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Recently found out that my 9 year old son is not mine
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 8:40 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond I have been divorced for 5 years and I notified my ex-wife last week after learning the results of the paternity test. The 9 year old recently underwent another DNA test with one of my (now former) friends last week under the guise of getting a "strep throat" test.
I love this child, but I'm not willing to pay child support to my ex wife for a child that isn't mine. We have joint custody and split time half and half. I have two boys (the other is 11) and I know this will be devastating to both of them.
I'm in a quandary. Part of me says to just pay the $600 a month just to keep the child in my life. However, the Son's biological grandmother lives 3 houses down and the biological father lives 10 houses away. I'm not moving. I can see this becoming a major issue in the next few years.
I need some lawyerly advice and a rational slap in the head.
Please help. |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:11 PM Author: Cyan contagious location party of the first part Why'd you get a paternity test? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757042) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 10:54 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Lingering doubts. Wanted to satisfy my curiosity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757794) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:37 AM Author: Cyan contagious location party of the first part What were your doubts? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759425) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 4:50 PM Author: Balding Bbw I believe his doubts were about the paternity of the child. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764026) |
Date: April 3rd, 2018 8:40 PM Author: beady-eyed faggotry lol jokes on you, pretty sure there is case law out there that you're fucked regardless (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35756741) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 8:42 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond From what I gather, I am the legal father and my rights cannot be taken away.
However, what if the biological father wants to assert his rights. In my JX, I'm allowed to disestablish paternity upon proof that the child is not biologically mine. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:21 PM Author: swashbuckling market scourge upon the earth There is probably a statute of limitations on that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35761588) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 8:53 PM Author: Excitant rusted institution boistinker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35756886) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:05 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond I think it varies by state. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757000) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 8:54 PM Author: marvelous green telephone I had a bro go through this, the girl was 8. He broke it off because when he left a job where he'd been employed for over 10 years, the ex-wife tried to freeze his severance. He went batshit and he'd never actually thought the girl was not his. He ran the DNA test and found out she wasn't his. He had to end the relationship because of the mother's craziness.
This is terribly damaging for the kids, why do you wait so fucking long if you have a shred of doubt? Srsly, the kid will end up fucked up. This girl lost everything: Aunts, uncles, cousins, friends. They were her family until age 8, now they're nothing. Must be horribly traumatizing. |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:03 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond I never suspected. Was honestly shocked to find out the boy wasn't mine.
As devastating as this is to me, it will be far more devastating to the child. Fortunately, the biological father is somewhat well to do.
I'm sorry for your friend and for his "maybe baby". Truly awful all around. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:41 AM Author: hairraiser library What does freeze his severance mean? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759525) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:13 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Rate the cunty response from my ex.
She’s known all along obviously
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:16 PM Author: Sable crusty private investor Wasn’t nearly as cunty as I had hoped, to be honest (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757084) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:52 PM Author: sick soul-stirring gunner sound barrier She's writing like she's addressing opposing counsel and trying to be professional. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35761893) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 5:13 PM Author: vigorous cobalt crackhouse cuckoldry Cr, seemed pretty even handed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764223) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:32 PM Author: mind-boggling tanning salon 10/10 as in not cunty at all like she wrote it exactly how xo would write every communication if they could: straight to the point and without any flowery garbiage |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:04 AM Author: Hyperactive step-uncle's house yeah not denying it all. are you friends with the guy? like where is he fitting into all of this and why haven't you murdered him? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758459) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:06 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond He was a really good friend of mine. Not surprisingly, haven't hung around him in about 9 years. He now lives 10 houses down from me. His mom lives 3 houses down from me.
He's recently married to a shrew that doesn't want kids ever and gets mad when people ask her about children (after stalking her FB).
The cunty part was not denying it, asking for a second test, etc. Tells me that she's known all along and has been willfully collecting Child Support from a father she knows isn't the father. It's obviously NOT news to her. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:08 AM Author: Hyperactive step-uncle's house have you told him?
assuming out of boredom none of this is flame-- the strep throat thing sounds like bs |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:10 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond No. I don't think the time is right. Not sure when the time will be right.
He said the strep throat test was the same test he did with me where we took Q-tips and swiped the inside of our cheeks. (a DNA paternity test). |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:16 AM Author: Hyperactive step-uncle's house if you havent hung out with this guy in 9 years why is he doing medical tests with your kid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758561) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:18 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond I sent my ex the DNA results stating that the boy is not my spawn. She's desperately trying to find out who the bio dad is. I think this is her first best guess. If it's not him, it will be hilarious if she needs to find another potential father.
XO is right about modern women. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:16 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond I have been telling all of our old mutual friends the truth. I want them to know what an irredeemable evil dirty whore my ex is. She carries herself as if she is better than everyone and looks down at people constantly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758560) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:48 AM Author: Mischievous gas station You're the literal definition of a cuck. Everyone will see this for what it is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759536) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 9:35 AM Author: Aphrodisiac church mother i've wondered about this and i think you're right
the expectation that people will think she's in the wrong is based on modern assumptions about gender equality, specifically that men and women are subject to the same moral standards, which they clearly aren't |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 5:59 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond I'm waiting until the paternity results for him comes back as positive. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764500) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:09 PM Author: Seedy deer antler parlor I don’t know whether it’s possible, but I would try to find a way to make him pay while you continue to act as the kid’s dad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757032) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:13 PM Author: Sable crusty private investor Anyone else remember when this was a lawbort? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757057) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:18 PM Author: Seedy deer antler parlor I am not a family lawyer. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757102) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:18 PM Author: glassy weed whacker 100% sure that if this happened to me I'd kill the bitch. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757104) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:23 PM Author: Sable crusty private investor Yeah, that’s what I was getting at... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757145) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:48 PM Author: Adventurous clear boltzmann "True, Jewish women are not whore enough"
*spit out my coffee*
"to pull this goy a move."
Yes, using the law to fuck over an unsuspecting victim is totally "a goy move." |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:26 PM Author: Hot coral school national security agency OP has a 160 IQ and didn’t even know it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757176) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:29 PM Author: Free-loading ape spot you live a little too close to the consequences if you choose to act on this news the way it seems you're tempted to
wondering what role the biological father will play now |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:30 PM Author: curious base multi-billionaire how has NO ONE asked for more details about the cucking; like how did this happen? did you suspect it?
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:30 PM Author: Shimmering Round Eye Dragon *unzips* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35757216) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:49 AM Author: Mischievous gas station Height of the bull in comparison to the cuck, etc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759538) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:06 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Two inches shorter than I and about 30 pounds less. He is purposely avoiding confrontation with me. There is no way he isn't armed right now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35761422) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 9:36 PM Author: mewling floppy space Jfc guess race
Do you know who the father is? |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 10:20 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Yes. I know him. Was a friend. Lived a few houses down at the time. Now lives 10 houses away from me.
I never knew I was getting cucked. |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 10:58 PM Author: Sienna Chapel So, you thought you had two kids with the bitch, but only the older one is yours. You got divorced, but not because she was a cheating bitch, but because she was a regular bitch. Now, 9 years after kid number two is born have you figured out he's not yours. The kid is still your son's brother. The situation is beyond fucked for kid #2 already. It's probably best if you stop paying child support for kid #2, renounce custody, and let your cheating whore ex wife figure out the details. |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 11:18 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond I'm leaning this way, but I'm wrought with guilt. I've raised the boy since he was an infant as my own son.
This could have easily been resolved 9 years ago had my ex just been honest. I suspect the biological father is also irate at her because he's missed out on all this time with his child.
I just paid child support 2 days ago and I was hoping she would have the decency to refund half the support. No such luck.
If not for the child support payments, I would have no problem continuing to raise the child as my own. I have to draw the line somewhere, and I suppose that line is paying my ex wife child support for a child that is not my own.
Damned if I do, damned if I don't. |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 11:25 PM Author: Sienna Chapel just don't pay child support. wouldn't bother raising the kid either, he's got a dad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758143) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 11:26 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Unfortunately, the family courts don't work that way. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758164) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 11:35 PM Author: Sienna Chapel work something out with the ex-wife then. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758244) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:02 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond She just sent me an email to cover half the cost of a $45 soccer tournament.
Haven't replied. There's nothing to work out in her warped head. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:06 AM Author: Sienna Chapel tell her straight up that you don't want to pay child support for a kid thats not yours. if she is hostile to that, let it play out in court. stop being a pussy, no wonder she cucked you in the first place. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758472) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:13 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond If I fight it in court, I will lose all rights to my non-bio son. I won't have to pay child support, but it will also split up the boys who are very close.
There are a lot of variables in play here and I want to do what's right for both children. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:12 PM Author: Sienna Chapel that's retarded. Who cares if you lose the rights to your non-bio son. He's not yours. He has a father. What the fuck is wrong with you ?
This is exquisite flame btw. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:41 PM Author: appetizing indian lodge kitty cat Meh. Even though it’s not his biologically he’s raised him for 9 years. For all intents and purposes it’s his kid. He doesn’t just stop loving him because of this.
If it was me I don’t know what I’d do (other than divorce my wife) and my daughter is only 2.5. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:20 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond How do I explain it to my 11 year old then? Things will get weird when it's just my 11 year old and I. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35765059) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 11:18 PM Author: Sienna Chapel you're already divorced, just tell him that his younger brother has a different dad. or just leave it for your wife to explain. Not seeing why you're acting like such a bitch. Either step the fuck up and raise both kids like your own, or cut out the one that's not yours. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35766835) |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 6:02 AM Author: flickering office This. OP needs to kick the mom and nonbio kid to the curb. Fuck'em. Unfortunate, but best to let mom handle nonbio kid by going after biodad for payment, support, etc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35822319) |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 6:02 PM Author: bateful impertinent place of business corner suck it up and keep treating him as your kid. he's your son. if not for his sake, then for your other son's sake. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35772876) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 11:19 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond I want to call Jerry Springer or Montel. This is not how I envisioned my life turning out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758074) |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 11:26 PM Author: Razzmatazz juggernaut senate stop paying.
you're going to get to see the kid. |
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Date: April 3rd, 2018 11:27 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond They will start to garnish my paychecks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758173) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:03 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Suicide has crossed my mind. Selling all my shit, quitting my job, booming out of control until the money runs out, then burying a .44 magnum through my skull cavity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758450) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:20 AM Author: heady halford "The most important thing is to do what's right for both kids!"
"I'm going to spend all my assets and blow my fucking head off!" |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:50 AM Author: Mischievous gas station (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759544) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 5:19 PM Author: vigorous cobalt crackhouse cuckoldry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764254) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 5:32 PM Author: Dashing buck-toothed home incel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35975782) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:07 AM Author: Godawful kitchen messiness i get that ur pissed at ur wife but if i raised (and loved) a kid from birth to 9 as my own i would go out of my way to save that relationship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758485) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:08 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Would you be willing to pay your ex child support to raise a child that is not biologically yours and you just now found out? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758493) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:12 AM Author: Godawful kitchen messiness $7k/year for 9 years? sure, that's a small price to pay given the downside (specifically that she's also still raising one biological child) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758526) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:15 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond What happens if the bio dad wants to be a part of his son's life? How do I deal with that shitstorm.
What happens if the boy says he's moving out and is moving in with his REAL dad that lives 10 houses away? |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:17 AM Author: Godawful kitchen messiness what is the mothers current relationship with bio dad?
you have to remember, as far as your son is concerned you are his REAL dad. even if he finds out the truth at some stage, it's not like he's going to just disavow you and start loving a complete stranger |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:35 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond No relationship. She is involved with someone else. No doubtedly cheating on whoever she's with.
I can't imagine my non-bio son ever thinking of me anything other than his REAL dad. But who knows. His Bio dad is a pilot, does tons of cool things, owns a few businesses, is a multi-millionaire.
Me: I poast. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:08 AM Author: Sienna Chapel (161 IQ) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758495) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:09 AM Author: carmine cerebral hunting ground its terrible what happened to you but this is when life puts your character to the test. do you stew in anger and misery and pain or do you let the better angels of your nature show compassion to your non-biological son and forgiveness to your ex-wife? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758506) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:12 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Biological son is away at a soccer tournament. Non-bio son just snuggled on my lap and read to me for half an hour and told me he loved me and was glad that he had me all to himself, a few minutes ago. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758528) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:45 AM Author: Saffron titillating sandwich Fuck that bro his mom probably told him the stakes and he is a snake liar just like his whore mother and your "friend" who fucked you over for years. Don't get hung up on that cutesy BULLSHIT (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758768) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 3:16 PM Author: concupiscible harsh national (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35763212) |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 6:03 AM Author: flickering office (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35822322) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 12:27 AM Author: Disturbing 180 hell partner interesting poast/moniker synergy here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35971265) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 4:28 PM Author: Bearded Passionate Theater Stage Stock Car (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35975376) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:42 AM Author: arousing immigrant But it's also proof mommy is a whore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758755) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:15 AM Author: startled jap Mate with a new human female. Ensure that your genes get passed on as much as possible. Devote your resources to the children who bear your genes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758554) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:14 PM Author: Sienna Chapel ONLY CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764575) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:30 AM Author: Sticky Chad Main People it's weird how cucks always--always--prove why they were cucked when describing their cuckoldry.
a real man wouldn't feel "torn" about how to feel about his supposed "son", but of course a real man wouldn't have been cucked in the first place. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:39 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Friend, try for a second to put yourself in my shoes. I had no idea I was cucked. I had no reason to suspect the child was not my own, he looks very similar to his brother. Bio dad doesn't look too dissimilar from me. He was a professional athlete though, I can't really compete with that.
It's easy to talk tough about "cucks" when you're hiding behind a keyboard. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:43 AM Author: arousing immigrant Said the pumo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758756) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:44 AM Author: Godawful kitchen messiness steez is still being a nigger (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758764) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 1:00 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Obviously only pumo for this thread friend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758830) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:54 AM Author: Sexy fortuitous meteor subtle, but well done on then flame in this poast (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759551) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 8:12 AM Author: frum racy fat ankles set Ok you jumped the shark with the multi millionaire professional athlete bull. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759645) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 9:52 AM Author: Aphrodisiac church mother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35760363) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:16 PM Author: Sienna Chapel yeah, just got to it. don't forget globe trotting pilot... yet he looks very similar to him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764585) |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 1:14 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond He has a small Cessna, not exactly jetsetting the world (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35767523) |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 1:12 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond He played in the minors. Nbd. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35767519) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:53 PM Author: Adventurous clear boltzmann FYI - this is why you ALWAYS test your kids shortly after birth. Doesn't matter if you think everything is on the level. It is spending $100 or whatever as insurance to avoid this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35763043) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 12:31 AM Author: Disturbing 180 hell partner this is where the flame burned brightest. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35971287) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:42 AM Author: arousing immigrant Are you sure the other one is yours? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758753) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:45 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758770) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 1:18 AM Author: arousing immigrant Tested? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758928) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 1:47 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond of course. Older son is 99.99999999% mine, second son is 0% mine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759003) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:18 AM Author: Saffron titillating sandwich jfc the best thing you can do is get the innocent kid who is at least 50% good away from the bad one (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759051) |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 5:44 AM Author: Nofapping bronze mad-dog skullcap lol at one kid being guilty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35822290) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:44 AM Author: Cream field genital piercing You need to start fucking and marry the biological dad. That way this child can be raised in a proper loving modern two parent household. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758766) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:45 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758771) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:50 PM Author: Adventurous clear boltzmann Be sure to write an article about it! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35763014) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 4:32 PM Author: sepia kink-friendly area This (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35763850) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 12:33 AM Author: Disturbing 180 hell partner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35971296) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 5:28 PM Author: fantasy-prone very tactful laser beams (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35975753) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 5:35 PM Author: Twinkling becky dingle berry strangely this is the only way justice can be done here, this and depriving the cheating whoremom of all parental rights (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35975802) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:51 AM Author: Saffron titillating sandwich the guiltier you feel is only proof that this child is ever more the spawn of two horrible people. The mother obviously knew it wasn't yours. The father let years go by knowing he banged your wife 9mos prior to the child, which allowed to grow up just houses away; obviously watching and probably knowing it was his. This child may be innocent (maybe); but it has evil in ITS dna. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758798) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 1:43 AM Author: startled jap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758994) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:03 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond You may be on to something here. Lions may just be far ahead of us on the evolutionary scale. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35762519) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 1:01 AM Author: cerise temple tell us about the appearance and personality of the ex. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758835) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 1:03 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond 5'10, blonde, blue eyes, objectively attractive, trim physique, very outgoing and friendly. Has a large social network, lower Ivy UG, social media narcissist (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35758843) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 1:31 AM Author: provocative patrolman "Has a large social network" lol, so ur a flame fempoa? |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 1:47 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Just a little aspie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759004) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:39 AM Author: arrogant clown school cafeteria (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759520) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 1:58 AM Author: histrionic brindle pistol if it makes you feel any better, the rate of false paternity is 1-2%. rare, but it happens way more often than it's talked about. it has to be somebody. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759028) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 1:59 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Doesn't really make me feel better. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759029) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:08 AM Author: histrionic brindle pistol sorry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759038) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:31 PM Author: painfully honest insecure house nigga shut your ass the fuck up about this 2% shit. what cuck fag study came up with that shit. way higher. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35761701) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:14 AM Author: at-the-ready iridescent striped hyena black woman i wrote a major appellate brief on this issue several months into my first year as a practicing attorney. not flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759045) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:23 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond cliffs on findings? (NO DOOBS) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759060) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:54 AM Author: Charismatic Dopamine father is almost always fucked unless he figures it out like immediately (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759148) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 5:28 PM Author: at-the-ready iridescent striped hyena black woman correct. i knew i had no hoap based on the state law. but i made a hell of an argument, and also made sure to address how awful the law was from a policy standpoint. we lost, of course, but -- as was my real goal -- the state changed the law not long after. i still feel pretty proud about that. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:00 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond 180 friend!
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Date: April 5th, 2018 12:20 AM Author: startled jap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35767201) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:26 AM Author: fragrant station anal, then dump. silver lining here is that now there won't be any cloud from the incest taboo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35759419) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 4:42 PM Author: Bearded Passionate Theater Stage Stock Car (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35975466) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:39 AM Author: Mentally impaired coldplay fan piazza very well crafted flame
take notes, brothers |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 9:53 PM Author: vigorous cobalt crackhouse cuckoldry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35766121) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:37 AM Author: Tripping shivering plaza keepsake machete Pay child support, raise the kid, love him as your own. Decades from now, when you feel like life is reaching its conclusion, murder your ex.
Not legal advice. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 9:19 AM Author: Excitant rusted institution boistinker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35760047) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 9:20 AM Author: Glittery abode This thread is making me wonder if I have a kid out there somewhere. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35760062) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 9:26 AM Author: well-lubricated vivacious french chef nibblets Yikes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35760106) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 12:50 PM Author: painfully honest insecure house I know this bro right here. Told him several times that his first kid is not his and that his stupid ex wife played him, but he won't listen. The dude has a MASSIVE cock too like 10" so it just goes to show you its more about attitude. Got remarried to a white trash whore and had another kid while paying for one thats not his. Taking bread and butter from his own genetics even though the 2nd kid is with a dirty skank. You can't reason with these white dudes.
http://www.txstate.edu/history/people/faculty/roethler.html |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:05 PM Author: Fiercely-loyal Regret You’re talking about ruining your son’s life over $7200/year for the next 9 years.
You’re his dad regardless of bio relationship and you have a duty to follow through and act in his best interest. The custody money shouldn’t be the focus. He may want to know the truth and want a relationship with his bio dad one day, but that’s a separate personal thing you have to work out with him and his mom that doesn’t involve going to the courts. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:22 PM Author: Irradiated degenerate CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35762726) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:31 PM Author: painfully honest insecure house choke on some fish heads gook. nigga u ain't his fucking dad. tell ur whore ex wife that you are no longer supporting her whoring and degeneracy on ur dime. just stop. tell that bitch to go hit up the other nigger. cut them out for good unless you want your actual bio son to grow up knowing his old man was a bitch and faggot. i can't even imagine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35762824) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:32 PM Author: arrogant clown school cafeteria (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35762834) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:36 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Easier said than done. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764696) |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 12:22 AM Author: startled jap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35767215) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 5:29 PM Author: fantasy-prone very tactful laser beams Damn. . .a bitch AND faggot. . . (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35975762) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:50 PM Author: Adventurous clear boltzmann "You’re his dad regardless of bio relationship"
lolno |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 3:11 PM Author: Red native How does being defrauded impose a "duty" on someone? Isn't that blaming the victim? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35763163) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 3:18 PM Author: Adventurous clear boltzmann (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35763220) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 5:37 PM Author: Twinkling becky dingle berry that's cheap talk from a keyboard warrior, let's see you come up with that chanel purse money on the cuckold's behalf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35975808) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:25 PM Author: out-of-control alpha good flame premise. this is how you do it: you get a believable situation that riles up xo misogynists and gets people joking about the op being a cuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35762741) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 5:33 PM Author: Dashing buck-toothed home incel This thread belongs in text books (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35975789) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:27 PM Author: Trip Nudist Lay flame. no way child support is that low (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35762780) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:33 PM Author: Razzmatazz juggernaut senate i figured it was double and he's only speaking of the portion for the cuckson. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35762839) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:02 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond This (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764513) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 2:54 PM Author: Adventurous clear boltzmann Flame is solid but does reinforce why it is always smart to DNA test your kids shortly after birth. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35763051) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 3:22 PM Author: gay tank legend : The XO Story (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35763254) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 3:43 PM Author: electric henna bawdyhouse Assuming this is flame, but if not, you need to get the first kid tested asap
99% sure is not good enough and appears to be objectively optimistic |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:03 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Had them both tested at the same time. First boy is definitely mine. Second, not so much. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764519) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:04 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Here is the email from my attorney today.
I promised you some answers on this last week and have come up short. The short and long answer is: it’s complicated. The courts haven’t addressed the issue in an instance where the presumptive/constructive parent wants to exercise rights. Typically, the action involves a non-biological parent attempting to rescind a prior understanding/agreement to act as a parent. My impression from the cases, not surprisingly, is that the equities and the child’s best interests heavily favor you if something comes up.
Hopefully nothing will come up and you can just go on doing what you’ve been doing. If the issue arrises though, I’ll brief it for you. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:43 PM Author: swashbuckling market scourge upon the earth There are two policies at play here.
One is when some dude bangs a married chick and she gets pregnant. Then the dude wants visitation rights. In California, the dude has *zero* rights because the policy favors keeping a marriage/family in tact rather than some douchebag's visitation rights.
The other is when some cuck has been holding himself out as the father for years and then realizes he's not the biological father. In California, you only have two years to fight paternity, otherwise caveat fucktor. I assume this is to protect kids in OP's situation. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:53 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Why wouldn't it be two years from discovery of infidelity? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764822) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:24 PM Author: swashbuckling market scourge upon the earth Floodgates? Damage to kids? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35765083) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:25 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Wouldn't it be more damaging to the child to have custody, yet want nothing to do with a child that was not biologically yours?
I have a feeling that with the accessibility and ease of DNA testing, a lot of these archaic laws will be modified to reflect the current paradigm. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 6:53 PM Author: Saffron titillating sandwich Honestly the kid is probably in on it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764829) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:06 PM Author: Amber idiotic stag film why won't you share any details about HOW you were cucked, like how'd your wife run off and cheat? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35764955) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:21 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Even during the divorce, wife swore that she never cheated. Not once, ever. I had no reason to suspect otherwise. Until now, at least. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35765069) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:19 PM Author: Adventurous clear boltzmann The genetics are not matched... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35765051) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 7:55 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Am I the biggest cuck on the planet for loving this child no matter who the biological father is? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35765283) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 8:01 PM Author: Saffron titillating sandwich No because you’re divorced (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35765313) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 8:13 PM Author: Adventurous clear boltzmann Probably healthier than being a sociopath like me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35765375) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 9:16 PM Author: Spectacular orchestra pit ladyboy cr. By now I’d have liquidated my assets, murdered everyone in this story, shaved my beard, and assumed the identity of whatever degenerate opiate fiend I could find under the nearest overpass. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35765822) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 8:57 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond I wonder what advice the bitches on UrbanBaby would give? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35765698) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 9:36 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond The bitches on UB reacted exactly as I would have guessed
Not sure why this story seems so troll or flame worthy. |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 9:02 PM Author: stubborn locus At least someone is trying. Quality flame right here. Sure, it's not god tier, but damn good. Solid follow through, good poaster arc. Thank you for your service (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35765725) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 9:10 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Truly wish this was flame, even half assed poorly crafted flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35765780) |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 12:25 AM Author: startled jap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35767249) |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 4:10 AM Author: arrogant clown school cafeteria Shut the fuck up faggot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35767833) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 12:50 AM Author: multi-colored depressive menage agreed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35971340) |
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Date: April 4th, 2018 11:56 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Just found out that the school called my ex to let her know that I was telling my Son's teacher the situation.
Also found out that the alleged biological father was shocked when he was asked to do a paternity test.
(Just spoke with a mutual friend) |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 2:19 PM Author: Geriatric ratface You have to keep the boy and raise him as your own. Disregard the cuck comments here. Be the bigger man and raise that young boy to be a proper man. Redpill him early on the devious ways of women though (without speaking poorly about his mother). He'll figure out on his own that his mom is a whore.
Usually doing the right thing is much more difficult than taking the easy way out and burying your head in the sand, like your ex did. Be the example that young men need in these dark times. |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 2:25 PM Author: painfully honest insecure house Fuck that. Before you do a goddam thing 1: your bitch ass friend has to PAY $$$. You said he has $$$, he has to reimburse you for 9 years of deceit and pay up from this point forward. 2: that ex-wife has to be SHAMED for the whore that she is to everyone you know. Go hard on that bitch. Tell that kid his mother is a whore and redpill him but those 2 things MUST be done if any step forward is continued in your relationship. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35770650) |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 2:32 PM Author: Geriatric ratface I partially agree, and partially disagree. I say to do everything within the confines of the state law. The guy says he loves the boy and has raised him since birth. The boy is completely innocent in this matter.
The slore of a mother and the friend are a completely separate matter. I don't know the legality of making him pay, but he should pay socially and his wife should know about his devious ways. |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 5:50 PM Author: painfully honest insecure house Fuck the law, there are men with real balls who are willing to risk everything over a matter of honor, and then there is everyone else. At a minimum that dude with $ who nutted in your wife and cucked u and stole ur $$ and seed has to pay financially, but again if OP was the type of motherfucker to demand this shit he would have not been the type of motherfucker to get cucked in the first place If that bitch was a little bit afraid of his low T white ass, she wouldn't have done what she did. She knew he'd take it like the bitch he is. You don't have to have the physical goods to impose your will. These 2 just need to know that you will never rest until your honor is satisfied. You don't have to chimp out about if u not that type of dude. Of course chimping out on that whore would have done you a WORLD of good 10 years ago and u might not have this problem. But you can't be a bitch all your life and then go chimp out -- shit don't work like that. They both just need to know that you will never be satisfied until you honor is avenged. Whether that shit be by $$ or whatever.
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Date: April 5th, 2018 2:24 PM Author: appetizing indian lodge kitty cat If you decide to raise the kid don’t tell him. Completely disinherit him in your will and explain in the will that he gets nothing because he’s not your child and his mother is a cheating whore.
Why should you dilute your own offspring’s inheritance with the spawn of another man? |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 5:31 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Harsh, but fair (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35772562) |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 2:55 PM Author: swashbuckling market scourge upon the earth OP should reflect on Eddie Vedder's life before deciding what to do.
Eddie Vedder was raised by his step-father thinking it was his bio dad.
He met his bio dad once when he was a little kid and was told it was just a family friend.
When Eddie was a teenager in high school his parents divorced and they told him the truth.
This news destroyed Vedder and caused him so much emotional pain he contemplated suicide.
He wrote a song about it, called "Release" which is easily my favorite Pearl Jam song.
So whether OP tells the kid or not depends on whether he wants him to become the lead singer in an alternative rock band and write a song about it. |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 8:20 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Apparently word has gotten out. 9 year old son said a boy on the playground was teasing him that his Dad isn't even his dad. 9 year old came home crying today. He asked me if I was his dad and why would a boy say that to him? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35774054) |
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Date: April 5th, 2018 8:45 PM Author: Sienna Chapel nice conclusion to a great flame thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35774263) |
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Date: April 6th, 2018 12:17 PM Author: swashbuckling market scourge upon the earth jumped the shark actually (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35777999) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 5:40 PM Author: Twinkling becky dingle berry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35975828) |
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Date: April 6th, 2018 12:07 PM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond I put an ad on Craigslist trying to find the best way to get back at a cheating ex wife that led me to believe our child was my own.
Here is the response I got from an absolute stranger:
Your ex wife was a chippy who got knock up by another guy and you were led to believe it was your kid and you have been paying child support for how long? She must have known, had to of, even the father must have known; what a deal this is, too bad you couldn't sue for the child support....Wow and you love the kid, well, a kid needs a father and it doesn't matter if the father is biological or not if the father is a great one. But, your ex is Wow, how can you ever trust her, how can anyone trust her and the real father is where.....whistling and having fun with some other gal uh. I thought I had a rough go......sometimes I think women are evil, I have yet to meet one that ever told the truth or take responsibility for what they do, never. I always remember; There is only two things women understand, the back of a hand and a bullet from a 45,,,,, I use to think that was just a funny saying, but I think its true, I am 65 and I can't date women my age.....far too much baggage and two things they want, "to travel" and for me to "like dogs" and "family" her family....her kids take one look at me and see I am still in pretty good shape and they glare at me, I can hear them groan; they want the house, fuck the dog, they want the money......nice family. Women, for 6,ooo thousand you can buy a gal from Cambodia...delivered right to your door UPS...20 on up....give them a little dog and it might be dinner..bbQ sauce does the trick everytime. So sorry to hear about the child support rip off, geesh, best of luck....life is so friggin strange now a days. |
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Date: April 6th, 2018 12:19 PM Author: swashbuckling market scourge upon the earth lol whats his moniker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35778010) |
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Date: April 6th, 2018 12:21 PM Author: Cheese-eating big pocket flask lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35778030) |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 5:24 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond UPDATE:
The kids are back with their mother now. We have decided to consult a counselor on how best to proceed.
I have decided that I love the child too much to just abandon him and force him on his biological father. However, the biological grandmother is pressuring my ex to meet her "grandson". I have forbid this until we have a clear path going forward. I have also forbid any contact with the biological father until we know for sure how to proceed. I have threatened a court order if she doesn't comply (like that will do any good).
My ex mother-in-law is giddy that her grandson is the biological spawn of a "prominent" local family and wants to have get togethers with the biological grandmother and the grandson (the two women are good friends). The biological grandmother is pushing the biological father to petition for custody, despite his reluctance. I am adamantly opposed to this. I let my ex know that I want limited contact in the future with the biological father until the boy is mature enough to understand the nature of the situation. I do not want the biological family getting attached. It is my vision that they will have a VERY limited role in the child's life. I have even posited moving to a different city within the same state.
I am so fucked and I don't know what to do going forward. The biological father has said he wants to do the "right thing," but isn't eager to introduce a child into his life.
I figured out my ex's agenda though. She actually wants to split the children apart because she has a financial incentive to get more child support. She can get 20% of my AGI for my son and 20% from the biological Father if he is somehow able to gain custodial rights. I currently pay 27% in AGI, and my child support is maxed out due to my income. She stands to gain an additional 13% in tax free child support (roughly $500-600 a month). |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 5:45 AM Author: Nofapping bronze mad-dog skullcap wow, what a fucking disaster (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35822292) |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 5:55 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond Tell me about it. The initial devastation of finding out the boy is not mine has already faded. I've raised him as my own and have been a great father to both of my kids. I may very well be a "cuck" but I don't really care. I've done my best to raise both kids to be conscientious, polite, and active. I'm very fortunate to have two happy healthy children, despite one of them not being my own biological son. This may seem hard to comprehend to others, but the more time I spend with him, the more I realize how much he needs me, and how much I need him.
My lawyer assures me that the biological father will never get any rights to the child even if he petitions the court. He says the court won't even entertain the petition based on my relationship with the child. |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 5:59 AM Author: Nofapping bronze mad-dog skullcap Maybe the younger kid will be a professional athlete and pay for your retirement. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35822313) |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 6:06 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond I'm fine financially. I just hope he grows into an honest, hard working happy person. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35822330) |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 5:50 AM Author: thriller wrinkle site This thread makes me never want to get married. What a fucking horror show of a life. Retiring from xo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35822303) |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 5:59 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond According to his attorney, my ex is pressuring him to "man up" and "take care of his responsibilities".
As much as I hate my ex wife, I feel really blessed to have my children in my life. Knowing what I know now, I doubt I would have gotten married or had children. I have no plans on ever getting married again. |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 6:02 AM Author: Poppy macaca youre an idiot if you dont dna test your kid asap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35822318) |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 6:06 AM Author: flickering office Welll....ur ex is a bitch and ur ex inlaw is a bitch too and prbly supported and encouraged ur exe's infidelity.
Time to put this hoe on blast. Total annihilation is the only available option. |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 6:08 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond ex inlaw also cheated on her husband and walked away with millions in the divorce. Blew half of it in six months on designer handbags and shoes. She was able to find a wealthy widower not long after and is now living a life of luxury. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35822335) |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 6:17 AM Author: Poppy macaca jfc you chose a winner of a family (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35822346) |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 6:19 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond To think I was "marrying up" at the time is hilarious now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35822347) |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 8:16 AM Author: erotic voyeur generalized bond I haven't slept and have been having suicidal ideations all night. I have never understood this phenomenon until tonight. There is a strange sensation when you imagine the different ways you would go about it. Make a will first? Sell all my material possessions and hide the cash first, put the map in a bank safe deposit box prepaid. Put it all in crypto, give the ledger to my brother to give to my kids when they turn 18, so that their mother never sees a dime.
Exit bag in the back yard? Swallow a bullet in the living room? Obviously when the kids are with their mother?
I need to go to work soon, put on a happy face, and power through. I'm sure this is just a phase, but once you get locked into this train of thought, it's difficult to focus on anything else.
Is this what suicidal posters deal with on a constant basis? It's actually terrifying. |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 9:41 AM Author: Geriatric ratface I was like this when I went through my divorce. In time, everything wool work out and the stress and hurt will dissipate slowly. Avoid these scenarios at all costs.
You will get through this and your move will be at ease eventually. Try exercising to work out that rage. It works. |
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Date: April 12th, 2018 8:35 PM Author: Misanthropic talented range You’ll get through this brother. Suicide is never the best option. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35828653) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 12:02 AM Author: topaz point newt stuffwhitepeoplelike: (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35971118) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 12:08 AM Author: boyish jew (culture where everyone looks exactly the same so there's never a stir about paternity) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35971158) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 12:11 AM Author: topaz point newt stuffwhitepeoplelike: raising other mens progeny (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35971169) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 12:13 AM Author: supple meetinghouse toaster (Guy with 2 Japanese grandpas) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35971175) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 12:15 AM Author: Unholy Gaped Casino (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35971182) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 12:18 AM Author: topaz point newt oh u mad korea is a homogeneous first world country (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35971215) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 4:44 PM Author: dun elastic band (comfort women progeny) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35975474) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 12:57 AM Author: smoky cocky coffee pot seoul is a depressing, passionless shithole full of unhappy people. i had to go there for work a few times and after the first visit i fucking dreaded it. worst asian capital city, easily. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35971361) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2018 5:43 PM Author: Twinkling becky dingle berry ... but it doesn't look like that in korean dramas, are they lying to me?! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3938377&forum_id=2#35975846) |