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Annoying part about dating woman over 25: hearing about her failed relationships
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Date: April 25th, 2018 2:34 AM Author: Abnormal therapy You can tactfully sidestep the topic for a while during the getting to know you phase but it ultimately comes up. It is almost always distasteful to learn that you're always getting some other dude's leftovers and he most definitely had a younger, better version of the girl before you now.
For some odd reason, I rarely meet the attractive, late 20-something woman who broke it off with their boyfriends and decided to be single, whilst staying off the cock carousel.
Usually, a late 20s woman is single because 1) she got dumped by Chad, or 2) she needs to find herself (fuck multiple Chads) before settling down. Either way, it's a lose-lose situation. |
Date: April 25th, 2018 2:46 AM Author: Irradiated offensive rehab scholarship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959190&forum_id=2#35914518) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 2:54 AM Author: mewling confused set puppy if u tindercuck looking for a "serious" relationship ur literally insane (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959190&forum_id=2#35914526) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 2:56 AM Author: Irradiated offensive rehab what are other options are there brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959190&forum_id=2#35914529) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:01 AM Author: mewling confused set puppy you must not be familiar with my work
heres the only advice that can help you: hit the motherfucking reset button and hope your next life isnt the dumpster fire your current one is.
http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=2609396&mc=202&forum_id=2#25862381 |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:14 AM Author: Cream Garrison Coldplay Fan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959190&forum_id=2#35914565) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:34 AM Author: Vigorous Salmon Immigrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959190&forum_id=2#35914605) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:40 AM Author: Balding party of the first part https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fiwcZ0pg3xM (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959190&forum_id=2#35914620) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 2:59 AM Author: Abnormal therapy everyone is on it. even if you meet a girl out irl, chances are she's also on the apps or was on the apps and is "taking a break." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959190&forum_id=2#35914534) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:03 AM Author: Unholy floppy area literally know almost nothing about my wife's two previous relationships. LJL
(though to be fair she's had two relationships, which is pretty rough) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:03 AM Author: Vivacious Boiling Water How many of us men havent had failed relationships? Weird standard. I dont have an issue disregarding pasts as im not interested in exploring mine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959190&forum_id=2#35914543) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:09 AM Author: Abnormal therapy Maybe it's a double standard but women prefer experienced men. Men do not want experienced women unless it's solely for sexual pleasure.
I similarly do not have any interest in exploring my past or the past of the woman I'm dating but that's because ignorance is bliss. |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:16 AM Author: Vivacious Boiling Water I think that’s something you should work on. Society has programmed your mind to think it’s better to have a naive girl, but when conflict eventually hits, these girls have no basis in how to handle.
Anyway, I’ve dated cool girls who took a lot from their past experiences to improve themselves and I’d like to think I do the same. Our societal idealization or virginal and pure women is bizzare to me. |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:28 AM Author: Abnormal therapy oh look, a well-adjusted, liberal-minded guy poasting on XO. congrats.
seriously, yeah, that makes sense but it's not just naivety that's lost. perhaps it's a sense of devotion and loyalty? the fact that she hasn't had too many relationships or experienced the same shared feelings with another guy gives makes them more personally meaningful?
imagine going to your favorite restaurant all the time, or visiting your favorite vacation destination every weekend. obviously, its value diminishes the more times you go. imagine sharing a special moment with a woman who's already experienced that 3 times before. it almost feels cliche to take her out to that beautiful spot on the cliff and watch the sunset. she's been there before.
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:41 AM Author: Vivacious Boiling Water That’s just your negative view. Finding someone amazing afte going through so much shit can make you appreciate it that much more.
Avid trump supporter for what it’s worth. |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:04 AM Author: soggy naked persian my ex GF dumped me when she was 30, after 2.5 years of dating
she's now 32. recently saw a pic of her at her friend's wedding and she was all alone - no date. felt both good and sad. |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:10 AM Author: Abnormal therapy why'd she dump you? she must've really not wanted to be with you for that to happen. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959190&forum_id=2#35914557) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:13 AM Author: soggy naked persian we started arguing a lot and i put on weight from stress eating and drinking over the relationship.
i promptly lost the weight after the break-up and invested the ring money in crypto and made a lot. so i guess it worked out OK. |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:29 AM Author: Abnormal therapy you seem emotional. glad it worked out for you though. you dating anyone now? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959190&forum_id=2#35914593) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:32 AM Author: soggy naked persian dating but nothing serious. i've had another gf since her, but it ended due to me moving away.
yeah, i am emotional. i feel like dating the ex was just a waste of 2 years for both of us. and i chose to be exclusive with her over someone else i really liked, which i now have regrets about |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:04 AM Author: Abnormal therapy Girl told me she was hitting the apps pretty hard 2 years ago and realized it made her feel bad about herself.
I asked "how could it make you feel bad if you're constantly getting bombarded with attention?"
Her: "Yeah, I was mostly using it for validation and attention. I'd go on a few dates, "and stuff," and when they never worked out I'd feel really bad about myself. I think it was the type of guys I was pursuing and I realized it was dumb to care what others thought about me so I just went offline." |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:38 AM Author: Vigorous Salmon Immigrant jfc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959190&forum_id=2#35914615) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 3:36 AM Author: Balding party of the first part Why do women talk about these things? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959190&forum_id=2#35914611) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 11:16 AM Author: Abnormal therapy They don't realize it's a turn off (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959190&forum_id=2#35916218) |