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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:51 PM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947891) |
Date: April 29th, 2018 11:52 PM Author: appetizing hall sound barrier Sounds 180 tbh. Enjoy the time. |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:05 AM Author: Topaz site milk (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947951) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:09 AM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947970) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:20 AM Author: Razzle-dazzle step-uncle's house candlestick maker a lot of people will speak really good English, especially people under 40, and even more so in an academic kind of environment (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948014) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:36 AM Author: bearded library And bartenders. Get ready to be friends with a lot of bartenders. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948074) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 9:15 AM Author: Mustard Big University I dunno man I did some of my best creative work in such a situation--it sharpens your brain and your senses and ability to observe and dwell on little things. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948901) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:52 PM Author: startled chocolate organic girlfriend Expat where? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947898) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:54 PM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947904) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:55 PM Author: Frum Violet Station Incel Holy shit, mang. How did you end up as an expat there? Type of job? I'm sure there must be other expats there who speak your language, amirite? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947909) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:57 PM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947913) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:59 PM Author: bearded library If you're gonna be there more than a year Italian isn't too hard to learn. If not, just don't dress like a tourist and go to the busy/foreigner bars. Americans stick out, you'll meet some eventually, even if they're kids backpacking or whatnot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947920) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:02 AM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947934) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:05 AM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain (guy who thinks americans dont stick out like sore thumbs outside of america) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947946) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:07 AM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947964) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:08 AM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain (guy who thinks korean people on the street look at me and see a cumskin dork) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947967) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 9:21 AM Author: House-broken transparent center They see a cowardly chaebong hyung (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948919) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:22 AM Author: bearded library Marlboro trucker hat, college sweaters, bolo tie
Otherwise you're better off just blending in (speak quietly if you're speaking english, take off your jacket/hat where appropriate, etc etc) and just keeping your eyes/ears peeled for the ol' fellow countrymen |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 9:29 AM Author: Mustard Big University noen of yr clothes should have writing on them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948964) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 1:26 PM Author: bearded library for what purpose? Mine don't but it's because I'm not consciously trying to look American. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35950811) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:16 AM Author: Haunting international law enforcement agency party of the first part (Michael Corleone laying low for awhile) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947997) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 8:32 AM Author: Buff gas station rigpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948758) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 9:19 AM Author: Mustard Big University holy shit you lucky bastard. Holy shit you lucky bastard. Where? Bari? You sonofabitch. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948915) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:54 PM Author: bearded library It was easy for me because I didn't have any friends back home. Where you moving to? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947903) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:54 PM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947907) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:54 PM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain guy who has been living outside of america for nearly 10 years and more connected to the people around me than when i was when i living in america here, sup (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947905) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:55 PM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947908) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:56 PM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain (guy literally unable to form connections with the people he lives around telling someone connected to the people hes around that he cannot connect to the people hes around) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947911) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:58 PM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947915) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:59 PM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain (guy literally who made a thread whining about how he will have no friends pointing the finger to someone who has friends despite having moved to a country he was not born in) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947922) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:01 AM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947929) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:03 AM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain they all moved out of the city after school, so no (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947936) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:05 AM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947950) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:07 AM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain nah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947960) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:10 AM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947974) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:10 AM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain nah i fuck white girls (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947976) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:15 AM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947990) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 9:19 AM Author: Mustard Big University yeah nyuug was a total dork undergrad. weren't we all though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948916) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:57 PM Author: bearded library You're a singularly bad example, as am I - going back to the motherland isn't really expatting (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947914) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:00 AM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain u mad i literally live in the most homogeneous country in the world? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947923) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:01 AM Author: Razzle-dazzle step-uncle's house candlestick maker you have OCD don't you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947930) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:03 AM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain a singular obsession with fucking your women, yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947937) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:31 AM Author: bearded library No, don't really care. Outside of the States and Armenia, nobody really gives a fuck about homogeneity. You gonna address the substance of the comment? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948050) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:32 AM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain (guy literally posting on a board obsessed with ethnonationalism claiming no one gives a fuck about homogeneity) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948053) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:35 AM Author: bearded library xo ain't irl, no matter how fucked up your brain is from poasting here during your formative years. You gonna accept that we're not good examples of the 'expat experience'? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948072) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:36 AM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain (guy who draws invisible lines between people who live in countries they were not born in) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948075) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:38 AM Author: bearded library Eh? You're the one who's constantly poasting up a blue streak about being 'juss rike a otha kollean gangnam breddas.' So you're admitting that you're just as much of a despised foreigner as the other 3% of korea that's not actually Korean? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948082) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:41 AM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain i just happen to be of the same ethnicity of the people where i moved to, so yes im korean
but it doesnt change the fact that i was not born in korea |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:02 AM Author: lemon garrison volcanic crater quit ruining every thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947931) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:04 AM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain (guy posting in a thread literally about people born in america who live outside of america mad as FUCK that NYUUG is literally a poster born in america who lives outside of america) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947942) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:05 AM Author: lemon garrison volcanic crater shut the fuck up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947945) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:05 AM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain oh u mad im stylin on ya? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947953) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:09 AM Author: Razzle-dazzle step-uncle's house candlestick maker STOP FUCKING SHITTING UP THREADS AND SHUT THE FUCK UP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947971) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:10 AM Author: pea-brained electric hospital stain oh u mad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947973) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:18 AM Author: Dashing Cobalt State (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948006) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 9:22 AM Author: House-broken transparent center You literally have no friends or interpersonal connections. Not sure you’re a good example here NOWAG (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948926) |
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Date: April 29th, 2018 11:59 PM Author: lemon garrison volcanic crater maybe if your gf was your wife she would have come with you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947921) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:00 AM Author: Infuriating karate i proposed, partly because of xo advice. it didn't go well. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947925) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:01 AM Author: lemon garrison volcanic crater oh. sorry mang. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947927) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:02 AM Author: Razzle-dazzle step-uncle's house candlestick maker damn :( how long are you planning on going? fixed time period or open-ended? |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:03 AM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947940) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:05 AM Author: Razzle-dazzle step-uncle's house candlestick maker wait so you're leaving your home, GF, job, and friends for a 1 year fixed job in southern Italy without a plan for what happens next? have you thought this through? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947949) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:06 AM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947957) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:09 AM Author: Razzle-dazzle step-uncle's house candlestick maker I don't get this your employer said "you must move to southern Italy for a year and then we will fire you after that"? just quit and stay where you are with your home, GF, friends, etc and find another job expat life is fine but you pay a price for it, it's worth it if it's a place you really want to live in, or it comes with big financial upsides (or both), but I'm not seeing either of these here think through this again |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:13 AM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947984) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:17 AM Author: Razzle-dazzle step-uncle's house candlestick maker oh I see that's different that makes sense I bet you're going to have a really interesting time and be really happy you did it, and you'll meet kooky new people and friends even if you can't see it yet long distance relationships are much easier to keep together if they are fixed-term. if you're going to stay with your GF, get her to come visit for a while half way through |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 9:22 AM Author: Mustard Big University you lucky son of a bitch. I'm so fucking envious. you luck sonofa bitch. you are going to a fucking destination spot for a year for work? W fucking 180 as fuck food and sunshine and crazy ass rocky coasts and caves w Virgin statues in them? Theres a reason the roman emprerors all built villas down there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948921) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:05 AM Author: lemon garrison volcanic crater break up with your gf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947952) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:05 AM Author: Topaz site milk doubt xo said to propose (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947948) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:05 AM Author: Infuriating karate they really did. tmf was involved (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947954) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:06 AM Author: lemon garrison volcanic crater didnt you have an idea of how it would go? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947959) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:08 AM Author: Infuriating karate no, i thought she would accept me :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947968) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:47 AM Author: indigo irradiated field what did she say exactly?
btw her not saying yes means you should've broken it off shortly after. there's no coming back from that. |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 9:23 AM Author: Mustard Big University (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948928) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:06 AM Author: supple navy black woman :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947958) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:05 AM Author: Cream gaped space I had no one and no responsibilities.
I just hid in my room or in the library, watching hardcore porn or reading postmodern fiction. |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:07 AM Author: supple navy black woman where did you go (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35947962) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:29 AM Author: Idiotic trailer park because you're an xo FRIEND, i will teach you how to learn italian if you're interested. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948037) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 8:56 AM Author: Infuriating karate I'm down, what're you thinking? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948831) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 9:30 AM Author: Mustard Big University e molto facile bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948972) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 4:27 PM Author: Idiotic trailer park video chat is best, e.g. google hangouts or zoom. if you have privacy concerns, turning off your camera is fine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35952591) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:46 AM Author: Pale Pungent Tanning Salon Yeah this is a tough aspect of it. Don't really have a solution but just know I've dealt with the same thing.
Do you have parent/s you keep in contact with every week? That's centering, I find. |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 8:56 AM Author: Infuriating karate ty bro. I talk to my mom a lot, think that will help (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948836) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 1:27 PM Author: bearded library It does (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35950818) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 12:48 AM Author: indigo irradiated field drink wine and fuck some bitches. i would kill to be in southern italy. enjoy it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948107) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 8:27 AM Author: Charcoal racy brethren wagecucks Just learn the language
Italian people are nice |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 8:29 AM Author: Cerebral pozpig cr also lazy as hell. Southern Italy is 180 (assuming not in Naples itself). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948750) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 8:30 AM Author: Well-lubricated exciting feces you'll find an expat group (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948755) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 8:34 AM Author: Buff gas station rigpig This doesn't seem all that bad, brother. Take some beginner classes and travel around to other countries. One of the benefits of being in Europe is the cheap, easy access to other areas. Cop a lil dime piece Italian wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35948770) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 10:04 AM Author: House-broken transparent center Temporary or permanent move? Why won’t gf join? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35949176) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 10:06 AM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35949186) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 10:10 AM Author: costumed corner (Rick Jutting) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35949213) |
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Date: April 30th, 2018 10:22 AM Author: at-the-ready shrine Sounds like you have a shot to really enjoy yourself man - like someone said earlier in this thread you should swoop up a nice Italian wife and maybe learn the language a little bit. Or just chill out and sightsee and eat super well in your off time and enjoy dat chill foreign income tax exclusion. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35949277) |
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Date: May 5th, 2018 12:52 AM Author: Infuriating karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35985471) |
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Date: May 5th, 2018 4:00 PM Author: Buff gas station rigpig It's better this way, brother. Especially if you're not looking yo settle down soon. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3963752&forum_id=2#35988503) |