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Meeting a STEM PhD chick tomorrow night (CharlesXII)

The setback with quail family was unfortunate, but the only ...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/24/18
you got this.
Big Pervert Tank
  05/24/18
180 friend rate the level of RIGOR in her STEM field
Buff soul-stirring travel guidebook stead
  05/24/18
Non-bio hard science. Seems legit. Friend who works in milit...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/24/18
Send her some of your best work pieces
arousing infuriating garrison
  05/24/18
sounds promising, 180 man. one of the hardest parts of datin...
chocolate philosopher-king
  05/24/18
just don't think about what has a 99% chance of happening, j...
arousing infuriating garrison
  05/24/18
oh come on
chocolate philosopher-king
  05/24/18
come on what? are we supposed to throw reality out the fucki...
arousing infuriating garrison
  05/24/18
it's sad when some of the best aspects of life are tainted b...
Geriatric stage
  05/24/18
what the fuck are you rambling about? hatred of what?
arousing infuriating garrison
  05/24/18
180 OKC prospect?
Sick Point
  05/24/18
Coffee Meets Bagel. A Catholic friend got married through it...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/24/18
180, way to broaden your scope
Sick Point
  05/24/18
"On the advice of a guy whose mental illness and rage-f...
bright theater stage
  05/24/18
...
Marvelous alpha
  05/24/18
Well then you'd better give me my last warning before report...
bright theater stage
  05/24/18
lol
bespoke parlor people who are hurt
  05/25/18
...
overrated irate nibblets roast beef
  05/26/18
korean?
Transparent degenerate field
  05/24/18
...
talented coiffed karate scourge upon the earth
  05/24/18
White
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/24/18
what happened with quail family i can't keep up with this...
talented coiffed karate scourge upon the earth
  05/24/18
he ran into one of the other sisters at that dance thing, co...
Sick Point
  05/24/18
Yeah pretty much. Not giving up on them entirely (the first ...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/24/18
what is the age range for all of them? just go for the youn...
Sick Point
  05/24/18
17-29, I believe. Got dinged by the middle one. Also interes...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/24/18
gross, aren't you like 28? don't go older than you
Sick Point
  05/24/18
...
arousing infuriating garrison
  05/24/18
i went on a date with a 34 year old when i was 30. somehow i...
Cream haunted graveyard
  05/24/18
Generally a good rule but based on limited interaction I rea...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/24/18
180 moniker
Zombie-like Snowy Location
  05/24/18
...
Marvelous alpha
  05/24/18
ty, just made it in a flash of inspiration yesterday, first ...
Sick Point
  05/24/18
Charles thread in 2024: “Wife found out I asked out younge...
citrine galvanic ticket booth
  05/24/18
underrated
Kink-friendly irradiated bawdyhouse place of business
  05/25/18
nice. where are you meeting her?
Cream haunted graveyard
  05/24/18
DuPont Circle area.
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/24/18
starbucks or a bar? if starbucks, make sure you go to the...
Cream haunted graveyard
  05/24/18
she's a flake, it was nice of you to come out, chad would've...
chestnut university jew
  05/24/18
almost certainly true, and i've done similar "fuck it&q...
Cream haunted graveyard
  05/24/18
Fortunately, I picked a bar.
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/24/18
'atta guy. smart move.
Cream haunted graveyard
  05/24/18
coffee dates are for losers
Plum Dragon Internal Respiration
  05/26/18
Starbucks next to Metro in DuPont is gross, could have said ...
Hairraiser Outnumbered Senate Azn
  05/25/18
Is this a story from 1980?
Kink-friendly irradiated bawdyhouse place of business
  05/25/18
180, now we're talking
titillating dark trailer park love of her life
  05/24/18
180 I am for you brother This is my favorite series in mo...
Swashbuckling dingle berry quadroon
  05/24/18
...
citrine galvanic ticket booth
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...
Marvelous alpha
  05/24/18
lol how do you possibly have a reasonable sample size on thi...
wine frisky jap turdskin
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...
Marvelous alpha
  05/24/18
oh ok what is your theory why
wine frisky jap turdskin
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...
Marvelous alpha
  05/24/18
how does it manifest itself? they get divorced a ton for the...
wine frisky jap turdskin
  05/24/18
"To excel at STEM, you have to be at least somewhere on...
arousing infuriating garrison
  05/24/18
...
Marvelous alpha
  05/24/18
still false.
arousing infuriating garrison
  05/24/18
lol do you follow your horoscope too?
Geriatric stage
  05/24/18
...
Marvelous alpha
  05/24/18
(the xo story)
wine frisky jap turdskin
  05/24/18
...
Twinkling private investor famous landscape painting
  05/25/18
what the fuck
Mentally Impaired Demanding Prole Persian
  05/24/18
...
bat-shit-crazy orchestra pit nowag
  05/24/18
...
Marvelous alpha
  05/24/18
QUINTESSENTIAL tsinah post.
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  05/31/18
DESCRIBE your gameplan for the date
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  05/24/18
Don't really have one. She's leaving town for a substantial ...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/24/18
...
Marvelous alpha
  05/24/18
I know what it's for but trying to limit details here. Ha...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/25/18
...
Marvelous alpha
  05/25/18
STEM phd from a good university likes reading likes co...
chartreuse bonkers factory reset button library
  05/24/18
cr
Sick Point
  05/24/18
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Massive meetinghouse filthpig
  05/25/18
great thread without even a single pic
razzmatazz old irish cottage brethren
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Marvelous alpha
  05/25/18
(literal anti-free speech shitlib)
razzmatazz old irish cottage brethren
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...
Marvelous alpha
  05/25/18
POUND THAT PUSSY.
180 lavender house yarmulke
  05/25/18
If girls are still in their phd then you can punch way above...
bearded keepsake machete
  05/25/18
...
Marvelous alpha
  05/25/18
still the cr
Puce Gaming Laptop
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bisexual primrose menage associate
  05/25/18
Man, the universe is really fucking with me. Canceled tonigh...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/25/18
She wants to make a good impression.
Maroon mewling forum idiot
  05/25/18
Hopefully, friend.
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/25/18
...
blue really tough guy
  05/25/18
This is called online dating. You need to see this.
cracking scarlet potus tanning salon
  05/25/18
CR. A valuable lesson in modern dating that all men must exp...
Cream haunted graveyard
  05/25/18
"Modern dating" or not I can't help but feel this ...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/25/18
it's a double-edged sword. i think it's a valuable experienc...
Cream haunted graveyard
  05/25/18
I'm just not sure it's an "immunity" so much as it...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/25/18
I think the opposite is healthy. To assume each individual w...
bearded keepsake machete
  05/25/18
Online dating will disabuse one of this notion, right or wro...
chestnut university jew
  05/25/18
This is one reason I'd rather not date online for a long per...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/25/18
ljl you're fucked.
chestnut university jew
  05/25/18
Probably.
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/25/18
More is different: http://robotics.cs.tamu.edu/dshell/cs689/...
bearded keepsake machete
  05/25/18
at some point, all of us learn to stop believing in santa cl...
Cream haunted graveyard
  05/25/18
...
Massive meetinghouse filthpig
  05/25/18
You need to care less
stubborn chapel kitty
  05/25/18
That is already happening; but the constant hiccups remain r...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/25/18
this is why, when i was at the peak of my use of online dati...
Cream haunted graveyard
  05/25/18
"Sounds like you're on the 15 day DL. Haha."
Tantric crawly newt resort
  05/25/18
jfc
Cream haunted graveyard
  05/25/18
...
stubborn chapel kitty
  05/26/18
"hurt her ankle walking to work today" Lies.
cocky school trust fund
  05/25/18
...
bearded keepsake machete
  05/26/18
She kept chatting by phone today so I'm at least willing to ...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/26/18
always have (or try to have) multiple prospects so you're no...
Bearded casino
  05/26/18
jfc fuck this gay earth
house-broken federal telephone native
  05/26/18
This one is gone. You can't meet Tuesday and then she's gone...
domesticated jet-lagged dopamine nursing home
  05/26/18
Still on for tonight.
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/29/18
180000000 you got this bro we are FOR you!
Sick Point
  05/29/18
You can probably get 30 minutes out of this thing by asking ...
Tantric crawly newt resort
  05/29/18
Is she aware you are a racist?
stubborn chapel kitty
  05/29/18
Seems unlikely, as I'm not.
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/29/18
lets see how i compare: STEM PHD from highly prestigious ...
chartreuse bonkers factory reset button library
  05/29/18
Did you want to date CharlesXII?
stubborn chapel kitty
  05/29/18
no, my autism is strong today is all.
chartreuse bonkers factory reset button library
  05/29/18
libraries are your friend, bro reading good books is fun
Sick Point
  05/29/18
So the “volcel” thing was all just a fraud?
Mint Flatulent Whorehouse Athletic Conference
  05/29/18
No, he's not trying to get laid here. He's trying to find a...
Sick Point
  05/29/18
No, he isn’t. That’s his excuse for being incel.
Peach hall
  05/29/18
I believe him that he genuinely wants to get married, but he...
Sick Point
  05/29/18
Update?
Tantric crawly newt resort
  05/29/18
whittier tp said it was set for 930 EST, so it is happening ...
Sick Point
  05/29/18
9:30 on a school night?
Tantric crawly newt resort
  05/29/18
Thoughts and prayers.
blue really tough guy
  05/29/18
Why not EDT? That's very confusing.
mahogany shivering locale
  05/29/18
haven't heard from Charles since this date started
bisexual primrose menage associate
  05/29/18
that's a good thing!
Sick Point
  05/29/18
shit odds he's melting in a vat of science?
chocolate philosopher-king
  05/29/18
If he were still alive, he could update from the bathroom. ...
cocky school trust fund
  05/29/18
Just wrapped up. I kinda screwed up because the bar I pic...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/30/18
do NOT text her first
Sick Point
  05/30/18
DAT | HUG | CLOSE
Mentally Impaired Demanding Prole Persian
  05/30/18
...
Tantric crawly newt resort
  05/30/18
you're going to need some pretty sick text game to keep her ...
chocolate philosopher-king
  05/30/18
tcr is to autistically match the time she takes to respond b...
Sick Point
  05/30/18
Describe the nature of this "sick text game."
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/30/18
text infrequently and only on her initiative and with pacing...
chocolate philosopher-king
  05/30/18
see I think this is bullshit
house-broken federal telephone native
  05/30/18
obviously you shouldn't try to be someone you're not, but it...
chocolate philosopher-king
  05/30/18
This makes sense but if women are shy are you sure it's CR t...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/30/18
fair point, but don't text first too soon
chocolate philosopher-king
  05/30/18
Yeah I think a good excuse for texting soonish is my trip to...
exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat
  05/30/18
perfect
house-broken federal telephone native
  05/30/18
180! good opportunity. if she's receptive you can probably f...
chocolate philosopher-king
  05/30/18
make it into a very small version of the Charles trip report...
house-broken federal telephone native
  05/30/18
CR and this is why I do NOT recommend this "wait for he...
house-broken federal telephone native
  05/30/18
yeah that part I agree with, engage with her interests but ...
house-broken federal telephone native
  05/30/18
i agree you try for what seems natural for both of you, you ...
chocolate philosopher-king
  05/30/18
nah honestly if she has any kind of bullshit detector and is...
house-broken federal telephone native
  05/30/18
there's more of a balance here than i think you're accountin...
chocolate philosopher-king
  05/30/18
Honestly: be yourself, everything else is flame
house-broken federal telephone native
  05/30/18
Cr but be your BEST self in a manner customized to match her...
lime cowardly milk
  05/30/18
meh that can come off as insincere and sucky just be yourse...
house-broken federal telephone native
  05/30/18
You fucked up with the timing. I tried to warn you above. N...
domesticated jet-lagged dopamine nursing home
  05/30/18
(Expert in seducing women)
Sadistic regret crackhouse
  05/30/18
sounds like a Win to me. she didn't use the bad luck re: ...
Cream haunted graveyard
  05/30/18
why do you keep asking out girls who are about to leave the ...
sepia motley cuckoldry
  05/30/18
Have you ever dated in DC? This is standard here.
Obsidian Hell
  05/30/18


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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:40 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

The setback with quail family was unfortunate, but the only viable response to setbacks is to keep pushing forward.

Tomorrow's prospect just finished a STEM PhD at a highly prestigious university. She likes cooking and reading, watches little television, and was highly intrigued by my 100-book quest. She also is Catholic though to what level of intensity I cannot tell.

Hopefully this one doesn't savagely cancel on me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123123)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:41 PM
Author: Big Pervert Tank

you got this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123126)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:43 PM
Author: Buff soul-stirring travel guidebook stead

180 friend

rate the level of RIGOR in her STEM field

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123139)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Non-bio hard science. Seems legit. Friend who works in military research says her skillset would be useful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123173)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:43 PM
Author: arousing infuriating garrison

Send her some of your best work pieces

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123143)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:44 PM
Author: chocolate philosopher-king

sounds promising, 180 man. one of the hardest parts of dating is keeping positive, but don't think about the potential negatives like her cancelling on you. just think about how well y'all might hit it off, especially if she's already PIQUED by your intellectualism.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123149)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:45 PM
Author: arousing infuriating garrison

just don't think about what has a 99% chance of happening, just be completely blindsided by the inevitable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123155)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:47 PM
Author: chocolate philosopher-king

oh come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123164)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: arousing infuriating garrison

come on what? are we supposed to throw reality out the fucking window so we can all lick each other's balls here like we're some sort of a shrew support group?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123174)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:06 PM
Author: Geriatric stage

it's sad when some of the best aspects of life are tainted by your own hatred. sorry for you, man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123285)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: arousing infuriating garrison

what the fuck are you rambling about? hatred of what?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123327)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:44 PM
Author: Sick Point

180

OKC prospect?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123151)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:50 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Coffee Meets Bagel. A Catholic friend got married through it so I decided to give it a whirl. Unlike with OKC on CMB I wrote my profile without outside input and made myself seem a little more intense, per TSINAH's suggestion in another thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123183)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:51 PM
Author: Sick Point

180, way to broaden your scope

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123190)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: bright theater stage

"On the advice of a guy whose mental illness and rage-filled fuming faggotry stands out even on xo, I..."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123354)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: Marvelous alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123397)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:26 PM
Author: bright theater stage

Well then you'd better give me my last warning before reporting me to the bar and filing a police report

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123409)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:52 AM
Author: bespoke parlor people who are hurt

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125838)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:11 AM
Author: overrated irate nibblets roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130019)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:47 PM
Author: Transparent degenerate field

korean?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123163)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:50 PM
Author: talented coiffed karate scourge upon the earth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123181)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:52 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

White

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123200)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: talented coiffed karate scourge upon the earth

what happened with quail family

i can't keep up with this story

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123169)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:49 PM
Author: Sick Point

he ran into one of the other sisters at that dance thing, copped her number, then asked her out via text and she said she "wasn't in a position to date right now" or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123176)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:51 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Yeah pretty much. Not giving up on them entirely (the first sister I met had potential) but we're stalled out for now. If I ask out another one I'm doing it in person and that chance may not come for a few weeks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123194)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:53 PM
Author: Sick Point

what is the age range for all of them?

just go for the youngest lol (no DBG)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123202)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:58 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

17-29, I believe. Got dinged by the middle one. Also interested in the oldest, who has a tremendous amount of interest overlap.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123234)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:59 PM
Author: Sick Point

gross, aren't you like 28? don't go older than you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123248)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:01 PM
Author: arousing infuriating garrison



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123256)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:06 PM
Author: Cream haunted graveyard

i went on a date with a 34 year old when i was 30. somehow it came up when i was visiting my parents and my father mocked me and referred to her as "the old woman."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123280)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:14 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Generally a good rule but based on limited interaction I really like her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123338)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:18 PM
Author: Zombie-like Snowy Location

180 moniker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123369)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: Marvelous alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123374)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:45 PM
Author: Sick Point

ty, just made it in a flash of inspiration yesterday, first compliment I've gotten

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123504)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: citrine galvanic ticket booth

Charles thread in 2024:

“Wife found out I asked out younger sister once, divorcing me and taking kids, taking Qs”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123386)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:13 PM
Author: Kink-friendly irradiated bawdyhouse place of business

underrated

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125987)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: Cream haunted graveyard

nice. where are you meeting her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123175)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:52 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

DuPont Circle area.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123198)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:01 PM
Author: Cream haunted graveyard

starbucks or a bar?

if starbucks, make sure you go to the right one.

not long after i moved to dc, i set up an online date with a chick who suggested starbucks in dupont circle. (as i've told you, i hate coffee dates and eventually wrote them off completely.)

anyway, it just so happened that we scheduled the date for sunday at 11 am, but it was the first day of "fall back" (going back to regular time from DST).

well, i get a text from her that morning saying she is there. the text is an hour early. i ask her if she forgot to set her clocks back. she replies, "oh no, i completely forgot about the overnight time change!" anyway, i tell her i'll metro over as soon as i can. she says she'll wait.

well, i was unfamiliar with dupont circle at that point, but i get off at the dupont station and head to the nearby starbucks. no sign of her. i walk around a couple of times. nothing. i text her, and it turns out there's another starbucks a few blocks in the other direction. i walk to that starbucks, but no sign of her there, either. i text her and she never responds, and i never hear from her again. i guess she got tired of waiting considering she got there an hour early based on her own mistake and couldn't tolerate my mistake re: which of two starbucks within several blocks that she was at.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123258)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:07 PM
Author: chestnut university jew

she's a flake, it was nice of you to come out, chad would've just said "fuck it next time" and she'd be intrigued

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123286)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: Cream haunted graveyard

almost certainly true, and i've done similar "fuck it" things plenty of times.

but in this instance, it was just a stupid coffee date (which i hate) with someone who i didn't have much hopes for, and something to do on a sunday morning while i was brand new in dc and didn't know anyone. not a chad situation. i found the whole thing amusing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123356)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Fortunately, I picked a bar.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123345)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:18 PM
Author: Cream haunted graveyard

'atta guy. smart move.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123367)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:18 AM
Author: Plum Dragon Internal Respiration

coffee dates are for losers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130033)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Hairraiser Outnumbered Senate Azn

Starbucks next to Metro in DuPont is gross, could have said Kramer which has a bar but I think coffee too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123723)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:14 PM
Author: Kink-friendly irradiated bawdyhouse place of business

Is this a story from 1980?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125996)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 10:50 PM
Author: titillating dark trailer park love of her life

180, now we're talking

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123184)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:03 PM
Author: Swashbuckling dingle berry quadroon

180 I am for you brother

This is my favorite series in months, at least.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123263)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:26 PM
Author: citrine galvanic ticket booth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123410)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:03 PM
Author: Marvelous alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123264)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:07 PM
Author: wine frisky jap turdskin

lol how do you possibly have a reasonable sample size on this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123287)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: Marvelous alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123298)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: wine frisky jap turdskin

oh ok what is your theory why

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123328)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: Marvelous alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123372)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: wine frisky jap turdskin

how does it manifest itself? they get divorced a ton for their income and education level?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123379)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:21 PM
Author: arousing infuriating garrison

"To excel at STEM, you have to be at least somewhere on the spectrum.

False.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123381)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: Marvelous alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123391)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: arousing infuriating garrison

still false.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123414)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: Geriatric stage

lol do you follow your horoscope too?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123305)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:11 PM
Author: Marvelous alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123318)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: wine frisky jap turdskin

(the xo story)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123341)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 1:19 AM
Author: Twinkling private investor famous landscape painting



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123984)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:25 PM
Author: Mentally Impaired Demanding Prole Persian

what the fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123406)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:39 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy orchestra pit nowag



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123475)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:48 PM
Author: Marvelous alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123521)



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Date: May 31st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: sable glittery mexican

QUINTESSENTIAL tsinah post.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36156768)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: bisexual primrose menage associate

DESCRIBE your gameplan for the date

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123301)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Don't really have one. She's leaving town for a substantial period (about a month) right after, so I'm not sure what the CR goals are. Unlike with first date I'm genuinely interested going in.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123412)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: Marvelous alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123527)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:27 AM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

I know what it's for but trying to limit details here.

Haven't discussed kids or any deep values stuff. We just seem to have similar interests and got along well in chat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123708)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Marvelous alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123748)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:29 PM
Author: chartreuse bonkers factory reset button library

STEM phd from a good university

likes reading

likes cooking

doesnt watch tv

and is catholic

and white...

omg, you need to lock that shit down.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123425)



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Date: May 24th, 2018 11:49 PM
Author: Sick Point

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123524)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:16 PM
Author: Massive meetinghouse filthpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126017)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: razzmatazz old irish cottage brethren

great thread without even a single pic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123650)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:21 AM
Author: Marvelous alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123685)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:22 AM
Author: razzmatazz old irish cottage brethren

(literal anti-free speech shitlib)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123688)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Marvelous alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123728)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: 180 lavender house yarmulke

POUND THAT PUSSY.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123697)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:26 AM
Author: bearded keepsake machete

If girls are still in their phd then you can punch way above your weight with them. Really lonely, depressed, desperate to interact with ppl who aren't in their lab or whatever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123703)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:42 AM
Author: Marvelous alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36123783)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:55 AM
Author: Puce Gaming Laptop

still the cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125865)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 7:39 AM
Author: bisexual primrose menage associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36124482)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 10:00 AM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Man, the universe is really fucking with me. Canceled tonight because she says she hurt her ankle walking to work today. Rescheduled to Tuesday, but if that doesn't work out we won't be able to meet for a month.

Sheesh.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125080)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 10:02 AM
Author: Maroon mewling forum idiot

She wants to make a good impression.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125097)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:26 AM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Hopefully, friend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125614)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 1:14 PM
Author: blue really tough guy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126404)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:28 AM
Author: cracking scarlet potus tanning salon

This is called online dating. You need to see this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125628)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:55 AM
Author: Cream haunted graveyard

CR. A valuable lesson in modern dating that all men must experience.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125860)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:03 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

"Modern dating" or not I can't help but feel this is very very unhealthy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125920)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:06 PM
Author: Cream haunted graveyard

it's a double-edged sword. i think it's a valuable experience, to understand the world as it is today & to help build up an immunity.

but psychologically it is exhausting and certainly can lead to increased levels of cynicism and bitterness, of which the observant XO type already has bushels.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125943)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:11 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

I'm just not sure it's an "immunity" so much as it's training oneself to be cynical, callous, etc. The process of caring less basically involves learning to like women less and viewing them as disposable. That's not an awesome place to be, if XO is any indication.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125972)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:14 PM
Author: bearded keepsake machete

I think the opposite is healthy. To assume each individual who comes into your life is somehow charmed, as if you aren't just two probabilities rubbing in an absolute void

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125998)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:15 PM
Author: chestnut university jew

Online dating will disabuse one of this notion, right or wrong. Online dating is about the pure disposability of other people. Yes, it will make charlesXII more cynical, because he went around thinking he was a good guy, good character, he works hard, he exercises, he's witty, he reads a lot of books and knows a lot about the world, then BOOM ding'd by stinky 250 pound high school dropouts with boob cheese like HE is the turd.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126010)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

This is one reason I'd rather not date online for a long period. 2+ years of this and I'll be a much worse person, I think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126025)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:18 PM
Author: chestnut university jew

ljl you're fucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126029)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:19 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Probably.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126040)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:20 PM
Author: bearded keepsake machete

More is different: http://robotics.cs.tamu.edu/dshell/cs689/papers/anderson72more_is_different.pdf

Online dating is a population-level phenomenon. Things like individual sentimentality, attachment etc break down because you are in a big sorting mechanism. If you can float on top of this without losing yourself then you'll be like the guy in that kipling poem.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126046)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: Cream haunted graveyard

at some point, all of us learn to stop believing in santa claus, sad as that epiphany is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126027)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:17 PM
Author: Massive meetinghouse filthpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36126022)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:30 AM
Author: stubborn chapel kitty

You need to care less

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125643)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 11:50 AM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

That is already happening; but the constant hiccups remain rather irritating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125824)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:02 PM
Author: Cream haunted graveyard

this is why, when i was at the peak of my use of online dating, i would have ebbs and flows of energy. it is exhausting. i would have 5 dates in a week, most would be disappointing, i'd get sick of it, then in a couple weeks do the same thing again. rinse & repeat. occasionally i'd get a short term g/f out of it and date her for a few weeks or a couple months, then lose interest & get tired of the constant demands for my time from shrews who are full of their careers and liberal politics.

hopefully, you can find that rare devoted, maternalistic (not materialistic), religious girl you are seeking & get out of the depressing world of modern dating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125912)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:09 PM
Author: Tantric crawly newt resort

"Sounds like you're on the 15 day DL. Haha."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125957)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 12:10 PM
Author: Cream haunted graveyard

jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36125967)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:19 AM
Author: stubborn chapel kitty



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130034)



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Date: May 25th, 2018 10:18 PM
Author: cocky school trust fund

"hurt her ankle walking to work today"

Lies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36129525)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:01 AM
Author: bearded keepsake machete



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36129984)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

She kept chatting by phone today so I'm at least willing to give her the benefit of the doubt. If she cancels again on Tuesday I'll let it go.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130016)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 1:09 AM
Author: Bearded casino

always have (or try to have) multiple prospects so you're not hung up on one girl. it's usually not productive sinking a ton of time/effort into texting, chatting, etc. lots of girls will spend a surprising amount of time responding and conversing because they're trained to be agreeable even if they're not interested so you need to be efficient in weeding them out by meeting in person.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130121)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 1:15 AM
Author: house-broken federal telephone native

jfc fuck this gay earth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130134)



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Date: May 26th, 2018 1:17 AM
Author: domesticated jet-lagged dopamine nursing home

This one is gone. You can't meet Tuesday and then she's gone for a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36130137)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:09 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Still on for tonight.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146810)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:09 PM
Author: Sick Point

180000000 you got this bro

we are FOR you!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146812)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Tantric crawly newt resort

You can probably get 30 minutes out of this thing by asking about her work. She's spent 5-6 years giving public talks to informed but non-expert audiences.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146907)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: stubborn chapel kitty

Is she aware you are a racist?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146816)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Seems unlikely, as I'm not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146823)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:14 PM
Author: chartreuse bonkers factory reset button library

lets see how i compare:

STEM PHD from highly prestigious uni vs. barely passed CALC 2 for econ and business students

can cook vs. cant cook

reads books. vs havent read a single book in years

barely watches television vs. i have no TV

catholic vs. atheist

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146834)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: stubborn chapel kitty

Did you want to date CharlesXII?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146841)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:16 PM
Author: chartreuse bonkers factory reset button library

no, my autism is strong today is all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146843)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: Sick Point

libraries are your friend, bro

reading good books is fun

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146867)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Mint Flatulent Whorehouse Athletic Conference

So the “volcel” thing was all just a fraud?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146917)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:39 PM
Author: Sick Point

No, he's not trying to get laid here. He's trying to find a wife.

He's committed to no sex before marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36146959)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:50 PM
Author: Peach hall

No, he isn’t. That’s his excuse for being incel.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36147004)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 5:56 PM
Author: Sick Point

I believe him that he genuinely wants to get married, but he has incredibly high standards.

it's not his fault that trad catholic non-whores are in such short supply in 2018

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36147031)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:19 PM
Author: Tantric crawly newt resort

Update?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36148912)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:20 PM
Author: Sick Point

whittier tp said it was set for 930 EST, so it is happening as we speak

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36148925)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:26 PM
Author: Tantric crawly newt resort

9:30 on a school night?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36148999)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:28 PM
Author: blue really tough guy

Thoughts and prayers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149018)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:36 PM
Author: mahogany shivering locale

Why not EDT? That's very confusing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149092)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:31 PM
Author: bisexual primrose menage associate

haven't heard from Charles since this date started

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149054)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 10:46 PM
Author: Sick Point

that's a good thing!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149187)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 11:08 PM
Author: chocolate philosopher-king

shit

odds he's melting in a vat of science?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149295)



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Date: May 29th, 2018 11:42 PM
Author: cocky school trust fund

If he were still alive, he could update from the bathroom.

RIP Charles XII.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149564)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Just wrapped up.

I kinda screwed up because the bar I picked turned out to have busted AC, and then the next one I picked had just shit down its kitchen (we wanted food), so we ended up just going to the DuPont Shake Shack. Talked for about two hours. I had a good time and I think she did as well, but we only closed with a hug. Still, I'd be happy to see her again if she's interested. Sadly she is promptly leaving for a month, so this is sort of on pause for now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149690)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:11 AM
Author: Sick Point

do NOT text her first

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149699)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Mentally Impaired Demanding Prole Persian

DAT | HUG | CLOSE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149705)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:48 AM
Author: Tantric crawly newt resort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150536)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:31 AM
Author: chocolate philosopher-king

you're going to need some pretty sick text game to keep her interested, if you're enthused for when she's back

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149809)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Sick Point

tcr is to autistically match the time she takes to respond between texts. If she waits a day, you wait a day. If she responds right away, then you can too. etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149832)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:36 AM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Describe the nature of this "sick text game."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149848)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:41 AM
Author: chocolate philosopher-king

text infrequently and only on her initiative and with pacing (as guy above says), be sure to work in things you know about her that might get her to reveal more about herself, but not so obviously that it's pandering. sort of a tightrope walk, in a few different ways

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149859)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:42 AM
Author: house-broken federal telephone native

see I think this is bullshit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149863)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:44 AM
Author: chocolate philosopher-king

obviously you shouldn't try to be someone you're not, but it's easy to get overwhelmed by too much or too little communication, and more women than men are shy and want to be courted in the sense of have their interests sought. if you let it become an interview, you've gone too far, but if you pick things to say that you know they can run with, it'll be a better conversation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149876)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:48 AM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

This makes sense but if women are shy are you sure it's CR to wait on her to text?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149886)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: chocolate philosopher-king

fair point, but don't text first too soon

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149892)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: exhilarant costumed locus toilet seat

Yeah I think a good excuse for texting soonish is my trip to New Orleans. She suggested getting beignets at the Cafe du Monde so I can probably send a pic when I actually do that, and progress from there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149903)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:52 AM
Author: house-broken federal telephone native

perfect

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149907)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:54 AM
Author: chocolate philosopher-king

180! good opportunity. if she's receptive you can probably find a few other things in the french district that she'd be interested in.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149911)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:55 AM
Author: house-broken federal telephone native

make it into a very small version of the Charles trip reports: a pic and a comment a day, or whatever pace works for you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149917)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: house-broken federal telephone native

CR and this is why I do NOT recommend this "wait for her" approach

women ARE shy and need some encouragement sometimes

see my post below too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149896)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: house-broken federal telephone native

yeah that part I agree with, engage with her interests

but the "infrequent communications" part is wrong, just at engage with her at a pace that seems comfortable for both of you, do NOT do the deliberately "playing it cool" that is dumb millennial faggotry -- easist way for her to forget him and (if she likes him) to assume that he doesn't like her back -- women are mentally ill and paranoid and will easily come to mentally ill conclusions

just be yourself, play it at the pace that seems natural and comes naturally to both of you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149890)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: chocolate philosopher-king

i agree you try for what seems natural for both of you, you shouldn't have aspie objective metrics like if you text more than once an hour you're a cuck. BUT you should not just be yourself and not take her personality into account, hard as that might be at first when you don't know her well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149901)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:54 AM
Author: house-broken federal telephone native

nah honestly if she has any kind of bullshit detector and is a reasonably sincere person herself this is overcomplicating things and setting himself up to get dinged for being insincere

I don't mean "let me just take a shit while we talk on the phone" sincere, but still be sincere, just be yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149913)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 1:08 AM
Author: chocolate philosopher-king

there's more of a balance here than i think you're accounting for. you can look insecure by being too sincere, and you can look insecure by being too manufactured.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149951)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:41 AM
Author: house-broken federal telephone native

Honestly: be yourself, everything else is flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149861)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:49 AM
Author: lime cowardly milk

Cr but be your BEST self in a manner customized to match her interests and expectations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149895)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 12:50 AM
Author: house-broken federal telephone native

meh that can come off as insincere and sucky

just be yourself, your good self, but yourself, do not try to adjust to her too much

everything else is flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36149897)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 5:15 AM
Author: domesticated jet-lagged dopamine nursing home

You fucked up with the timing. I tried to warn you above.

No way to keep her interested during this intermission.

Might as well chalk it off but use the opportunity to practice your text game

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150239)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:08 AM
Author: Sadistic regret crackhouse

(Expert in seducing women)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150425)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:02 AM
Author: Cream haunted graveyard

sounds like a Win to me.

she didn't use the bad luck re: the bars as an excuse, so she seems like both she had some interest in you and is a decent person. especially considering the date ended up lasting about 2 hours.

if you had a bad personality and/or she had zero attraction, it wouldn't have lasted that long, believe me.

should be a nice confidence boost. keep honing your dating game while she's gone; don't wait for her to come back or have any expectations that after a month away she will retain interest. time tends to dissipate that. but, whatever you did to target/find this chick, keep working that angle, IMHO.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150415)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:37 AM
Author: sepia motley cuckoldry

why do you keep asking out girls who are about to leave the country

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150500)



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Date: May 30th, 2018 8:49 AM
Author: Obsidian Hell

Have you ever dated in DC? This is standard here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3985993&forum_id=2#36150540)