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have any of your major life assumptions been seriously wrong?

like you always assumed you wouldn't have kids but then you ...
pungent hell
  04/19/18
every one of my life assumptions has been wrong
motley old irish cottage nursing home
  04/19/18
name one
pungent hell
  04/19/18
i assumed i would eventually find someone i truly loved
motley old irish cottage nursing home
  04/19/18
well you still have time so you don't know this is wrong
pungent hell
  04/19/18
seems unlikely at this point
motley old irish cottage nursing home
  04/19/18
Spend more time on xo
lemon native therapy
  04/19/18
(hehe)
Passionate home
  04/20/18
...
Erotic contagious pit
  04/20/18
i assumed that a lot of people in my lifer weren't psychotic...
Heady generalized bond
  04/19/18
who's psychotic
pungent hell
  04/19/18
...
exhilarant tank patrolman
  04/20/18
lmao where to even start
orange low-t love of her life
  04/19/18
where were you most wrong
pungent hell
  04/19/18
my assumption that success is a function of education
orange low-t love of her life
  04/19/18
that seems like a prole or boomer assumption. were you prole...
pungent hell
  04/19/18
immigrant parents who told me all I needed to do in life was...
orange low-t love of her life
  04/19/18
Boomers.
Thirsty laughsome stead cumskin
  04/19/18
(every xo poaster)
mischievous slimy people who are hurt
  04/20/18
started out being with the first person I ever kissed. Were...
House-broken regret clown
  04/19/18
have you ever had a phase where you were like OK, I'm going ...
pungent hell
  04/19/18
I did for a while, sure. Then just started doing all the th...
House-broken regret clown
  04/19/18
Do you regret leaving your partner of 10 years?
Maroon Property
  04/19/18
no
House-broken regret clown
  04/20/18
Damn didn't realize we had similar histories. My first one l...
hyperactive metal whorehouse
  04/20/18
"I'll enjoy being a corporate lawyer"
Razzle-dazzle pisswyrm theatre
  04/19/18
are you still a corporate lawyer?
pungent hell
  04/19/18
yes
Razzle-dazzle pisswyrm theatre
  04/19/18
maybe you'll hate similarly paying jobs just as much, then y...
pungent hell
  04/19/18
hot take!
Razzle-dazzle pisswyrm theatre
  04/19/18
I had shit values for most of my life and nearly destroyed i...
Henna partner base
  04/19/18
Doesn't sound so bad.
Thirsty laughsome stead cumskin
  04/19/18
...
Henna partner base
  04/20/18
on the plus side, here's an assumption I'm glad was wrong: I...
orange low-t love of her life
  04/19/18
xo not a lot of money so <300k, or actual not a lot of mo...
motley old irish cottage nursing home
  04/19/18
XO not a lot of money I make like $125k/yr and am very ha...
orange low-t love of her life
  04/19/18
...
motley old irish cottage nursing home
  04/19/18
only 3x the median income!
mischievous slimy people who are hurt
  04/20/18
...
dashing bisexual senate
  04/20/18
i assume my mother will live to 90+ (cause family history of...
pungent hell
  04/19/18
my mom got cancer at 51 with a 50/50 prognosis. really came ...
motley old irish cottage nursing home
  04/19/18
fuck man. gl to u and your mom.
pungent hell
  04/19/18
...
motley old irish cottage nursing home
  04/19/18
my mother in law died of cancer in her early 60s and spent h...
aromatic iridescent pozpig
  04/19/18
...
motley old irish cottage nursing home
  04/19/18
I almost quit a job because my sis in law had brain cancer a...
House-broken regret clown
  04/19/18
...
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  04/20/18
if you told me 20 years ago that i would literally being cre...
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  04/19/18
would 18 year old nyuug be surprised at your currently livin...
pungent hell
  04/19/18
no even at 18 i knew i wanted to live in the fatherland b...
Lavender lettuce giraffe
  04/19/18
When I was younger I assumed that adults had some secret kno...
Filthy Fanboi
  04/19/18
and what did you learn
motley old irish cottage nursing home
  04/19/18
What do you think
Filthy Fanboi
  04/19/18
...
motley old irish cottage nursing home
  04/19/18
well u grew up to be a catty bitch, so there, u made it
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  04/20/18
I was the opposite of hedonistic in my teens and early 20s. ...
Citrine Swashbuckling Hominid
  04/19/18
a lot of good replies in this thread, yours and others
motley old irish cottage nursing home
  04/20/18
I incorrectly assumed that I would have a reasonably normal ...
Thirsty laughsome stead cumskin
  04/19/18
but u have kitty doods
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  04/19/18
Took one for a walk just last night. http://i.xomf.com/cz...
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  04/20/18
This is precious
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Mine just kinda wanders around. I think he likes it but I wo...
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We have a system. Sidewalks are like highways. They're for h...
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used to think abortion was wrong. now i realize it's vital t...
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Until about 21 I was a big Christmo and even when I stopped ...
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Women. I'm like that one guy who trusted bears, went out to...
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Yes, I've made as much money in crypto as I thought I'd see ...
yellow apoplectic bawdyhouse
  04/20/18
I'm down 30% since February.
Razzmatazz coffee pot principal's office
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Yeah I'm still down from there too but still have LIFE CHANG...
yellow apoplectic bawdyhouse
  04/20/18
I got in late. Like, I bought in February. I'm having fun ...
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  04/20/18
What is "life changing" money
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  04/20/18
you tell me
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  04/20/18
I believed, fervently, that if I worked hard in school and a...
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thought people were running shtick but turns out they really...
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"I want to be a mooch and have money without being forc...
Thirsty laughsome stead cumskin
  04/20/18
I didn't realize how many NPDs are around - esp in aging whi...
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  04/20/18
Short list: 1. i am exceptional 2. my uniqueness means...
unhinged wrinkle
  04/20/18
number 4 is important and neglected by are culture
jet spot
  04/20/18
I used to assume that any negative interaction I had with an...
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I assumed the wealthy kids I went to an elite boarding schoo...
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Lots of things about parents. Your parents want the best fo...
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  04/20/18
she's seen plenty of hardworking people dashed against the r...
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Whoops.
Thirsty laughsome stead cumskin
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That people aren't gossiping and talking about you (they are...
Chrome Orchestra Pit Dragon
  04/20/18
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  04/20/18
(UNC Wilmington grad)
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Maroon Property
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Chestnut market
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thought i was smart when i was young. i am not.
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  04/20/18
how was school choice so destructive in your life?
aromatic iridescent pozpig
  04/20/18
going to an "elite" striver school pretty much mea...
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  04/20/18
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aromatic iridescent pozpig
  04/20/18
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boyish godawful puppy church building
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i don't understand the absence of a network of alums in a ma...
aromatic iridescent pozpig
  04/20/18
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boyish godawful puppy church building
  04/20/18
if you made dozens of friends in college, i guess i don't qu...
aromatic iridescent pozpig
  04/20/18
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boyish godawful puppy church building
  04/20/18
you can still maek it friend
aromatic iridescent pozpig
  04/20/18
no, I cannot. it's all ogre. surrender to the darkness.
boyish godawful puppy church building
  04/20/18
All of them. I cannot make a good decision to save my life.
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  04/20/18
Or a good post
hyperactive metal whorehouse
  04/20/18
i want to take you out for drinks sometime
Chestnut market
  04/20/18
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  04/20/18
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hyperactive metal whorehouse
  04/20/18
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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:04 PM
Author: pungent hell

like you always assumed you wouldn't have kids but then you did have kids?

or you always assumed you'd be a wagecuck but then you because crypto god?

i'm talking really big stuff.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878531)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:05 PM
Author: motley old irish cottage nursing home

every one of my life assumptions has been wrong

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878536)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:05 PM
Author: pungent hell

name one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878540)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:06 PM
Author: motley old irish cottage nursing home

i assumed i would eventually find someone i truly loved

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878554)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: pungent hell

well you still have time so you don't know this is wrong

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878558)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: motley old irish cottage nursing home

seems unlikely at this point

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878562)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:46 PM
Author: lemon native therapy

Spend more time on xo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878801)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:14 AM
Author: Passionate home

(hehe)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880859)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:31 PM
Author: Erotic contagious pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885238)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:05 PM
Author: Heady generalized bond

i assumed that a lot of people in my lifer weren't psychotic, and i was wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878541)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:05 PM
Author: pungent hell

who's psychotic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878545)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:53 PM
Author: exhilarant tank patrolman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882751)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:06 PM
Author: orange low-t love of her life

lmao where to even start

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878550)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: pungent hell

where were you most wrong

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878561)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: orange low-t love of her life

my assumption that success is a function of education

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878567)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: pungent hell

that seems like a prole or boomer assumption. were you prole?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878574)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: orange low-t love of her life

immigrant parents who told me all I needed to do in life was go to the best schools and get good grades

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878577)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:44 PM
Author: Thirsty laughsome stead cumskin

Boomers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878788)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:19 AM
Author: mischievous slimy people who are hurt

(every xo poaster)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880875)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: House-broken regret clown

started out being with the first person I ever kissed. Were together for 10 years.

Struck it out on my own.

short term relationship after short term relationship...have now realized that I'm better just being single and okay with it.

Never thought that would be the case.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878559)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:10 PM
Author: pungent hell

have you ever had a phase where you were like OK, I'm going to go, find a BF, then make him my husband!?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878581)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: House-broken regret clown

I did for a while, sure. Then just started doing all the things I thought I needed in a partner to be stable.

Ended up doing it on my own. Now, I don't see the plus side of "needing" someone.

Obviously, it would have been easier having someone along for the ride. Now I've done it and the "coupling" aspect has since passed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878596)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:44 PM
Author: Maroon Property

Do you regret leaving your partner of 10 years?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878792)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:56 AM
Author: House-broken regret clown

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879190)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:24 PM
Author: hyperactive metal whorehouse

Damn didn't realize we had similar histories. My first one lasted even longer. I'm not giving up though. I basically accomplished and acquired a bunch of stuff and now my life is perfectly set up to just slot someone young, attractive, and a bit aimless into it. Like I'd literally just have to consolidate half of a closet. The few times I've been on dates with actual adults it's like "whoah, this would be a huge pain in the ass."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885192)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle pisswyrm theatre

"I'll enjoy being a corporate lawyer"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878576)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:10 PM
Author: pungent hell

are you still a corporate lawyer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878584)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:11 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle pisswyrm theatre

yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878586)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:12 PM
Author: pungent hell

maybe you'll hate similarly paying jobs just as much, then you weren't really wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878590)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:12 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle pisswyrm theatre

hot take!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878592)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:12 PM
Author: Henna partner base

I had shit values for most of my life and nearly destroyed it on numerous occasions through destructive self-obsession and hedonism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878593)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:42 PM
Author: Thirsty laughsome stead cumskin

Doesn't sound so bad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878766)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: Henna partner base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879150)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:12 PM
Author: orange low-t love of her life

on the plus side, here's an assumption I'm glad was wrong: I didn't think I could be happy if I wasn't making a lot of money. this turned out to be very wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878594)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: motley old irish cottage nursing home

xo not a lot of money so <300k, or actual not a lot of money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878602)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:14 PM
Author: orange low-t love of her life

XO not a lot of money

I make like $125k/yr and am very happy. Lots of XO poasters make moar than me and seem miserable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878607)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: motley old irish cottage nursing home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878620)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:20 AM
Author: mischievous slimy people who are hurt

only 3x the median income!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880883)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 11:50 AM
Author: dashing bisexual senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35881517)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: pungent hell

i assume my mother will live to 90+ (cause family history of doing so and she's skinny azn female). i'd be so fucking devastated if she got some aggressive cancer diagnosis at 55. i assume we'll have tons of time together later so it's fine right now that I do not see her often.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878599)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: motley old irish cottage nursing home

my mom got cancer at 51 with a 50/50 prognosis. really came out of nowhere. i felt like things would go on forever, then one month she had a sore throat that wouldn't go away -- and it was cancer. she did end up living, but i will be honest with you, i have never recovered from this. things have seemed a little unreal since then. i wonder if i will ever go back to feeling normal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878618)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: pungent hell

fuck man. gl to u and your mom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878623)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: motley old irish cottage nursing home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878657)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: aromatic iridescent pozpig

my mother in law died of cancer in her early 60s and spent her last year with us shuttling to dozens of doctors and chemo appointments, living in pain, and petrified of dying.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878622)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: motley old irish cottage nursing home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878625)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: House-broken regret clown

I almost quit a job because my sis in law had brain cancer and I wanted to take a few weeks off to help out.

They live far away from me. My VP was all no about it. I did it anyway and still work here.

You have to live in the present and be there when you can. Fuck jobs and money when you have someone important to you going through it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878640)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:26 AM
Author: Clear spectacular newt school



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Date: April 20th, 2018 11:50 AM
Author: dashing bisexual senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35881519)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:18 PM
Author: Lavender lettuce giraffe

if you told me 20 years ago that i would literally being creampieing norwegian girls in oslo ida said youre crazy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878627)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: pungent hell

would 18 year old nyuug be surprised at your currently living in korea and planning to do so for the long term (i assume?)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878631)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:43 PM
Author: Lavender lettuce giraffe

no even at 18 i knew i wanted to live in the fatherland

but i certainly did not expect to become korean chingis

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878777)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: Filthy Fanboi

When I was younger I assumed that adults had some secret knowledge and there was a mysterious meaning behind life and human behavior. Then I became an adult myself...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878634)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: motley old irish cottage nursing home

and what did you learn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878638)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: Filthy Fanboi

What do you think

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878641)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: motley old irish cottage nursing home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878654)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Cobalt hissy fit sandwich

well u grew up to be a catty bitch, so there, u made it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878658)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:05 AM
Author: know-it-all frozen space boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880806)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:37 PM
Author: Citrine Swashbuckling Hominid

I was the opposite of hedonistic in my teens and early 20s.

I was under the impression that finding *true love* would be some kind of transcendent experience. I thought that if you took hot teenage sex and multiplied it by the kind of mutual caring and adoration that comes with a long term relationship... that was what healthy adult relationships were like.

I have yet to experience anything even close to what I thought "love" would be like. Furthermore, my attraction to teens hasn't waned whatsoever. My attraction to peers is... adequate?

I hold out hope that I will eventually find a certain degree of happiness in a relationship, but it isn't going to be anything like I envisioned and I'm mad at my younger self for having too long of a focus

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878733)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:00 AM
Author: motley old irish cottage nursing home

a lot of good replies in this thread, yours and others

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878870)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:39 PM
Author: Thirsty laughsome stead cumskin

I incorrectly assumed that I would have a reasonably normal future: house, partner, a future worth that wasn't a black pit of nothing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878748)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:55 PM
Author: motley old irish cottage nursing home

but u have kitty doods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878842)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:13 PM
Author: Thirsty laughsome stead cumskin

Took one for a walk just last night.

http://i.xomf.com/czwhy.jpg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882953)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:42 PM
Author: Excitant Area Potus

This is precious

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883155)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:53 PM
Author: Thirsty laughsome stead cumskin

He loves walks, but he doesn't like other people very much, so we go at night.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883248)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:03 PM
Author: Excitant Area Potus

Mine just kinda wanders around. I think he likes it but I worry I’m just taunting him with false freedom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883321)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:13 PM
Author: Thirsty laughsome stead cumskin

We have a system. Sidewalks are like highways. They're for high speed cruising, where he walks/trots ahead nearly as fast as I can walk. Grass, rocks, and other landscaping are for chilling out and exploring. It works most of the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883388)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:46 PM
Author: stubborn umber mental disorder sound barrier

used to think abortion was wrong. now i realize it's vital to keeping nigger population in check

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878796)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: Self-absorbed charismatic gas station

Until about 21 I was a big Christmo and even when I stopped that it took a few years to become normal wrt women etc. Made my HS and college years way less fun than they should've been. I'm aspie btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878814)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 11:59 PM
Author: Razzmatazz coffee pot principal's office

Women. I'm like that one guy who trusted bears, went out to live with bears, and survived for years until one day all of his preconceived notions about the world were crushed upon a grizzly eating him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878862)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:21 AM
Author: Citrine Swashbuckling Hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878970)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:25 AM
Author: jet spot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880908)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:25 AM
Author: yellow apoplectic bawdyhouse

Yes, I've made as much money in crypto as I thought I'd see when I was like 45, and now I have zero motivation in grad school and wonder about getting out of wagecucking altogether by either trading for the rest of my days or getting in the startup game

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35878998)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Razzmatazz coffee pot principal's office

I'm down 30% since February.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879021)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:31 AM
Author: yellow apoplectic bawdyhouse

Yeah I'm still down from there too but still have LIFE CHANGING money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879024)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:44 AM
Author: Razzmatazz coffee pot principal's office

I got in late. Like, I bought in February. I'm having fun with all the trading though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879111)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:24 AM
Author: diverse yapping shrine philosopher-king

What is "life changing" money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880904)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:48 PM
Author: yellow apoplectic bawdyhouse

you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882707)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:33 AM
Author: 180 sticky office immigrant

I believed, fervently, that if I worked hard in school and at work and treated everyone with respect I would soon become wealthy and respected myself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879030)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:55 AM
Author: Orchid Marvelous Pistol Menage

Yeah I assumed picking a job to make a good amount of money was a smart decision.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879184)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:59 AM
Author: Flesh stimulating sanctuary

Ooof

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879218)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 12:57 AM
Author: Useless Buff Liquid Oxygen

thought people were running shtick but turns out they really were just that much dumber than i

this whole time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879194)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 1:07 AM
Author: hairraiser twinkling sweet tailpipe library

So far, no assumptions I've held past 15 or so.

If I actually end up in an LTR I guess that would qualify.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879294)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 1:50 AM
Author: Useless Buff Liquid Oxygen

the Chad virgin volcel Charles vs the Virgin post-virginity datecucking Charles

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879535)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:33 AM
Author: hairraiser twinkling sweet tailpipe library



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879771)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:40 AM
Author: Citrine Swashbuckling Hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879795)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:11 AM
Author: Henna partner base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880840)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 1:22 AM
Author: provocative pale site

lmao. many

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35879373)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:23 AM
Author: Adventurous rebellious haunted graveyard institution



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880893)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:24 AM
Author: diverse yapping shrine philosopher-king

That school matters to your success in life--> LOL NO

That I want to be a financially independent, career woman --> LOL NO. I want to be a mooch and have money without being forced to work.

I never really thought or cared about money before working. Then I worked and realize I hate working high paying jobs, so now I just want free money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880900)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:33 PM
Author: Thirsty laughsome stead cumskin

"I want to be a mooch and have money without being forced to work."

Where's RSF?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884448)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:26 AM
Author: diverse yapping shrine philosopher-king

I didn't realize how many NPDs are around - esp in aging white women. I didn't realize just how much mental illness exists in the world.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880920)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:31 AM
Author: unhinged wrinkle

Short list:

1. i am exceptional

2. my uniqueness means probabilities do not apply. So what if fewer than one-hundredth of one percent of people can maek it as a novelist or artist of some type. That does not apply to me

3. Meaningful, well-paid careers are not something you need to begin planning for and pursuing as a teenager. I can drink and fuck around through my 20s and figure something out later

4. There will always be a pool of marriage-able women, no rush

5. women, at heart, are reasonable like men

6. there comes a time when you "figure shit out" and then just maintain, rather than constantly finding yourself on an incline, confused

But most importantly, like I wrote in number 1... i was sure THE ODDS DONT APPLY TO ME

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35880949)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 11:58 AM
Author: jet spot

number 4 is important and neglected by are culture

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35881570)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:02 PM
Author: Ruby very tactful range

I used to assume that any negative interaction I had with anyone was due to MY shortcoming. Did not occur to me until mid twenties that some negative interactions were THEIR fault, and THEY are the ones with shitty personalities.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882299)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:12 PM
Author: frisky reading party dysfunction

I assumed the wealthy kids I went to an elite boarding school with would all grow up to be successful masters of the universe. In reality, most of them are trust fund babies with dumb jobs ranging from wannabe author to wanna be yogi to wannabe start up founder. Only about 5% of the class has managed to make anything of themselves by 35.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882376)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 2:15 PM
Author: sick chapel stain

Lots of things about parents. Your parents want the best for you. Your parents know what they’re doing. Your parents love you.

Working hard means you will succeed.

Being smart means you will succeed.

You can make a lot of mistakes when you’re under 30 without consequences.

Liking your spouse and children is always easy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882403)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:06 PM
Author: Chrome Orchestra Pit Dragon

explain the hard work line, it seems for you it has consistently paid off

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883338)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:26 PM
Author: Irradiated gay wizard

she's seen plenty of hardworking people dashed against the rocks while her own success is larger than her work ethic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884386)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:28 PM
Author: Useless Buff Liquid Oxygen

...also she's a self-hating asian who is bizarrely attempting to suddenly run "chill" shtick since she married "handsome" (a bald cable repairman).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884408)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:49 PM
Author: Chrome Orchestra Pit Dragon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883722)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:01 PM
Author: french university digit ratio

If I just try hard and use my god-given smarts, I will MAEK it!

LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882823)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:15 PM
Author: Thirsty laughsome stead cumskin

Whoops.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35882981)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 3:54 PM
Author: Chrome Orchestra Pit Dragon

That people aren't gossiping and talking about you (they are)

That women are reasonable like men (they're not)

Penis size is flame (it's not)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883255)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:51 PM
Author: Chestnut market

name brand school would get me "in"

it has improved my career definitely but had nowhere near the impact i thought it would

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883732)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:01 PM
Author: Naked curious black woman corner

(UNC Wilmington grad)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885084)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:29 PM
Author: Chestnut market

mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885222)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 4:52 PM
Author: fantasy-prone mood skinny woman

I thought senior level leaders at big companies were alll highly competent and intelligent people

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35883736)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:56 PM
Author: Cerise Pea-brained Genital Piercing Becky

lol this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884583)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:17 PM
Author: Maroon Property



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884747)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:47 PM
Author: Chestnut market



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885367)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:21 PM
Author: Irradiated gay wizard

thought i was smart when i was young. i am not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884357)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:24 PM
Author: Useless Buff Liquid Oxygen

it's like they always say: there's nothing wrong with being 6'1--its a damn fine height

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884371)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:35 PM
Author: boyish godawful puppy church building

I wanted to be a teacher and married at age 22 with kids.

holy crap I could not have missed that further. Pretty much fucked myself for life because I took the lower Ivy over the State School.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884458)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:42 PM
Author: aromatic iridescent pozpig

how was school choice so destructive in your life?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884492)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:45 PM
Author: boyish godawful puppy church building

going to an "elite" striver school pretty much means you will interact exclusively with mentally ill strivers. all horrible creatures.

After you graduate, you will be dumped in a GC major metro with absolutely no social network and regularly dream of total chaos communism as you count off the days until your fortuitous death

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884511)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:48 PM
Author: aromatic iridescent pozpig

this hasn't been my experience. did you not make friends in college?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884530)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:49 PM
Author: boyish godawful puppy church building

yes. dozens. They are all nihilistic single bros living in other major metro areas doing the same thing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884537)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:53 PM
Author: aromatic iridescent pozpig

i don't understand the absence of a network of alums in a major metro area. were you the only person among your friends to end up there? even if that's the case, surely it's not an endemic condition for ivy grads.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884559)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:54 PM
Author: boyish godawful puppy church building

I'm not in NYC or DC and that's where 90% of people I know went.

Almost certainly "alums" in my metro area, but it's not like we'd be friends. No one I know, at the very least. Alumni network = weird striver flame (an inherent problem of going to a striver school)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884569)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:59 PM
Author: aromatic iridescent pozpig

if you made dozens of friends in college, i guess i don't quite understand why you seem to be struggling to meet people afterwards.

also, it doesn't make sense to attend an ivy if your plan is to teach hs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884605)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:00 PM
Author: boyish godawful puppy church building

well, it's both age and a new zeitgeist. You can't organically meet people anymore. In college, you could just go into a basement, get drunk, and chill with total strangers.

In modern 2018 America for an OLDMO, that's called rape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884618)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:06 PM
Author: aromatic iridescent pozpig

you can still maek it friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884655)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:06 PM
Author: boyish godawful puppy church building

no, I cannot. it's all ogre. surrender to the darkness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884658)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 6:56 PM
Author: bearded selfie

All of them.

I cannot make a good decision to save my life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884578)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:47 PM
Author: hyperactive metal whorehouse

Or a good post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885365)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:48 PM
Author: Chestnut market

i want to take you out for drinks sometime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885373)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 10:31 PM
Author: Sienna karate sex offender

somewhat ironic that you earn money by posturing as a person worth taking advice from

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885957)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 7:23 PM
Author: Maroon Property

I have a follow up question for those who responded itt: If you do have children either now ir later down the road (big if, considering the increasing amount of <><><>foreveralone<><><> both on xo and society in general) - how do you plan on teaching them some of the darker truths of this world when they're older? Or do you plan on letting them figure it out on their own?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35884805)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:49 PM
Author: Swollen Sapphire Internal Respiration

you can't teach anyone these things. they can only be learned.

it's why human experience and wisdom is the same story repeated by individuals across history. every epiphany you have was had by someone just like you 3,000 years ago. someone else will be having the same one long after you're dead.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885381)



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Date: April 20th, 2018 8:54 PM
Author: hyperactive metal whorehouse

I had a very long relationship with my first girlfriend/wife and always operated under the assumption that it was unbreakable, regardless of what happened. Even when it wasn't going well, the idea of divorce wasn't within my spectrum of possibilities until it actually happened.

Later, I tended to assume my numerous failed internet dates were almost entirely my fault without adequate consideration of the fact that many of the chicks were lame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35885409)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 10:50 AM
Author: Well-lubricated out-of-control stage cuck

MGTOW

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3954359&forum_id=2#35887816)