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Are there any EARLY WARNING SIGNS of BAD WIVES???
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:23 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook Wives like TC's I mean... That's the kind of thing I'm looking to avoid.
There's no way they can COMPLETELY hide it before the marriage, right? Like even if they're trying to hide it, there's gotta be SOME small signals you can pick up on, right? |
Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:25 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665366) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:45 PM Author: irate area volcanic crater being a gentile (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665513) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:45 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook Fuck that is not the answer I was looking for (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665516) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:54 PM Author: irate area volcanic crater truth hurts. money is #1 cause of divorce (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665593) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:26 PM Author: Cyan Chapel Yes, and if there's anything we know it is that Jews are CHILL about money and totally not the sort of people to blow up a marriage over it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665878) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:10 PM Author: Cyan Chapel Bro, stop and think for a moment. Do you really think Jewish women are SANER? Think of all the Jewish women you know. Is this actually true? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665738) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:12 PM Author: ruby boiling water parlour (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665750) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:49 PM Author: Exhilarant ladyboy ANY trace of emotional instability, spendthrift habits, poor diet or exercise, or being too good in bed.
Godspeed. |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:53 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook How to detect spendthrift habits if you're not seeing her that much yet? Say a tinder girl you're meeting just once a week.
Ask questions to probe? |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:01 PM Author: Exhilarant ladyboy Observe her wardrobe, living situation, and job title. If she’s under 27 and running in the black without parental support, Mazel Tov.
Or get her phone and scroll her Amazon recent orders. |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:06 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook "If she’s under 27 and running in the black without parental support, Mazel Tov."
Thanks for this one, I'll try to screen for solvency in the future. Any way to bring it up without seeming suspicious? |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:13 PM Author: Exhilarant ladyboy You’re not really getting serious with a girl unless you can determine the state of her finances just from casual observation, are you?
Actually, if it’s not screamingly apparent from her status-whoring social media presence—if she has somehow retained the ability to exercise discretion in the year 2018–then you probably need to look real hard for her Adam’s apple. |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:22 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook had a good laugh at that line about the adam's apple (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665837) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:51 PM Author: burgundy glittery giraffe filthpig Having a natural vagina. They’re all bad in their own way. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665558) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:31 PM Author: Carnelian Scourge Upon The Earth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665941) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:54 PM Author: titillating deer antler abode 1) hyphenated name/keeps maiden name
2) quits job/takes lower paying "lifestyle" job BEFORE you have kids
3) you live within 1 hour of your mother-in-law |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:59 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook Point #2:
A little confused. Do you mean she quits before you even consider having kids, like just cruises right into housewife mode with no justification?
Or are you simply saying "she quits when she's pregnant"? |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:00 PM Author: titillating deer antler abode im saying you guys get married and are still DINKs not even thinking about kids and she decides to quit/take easier job
almost every lawyer/lawyer couple i know the girl goes in-house or govt almost immediately after marriage |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:02 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook Thank you for the clarification.
Are there any 'tells' for college-aged women or is that just getting too far ahead of ourselves? |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:06 PM Author: titillating deer antler abode tough to go wrong if you both met in college; especially early; having carefree sex for 2-4 years builds strong relationship and you guys most likely met through mutual interests/friends meaning you have great comparability and neither of you were socially retarded; or it was a hookup and you stayed for sex (having good sex very underrated for a relationship) and learned to like each other
flag for college would be similar; she has no plans to get a job or is over-the-top friendly/flirtatious, would also say a tattoo is a red flag and heavy drinking is a yellow flag (people drink in college; more tolerable if it is you two at a party)
but college organic gf is better than finding some girl at 29 who crawls out of a dumpster fire called her life for a drink in northblock loft |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:56 PM Author: nubile toaster stage Bad wives don't exist, any wife can be good if you give yourself a chance to love her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665619) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 9:59 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook So you're saying whenever a wife treats her husband badly it's always the husband's fault no matter what? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665655) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:02 PM Author: Exhilarant ladyboy It reflects extremely poorly on him if it is allowed to persist. Humans are every bit the social pack animals that dogs are. Someone must lead. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665684) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:05 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook Well fuck man the courts aren't making it easy on us with all these biased divorce trials and whatnot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665709) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:01 PM Author: titillating deer antler abode flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665679) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:09 PM Author: judgmental brilliant puppy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665734) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:01 PM Author: wine corn cake in which axis
there's the looks/body/attractiveness axis
there's the dutiful/domestic/cleanly axis
there's the cheerful/personality/outlook on life axis
there's the career/motivated/ambition/shrew axis |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:04 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook of those 4 my top two would be dutiful/domestic/clean and cheerful/personality. I don't really care what her career is, I'd rather not supply 100% of the income for a family, but I don't mind if she earns way less than me. I'm not that concerned about the looks thing either. I have a minimum I can't go below but I don't put much weight on marginal returns after that minimum has been hit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665699) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:09 PM Author: wine corn cake early signs in the d/d/c axis would be you feel yourself moving towards any task or driving attention toward a task while she sucks on a piece of hair scrolling through instagram, unimpressed and uninterested
early signs in the c/p axis are harder to detect - early on you may be so happy with sex and general companionship that difficult personality traits don't stick to you -- the real kicker is feeling yourself apologize a fair amount or feeling her apologize (ability to apologize actually downgrades level of mental illness, though) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:08 PM Author: Vibrant Sadistic Base on meds.
Thunder's wife was on meds until pregnancy. You often have to get off them while trying, during pregnancy, first few months afterwards. |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:10 PM Author: Cyan Chapel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665742) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:08 PM Author: self-absorbed depressive genetic female (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665731) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:11 PM Author: Cyan Chapel Anyone with "controlled mental illness." It will NOT remain controlled. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665743) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:13 PM Author: shimmering free-loading institution pisswyrm 3d woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665763) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:14 PM Author: Lime zippy ceo partner reminder:deadbedroom statistically kills most marriages. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665768) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:15 PM Author: swashbuckling turquoise kitchen Well if all you're doing is Napa trips and brunches then obviously you're not going to see anything.
Take her camping. Go on a trip to somewhere difficult like India or Egypt. Basically put yourselves out of your comfort zones and then see how she reacts.
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:17 PM Author: Lime zippy ceo partner lol, no. travel shrews LOVE going to odd places. it increases their bragging rights.
the real test? stay home every night, don't go out to eat at nice restaurants or do anything interesting, and try to have a convo w/ her for a solid month and have sex at least once a day. that's the true test |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:24 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook Yeah long conversations in a mundane environment seem key (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665863) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:30 PM Author: Lime zippy ceo partner this is literally marriage. if you can't stand her after a month of this, you'll be divorced by year 3. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665925) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:38 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook I know, I was agreeing with you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35666020) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:32 PM Author: Cyan Chapel Or just live together like two normal dating people and see how it goes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665949) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:15 PM Author: judgmental brilliant puppy Don't get married. You're welcome. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665774) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:22 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook I want to breed tho. Look into sperm donation? I have a pretty clean bill of health and am 6'1 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665841) |
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Date: March 23rd, 2018 2:35 AM Author: hot sapphire hunting ground headpube if ur high value or she LOVES u she'll do it out of wedlock, melvin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35667743) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:23 PM Author: Lime zippy ceo partner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35665843) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:19 PM Author: out-of-control angry legal warrant 1. Will have sex with you before marriage 2. Will try to monopolize your time 3. Doesn't want kids |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:25 PM Author: Cyan Chapel Lack of 1 means good chance of dead bedroom. That said, easily fucking other dudes is obv a bad sign.
Re: 2. You generally should spend most of your free time together.
Re 3. Nah, better than women who are just getting married to have kids. |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:39 PM Author: out-of-control angry legal warrant yeah, all these guys in here with dead bedrooms talking about how great sex was before marriage ljl
you can tell if a girl wants to have sex without fucking her btw |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:45 PM Author: Cyan Chapel "you can tell if a girl wants to have sex without fucking her btw"
lolwut |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:46 PM Author: out-of-control angry legal warrant BEEP BEEP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35666118) |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:26 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook The one I'm interested in now definitely wants kids.
I'm also fairly sure she isn't extravagant with money.
So far I don't see any signs of her trying to monopolize my time.
On the other hand, she most definitely has sex before marriage.
Yellow light perhaps? |
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:35 PM Author: laughsome domesticated round eye This is not that hard. Nothing is a sure thing, but here are all good signs I would need to see:
1. Is her mother still attractive? She will end up looking like her.
2. Is her place, body, and clothes neat and clean? She will not become more tidy when she has kids.
3. Does she excercise?
4. Does she have at least one hobby?
5. Does she read at least somewhat regularly? And does she read decent stuff or garbage?
6. Does she share your moral values?
7. If you ask her to change some behavior or habit, is she somewhat accepting of the criticism? Does she listen and try to follow through?
8. Is she economical?
9. Do you have screaming matches when you argue, or so you both keep calm?
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Date: March 22nd, 2018 10:38 PM Author: Frum Provocative Travel Guidebook Man this is a pretty good list, clipping to my evernote (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35666028) |
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Date: March 23rd, 2018 2:27 AM Author: Bat-shit-crazy Indian Lodge She cheats on you with her black coworker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35667729) |
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Date: March 23rd, 2018 2:33 AM Author: rambunctious lodge candlestick maker ITT: cripping assburgers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3926151&forum_id=2#35667738) |