If my wife made 300K and I made 200K how much instability would it cause?
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Date: April 25th, 2018 4:48 PM Author: White lettuce locus
I'd work less than her but she'd make more. I'd have better benefits, most likely.
On one hand, any $$$ disparity in favor of the woman strikes me as bad for the relationship.
On the other hand, when it's not so dramatic that one person could stop working (e.g. 300K to 50K), it's not as big of a deal. And a side bonus that it won't screw you in divorce.
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Date: April 25th, 2018 4:51 PM Author: exciting knife
This is basically like the new normal. Jobs are mostly flowing to women because of their soft skills that are in demand.
500K HHI with a 300/200 split isn't a big deal. I agree it would be if you made a fraction of her income.
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Date: April 25th, 2018 4:55 PM Author: orange overrated indian lodge deer antler
if you married a good woman it should cause no problems
if you married a materialistic shrew...
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:37 PM Author: fuchsia aromatic den
Facing a similar scenario myself, and am a little nervous about it.
Specifically, it's easy to imagine a woman making 300k comparing alpha Finance/Neurosurgeon alphas making 800k to their tiny pink 200k melvin spouses.
Also that dynamic could start to dictate how decisions are made regarding location, expenses, etc in a way you won't like
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Date: April 25th, 2018 5:39 PM Author: White lettuce locus
what's the breakdown of income?
my hope is that 300-200 isn't so much of a disparity that we still have equality
I don't think it should be a race to see who makes 1 more dollar and then it becomes a tyranny of the majority
60/40% of HHI is not the same as 80/20
I'm also hoping that 500K HHI, which is pretty good, is enough to satiate any demands; there'll always be a couple with 1MM HHI, and so on, but if we have more than enough, I hope it helps
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