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girls who say "you're not gonna ghost me, right"

has this happened to them before or do they like me and want...
ruddy concupiscible generalized bond
  04/23/18
just don't respond and ghost them
cruel-hearted site
  04/23/18
They want to ghost you first
insane floppy whorehouse
  04/23/18
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pontificating mad-dog skullcap
  04/23/18
That's sad. Happens a lot. Or girls plaintively asking with ...
Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth
  04/23/18
yea have gotten that before too. it makes me feel slightly d...
ruddy concupiscible generalized bond
  04/23/18
This kind of thing made me realize personality really does m...
Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth
  04/23/18
the begging is 180
offensive blood rage
  04/23/18
It's sad and makes me feel terrible. Especially the last tex...
Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth
  04/23/18
Lol, no it is not
Maize Doobsian Gunner Stead
  04/23/18
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chest-beating field
  04/23/18
You're being mentally ill. That's just a well-adjusted chick...
greedy zombie-like university milk
  04/23/18
That text is charming a day after. When it follows after 7 u...
Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth
  04/23/18
That's on you for providing us with incomplete information t...
greedy zombie-like university milk
  04/23/18
mods
misunderstood dashing genital piercing goal in life
  04/23/18
This is more toxic than the Chad-sperm-in-brain threading
Bipolar mind-boggling shrine stain
  04/23/18
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Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth
  04/23/18
disagree. the hypothetical OP (assuming not flame) is clearl...
Well-lubricated fear-inspiring rehab
  04/23/18
these girls like getting choked when you bang them
motley institution
  04/23/18
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Curious yapping school
  04/23/18
that's literally all girls, bro
odious hell
  04/23/18
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free-loading massive spot
  04/23/18
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motley institution
  04/23/18
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motley institution
  04/23/18
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orange athletic conference senate
  04/24/18
lol they are taking chads massive fat smelly cock within hou...
Exciting crackhouse roast beef
  04/23/18
Yeah it’s the other way around
aphrodisiac theater stage
  04/23/18
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Provocative community account
  04/23/18
Cool story, pepito.
Lime State Kitty Cat
  04/23/18
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Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth
  04/23/18
reminds me of the cringe-worthy scene in Her when he goes on...
odious hell
  04/23/18
never understood how a horny dude doesn't just say yeah yeah...
free-loading massive spot
  04/23/18
At some point you develop guilt doing this frequently
Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth
  04/23/18
a) he's clearly a super awkward guy in the movie, not incel,...
odious hell
  04/23/18
It also sets her up as roadkill and somebody else's leftover...
Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth
  04/23/18
yeah, on the one hand, it's tempting to blame them for it an...
odious hell
  04/23/18
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Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth
  04/23/18
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magical heaven
  04/24/18
Nothing I love more than a casual who loves me
dark fantasy-prone pozpig
  04/23/18
Never know what hit 'em
bull headed narrow-minded mad cow disease theatre
  04/23/18
What do you think motivates a girl to say this? Do you think...
Pink Sinister Public Bath Internal Respiration
  04/23/18
She's opening up and being vulnerable about her fear that yo...
Charismatic sexy people who are hurt locale
  04/23/18
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Cerebral blue philosopher-king meetinghouse
  04/23/18
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motley institution
  04/23/18
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orange athletic conference senate
  04/24/18
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crimson vibrant principal's office personal credit line
  04/24/18
It shows very poor judgement on their part to say this. If y...
Lime State Kitty Cat
  04/23/18
If someone says this, they have been ghosted AT LEAST twice....
Lime State Kitty Cat
  04/23/18
Why does being ghosted mean they’re bad people?
insane floppy whorehouse
  04/23/18
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Provocative community account
  04/23/18
It doesn’t mean they’re bad people, but they’re clingier as ...
Lime State Kitty Cat
  04/23/18
It doesn't mean they're bad people. It's quite sad, unfortun...
Charismatic sexy people who are hurt locale
  04/24/18
:(
insane floppy whorehouse
  04/24/18
...
crimson vibrant principal's office personal credit line
  04/24/18
ITT: a bunch of pencildicked cumskin dorks discuss sex whils...
emerald stage private investor
  04/24/18
Would have been peak experience, cum inducing if you jammed ...
Curious yapping school
  04/24/18


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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:13 PM
Author: ruddy concupiscible generalized bond

has this happened to them before or do they like me and want me to stay with them or a combo of both? have had two girls in the last month say this to me in person by the end of the second date

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902183)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:14 PM
Author: cruel-hearted site

just don't respond and ghost them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902188)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:15 PM
Author: insane floppy whorehouse

They want to ghost you first

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902201)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:02 PM
Author: pontificating mad-dog skullcap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904605)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:15 PM
Author: Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth

That's sad. Happens a lot. Or girls plaintively asking with big eyes if you want to see them again.

Smh modern society has destroyed women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902204)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:18 PM
Author: ruddy concupiscible generalized bond

yea have gotten that before too. it makes me feel slightly decent in the moment bc i know they like me but it makes me feel really guilty when i inevitably ghost/dump them. never seems to happen with girls i have a mutual like for though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902226)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth

This kind of thing made me realize personality really does matter for women a lot. The begging is unattractive.

Ofc if the same girl expressed only passing interest I'd be all over her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902238)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: offensive blood rage

the begging is 180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902423)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:47 PM
Author: Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth

It's sad and makes me feel terrible. Especially the last text. "Well I had a great time meeting you! If you ever want to hang out sometime let me know :-)"

Poor girls. As terrible as dating is for men these days it psychologically far more brutal on women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902465)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:52 PM
Author: Maize Doobsian Gunner Stead

Lol, no it is not

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902497)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:14 PM
Author: chest-beating field



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903903)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: greedy zombie-like university milk

You're being mentally ill. That's just a well-adjusted chick being polite and expressing interest in seeing you again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903888)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:16 PM
Author: Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth

That text is charming a day after. When it follows after 7 unanswered texts with increasing time gaps and urgency.....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903913)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 10:08 PM
Author: greedy zombie-like university milk

That's on you for providing us with incomplete information to analyze. In the hypothetical, as presented, the chick acted properly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35905109)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:48 PM
Author: misunderstood dashing genital piercing goal in life

mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902470)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: Bipolar mind-boggling shrine stain

This is more toxic than the Chad-sperm-in-brain threading

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902237)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902418)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:27 PM
Author: Well-lubricated fear-inspiring rehab

disagree. the hypothetical OP (assuming not flame) is clearly discussing this from a CHAD perspective. So this only happens when individuals vastly misread the market and exclusively pursue Chad. So they bring this on themselves.

I similarly have little empathy for medianpwned students who strike out because they're only willing to work at V10.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904834)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:43 PM
Author: motley institution

these girls like getting choked when you bang them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902432)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:06 PM
Author: Curious yapping school



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903849)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: odious hell

that's literally all girls, bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903896)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: free-loading massive spot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903899)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:53 PM
Author: motley institution



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904153)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:53 PM
Author: motley institution



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904152)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: orange athletic conference senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906349)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:44 PM
Author: Exciting crackhouse roast beef

lol they are taking chads massive fat smelly cock within hours of meeting you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902437)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:47 PM
Author: aphrodisiac theater stage

Yeah it’s the other way around

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902457)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:50 PM
Author: Provocative community account



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902478)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:26 PM
Author: Lime State Kitty Cat

Cool story, pepito.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904830)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:01 PM
Author: Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903830)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:04 PM
Author: odious hell

reminds me of the cringe-worthy scene in Her when he goes on the date with Olivia Wilde, starts making out with her, and then she stops and says "you're not just gonna fuck me and not call like the other guys, right?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903839)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: free-loading massive spot

never understood how a horny dude doesn't just say yeah yeah babe I think you're great

*fuck then ghost*

he'd not stop and be so faggy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903898)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:16 PM
Author: Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth

At some point you develop guilt doing this frequently

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903917)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:18 PM
Author: odious hell

a) he's clearly a super awkward guy in the movie, not incel, but bad with IRL women

b) it is definitely a bonerkill of a line, especially in its crudity, immediately summoning mental images of her riding the cock carousel countless times. A true Chad might not care, but for any average guy, it's a big turn off

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903934)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:21 PM
Author: Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth

It also sets her up as roadkill and somebody else's leftovers.

Girls who use that line are already broken fundamentally and cannot be dated.

It's sad af. They aren't responsible for their bird brains being manipulated and shaped like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903956)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:23 PM
Author: odious hell

yeah, on the one hand, it's tempting to blame them for it and judge them harshly

on the other hand, it wasn't always this way. I mean, a slut in the 1940s deserved to be shunned because all of society/culture was incentivizing them to settle down early and be virtuous. Nowadays, their bird brains, as you noted, are bombarded literally 24/7 with the message of COCK COCK CUM, so I mostly feel bad for them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903968)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:25 PM
Author: Charcoal windowlicker ticket booth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903980)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:15 AM
Author: magical heaven



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907747)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:07 PM
Author: dark fantasy-prone pozpig

Nothing I love more than a casual who loves me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903851)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:21 PM
Author: bull headed narrow-minded mad cow disease theatre

Never know what hit 'em

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903957)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:52 PM
Author: Pink Sinister Public Bath Internal Respiration

What do you think motivates a girl to say this? Do you think they believe it will get someone who was on the fence to not ghost? Or that someone who would ghost would feel guilty and leave?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904148)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 8:21 PM
Author: Charismatic sexy people who are hurt locale

She's opening up and being vulnerable about her fear that you'll pump and dump which is a natural progression to her letting you fuck her.

Yes, this is a major turn off and makes me view the girl as leftovers. It's a common line you get from girls who are 6s that are very fuckable in the eyes of top 20% dudes but not long term dateable.

These girls tend to lie around the 60th percentile and can short term date (ie fuck for a few months) guys in the 80th percentile but guys in the 80th percentile ultimately know they can do better (80th percentile women). It is this statistical mismatch between genders that really fucks things up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904380)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:25 PM
Author: Cerebral blue philosopher-king meetinghouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904823)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:25 PM
Author: motley institution



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904829)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: orange athletic conference senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906362)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:48 AM
Author: crimson vibrant principal's office personal credit line



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907171)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:28 PM
Author: Lime State Kitty Cat

It shows very poor judgement on their part to say this. If you’re worried about someone ghosting you, ghost them first and play hard to get. Guys like the chase.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904840)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:27 PM
Author: Lime State Kitty Cat

If someone says this, they have been ghosted AT LEAST twice. Run.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904831)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:30 PM
Author: insane floppy whorehouse

Why does being ghosted mean they’re bad people?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904857)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:33 PM
Author: Provocative community account



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904883)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:51 PM
Author: Lime State Kitty Cat

It doesn’t mean they’re bad people, but they’re clingier as a result of being ghosted. It’s attachment theory 101.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35905016)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:15 AM
Author: Charismatic sexy people who are hurt locale

It doesn't mean they're bad people. It's quite sad, unfortunately. It just means they overestimate their value as a long-term dating prospect.

They won't get much sympathy from non-Chads though for obvious reasons since non-Chads feel spurned by these girls. High value dudes may feel bad for them though because these girls will chase them and depending on their conscience, they'll either fuck and chuck, or politely turn them down. If the former, they're either sociopaths or will eventually stop after one too many guilt trips or finding a satisfactory long-term partner.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906594)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:47 AM
Author: insane floppy whorehouse

:(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907167)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:49 AM
Author: crimson vibrant principal's office personal credit line



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907173)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 4:28 AM
Author: emerald stage private investor

ITT: a bunch of pencildicked cumskin dorks discuss sex whilst NYUUG sportfucks their women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906845)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:13 AM
Author: Curious yapping school

Would have been peak experience, cum inducing if you jammed a gun into the belly and whispered, "....yes..."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907732)