back to school, leaving the country, etc.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506311)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 6:50 AM
Author: Rusted maniacal associate

Living w a gf is a no boner

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35504391)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 11:21 AM
Author: Cerebral opaque theater stage legend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35505432)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:07 PM
Author: Ruddy Razzle Puppy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506166)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 11:46 AM
Author: vivacious outnumbered point ape

nominating this for worst ever post on XO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35505619)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:07 PM
Author: crimson provocative windowlicker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506163)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:12 PM
Author: internet-worthy lake office pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506203)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:28 PM
Author: chocolate bbw field

Nah. I've never lived with someone I wasn't dating/married to and that is how I like it. I've had to share hotel rooms with people on various trips and it was 120 every time. Can't imagine sharing housing with non-gfs as a normal thing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506321)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:22 PM
Author: red french marketing idea



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507344)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:12 PM
Author: internet-worthy lake office pistol

There is nothing worse than living with a girlfriend. After the glow wears off, and the bickering over dishes etc. starts, it is the fucking worst. SPS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506198)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 1:20 PM
Author: charismatic domesticated therapy

so what is a man to do

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35506251)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:21 PM
Author: internet-worthy lake office pistol

The only benefit to having a long term relationship, or marriage for that matter, is to have and raise children. Keep that frame whenever posed with a question regarding women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507328)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:22 PM
Author: Cerebral opaque theater stage legend

Wtf?!?!? Are u serious?!?!??!?!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507352)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:51 PM
Author: internet-worthy lake office pistol

You have a lifetime full of disappointment ahead of you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507673)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:24 PM
Author: chocolate bbw field

Sounds like you have a lifetime of disappointment behind you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508040)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:02 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy Gunner National Security Agency

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507818)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:24 PM
Author: internet-worthy lake office pistol

Long term relationship =/= romance.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508039)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:26 PM
Author: chocolate bbw field

I'm sorry you feel that way. But it probably works to define romance as something broader than that "new relationship dating" thing. It is having someone that genuinely cares for you and who you can always trust to have your back.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508060)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:40 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy Gunner National Security Agency

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508210)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 5:03 PM
Author: chocolate bbw field

You're talking to a female who once said that doggystyle sex was degrading.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508430)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 6:38 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy Gunner National Security Agency

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35509145)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:23 PM
Author: chocolate bbw field

"The only benefit to having a long term relationship, or marriage for that matter, is to have and raise children."

JFC, GK. This is a very sad statement for a woman to make.

Incidentally, I've been with my wife for roughly 20 years and we have zero children. Absolutely zero regrets.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508028)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:18 PM
Author: Vermilion parlour dragon

You should never live with a gf. Only good reason to move in with a girl is if she's so much better than other girls you could be dating that you want to raise the costs of a breakup, in which case you should just propose. If you're not going to propose, given that any girl that will move in with you will accept your marriage proposal, it must be because you're not that excited about her. The likely result of this is that you'll break up with her eventually, but because of the shared living situation you'll do it later than you should and suffer more for it. These downsides more than outweigh any rent saved.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507303)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: spectacular amethyst orchestra pit

STRAIGHT DOPE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507310)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: Cerebral opaque theater stage legend

Just kick her out. Problem solved.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507318)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:24 PM
Author: irradiated rehab

"If you're not going to propose, given that any girl that will move in with you will accept your marriage proposal, it must be because you're not that excited about her. "

No. It's because living with someone is completely different than just dating them and it's a good idea to test drive that before you get hitched and open yourself up to DIVORCEPWNING. You could propose, move in together and test drive before getting married but that just makes it exponentially worse if you choose to break it off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507367)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:49 PM
Author: Cerebral opaque theater stage legend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507659)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:54 PM
Author: internet-worthy lake office pistol

You've written some truth on this boart re: women, but this isn't one of those times.

When a woman moves in with the expectation of getting married, you are dealing with a person with the most incentive to really hide her worst tenancies. Further, since she moved in with you and is full aware of the relatively high social and financial costs of the relationship not working after living together, you're dealing with a person with ZERO incentive to be herself.

It's the worst idea. You don't really get to know a woman until after marriage and there is no way to get around that fact.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507717)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:57 PM
Author: Vermilion parlour dragon

There are two fundamental risks of moving in together: first, that she wants you to do too much additional work (hang out with her when you don't feel like it, do housework you don't want to); second, as you post above familiarity breeds contempt and you get tired of her with additional exposure. On the second risk, as a happily married father of three I can assure you 100% that the bloom will come off the rose eventually; if you've proposed it's because you can't imagine anyone else being the mother of your kids and plunged in with full knowledge that the future won't all be dopamine-soaked tantric orgasms. The first risk is more minor - surely after dating someone for a year plus you've been able to communicate your expectations around these issues and can stick to them. While I don't fully discount the possibility of a surprise on either point, it's a remote enough risk if properly managed that you really should just propose and then move in. If the worst comes to pass a broken engagement isn't the end of the world.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507744)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:01 PM
Author: Cerebral opaque theater stage legend

That is how Americans play it out yet we have a 59 percent divorce rate. Clearly what you say doesnt work out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507802)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:02 PM
Author: internet-worthy lake office pistol

59% divorce rate? lol no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507815)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 8:09 PM
Author: marvelous chapel tank

You're right. It's much, much, much higher.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35509713)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:22 PM
Author: chocolate bbw field

No. The biggest risk isn't any of that. It is just that you aren't good at living together and don't mesh well with being around each other 24/7 and running a household together. The first thing you posted is one aspect of that, and the second is an outcome of this. But it is a greater issue. For example, maybe you and her fundamentally do not agree on lifestyle, furniture, spending, etc. These are all things you're not really going to discover until you move in together.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508008)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:30 PM
Author: Slap-happy embarrassed to the bone persian area

What kind of "man" cares about furniture?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508110)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:32 PM
Author: chocolate bbw field

The kind of man that actually lives in his house.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508135)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 5:04 PM
Author: Vermilion parlour dragon

"Running a household together"? Seriously? First of all the woman should be running the household (subject to your veto power and furniture budgets) if you're contemplating marrying her. Second of all this rounds down to zero compared to the actual challenges of raising kids, managing aging parents etc. If you move in with someone you love, are having great sex with and can't imagine being without and everything falls apart over the Ikea procurement process, the appropriate response isn't to break up, it's to kill yourself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508436)



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Date: March 1st, 2018 5:10 AM
Author: 180 dark party of the first part

But for some chicks it's not ikea. It's pottery barn. Or worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35512345)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:19 PM
Author: chocolate bbw field

100% agree.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507976)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:58 PM
Author: stimulating bat shit crazy parlor

Speaking as someone who has been divorced, having to commence litigation to get away from someone not to mention all the other stuff that comes with divorce is FAR more of a barrier than having locks changed. It's not even close to the same level of commitment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507759)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:22 PM
Author: chocolate bbw field



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508013)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 3:24 PM
Author: curious balding stag film

"Living w a gf is a no brainer" is true

you have to have no brain to live with one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507370)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:29 PM
Author: charcoal dashing international law enforcement agency stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508104)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:00 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy Gunner National Security Agency

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35507774)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 6:39 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy Gunner National Security Agency

spin, ratfucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35509150)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:24 PM
Author: comical sepia halford

LJL at all the dumbfuck aspies complaining about having to do chores and not being able to drink. Most hot women are slobs who leave dishes in the sink, makeup and hair straighteners in the bathroom, etc. I wouldn't prepare to do more chores, but I would prepare to hire a maid if you care about your toilet ever getting cleaned. And LJL at a GF who would tell you how much you can drink. Netflix GFs easily drink a half bottle of wine or more per night.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508038)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:29 PM
Author: chocolate bbw field

Yep, we have a maid. Reduces bickering by a huge percent.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508107)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:30 PM
Author: Slap-happy embarrassed to the bone persian area

Live in maid?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508114)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:32 PM
Author: chocolate bbw field

Nah. In fact, once every 2-3 weeks is fine. When we lived in Moscow it was a daily maid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508142)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:34 PM
Author: red french marketing idea

Is this poast supposed to be supportive of the OP's. Just do live with a drunk slob

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508155)



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Date: February 28th, 2018 4:38 PM
Author: milky base roast beef

Scarily accurate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3906051&forum_id=2#35508196)