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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:57 PM Author: gold swollen institution
My wife just called me in hysterics because she just lost her contract tele-medicine job. She still has two months to go on her contract and her boss offered her a job at the same $175 an hour rate she has now for an 8-5 telemedicine job with a one hour break. The difference is her current job has tons of free time and she usually only saw patients 2-4 hours day and had almost all afternoon off most days. Her new job she would actually have to work the whole time (albeit at home). She finds this unacceptable and is demanding that I find a new job and that we relocate somewhere in the next couple months before our lease ends. I just took a new job and I work in an industry with relatively few big players - me quitting now would be burning a bridge and trying to find a new job could be tough.
I told her to calm down and to just take the job she was offered temporarily until she finds something else. We could sign a lease as planned and then break the lease once we decide where we want to live and I get a job. Trying to jam through a cross-country move that requires us both to find new jobs, childcare, and a place to live in 8 weeks is stupid. Plus we haven't decided where we want to live long term and could be repeating the mistake that led us to California in the first place. She told me that I may need to stay here and she was going to move with my daughter until I find a job because she didn’t want to live in an apartment/townhouse where we could pay a break fee. She feels her job is too unstable and that doing telemedicine would be too isolating because our daughter will be in daycare instead of with a nanny and she will be home alone.
LMAO at my life. Why does shit like this keep happening to me? This is not flame. Taking advice and questions.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35908976)
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:02 PM Author: Exciting Station
can't advise on situation but I can tell you that the only advice that matters comes from the one Daniel day-lewis movie nobody has seen.
some beta gen x dork is bitching about how he can't, his boss, his situation is shitty, etc. and ddl just tells him,
"so what? fuck what he thinks. if you don't like your situation, change it, if you can't change it, leave it. it's your fucking life, man."
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909035) |
Date: April 24th, 2018 1:01 PM Author: comical turdskin party of the first part
jfc just reading your poasts stresses me out
she was a contract hire? how did she get mat leave then?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909020) |
Date: April 24th, 2018 1:01 PM Author: Lake cuckold
Reminder: This is his wife's first year out of residency and she's already quit/lost like 2-3 jobs
Sounds like she ain't going to be working for much longer
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909021)
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:21 PM Author: Self-absorbed keepsake machete school cafeteria
Hate to break it to you, but in life, there are trade offs. You can’t have it all.
Like, trading money for job stability or trading looks for mental stability.
Clearly you haven’t learned this lesson.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909197) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:13 PM Author: blathering pistol office
BINGO
Occasionally High IQ proles pop up, but a high IQ does not erase away their PROLEDOM.
She's not mentally ill or BPD -- she's just a prole. She's acting like all proles do. She just happens to be a MD.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35912464) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:21 PM Author: Lake cuckold
Oh I bet she's perfectly sane, bro
Perfectly chirr and normal behavior
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909193)
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:32 PM Author: Charismatic bat shit crazy pervert address
You keep making these threads, everyone tells you to divorce her, you ignore, and then the situation escalates and you make another.
Seems like you’re well on the way to this turning into a murder suicide situation, but where the wife kills the husband before offing herself.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909290) |
Date: April 24th, 2018 1:37 PM Author: Trip Site Blood Rage
(not 2008)
Lol @ 2018 "job loss" threads
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909328) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:00 PM Author: mewling shaky hall
wrong, Thunder Cuck. ant people = Asian. small-souled bugman = you.
"small-souled bugman" implies that the person has been cut off from their cultural roots, and totally subsumed into consumerist neoliberal hive. they are totally lack any sort of sympathy for their ancestors folkways, higher spirituality, or passion. if they do engage in activities that are somewhat human, they still are heavily tinged by global capitalism. if they are a sportsfan, they will participate heavily in fantasy sports(which is obsessed with statistics, 'scientific' analysis of performance). if they exercise, it will be all cardio, and tracked by fitbit and then uploaded to faceberg. tastes in food, art, music, movies are predetermined by review aggregator sites like yelp, metacritic or rotten tomatoes. political views only appeal to them if they seem 'rational,' and derived from the sort of conventional wisdom, economics influenced worldview seen in works like 'moneyball', nate silver's 538 blog, and 'freakonomics.'
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909535) |
Date: April 24th, 2018 2:04 PM Author: Purple deer antler death wish
This is really sad.
She sounds like someone who is never going to be happy. You are going to be at the mercy of this sort of thing forever.
It's not LA that's the source of all of her problems--with immediate family, food, Netflix, Amazon, and FaceTime we can make due just about anywhere--but she's going for the Hail Mary of moving to, e.g., Charleston as being the answer to all of her problems. What problems does Charleston immediately solve?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909564) |
Date: April 24th, 2018 2:11 PM Author: mewling shaky hall
Aldous Huxley had a bit to say on small-souled bugmen (Thunder Cuck):
“The real hopeless victims of mental illness are to be found among those who appear to be most normal. Many of them are normal because they are so well adjusted to our mode of existence, because their human voice has been silenced so early in their lives, that they do not even struggle or suffer or develop symptoms as the neurotic does. They are normal not in what may be called the absolute sense of the word; they are normal only in relation to a profoundly abnormal society. Their perfect adjustment to that abnormal society is a measure of their mental sickness. These millions of abnormally normal people, living without fuss in a society to which, if they were fully human beings, they ought not to be adjusted.”
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909619) |
Date: April 24th, 2018 10:36 PM Author: beady-eyed garnet sex offender main people
Your wife is mentally ill and it's not going to get better without intense therapy and commitment to change on her part.
That won't happen, so you may as well start getting your shit in order for the divorce if you ever want a shot at happiness with what little time you have left.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35913316) |
Date: April 25th, 2018 7:15 AM Author: Bateful violent jew
JFC, $175/hr for shit telemedicine?
I'm a radiologist and factoring vacation time, I'm slightly making more than $150/hr ...not factoring in time it takes to make lectures for residents.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35914943)
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Date: May 16th, 2018 10:35 AM Author: olive center
i didn't read the whole thread, but ime, if you go home and try to fight her, it will put her even more on the defensive, and you guys will never see the end of it.
instead of fighting her, or giving her ultimatums, why not approach it differently - tell her you agree with her in principle (trying to get out of so cal eventually) and that you support her wanting to be a good mom and spend time with the kid, but that her rushed approach will hurt you and the baby in the long run. emphasize the points you agree on, make sure you listen to her so that you can intelligently and calmly address her fears, and help her see your point of view.
tell her you guys are a team, and it's you two against the world, not against each other. sappy and cheesy, but women respond to this much better than ultimatums, ime.
also, she is freaking out because she feels out of control. make her feel like you're in control, and she doesn't have to worry about it.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#36061206) |
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