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how to survive biglaw with avoidant tendencies?

seems like this boart is full of avoidants. anyone successf...
wonderful out-of-control field
  07/13/18
borts original avoidantmo here taking qs
Dark theatre really tough guy
  07/17/18
Pg. 222: "The therapeutic prognosis for the avoidant pe...
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  07/17/18
Do you mean avoidant personality disorder? Or just having a...
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  07/17/18
Ty
wonderful out-of-control field
  07/17/18
alcohol
Abusive Bronze Juggernaut
  07/17/18
adderall
Dark theatre really tough guy
  07/17/18
I take too much and isolate myself. Become even more avoida...
wonderful out-of-control field
  07/17/18
Makes me kinda social
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  07/17/18
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sickened stead
  07/17/18
Not allowed.
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  07/17/18


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Date: July 13th, 2018 4:34 PM
Author: wonderful out-of-control field

seems like this boart is full of avoidants. anyone successfully managed (or at least improved on) this tendency while working at a biglaw firm? thx

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4025197&forum_id=2#36421008)



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Date: July 17th, 2018 7:58 PM
Author: Dark theatre really tough guy

borts original avoidantmo here taking qs

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Date: July 17th, 2018 2:50 PM
Author: diverse cobalt filthpig water buffalo

Pg. 222: "The therapeutic prognosis for the avoidant personality is remarkably poor. The most

basic characteristics of the avoidant run counter to the basic requirements of psychotherapy."

http://www.turkpsikiyatri.org/arsiv/personality.disorders.millon.pdf#388

Sorry, you are stuck with this. Maybe if you hadn't been such a humiliation that your parents actually liked being around you growing up, things would be different, but this is where we are.



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Date: July 17th, 2018 2:54 PM
Author: slimy swashbuckling tanning salon yarmulke

Do you mean avoidant personality disorder?

Or just having an anvoidant personality?

Either way, it's not a single thing and is not distinguishable from being low in trait extroversion and high in trait negative emotion while being too high in trait agreeableness to counteract it.

You need to focus on ways to get better with extroversion, and negative emotion and learn to not be so agreeable. There are lots of CBT and other therapeutic techniques that have been developed for these three. However, if you're all the way on the "personality disorder" part of the spectrum, the prognosis of you being helped significantly are low.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4025197&forum_id=2#36445571)



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Date: July 17th, 2018 7:07 PM
Author: wonderful out-of-control field

Ty

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Date: July 17th, 2018 2:56 PM
Author: Abusive Bronze Juggernaut

alcohol

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Date: July 17th, 2018 7:58 PM
Author: Dark theatre really tough guy

adderall

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Date: July 17th, 2018 8:32 PM
Author: wonderful out-of-control field

I take too much and isolate myself. Become even more avoidant.

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Date: July 17th, 2018 8:33 PM
Author: Concupiscible casino famous landscape painting

Makes me kinda social

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Date: July 17th, 2018 11:42 PM
Author: sickened stead



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Date: July 17th, 2018 11:59 PM
Author: diverse cobalt filthpig water buffalo

Not allowed.

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