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There are 3-5 different dimensions along which I evaluate a girl (DTP)
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Date: April 16th, 2018 4:53 PM Author: dead stead (1) Long-term Personal Compatibility: stable, rational, introverted, wholesome.
(2) Depth / Alienation From Society: has to have the capacity to understand and accept my oddball views, even to appreciate it. no traditional "good" girls, no obedience to parents, no conformism or striverism to society's standards.
(3) Physical Attraction: cute thin neotenous asian with a healthy body, instinctual fitness and dietary habits, and genes that will age well
(4) Short-term Infatuation: a spontaneous and positive and cheerful personality filled with energy and silliness and genuine warmth. like a little kid, with little in the way of cynicism, malice, or regret. the exact opposite of me, a counterbalance to my dark depressive brooding. this is the only kind of personality i can feel infatuated with.
in my experiences, dimensions (1) and (2) are well represented in the girls i am able to attract. they are sort of the precursors and form a type - reasonable, nice, good girls with a deeper, slightly unusual bent.
(3) is the physical kicker that, when paired with (1) and (2), has long been my idea of the "dream" girl: she's got the compatibility AND the cute looks. this combo is rarer, because cute girls tend not to be as stable or as alienated, but it's still feasible in the pool of fob asians.
now when it comes to (4), the spontaneity and cheerfulness, this is where it gets impossibly difficult. while (4) is often paired with (3) since manic cute girls are a thing, it actively undercuts the existence of (1) and (2). a bubbly and excited girl, who is also stable and alienated, is practically an oxymoron, and doesn't exist. yet i have found that this is the quality that is most euphoria-inducing, above all others. being around such a girl gives the feeling of being high. i recently dated a (4) who was neither (1), (2), nor (3), and i almost gave in and wanted to commit to her long-term. after a taste of this, i feel damaged and broken. i felt a degree of infatuation i didn't think was possible since early teen puppy-love. i feel suicidal tendencies at the thoughts of going back to my usual "dream girl" of (1), (2), and (3) but low on (4). it is absolutely insane and i want to die. |
Date: April 16th, 2018 4:53 PM Author: bronze casino are you on adderall rn? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35853336) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 4:57 PM Author: dead stead no, just had an intense burst of concentration from depressive ruminations on the fact that cheerful excited girls who make me want to live again will never be right for me in the long-term, and will wreck my fragile pathetic psyche like a brutish chad wrecking a naive tinder girl's vagina (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35853361) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 4:58 PM Author: bronze casino have you ever read proust? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35853364) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 5:01 PM Author: dead stead no (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35853402) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 5:12 PM Author: bronze casino check out swan's way. i think youd enjoy it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35853494) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 5:32 PM Author: dead stead i wish i had time/discipline to read books
i haven't read a book in 10+ years
thanks for the rec. i'll check it out when i'm 60. |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 4:58 PM Author: hairraiser tank (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35853366) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 5:34 PM Author: bossy drab stage internal respiration give a girl some chance.. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35853652) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 5:40 PM Author: dead stead what i'm saying basically is that the girl version of you is very different than the girl version of me, and this makes me irate because i am infatuated with the girl version of you and yet i know that things will go south and i should more rationally pick the girl version of me but this makes me want to die. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35853702) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 5:34 PM Author: shivering multi-colored philosopher-king station is this your OKC profile? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35853657) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 5:40 PM Author: Mildly autistic market (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35853703) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:09 PM Author: Frisky Bright Weed Whacker Point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35855653) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 5:41 PM Author: Bat Shit Crazy Queen Of The Night Trump Supporter Think about it, is a girl that is perfect going to settle for a weird misfit asian guy when she can likely get with a chad white dude who makes 200k and is six feet tall and not mentally ill? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35853709) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 9:59 PM Author: dead stead bullshit. i'm hardly looking for the "perfect girl." my preferences are highly tailored and specific, and don't intersect that much with mainstream standards [hell, one of them is explicitly that she deviates from mainstream standards]. i doubt many tall white chads would even consider a mousy asian girl to be attractive in the first place. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35855548) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2018 2:07 AM Author: Bat Shit Crazy Queen Of The Night Trump Supporter Mousy asian women exclusively prefer white guys, you're more mentally ill than I thought to imagine some cute girl daydreaming all day about some mediocre boring asian guy whose main hobby is complaining on a backwater message board about his depression and longing for innocent cute FOB girls..."teehee" she squeals "i just thought he was so cute when he described his hobby of regularly threatening suicide over his inability to ever find the perfect 16 year old virgin chinese girl" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35898448) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 5:43 PM Author: Slate sinister new version kitchen (5) ability to skin alive and wear as a top coat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35853713) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 6:57 PM Author: dead stead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35854187) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 7:02 PM Author: trip honey-headed institution laser beams The girl that encompasses all of the above doesn't exist. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35854214) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:18 PM Author: dead stead yes, can only get a halfway approximation while making huge sacrifices and living with heavy regrets
appreciate the honesty. now, should i kill myself? |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:20 PM Author: fishy disrespectful property liquid oxygen what makes you so special that you get to bypass the inevitable disappointments of a single human life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35855802) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:43 PM Author: dead stead it affects me to a much degree than other people. i am also entirely lacking in their coping mechanisms. i am not being narcissistic when i say that i suffer more. killing myself may be a rational and optimal choice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35856057) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 10:44 PM Author: Soul-stirring parlour one of the lulziest threads ive read in a long time (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35856071) |
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Date: April 16th, 2018 11:56 PM Author: dead stead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35856661) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 12:29 PM Author: dead stead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35859302) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 12:46 PM Author: bossy drab stage internal respiration why bump this failed thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35859460) |
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Date: April 17th, 2018 12:56 PM Author: dead stead why has it failed?
it's been weighing on me |
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Date: April 23rd, 2018 2:05 AM Author: dead stead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35898439) |
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Date: April 23rd, 2018 5:40 AM Author: Frisky Bright Weed Whacker Point As you note, some of these personality traits are contradictory and can’t be united in one person. Why torture yourself yearning for the logically impossible? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#35898693) |
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Date: May 19th, 2018 7:43 PM Author: dead stead autistic and gay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#36086327) |
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Date: January 5th, 2019 9:37 AM Author: dead stead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3950928&forum_id=2#37531616) |