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girls who say "you're not gonna ghost me, right"

has this happened to them before or do they like me and want...
Shaky Juggernaut
  04/23/18
just don't respond and ghost them
judgmental corner
  04/23/18
They want to ghost you first
massive motley sandwich
  04/23/18
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Scarlet Pit
  04/23/18
That's sad. Happens a lot. Or girls plaintively asking with ...
nubile 180 temple
  04/23/18
yea have gotten that before too. it makes me feel slightly d...
Shaky Juggernaut
  04/23/18
This kind of thing made me realize personality really does m...
nubile 180 temple
  04/23/18
the begging is 180
Multi-colored Spot
  04/23/18
It's sad and makes me feel terrible. Especially the last tex...
nubile 180 temple
  04/23/18
Lol, no it is not
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Mind-boggling lodge
  04/23/18
You're being mentally ill. That's just a well-adjusted chick...
Amber Hospital Azn
  04/23/18
That text is charming a day after. When it follows after 7 u...
nubile 180 temple
  04/23/18
That's on you for providing us with incomplete information t...
Amber Hospital Azn
  04/23/18
mods
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  04/23/18
This is more toxic than the Chad-sperm-in-brain threading
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  04/23/18
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nubile 180 temple
  04/23/18
disagree. the hypothetical OP (assuming not flame) is clearl...
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  04/23/18
these girls like getting choked when you bang them
Sinister point psychic
  04/23/18
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  04/23/18
that's literally all girls, bro
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razzle-dazzle telephone patrolman
  04/24/18
lol they are taking chads massive fat smelly cock within hou...
coral background story area
  04/23/18
Yeah it’s the other way around
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  04/23/18
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big parlour yarmulke
  04/23/18
Cool story, pepito.
Smoky contagious karate parlor
  04/23/18
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nubile 180 temple
  04/23/18
reminds me of the cringe-worthy scene in Her when he goes on...
Mustard Business Firm Rigor
  04/23/18
never understood how a horny dude doesn't just say yeah yeah...
carmine effete station national security agency
  04/23/18
At some point you develop guilt doing this frequently
nubile 180 temple
  04/23/18
a) he's clearly a super awkward guy in the movie, not incel,...
Mustard Business Firm Rigor
  04/23/18
It also sets her up as roadkill and somebody else's leftover...
nubile 180 temple
  04/23/18
yeah, on the one hand, it's tempting to blame them for it an...
Mustard Business Firm Rigor
  04/23/18
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nubile 180 temple
  04/23/18
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  04/24/18
Nothing I love more than a casual who loves me
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  04/23/18
Never know what hit 'em
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  04/23/18
What do you think motivates a girl to say this? Do you think...
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  04/23/18
She's opening up and being vulnerable about her fear that yo...
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  04/23/18
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  04/24/18
It shows very poor judgement on their part to say this. If y...
Smoky contagious karate parlor
  04/23/18
If someone says this, they have been ghosted AT LEAST twice....
Smoky contagious karate parlor
  04/23/18
Why does being ghosted mean they’re bad people?
massive motley sandwich
  04/23/18
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big parlour yarmulke
  04/23/18
It doesn’t mean they’re bad people, but they’re clingier as ...
Smoky contagious karate parlor
  04/23/18
It doesn't mean they're bad people. It's quite sad, unfortun...
Beady-eyed pontificating menage
  04/24/18
:(
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  04/24/18
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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:13 PM
Author: Shaky Juggernaut

has this happened to them before or do they like me and want me to stay with them or a combo of both? have had two girls in the last month say this to me in person by the end of the second date

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902183)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:14 PM
Author: judgmental corner

just don't respond and ghost them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902188)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:15 PM
Author: massive motley sandwich

They want to ghost you first

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902201)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:02 PM
Author: Scarlet Pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904605)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:15 PM
Author: nubile 180 temple

That's sad. Happens a lot. Or girls plaintively asking with big eyes if you want to see them again.

Smh modern society has destroyed women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902204)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:18 PM
Author: Shaky Juggernaut

yea have gotten that before too. it makes me feel slightly decent in the moment bc i know they like me but it makes me feel really guilty when i inevitably ghost/dump them. never seems to happen with girls i have a mutual like for though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902226)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: nubile 180 temple

This kind of thing made me realize personality really does matter for women a lot. The begging is unattractive.

Ofc if the same girl expressed only passing interest I'd be all over her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902238)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: Multi-colored Spot

the begging is 180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902423)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:47 PM
Author: nubile 180 temple

It's sad and makes me feel terrible. Especially the last text. "Well I had a great time meeting you! If you ever want to hang out sometime let me know :-)"

Poor girls. As terrible as dating is for men these days it psychologically far more brutal on women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902465)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:52 PM
Author: dead buff bbw fortuitous meteor

Lol, no it is not

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902497)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:14 PM
Author: Mind-boggling lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903903)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: Amber Hospital Azn

You're being mentally ill. That's just a well-adjusted chick being polite and expressing interest in seeing you again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903888)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:16 PM
Author: nubile 180 temple

That text is charming a day after. When it follows after 7 unanswered texts with increasing time gaps and urgency.....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903913)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 10:08 PM
Author: Amber Hospital Azn

That's on you for providing us with incomplete information to analyze. In the hypothetical, as presented, the chick acted properly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35905109)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:48 PM
Author: Puce old irish cottage antidepressant drug

mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902470)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: Mentally impaired black gay wizard

This is more toxic than the Chad-sperm-in-brain threading

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902237)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: nubile 180 temple



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902418)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:27 PM
Author: Bright vigorous range new version

disagree. the hypothetical OP (assuming not flame) is clearly discussing this from a CHAD perspective. So this only happens when individuals vastly misread the market and exclusively pursue Chad. So they bring this on themselves.

I similarly have little empathy for medianpwned students who strike out because they're only willing to work at V10.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904834)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:43 PM
Author: Sinister point psychic

these girls like getting choked when you bang them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902432)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:06 PM
Author: Very tactful slate really tough guy trailer park



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903849)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: Mustard Business Firm Rigor

that's literally all girls, bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903896)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: carmine effete station national security agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903899)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:53 PM
Author: Sinister point psychic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904153)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:53 PM
Author: Sinister point psychic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904152)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle telephone patrolman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906349)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:44 PM
Author: coral background story area

lol they are taking chads massive fat smelly cock within hours of meeting you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902437)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:47 PM
Author: rough-skinned state

Yeah it’s the other way around

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902457)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 3:50 PM
Author: big parlour yarmulke



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35902478)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:26 PM
Author: Smoky contagious karate parlor

Cool story, pepito.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904830)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:01 PM
Author: nubile 180 temple



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903830)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:04 PM
Author: Mustard Business Firm Rigor

reminds me of the cringe-worthy scene in Her when he goes on the date with Olivia Wilde, starts making out with her, and then she stops and says "you're not just gonna fuck me and not call like the other guys, right?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903839)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: carmine effete station national security agency

never understood how a horny dude doesn't just say yeah yeah babe I think you're great

*fuck then ghost*

he'd not stop and be so faggy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903898)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:16 PM
Author: nubile 180 temple

At some point you develop guilt doing this frequently

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903917)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:18 PM
Author: Mustard Business Firm Rigor

a) he's clearly a super awkward guy in the movie, not incel, but bad with IRL women

b) it is definitely a bonerkill of a line, especially in its crudity, immediately summoning mental images of her riding the cock carousel countless times. A true Chad might not care, but for any average guy, it's a big turn off

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903934)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:21 PM
Author: nubile 180 temple

It also sets her up as roadkill and somebody else's leftovers.

Girls who use that line are already broken fundamentally and cannot be dated.

It's sad af. They aren't responsible for their bird brains being manipulated and shaped like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903956)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:23 PM
Author: Mustard Business Firm Rigor

yeah, on the one hand, it's tempting to blame them for it and judge them harshly

on the other hand, it wasn't always this way. I mean, a slut in the 1940s deserved to be shunned because all of society/culture was incentivizing them to settle down early and be virtuous. Nowadays, their bird brains, as you noted, are bombarded literally 24/7 with the message of COCK COCK CUM, so I mostly feel bad for them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903968)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:25 PM
Author: nubile 180 temple



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903980)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:15 AM
Author: confused meetinghouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907747)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:07 PM
Author: burgundy hunting ground genital piercing

Nothing I love more than a casual who loves me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903851)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:21 PM
Author: hyperactive kitty trust fund

Never know what hit 'em

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35903957)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 7:52 PM
Author: vermilion halford sweet tailpipe

What do you think motivates a girl to say this? Do you think they believe it will get someone who was on the fence to not ghost? Or that someone who would ghost would feel guilty and leave?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904148)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 8:21 PM
Author: Beady-eyed pontificating menage

She's opening up and being vulnerable about her fear that you'll pump and dump which is a natural progression to her letting you fuck her.

Yes, this is a major turn off and makes me view the girl as leftovers. It's a common line you get from girls who are 6s that are very fuckable in the eyes of top 20% dudes but not long term dateable.

These girls tend to lie around the 60th percentile and can short term date (ie fuck for a few months) guys in the 80th percentile but guys in the 80th percentile ultimately know they can do better (80th percentile women). It is this statistical mismatch between genders that really fucks things up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904380)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:25 PM
Author: sepia mad-dog skullcap piazza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904823)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:25 PM
Author: Sinister point psychic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904829)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle telephone patrolman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906362)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:48 AM
Author: Boyish alcoholic feces home



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:28 PM
Author: Smoky contagious karate parlor

It shows very poor judgement on their part to say this. If you’re worried about someone ghosting you, ghost them first and play hard to get. Guys like the chase.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904840)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:27 PM
Author: Smoky contagious karate parlor

If someone says this, they have been ghosted AT LEAST twice. Run.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904831)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:30 PM
Author: massive motley sandwich

Why does being ghosted mean they’re bad people?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904857)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:33 PM
Author: big parlour yarmulke



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35904883)



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Date: April 23rd, 2018 9:51 PM
Author: Smoky contagious karate parlor

It doesn’t mean they’re bad people, but they’re clingier as a result of being ghosted. It’s attachment theory 101.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35905016)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:15 AM
Author: Beady-eyed pontificating menage

It doesn't mean they're bad people. It's quite sad, unfortunately. It just means they overestimate their value as a long-term dating prospect.

They won't get much sympathy from non-Chads though for obvious reasons since non-Chads feel spurned by these girls. High value dudes may feel bad for them though because these girls will chase them and depending on their conscience, they'll either fuck and chuck, or politely turn them down. If the former, they're either sociopaths or will eventually stop after one too many guilt trips or finding a satisfactory long-term partner.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906594)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:47 AM
Author: massive motley sandwich

:(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907167)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:49 AM
Author: Boyish alcoholic feces home



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Date: April 24th, 2018 4:28 AM
Author: Lavender circlehead stage

ITT: a bunch of pencildicked cumskin dorks discuss sex whilst NYUUG sportfucks their women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35906845)



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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:13 AM
Author: Very tactful slate really tough guy trailer park

Would have been peak experience, cum inducing if you jammed a gun into the belly and whispered, "....yes..."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957547&forum_id=2#35907732)