Basically, it became frickin obvious to everyone that on his own Charles would not make a single move on this dating thing. So a consortium of poasters, of whom I am the public face, decided to take a more active role.

Here is what we've done so far:

(1) An unnamed poaster in the DC area took a bunch of pictures of CharlesXII around town. These pictures were then sent to a committee of heterosexual women and men who are very confident in their masculinity. This committee picked the best pictures, which were used for the profile.

(2) An OKC profile was created. Charles answered the questions and wrote a first attempt at a profile. My IRL wife (whom I met on OKC) then read his profile, told me what parts seem creepy to a girl, and we rewrote those parts.

(3) We set our filter to Catholic girls under 29. Charles has already, or will shortly, like every girl with whom he is at least a 90% match. He will then send a message to every chick he has liked. There are quite a few Catholic girls on OKC in DC, including at least three who are also no sex until marriage types.

(4) I have his OKC password and read a lot of these profiles of chicks he will message. I draft messages and send them to him. If he approves, I send the messages as him.

So far, none of his messages or likes have resulted in a reply. He has received four "likes" but because he does not have the premium tier of OKC we don't know who they are from.

Taking advice and q's.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902845)

1. Buy premium

2. Allows you to see answers to VERY specific Qs

3. I do it to filter for LIKING ANAL and SEX on first date, not flame

4. I get laid ... a lot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902853)

Lots of Fairfax County Latinas.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902856)

Have you considered adding the lyrics to Whitney Houston's "How Will I Know?" to his profile? just spitballin' here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902857)

2) Please send lick messages

3) You mention your "IRL wife" - do you have a non-IRL wife?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902863)

(1)To what extent should Chuck keep the answers to his questions private or hidden?

(2) How to come up with a good message for a girl with a thin profile? My strat is to pick something from their profile and comment on it. So like, if the girl is a big Mets fan, I'll say something like "So what did you think of the Mets defensive miscues last night?" - but some chicks have no info in their profile just banalities

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902889)

2) just comment on their looks by saying something like "Normally, I would've started the conversation with something from your profile, but you didn't give me much to work with, so I'll just say [insert physical compliment here]"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902926)

e.g. "you have beautiful eyes"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902953)

"What did you think about the Mets defensive miscues" ?????????????????? She has no idea what the fuck that even means. "Nationals are hosting the Mets on May (XX). I'll take you if you promise not to do the typical Mets fan thing." she'll ask what that is, and your reply almost doesn't matter

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902929)

An awful lot of girls on OKC like travel and Harry Potter. Who knew?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902895)

You are going to be sorely disappointed in the “interests” of the women you meet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902965)

just keep in mind everyone has their own levels of discomfort with putting themselves out there but all the girls on okc WANT to meet someone

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902984)

2. ????

3. Get married while wearing crowns!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902959)

5. SERIOUSLY NOT ALLOWED

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35904561)

as a pathethic bleating NOWAG, I'd probably instantly convert to Orthodoxy if I met some Russian/Belarussian/Moldovan/Transistrian chick or whatever.

the one upside about coming from a NOWAG culture is basically having no cultural heritage, so you can be a total cultural chameleon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35910811)

it sounds like maybe in the early going you are too focused on finding "ideal" matches instead of just sending out good intros to any chicks who are maybe in sync who he finds cute. i.e., better to send decent openers to 30 chicks who you think are 65%+ compatible than perfect openers to 5 chicks who you think are 90%+ compatible. keep churning out those intro messages and spend some time to make them funny/interesting/relevant.

i remember it being fairly important to answer a bunch of those dumb app personality questions and I assume you are doing that.

what's the makeup of the cohort of shrews fine tuning his profile? remember, many women are actually terrible at that stuff, not to mention he's looking for a specific type, and ur average cock carousel shitlib heathen 30-something 100 IQ shrew wouldn't get it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35902956)

I'm not sure if OKCupid is really the right format for Charles. The new tinder-esque match format might fuck him. Chicks are not even going to see his messages until he matches with them. If he's resigned to OKC, he should probably just rapidly "like" every girl he finds attractive and then dig into their profiles and message them if he matches with them. Sending cold openers to chicks he hasn't matched with is probably a waste of time. He should be on an site where his messages are definitely going to get through to the chicks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35903171)

okcupid has turned mostly into just another swipe app.

most people aren't reading the profiles or putting anything of substance into them.

and if a girl has a lengthy profile, she's probably been on the site forever and taken her share of cocks and psychological damage. that's not charles' target market.

he can still search for profiles that mention God or faith or Catholic or whatever, and maybe he'll find a few hits worth messaging where they are specifically looking for a guy like charles, but overall i think it would be worth it to go for eharmony (if it still exists). eharmony (at least used to) have a wholesome, religious vibe and was basically made for guys like charles who are shy and struggle making the first move.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35904392)

Well this "looking for a sweet and genuine man to spend my life with chick" came over and less than three minutes after meeting me pushed me onto the couch and was working my cock in her mouth. She straddled me and I meekly suggested a condom, to which she said "you'll like how this feels better without one, that's what morning after pills are for." We fucked off and on 14 times from about 4pm through 8am, until I was having orgasms with nothing coming out.

I'm sure there are good chicks on the religious dating sites, but they need to be vetted just like any other sluts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35903618)

none of this matters. charles is afraid of women and they can sense it. They're repulsed by it. he has to grow a sack before a chick will give him the time of day. he's not willing to have his ego hurt so he'll never show enough courage to attract a mate.

charles, don't forget, you have to be brave to find a woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35903634)

believe me, ive actually done the "autistic dork who clearly is an autistic dork" to confident with girls thing.

just remember literally nothing matters bc not everyone wants to smash but there are millions of them.

unemployed? doesn't matter

bald? doesn't matter

no "natural" rapport with 21 year old beckys? doesn't matter, of course you don't want to "naturally" have the mind of some sorority bimbo

sure, eing short or bald or unemployed matters to some particular girl in some particular context but who gives a fuck what they think? nothing can prevent you from obtaining the precise kind of bitch you want when you have the ability to try out an infinite number; it just doesn't matter if you get dinged literally 99% of the time by the girls you want because 1% is still effectively infinite.

you just have to get over how some pumo is going to have a 99/1 ratio the opposite of your 1/99 ratio. that's pride fucking with you and has nothing to do with you getting what you want. this is America. aim high, fuck the haters, get everything you ever dreamed of by dint of transcendent willpower alone because that is your birthright and destiny. godspeed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35908908)

definitely don't come across as a cynic who hates life.

women are looking for someone fun to do "things" with, so they can post about it on instagram and facebook and make it look like they're living an interesting life.

they are *not* looking for someone who comes across as cold, negative, and/or boring.

it's also good to keep the profile short. profiles that read like novels reek of desperation, which is the last thing a woman finds attractive in a man.

women like ambition, so definitely put something in there about your job and any goals you are trying to achieve (maybe a place you want to visit, or an activity/skill you are trying to conquer, etc.)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35904667)

it's awkward at first, but don't worry about it. you get better with practice. and everyone blows dates, so if you do, don't dwell on it or let it destroy your confidence. also, don't get your hopes too tied up in one girl.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35904875)

btw, part of being that overweight for a while will really affect your self-confidence around women, even for a while after you lose the weight, because you are accustomed to that self-conscious mindset.

similarly, fat girls who end up losing weight still tend to not realize their new level of attractiveness. (btw, on that note, might be a good idea to target a formerly fat girl who is still self-conscious...)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35908892)

Is Protestantism going to be a dealbreaker here?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35909336)

I can volunteer to fake a chill alpha voice and a knowledge of frat bros who spent the best two years of their lives at HBS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35910309)

So far CharlesXII is spamming likes but hasn't found one of the four. It's like playing a frustrating game of battleship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3957631&forum_id=2#35910327)