Recently found out that my 9 year old son is not mine
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 8:40 PM Author: snowy glittery forum
I have been divorced for 5 years and I notified my ex-wife last week after learning the results of the paternity test. The 9 year old recently underwent another DNA test with one of my (now former) friends last week under the guise of getting a "strep throat" test.
I love this child, but I'm not willing to pay child support to my ex wife for a child that isn't mine. We have joint custody and split time half and half. I have two boys (the other is 11) and I know this will be devastating to both of them.
I'm in a quandary. Part of me says to just pay the $600 a month just to keep the child in my life. However, the Son's biological grandmother lives 3 houses down and the biological father lives 10 houses away. I'm not moving. I can see this becoming a major issue in the next few years.
I need some lawyerly advice and a rational slap in the head.
Please help.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35756728) |
Date: April 3rd, 2018 8:54 PM Author: rose kink-friendly address jew
I had a bro go through this, the girl was 8. He broke it off because when he left a job where he'd been employed for over 10 years, the ex-wife tried to freeze his severance. He went batshit and he'd never actually thought the girl was not his. He ran the DNA test and found out she wasn't his. He had to end the relationship because of the mother's craziness.
This is terribly damaging for the kids, why do you wait so fucking long if you have a shred of doubt? Srsly, the kid will end up fucked up. This girl lost everything: Aunts, uncles, cousins, friends. They were her family until age 8, now they're nothing. Must be horribly traumatizing.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35756889) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:03 PM Author: snowy glittery forum
I never suspected. Was honestly shocked to find out the boy wasn't mine.
As devastating as this is to me, it will be far more devastating to the child. Fortunately, the biological father is somewhat well to do.
I'm sorry for your friend and for his "maybe baby". Truly awful all around.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35756985) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:13 PM Author: snowy glittery forum
Rate the cunty response from my ex.
She’s known all along obviously
https://imgur.com/a/NwE8Y
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757060)
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:06 AM Author: snowy glittery forum
He was a really good friend of mine. Not surprisingly, haven't hung around him in about 9 years. He now lives 10 houses down from me. His mom lives 3 houses down from me.
He's recently married to a shrew that doesn't want kids ever and gets mad when people ask her about children (after stalking her FB).
The cunty part was not denying it, asking for a second test, etc. Tells me that she's known all along and has been willfully collecting Child Support from a father she knows isn't the father. It's obviously NOT news to her.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758473) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:48 PM Author: Apoplectic Selfie
"True, Jewish women are not whore enough"
*spit out my coffee*
"to pull this goy a move."
Yes, using the law to fuck over an unsuspecting victim is totally "a goy move."
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35762983) |
Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:29 PM Author: rambunctious cracking antidepressant drug
you live a little too close to the consequences if you choose to act on this news the way it seems you're tempted to
wondering what role the biological father will play now
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757207) |
Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:36 PM Author: spruce turdskin office
Jfc guess race
Do you know who the father is?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757278) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 11:18 PM Author: snowy glittery forum
I'm leaning this way, but I'm wrought with guilt. I've raised the boy since he was an infant as my own son.
This could have easily been resolved 9 years ago had my ex just been honest. I suspect the biological father is also irate at her because he's missed out on all this time with his child.
I just paid child support 2 days ago and I was hoping she would have the decency to refund half the support. No such luck.
If not for the child support payments, I would have no problem continuing to raise the child as my own. I have to draw the line somewhere, and I suppose that line is paying my ex wife child support for a child that is not my own.
Damned if I do, damned if I don't.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758066) |
Date: April 3rd, 2018 11:26 PM Author: Cerise supple telephone rehab
stop paying.
you're going to get to see the kid.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758162) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:35 AM Author: snowy glittery forum
No relationship. She is involved with someone else. No doubtedly cheating on whoever she's with.
I can't imagine my non-bio son ever thinking of me anything other than his REAL dad. But who knows. His Bio dad is a pilot, does tons of cool things, owns a few businesses, is a multi-millionaire.
Me: I poast.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758698) |
Date: April 4th, 2018 12:30 AM Author: Splenetic stock car hunting ground
it's weird how cucks always--always--prove why they were cucked when describing their cuckoldry.
a real man wouldn't feel "torn" about how to feel about his supposed "son", but of course a real man wouldn't have been cucked in the first place.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758662) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 5:28 PM Author: Amethyst Anal Library Crotch
correct.
i knew i had no hoap based on the state law.
but i made a hell of an argument, and also made sure to address how awful the law was from a policy standpoint.
we lost, of course, but -- as was my real goal -- the state changed the law not long after.
i still feel pretty proud about that.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764324) |
Date: April 4th, 2018 6:39 AM Author: Outnumbered provocative keepsake machete
very well crafted flame
take notes, brothers
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:37 AM Author: dun charismatic kitty cat
Pay child support, raise the kid, love him as your own. Decades from now, when you feel like life is reaching its conclusion, murder your ex.
Not legal advice.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759515) |
Date: April 4th, 2018 12:50 PM Author: Scarlet Hospital Sound Barrier
I know this bro right here. Told him several times that his first kid is not his and that his stupid ex wife played him, but he won't listen. The dude has a MASSIVE cock too like 10" so it just goes to show you its more about attitude. Got remarried to a white trash whore and had another kid while paying for one thats not his. Taking bread and butter from his own genetics even though the 2nd kid is with a dirty skank. You can't reason with these white dudes.
http://www.txstate.edu/history/people/faculty/roethler.html
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35761881) |
Date: April 4th, 2018 2:05 PM Author: Lascivious mexican
You’re talking about ruining your son’s life over $7200/year for the next 9 years.
You’re his dad regardless of bio relationship and you have a duty to follow through and act in his best interest. The custody money shouldn’t be the focus. He may want to know the truth and want a relationship with his bio dad one day, but that’s a separate personal thing you have to work out with him and his mom that doesn’t involve going to the courts.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35762545) |
Date: April 4th, 2018 3:43 PM Author: Honey-headed laughsome base
Assuming this is flame, but if not, you need to get the first kid tested asap
99% sure is not good enough and appears to be objectively optimistic
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35763426) |
Date: April 4th, 2018 6:04 PM Author: snowy glittery forum
Here is the email from my attorney today.
I promised you some answers on this last week and have come up short. The short and long answer is: it’s complicated. The courts haven’t addressed the issue in an instance where the presumptive/constructive parent wants to exercise rights. Typically, the action involves a non-biological parent attempting to rescind a prior understanding/agreement to act as a parent. My impression from the cases, not surprisingly, is that the equities and the child’s best interests heavily favor you if something comes up.
Hopefully nothing will come up and you can just go on doing what you’ve been doing. If the issue arrises though, I’ll brief it for you.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764525) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:43 PM Author: Comical menage
There are two policies at play here.
One is when some dude bangs a married chick and she gets pregnant. Then the dude wants visitation rights. In California, the dude has *zero* rights because the policy favors keeping a marriage/family in tact rather than some douchebag's visitation rights.
The other is when some cuck has been holding himself out as the father for years and then realizes he's not the biological father. In California, you only have two years to fight paternity, otherwise caveat fucktor. I assume this is to protect kids in OP's situation.
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Date: April 4th, 2018 9:36 PM Author: snowy glittery forum
The bitches on UB reacted exactly as I would have guessed
Not sure why this story seems so troll or flame worthy.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35765974) |
Date: April 4th, 2018 11:56 PM Author: snowy glittery forum
Just found out that the school called my ex to let her know that I was telling my Son's teacher the situation.
Also found out that the alleged biological father was shocked when he was asked to do a paternity test.
(Just spoke with a mutual friend)
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35767058) |
Date: April 5th, 2018 2:19 PM Author: bright theater stage
You have to keep the boy and raise him as your own. Disregard the cuck comments here. Be the bigger man and raise that young boy to be a proper man. Redpill him early on the devious ways of women though (without speaking poorly about his mother). He'll figure out on his own that his mom is a whore.
Usually doing the right thing is much more difficult than taking the easy way out and burying your head in the sand, like your ex did. Be the example that young men need in these dark times.
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Date: April 5th, 2018 2:24 PM Author: rough-skinned shaky locale
If you decide to raise the kid don’t tell him. Completely disinherit him in your will and explain in the will that he gets nothing because he’s not your child and his mother is a cheating whore.
Why should you dilute your own offspring’s inheritance with the spawn of another man?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35770631) |
Date: April 5th, 2018 2:55 PM Author: Comical menage
OP should reflect on Eddie Vedder's life before deciding what to do.
Eddie Vedder was raised by his step-father thinking it was his bio dad.
He met his bio dad once when he was a little kid and was told it was just a family friend.
When Eddie was a teenager in high school his parents divorced and they told him the truth.
This news destroyed Vedder and caused him so much emotional pain he contemplated suicide.
He wrote a song about it, called "Release" which is easily my favorite Pearl Jam song.
So whether OP tells the kid or not depends on whether he wants him to become the lead singer in an alternative rock band and write a song about it.
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Date: April 6th, 2018 12:07 PM Author: snowy glittery forum
I put an ad on Craigslist trying to find the best way to get back at a cheating ex wife that led me to believe our child was my own.
Here is the response I got from an absolute stranger:
Your ex wife was a chippy who got knock up by another guy and you were
led to believe it was your kid and you have been paying child support for how long?
She must have known, had to of, even the father must have known; what a deal this is,
too bad you couldn't sue for the child support....Wow and you love the kid, well, a kid
needs a father and it doesn't matter if the father is biological or not if the father is a great one.
But, your ex is Wow, how can you ever trust her, how can anyone trust her and the real father
is where.....whistling and having fun with some other gal uh.
I thought I had a rough go......sometimes I think women are evil, I have yet to meet one that
ever told the truth or take responsibility for what they do, never. I always remember; There is only
two things women understand, the back of a hand and a bullet from a 45,,,,, I use to think that was
just a funny saying, but I think its true, I am 65 and I can't date women my age.....far too much baggage
and two things they want, "to travel" and for me to "like dogs" and "family" her family....her kids take
one look at me and see I am still in pretty good shape and they glare at me, I can hear them groan; they
want the house, fuck the dog, they want the money......nice family. Women, for 6,ooo thousand you can
buy a gal from Cambodia...delivered right to your door UPS...20 on up....give them a little dog and it might
be dinner..bbQ sauce does the trick everytime.
So sorry to hear about the child support rip off, geesh,
best of luck....life is so friggin strange now a days.
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Date: April 12th, 2018 5:24 AM Author: snowy glittery forum
UPDATE:
The kids are back with their mother now. We have decided to consult a counselor on how best to proceed.
I have decided that I love the child too much to just abandon him and force him on his biological father. However, the biological grandmother is pressuring my ex to meet her "grandson". I have forbid this until we have a clear path going forward. I have also forbid any contact with the biological father until we know for sure how to proceed. I have threatened a court order if she doesn't comply (like that will do any good).
My ex mother-in-law is giddy that her grandson is the biological spawn of a "prominent" local family and wants to have get togethers with the biological grandmother and the grandson (the two women are good friends). The biological grandmother is pushing the biological father to petition for custody, despite his reluctance. I am adamantly opposed to this. I let my ex know that I want limited contact in the future with the biological father until the boy is mature enough to understand the nature of the situation. I do not want the biological family getting attached. It is my vision that they will have a VERY limited role in the child's life. I have even posited moving to a different city within the same state.
I am so fucked and I don't know what to do going forward. The biological father has said he wants to do the "right thing," but isn't eager to introduce a child into his life.
I figured out my ex's agenda though. She actually wants to split the children apart because she has a financial incentive to get more child support. She can get 20% of my AGI for my son and 20% from the biological Father if he is somehow able to gain custodial rights. I currently pay 27% in AGI, and my child support is maxed out due to my income. She stands to gain an additional 13% in tax free child support (roughly $500-600 a month).
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Date: April 12th, 2018 8:16 AM Author: snowy glittery forum
I haven't slept and have been having suicidal ideations all night. I have never understood this phenomenon until tonight. There is a strange sensation when you imagine the different ways you would go about it. Make a will first? Sell all my material possessions and hide the cash first, put the map in a bank safe deposit box prepaid. Put it all in crypto, give the ledger to my brother to give to my kids when they turn 18, so that their mother never sees a dime.
Exit bag in the back yard? Swallow a bullet in the living room? Obviously when the kids are with their mother?
I need to go to work soon, put on a happy face, and power through. I'm sure this is just a phase, but once you get locked into this train of thought, it's difficult to focus on anything else.
Is this what suicidal posters deal with on a constant basis? It's actually terrifying.
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