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Wife lost job, life on verge of falling apart again
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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:57 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend My wife just called me in hysterics because she just lost her contract tele-medicine job. She still has two months to go on her contract and her boss offered her a job at the same $175 an hour rate she has now for an 8-5 telemedicine job with a one hour break. The difference is her current job has tons of free time and she usually only saw patients 2-4 hours day and had almost all afternoon off most days. Her new job she would actually have to work the whole time (albeit at home). She finds this unacceptable and is demanding that I find a new job and that we relocate somewhere in the next couple months before our lease ends. I just took a new job and I work in an industry with relatively few big players - me quitting now would be burning a bridge and trying to find a new job could be tough.
I told her to calm down and to just take the job she was offered temporarily until she finds something else. We could sign a lease as planned and then break the lease once we decide where we want to live and I get a job. Trying to jam through a cross-country move that requires us both to find new jobs, childcare, and a place to live in 8 weeks is stupid. Plus we haven't decided where we want to live long term and could be repeating the mistake that led us to California in the first place. She told me that I may need to stay here and she was going to move with my daughter until I find a job because she didn’t want to live in an apartment/townhouse where we could pay a break fee. She feels her job is too unstable and that doing telemedicine would be too isolating because our daughter will be in daycare instead of with a nanny and she will be home alone.
LMAO at my life. Why does shit like this keep happening to me? This is not flame. Taking advice and questions.
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:02 PM Author: chartreuse glittery dingle berry "LMAO at my life. Why does shit like this keep happening to me? This is not flame. Taking advice and questions."
Hate to say it, but the answer seems pretty obvious that it's because of whom you married. |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:04 PM Author: red fiercely-loyal forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909054) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:10 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Harsh, but fair. The chaos starting strangely coincided with my engagement. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909104) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:36 PM Author: Indigo kitty pisswyrm CR, OP needs to take his daughter and leave this toxic mentally ill bitch behind. It is NEVER going to get better if you stay with her, and it will probably get worse. Being as she is legit mentally ill, maybe the court will give you DAT custody. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909321) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:38 PM Author: Stimulating sable space yeah there is no way he's getting full custody (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909332) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:41 PM Author: coral wild immigrant dysfunction my knowledge of child custody battles is limited to what I read on XO, but unless she does majorly fucked up shit he's probably screwed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909351) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:44 PM Author: Stimulating sable space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909379) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:44 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend This is correct. I can kiss my relationship goodbye with my daughter basically. She has never been diagnosed with a mental illness. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909380) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:48 PM Author: Indigo kitty pisswyrm Ah, I thought she had been diagnosed as legit mentally ill. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909410) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:49 PM Author: multi-colored hominid She is obviously BPD (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909425) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:01 PM Author: coral wild immigrant dysfunction she's obviously an immature dingbat who won't/is incapable of planning out her life and uses hysterics to get what she wants and keep the attention on her when she hits bumps in the road, which works because TC is a little bitch. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909544) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:42 PM Author: multi-colored hominid also true
can't wait until she becomes a haggard fat bitch in a few years and TC is still a beta cuck doing whatever she wants |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:48 PM Author: Bespoke lake cruise ship How do you know she won’t leave you first? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909416) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:50 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Really doubt it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909437) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:52 PM Author: Stimulating sable space TC's wife likely has a big time fear of abandonment (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909463) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:56 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Correct (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909505) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:02 PM Author: coral wild immigrant dysfunction yea, you act like she'll take the kid on go to south carolina by herself. no fucking way that happens. even if she did leave you for a bit, she would come back and you'd have major hand. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909552) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:19 PM Author: Bespoke lake cruise ship I can see you’ve read Art of the Deal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909687) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:22 PM Author: coral wild immigrant dysfunction nah, I haven't. do they talk about being willing to walk in negotiations? expert level is when you can convince them you're willing to walk when you really aren't. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909713) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:37 PM Author: motley wagecucks university Consider that you're needing a 'tough but fair' advisory from a fucked up alcoholic like our brother Dr. Thunder. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35913320) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:02 PM Author: White French Chef Sweet Tailpipe can't advise on situation but I can tell you that the only advice that matters comes from the one Daniel day-lewis movie nobody has seen.
some beta gen x dork is bitching about how he can't, his boss, his situation is shitty, etc. and ddl just tells him,
"so what? fuck what he thinks. if you don't like your situation, change it, if you can't change it, leave it. it's your fucking life, man." |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:10 PM Author: buff mexican legend Out the movie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909105) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:20 PM Author: White French Chef Sweet Tailpipe the one written by his dumb shrew wife about hot 15 yo dotter incest. Not sure why xo hasn't seen it.
And did DDL give a fuck if literally nobody wanted his entitled, untalented, Jew shrew wife to make a movie? No, no he didn't. |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:40 PM Author: claret low-t site (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909883) |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 10:23 AM Author: thriller house the ballad of jack and rose? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#36061117) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:22 PM Author: fighting queen of the night national Hi, Danny (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909201) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:24 PM Author: White French Chef Sweet Tailpipe was a doobs a fan of this incest film? well (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909218) |
Date: April 24th, 2018 12:59 PM Author: electric station circlehead what the hell is telemedicine? giving weed scripts over the phone? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35908994) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:59 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Seeing patients on a computer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909000) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:01 PM Author: floppy parlour voyeur LJL at choosing a job like that and then living in a high COL area anyway. You guys should be living somewhere with natural beauty, good schools, and low COL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909024) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:02 PM Author: electric station circlehead cr. sounds like a dream job actually (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909029) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:04 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend (Thunder Collins prior to move to California) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909048) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:05 PM Author: Razzmatazz range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909066) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:25 PM Author: Bespoke lake cruise ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909231) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:40 PM Author: Amber rehab I recommend Shaker Heights. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35913345) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:29 PM Author: Hateful antidepressant drug OH NOEZ I HAVE TO TALK ON SKYPE FOR 8 HOURS A DAY FOR $175 /HR WHOA IS ME!!!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909776) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:29 AM Author: snowy effete hunting ground stain Cr dude I am shaking with rage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35914978) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:59 PM Author: insecure hospital When do you think she’ll start cucking you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35908995) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:00 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909007) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:02 PM Author: insecure hospital Cucking (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909037) |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 10:45 AM Author: Supple Offensive Locus lolol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#36061274) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:22 PM Author: Massive Reading Party Sound Barrier shes taken thousands of niggerdicks
thousands |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:43 PM Author: fighting queen of the night national Side effects of BBC sperm just skullfucking her brain? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909371) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:59 PM Author: Adventurous Avocado Spot Wtf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909003) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:00 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909014) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 12:59 PM Author: boyish carmine goal in life indian lodge lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909005) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:01 PM Author: Cracking shaky area jfc just reading your poasts stresses me out
she was a contract hire? how did she get mat leave then? |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:01 PM Author: multi-colored hominid His wife needs to be committed to a mental asylum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909026) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:03 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend I genuinely thought I was past this for awhile. I am freaking the fuck out now. I have to calm her down and get her to think rationally. I am just going to straight up refuse to move I think. I will do it eventually - but not in the ill thought out way she is suggesting. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909044) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:04 PM Author: multi-colored hominid you dont see where this is headed already?
she is going to quit working completely at some point yet still abuse and control you |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:07 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Doubt it. She will work, if only part time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909084) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: multi-colored hominid ok i'll bump this in a few years brother, esp if you have more kids
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:45 PM Author: learning disabled bisexual cumskin nursing home (Guy who has demonstrated a knack for predicting his wife's behavior in the past) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909385) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:01 PM Author: multi-colored hominid Reminder: This is his wife's first year out of residency and she's already quit/lost like 2-3 jobs
Sounds like she ain't going to be working for much longer
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:05 PM Author: Razzmatazz range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909071) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:06 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Quit one job after four weeks and then took this job. The people she works for lost the contract - which covered multiple doctors - she wasn't fired individually. They went with a firm that offered in-person healthcare. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909079) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:09 PM Author: multi-colored hominid four weeks? lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909102) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:11 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend TBF, she just had a baby and was starting back to work after only a month off and the job/commute sucked. It ended up being for the best. But at the time, I was furious because it was the whole reason we moved to California. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909113) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:12 PM Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Infuriating Haunted Graveyard Corner Maybe she should, you know, get an in person doc job at an office, so she’s not at the mercy of these contracts. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909117) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:13 PM Author: Stimulating sable space you're assuming that she actually wants to work (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909124) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:13 PM Author: multi-colored hominid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909128) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:15 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend The highest paying jobs are in shitty areas. She makes more than she would at a hospital and wanted to be home with the baby, so she could see her in between breaks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909135) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:15 PM Author: multi-colored hominid How does telemedicine pay more than in person hospital work? Sounds like flame
Is she a radiologist? |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:16 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend No benefits, less stability (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909155) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:21 PM Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Infuriating Haunted Graveyard Corner Hate to break it to you, but in life, there are trade offs. You can’t have it all.
Like, trading money for job stability or trading looks for mental stability.
Clearly you haven’t learned this lesson. |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:22 PM Author: multi-colored hominid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909200) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:22 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Oh I am well aware of trade offs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909208) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:25 PM Author: multi-colored hominid what are you going to do once she ages and is fugly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909238) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:24 PM Author: Razzmatazz range "The highest paying jobs are in shitty areas" - LOL, so you guys could be balling out in some low-COL area (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909224) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:26 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Yes and my last job would have let me live in a number of different places. She chose SoCal. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909245) |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 12:53 PM Author: Cream Spectacular Theater Or make less and live in a big city. Obviously the thing about trade offs is you pick one and accept it. You don't harp on the negatives of your choice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#36062224) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:14 AM Author: judgmental deer antler box office She also isn't making $175/hr doing telemedicine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35914718) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:01 PM Author: 180 indecent kitchen depressive oh the horror of actually working for a $175 an hour job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909025) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:02 PM Author: 180 indecent kitchen depressive (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909031) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:02 PM Author: 180 indecent kitchen depressive (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909032) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:03 PM Author: multi-colored hominid She obviously just doesn't want to work, period, which I understand, but she hasn't even worked one year yet...just LOL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909039) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:05 PM Author: brindle yarmulke (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909059) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:05 PM Author: red fiercely-loyal forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909067) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:05 PM Author: abnormal bat-shit-crazy school clown (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909068) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend At home. With breaks between patients. JFC, her entitlement is off the charts. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909093) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:15 PM Author: multi-colored hominid did she grow up rich or something?
b/c honestly she sounds entitled AF |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:15 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Strangely, she grew up LMC (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909139) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:16 PM Author: multi-colored hominid lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909154) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:13 PM Author: Concupiscible Aggressive Crackhouse Giraffe BINGO
Occasionally High IQ proles pop up, but a high IQ does not erase away their PROLEDOM.
She's not mentally ill or BPD -- she's just a prole. She's acting like all proles do. She just happens to be a MD. |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:12 PM Author: Stimulating sable space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909118) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:05 PM Author: Wonderful crimson double fault Pepper thy angus (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909060) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:05 PM Author: red fiercely-loyal forum 180 moniker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909072) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:07 PM Author: ruby hairraiser church becky You and your wife are both intensely weak and stupid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909083) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: Stimulating sable space op, for the love of god just hold on until scott frost starts pwning souls in September (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909090) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend TY Brother, trying to (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909095) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: Milky adulterous stage just tell her to take the temp job, and to "give herself a chance to love it" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909094) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend LMAO, will do (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909097) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:10 PM Author: Adventurous Avocado Spot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909106) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:16 PM Author: Godawful Talented Home Mood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909151) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:24 PM Author: red fiercely-loyal forum Holy shit 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909219) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:24 PM Author: brindle yarmulke (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909221) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 7:59 PM Author: Puce stirring doctorate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35912367) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:11 PM Author: Cracking shaky area is she good with the baby (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909111) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:12 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Yeah, she is a good mom (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909116) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:13 PM Author: Cracking shaky area *phew* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909121) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:18 PM Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Infuriating Haunted Graveyard Corner Lol at this delusion. Her crazy is going to eventually come out around daughter and remember, your daughter is 50% her genes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909163) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:18 PM Author: multi-colored hominid Obviously Thunder Collins' judgment is questionable considering he married a woman with BIPOLAR DISORDER.
He's going to have a BPD daughter and wife at some point just LOL |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:20 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend She was never diagnosed with BPD, that was speculative (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909181) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:21 PM Author: multi-colored hominid Oh I bet she's perfectly sane, bro
Perfectly chirr and normal behavior
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:28 PM Author: cerebral tank heaven Nutella spot on here. A person this crazy infects everyone around them. Divorce now, TC, it'll only get worse. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909263) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:42 PM Author: Galvanic Stock Car This. I dated a bi-polar chick. She went off her meds w/o telling me + started drinking a bit. Progressively it got worse until one night we wound up in some huge argument with the net result of her crying in a bathtub and between her sobbing saying she stopped taking her meds.
Once you see that level of mental breakdown, you want nothing to do with it. Though, I will admit, sex with a nut case can be pretty damn good. |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:46 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Yeah, when she is off her meds it is ugly. She was not sleeping, had PPD and was off her meds for months. Completely different when she is on them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909390) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:47 PM Author: Galvanic Stock Car According to Homeland this season the efficacy of meds can wear off over time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909403) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:49 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Shudders (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909429) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:53 PM Author: learning disabled bisexual cumskin nursing home Pretty tame brother. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909483) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:50 PM Author: very tactful coffee pot Cr. Talk to me when she's having panic attacks and refuses to leave the house for 8 months (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35913411) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 8:43 AM Author: coral wild immigrant dysfunction holy shit you got into a big argument with a chick you were dating? I've never heard of that happening to anyone else. ever. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35915261) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:16 PM Author: Insanely Creepy Theatre This wilting bitch needs a few months in the gulag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909146) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:16 PM Author: ruby hairraiser church becky What's your wife's contact info? I'll fuck her so good she wakes up and does dishes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909150) |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 10:48 AM Author: Supple Offensive Locus lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#36061292) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:22 PM Author: bearded beady-eyed dog poop lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909207) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:22 PM Author: multi-colored hominid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909211) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:25 PM Author: Bespoke lake cruise ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909243) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:31 PM Author: ruby hairraiser church becky Hey I need to contact a doctor, lil thunda collins. What's your wife's number? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909282) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:32 PM Author: heady bawdyhouse crotch You keep making these threads, everyone tells you to divorce her, you ignore, and then the situation escalates and you make another.
Seems like you’re well on the way to this turning into a murder suicide situation, but where the wife kills the husband before offing herself. |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:33 PM Author: multi-colored hominid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909300) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:33 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Not going to divorce my wife. I want to see my daughter grow up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909304) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:48 PM Author: heady bawdyhouse crotch As long as you aren’t expecting sympathy from here, that’s fine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909412) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:53 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Do this to vent, not looking for sympathy. I made my bed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909475) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:34 PM Author: ruby hairraiser church becky He's broken like every other sad shitbag who married a broken person. "Wow, who could marry such a broken bird brain bitch?" asks xoxo. Answer: another broken, weak person. |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:39 PM Author: multi-colored hominid Lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909338) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:35 PM Author: Bespoke lake cruise ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909312) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:36 PM Author: pink disturbing boltzmann tanning salon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909318) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:36 PM Author: At-the-ready garrison gay wizard Why would a woman off herself? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909319) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:33 PM Author: At-the-ready garrison gay wizard Lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909296) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:35 PM Author: learning disabled bisexual cumskin nursing home Lol@ur life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909308) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:36 PM Author: Bespoke lake cruise ship Time to cut your loses. Kid will love new dad who hopefully has more of a spine than you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909320) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:37 PM Author: ruby hairraiser church becky Your wife would smile with glee if she found out you died tomorrow in a car crash. She'd move onto the next broken sack of shit to suck the life out of and cycle is repeated. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909327) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:50 PM Author: multi-colored hominid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909442) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:37 PM Author: House-broken menage (not 2008)
Lol @ 2018 "job loss" threads |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:38 PM Author: coral wild immigrant dysfunction you honestly sound like a bigger bitch and more mentally ill than she is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909335) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:39 PM Author: salmon hell You need to tell her she's a loser and she's never going to get what she thinks she's wants out of life, because not understanding this is clearly why she's psychotic. Her career is an objective failure. This might be abusive to a normal person, but she's obviously retarded. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909341) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:40 PM Author: bearded beady-eyed dog poop lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909346) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:42 PM Author: multi-colored hominid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909361) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:08 PM Author: aphrodisiac feces volcanic crater harsh but fair (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909594) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 4:21 PM Author: Cordovan pea-brained resort philosopher-king (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35910805) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:42 PM Author: Vivacious Orchestra Pit Alpha it is almost physically painful to read these threads (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909359) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:43 PM Author: multi-colored hominid Yeah my stomach hurts from laughing too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909368) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:43 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Wife just sent me a job posting in South Carolina. Need to prepare myself for a huge fight when I get home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909373) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:45 PM Author: coral wild immigrant dysfunction you should apply to it, dumbass. you should literally be applying to anywhere in country that isn't shitass california. live somewhere cheap enough that you can support the family on your own and bank whatever she makes that way you don't have to chimp out whenever she chimps out over losing these contract gigs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909387) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:47 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend A job posting for her - there are no jobs for me there (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909406) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:51 PM Author: coral wild immigrant dysfunction don't take it seriously. the general trend seems to be her saying stupid shit and you freaking out over it.
apply to jobs in Denver or wherever your family is and take control of your life. |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:51 PM Author: fear-inspiring flatulent gunner round eye Office manager/paralegal for muscadine wine. I bet your wives would get along great! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909456) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:52 PM Author: coral wild immigrant dysfunction $50K in Charleston >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> $150K in LA (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909470) |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 10:14 AM Author: cowardly sepia halford CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#36061054) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:11 PM Author: floppy parlour voyeur Pro Tip: If she is making $300k in SC, you don't have to work. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909623) |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 10:14 AM Author: cowardly sepia halford CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#36061052) |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 10:15 AM Author: cowardly sepia halford Let her make 300k and go fishing with me.
Dude, I send my kids to a swanky Montessori school - the kind that my friends from LA and Chicago are blown away by - and it costs me 1200 per month for 2. |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 10:13 AM Author: cowardly sepia halford Thunder Collins, you motherfucker, come move to South Carolina and let's go out fishing & drink some beer. Also, consider yourself invited to my Citadel football tailgate parties and our wives can compare the many, many things they have in common.
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:44 PM Author: fighting queen of the night national Is her family involved? What are they saying? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909377) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:48 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend This literally just happened an hour ago. No idea. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909409) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:15 PM Author: fighting queen of the night national I mean, wrt her past episodes. This appears to be an ongoing theme. May be good to get the family support should you have to take custody of the kids or just need to check your wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909659) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:49 PM Author: ruby hairraiser church becky Both thundercuck and his wife are broken bug people. Imagine how broken and alienated you'd have to be to move 2,000 miles away from your family, with no social support, when you have a newborn baby. Now that the bug couple has failed out of California, she wants to move to South Carolina, literally on the opposite side of the country, instead of moving closer to family to help raise the kid and be around a support network. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909428) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:51 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend We are both 100% white. WTF are you taking about? Her family is in Atlanta, which is why she is looking in the Southeast. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909459) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:53 PM Author: ruby hairraiser church becky You are a small-souled bugman. How is this difficult to understand? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909478) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:54 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Bugman = Asian (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909491) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:00 PM Author: ruby hairraiser church becky wrong, Thunder Cuck. ant people = Asian. small-souled bugman = you.
"small-souled bugman" implies that the person has been cut off from their cultural roots, and totally subsumed into consumerist neoliberal hive. they are totally lack any sort of sympathy for their ancestors folkways, higher spirituality, or passion. if they do engage in activities that are somewhat human, they still are heavily tinged by global capitalism. if they are a sportsfan, they will participate heavily in fantasy sports(which is obsessed with statistics, 'scientific' analysis of performance). if they exercise, it will be all cardio, and tracked by fitbit and then uploaded to faceberg. tastes in food, art, music, movies are predetermined by review aggregator sites like yelp, metacritic or rotten tomatoes. political views only appeal to them if they seem 'rational,' and derived from the sort of conventional wisdom, economics influenced worldview seen in works like 'moneyball', nate silver's 538 blog, and 'freakonomics.' |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:04 PM Author: salmon hell (dtp) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909566) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:35 PM Author: Hateful antidepressant drug Savage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909837) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:46 PM Author: At-the-ready garrison gay wizard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909960) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 3:02 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend So not like me at all, got it. None of these things apply to me. I am not consumerist at all, am not into fantasy sports and the only team I actively root for is my home state's CFB team, do heavy compound-lifts + hiking and sprints for working out, am not on Facebook, and have very idiosyncratic and unusual tastes in entertainment and non-mainstream political views.
Don't pretend to know me from a few poasts. You don't know me at all and it may make you feel superior to poast shit like this - but you are way off the mark. |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 6:16 AM Author: Diverse hairless parlor you're talking to a basement shut-in copy-pasting shit from 4chan, pretending that it represents a real set of values deriving from actual life experience, instead of a pre-made excuse to be extremely mad online all the time. don't take it personally. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35914790) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 3:10 PM Author: Jet duck-like friendly grandma lol @ faceberg (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35910210) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:14 PM Author: Arousing Obsidian Fortuitous Meteor my favorite part (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35912474) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:13 AM Author: Dashing fat ankles (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35914716) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:03 PM Author: salmon hell Lol wut? Do you understand that moving away from your family is the fundamental dynamic of immigration? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909555) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:50 PM Author: ruby hairraiser church becky Thunder Cuck is the biggest problem in all of these threads. His wife is more sane than he is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909445) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 1:52 PM Author: Silver Soul-stirring Den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909462) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:04 PM Author: clear nubile liquid oxygen This is really sad.
She sounds like someone who is never going to be happy. You are going to be at the mercy of this sort of thing forever.
It's not LA that's the source of all of her problems--with immediate family, food, Netflix, Amazon, and FaceTime we can make due just about anywhere--but she's going for the Hail Mary of moving to, e.g., Charleston as being the answer to all of her problems. What problems does Charleston immediately solve? |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:06 PM Author: coral wild immigrant dysfunction she probably spent like 5 minutes looking at jobs and sent it to TC to get attention. she obviously hasn't thought shit out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909578) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:11 PM Author: ruby hairraiser church becky Aldous Huxley had a bit to say on small-souled bugmen (Thunder Cuck):
“The real hopeless victims of mental illness are to be found among those who appear to be most normal. Many of them are normal because they are so well adjusted to our mode of existence, because their human voice has been silenced so early in their lives, that they do not even struggle or suffer or develop symptoms as the neurotic does. They are normal not in what may be called the absolute sense of the word; they are normal only in relation to a profoundly abnormal society. Their perfect adjustment to that abnormal society is a measure of their mental sickness. These millions of abnormally normal people, living without fuss in a society to which, if they were fully human beings, they ought not to be adjusted.” |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:57 AM Author: snowy effete hunting ground stain 9854663457 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35915107) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 8:21 AM Author: Dashing fat ankles Devastating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35915182) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:13 PM Author: charismatic crawly piazza ??? Tell her that she’s taking the new contract job and that you aren’t moving. If she starts screaming at you, just remain silent and leave the house for a few days. She can’t make you move anywhere. Tell her how it is and then that’s it, end of convo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909639) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:18 PM Author: Bespoke lake cruise ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909680) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:23 PM Author: coral wild immigrant dysfunction (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909719) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:23 PM Author: floppy parlour voyeur How many kids do you have? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909721) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:24 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend One nine month old (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909731) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:24 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend The thing is I want to move out of California - just not in a panicked, poorly thought out rush. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909729) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 2:29 PM Author: charismatic crawly piazza Don’t tell her that or she’ll assume that you’re one month away from moving. Just say “never” and you can always change your mind later. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35909785) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 3:06 PM Author: Pearly Address Again: the writers are really flailing for drama here, can we please have some plausibility to the storyline this season already (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35910166) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 3:10 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Not flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35910208) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 4:21 PM Author: Cordovan pea-brained resort philosopher-king whew. well, that puts it to rest (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35910809) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 7:19 PM Author: greedy market Were you able to de-escalate things at all? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35912091) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 7:56 PM Author: smoky mind-boggling indirect expression Was she the one who was just talking about moving to Mexico? Stop taking what she says so seriously and give her time to cool off. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35912343) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 8:04 PM Author: clear nubile liquid oxygen Grab a few beers for your commute home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35912405) |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:36 PM Author: motley wagecucks university Your wife is mentally ill and it's not going to get better without intense therapy and commitment to change on her part.
That won't happen, so you may as well start getting your shit in order for the divorce if you ever want a shot at happiness with what little time you have left. |
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Date: April 24th, 2018 10:43 PM Author: multi-colored hominid TC is never going to divorce - he's a fucking cuck
Even reading his posts makes me want to choke and beat him -he's prob the type of guy that you just want to bully and punch and choke IRL |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:14 AM Author: Dashing fat ankles (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35914717) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 6:15 AM Author: Metal ratface library Chance. To. Love. Her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35914789) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:15 AM Author: haunting school cafeteria personal credit line JFC, $175/hr for shit telemedicine?
I'm a radiologist and factoring vacation time, I'm slightly making more than $150/hr ...not factoring in time it takes to make lectures for residents.
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Date: May 16th, 2018 12:38 PM Author: Mewling base organic girlfriend Yeah, it is ridiculous (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#36062124) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:19 AM Author: ungodly casino One of the more eye opening/shocking aspects of your saga is how unhinged/illogical even a doctor could be. Sorry, man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35914951) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:58 AM Author: snowy effete hunting ground stain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35915118) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:26 AM Author: ungodly casino Also, I would kill for an 8-5, no nights/weekend, work from home job that paid $360k per year and only requires you to talk on Skype. JFC, does she know how good that is? People in law or finance making similar salaries work 60+ hours a week, are on call 24/7, and need to do shit much more stressful than talking on the phone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35914967) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 8:22 AM Author: Dashing fat ankles Tbf, I am actually working a max of 15 hours a week (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35915184) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 8:15 AM Author: lime frozen filthpig brethren Jfc, jfc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958466&forum_id=2#35915167) |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 10:35 AM Author: thriller house i didn't read the whole thread, but ime, if you go home and try to fight her, it will put her even more on the defensive, and you guys will never see the end of it.
instead of fighting her, or giving her ultimatums, why not approach it differently - tell her you agree with her in principle (trying to get out of so cal eventually) and that you support her wanting to be a good mom and spend time with the kid, but that her rushed approach will hurt you and the baby in the long run. emphasize the points you agree on, make sure you listen to her so that you can intelligently and calmly address her fears, and help her see your point of view.
tell her you guys are a team, and it's you two against the world, not against each other. sappy and cheesy, but women respond to this much better than ultimatums, ime.
also, she is freaking out because she feels out of control. make her feel like you're in control, and she doesn't have to worry about it. |
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Date: May 16th, 2018 10:39 AM Author: fear-inspiring flatulent gunner round eye This is an old thread. Update here:
http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3965376&mc=57&forum_id=2 |