i mean really sweet wholesome girls who are kind, supportive, family-oriented, stubbornly honest. they think of themselves primarily as the future spouses to nerdy wholesome husbands and the mother of his children.

they get blown out along the way not because they are bad people, but because online dating can be so disheartening sometimes, and sex so easy to come across, that it takes a lot of discipline to NOT get blown out.

they might get cheated on, get really frustrated and lonely - they are after all hyper-emotional animals- and seek comfort in casual sex or one night stands especially in a cultural milieu that tells them it is 100% okay, and when a sympathetic chad is right there.

i don't feel hatred for these women. i feel a great pity for them. moreso, i feel a great pity for us as a society, and as a human race, that we created the conditions in which this systematically occurs. they will eventually "learn" from their mistakes and steel their resolve to be good and narrow down their search criteria as the years creep up on them. they might answer their dating site questionnaires by ominously avoiding the sex questions. but whether or not their future husbands find out or it becomes an explicit issue in the fabric of their lives, the simple fact remains: they were supposed to represent the goodest, purest things in this dirty alienating world, and they were fucking blown out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3958724&forum_id=2#35911191)