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If my wife made 300K and I made 200K how much instability would it cause?
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Date: April 25th, 2018 4:48 PM Author: Pearl yarmulke I'd work less than her but she'd make more. I'd have better benefits, most likely.
On one hand, any $$$ disparity in favor of the woman strikes me as bad for the relationship.
On the other hand, when it's not so dramatic that one person could stop working (e.g. 300K to 50K), it's not as big of a deal. And a side bonus that it won't screw you in divorce. |
Date: April 25th, 2018 4:50 PM Author: ivory gas station stock car depends. do you enjoy pegging? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919303) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 4:50 PM Author: Pearl yarmulke actually I like switching in the bedroom but gf is very much a sub so I repress it
last gf was into occasionally being the dom and I came so much |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 4:51 PM Author: Drab irradiated clown This is basically like the new normal. Jobs are mostly flowing to women because of their soft skills that are in demand.
500K HHI with a 300/200 split isn't a big deal. I agree it would be if you made a fraction of her income. |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 4:58 PM Author: Hideous marvelous gunner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919362) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 4:59 PM Author: Frum Cream Background Story Persian If by “soft skills” you mean “being a woman” being high in demand, then cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919368) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 4:59 PM Author: Pearl yarmulke "communication" and "emotional IQ" are all the rage in corporate america (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919370) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:27 PM Author: Snowy wagecucks corner His fraction is 2/3. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35920441) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 4:54 PM Author: Pearl yarmulke (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919334) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 4:55 PM Author: Arrogant Site if you married a good woman it should cause no problems
if you married a materialistic shrew... |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 4:56 PM Author: Pearl yarmulke She's somewhere in the middle. She's very smart and more on the dorky side, so it cuts off some of her shrew tendencies. But she's by no means salt of the earth.
She knows I don't make 500K, etc etc |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:09 PM Author: Pearl yarmulke (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919457) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:12 PM Author: black area would only cause instability if you were insecure or like you said, gap is much more profound. 300/200 split isn't like a 150/50 split. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919471) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:30 PM Author: Pearl yarmulke (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919624) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:31 PM Author: thriller french church building coldplay fan Women are attracted to providers, it is in their DNA. They lose respect for a man who makes less than they do. Ultimately, the relationship will be doomed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919635) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:32 PM Author: Pearl yarmulke ur an ass (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919638) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:54 PM Author: thriller french church building coldplay fan truth hurt, faggot? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919796) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:24 PM Author: Vigorous Senate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35920416) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:37 PM Author: cracking garrison depressive Facing a similar scenario myself, and am a little nervous about it.
Specifically, it's easy to imagine a woman making 300k comparing alpha Finance/Neurosurgeon alphas making 800k to their tiny pink 200k melvin spouses.
Also that dynamic could start to dictate how decisions are made regarding location, expenses, etc in a way you won't like |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:39 PM Author: Pearl yarmulke what's the breakdown of income?
my hope is that 300-200 isn't so much of a disparity that we still have equality
I don't think it should be a race to see who makes 1 more dollar and then it becomes a tyranny of the majority
60/40% of HHI is not the same as 80/20
I'm also hoping that 500K HHI, which is pretty good, is enough to satiate any demands; there'll always be a couple with 1MM HHI, and so on, but if we have more than enough, I hope it helps |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:44 PM Author: cracking garrison depressive Yeah I guess my point was that among women making 300k, I'd bet very few of their husbands are making less than that. So potentially that's the pool of dudes she'd compare you against if her female peers are all married to ballers.
That might be a faggy/insecure way to view things, but it's worth considering. |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:45 PM Author: Pearl yarmulke I've seen the opposite, friend. Well, OK, plenty of in-house female lawyers where the husband still works at a firm and what not.
But I've seen plenty of women who have husbands in government or something that pays less |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:46 PM Author: Duck-like half-breed native A lot, I have seen it firsthand (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919738) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:46 PM Author: Umber Brunch Ceo Unfortunately a lot. It's not even about the disparity. You could be making 320K and it would still cause problems. The prob is she's making so much that you'd need to make a shitload more than her for her to be able to quit without a noticeable decline in QOL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919739) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:47 PM Author: Pearl yarmulke she comes from a family of workaholics, she'll never want to stop, except maybe to eventually work a slightly lower paying job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35919744) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:28 PM Author: onyx multi-billionaire so you're going to spend more time with the kids? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35920449) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:38 PM Author: Godawful self-centered bawdyhouse mad-dog skullcap Not about money, it's about prestige. If you're Thomas Pynchon and made $334K last year and your corporate executive wife made $600K, she has no power over you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35920502) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:43 PM Author: Fragrant mahogany chapel incel Wife makes 3 times me. 150k to 450k. Makes no difference in our relationship. She turns over her paycheck in the amount I request each month (I manage the finances). Then she can do whatever she likes with the rest. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35920523) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:49 PM Author: cracking garrison depressive what does she do, roughly ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35920554) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 9:59 PM Author: Snowy wagecucks corner Pegging and incidental but stuff. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35921306) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:50 PM Author: vivacious misunderstood keepsake machete xo is insane (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35920560) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 7:51 PM Author: onyx multi-billionaire (guy whose wife makes 10k more, desperately trying to convince himself she sees him as a real man) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35920569) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 9:23 PM Author: up-to-no-good school cafeteria 100K isn't that big of a difference... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35921097) |
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Date: April 25th, 2018 10:27 PM Author: Domesticated Rehab Mental Disorder how HEROIC is the wife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3959819&forum_id=2#35921499) |