How is it possible for 30s men/women to date when getting fat/going bald? (DTP)
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Date: July 15th, 2018 2:17 PM Author: Mauve rehab regret
i mean this as a general phenomenon.
you know that both parties are declining at a rapid clip, such that they look almost nothing like they used to look a mere 3-5 years ago. you know that their value is in constant flux and more precisely, in exponential decline.
and yet, if we hear accounts of these relationships from either party, the content of what they report is the usual stuff that could be said about ANY relationship, almost like it were between two carefree teenagers, without a word said about the elephants in the room: his norwood #, her BMI index, etc.
when i see such displays of obliviousness i'm astounded that such naive creatures can exist and carry on in the world in a state of blissful ignorance, without breaking down and weeping at all the decay and ugliness around them as i constantly do.
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Date: July 15th, 2018 2:20 PM Author: rusted insane garrison private investor
BMI index, ATM machine, HIV virus
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Date: July 15th, 2018 3:23 PM Author: Mauve rehab regret
i disagree. i have an orientation towards life. someone's peak attractiveness is them at their PEAK LIFE. afterwards, and this begins relatively young, at like 20 or so, they are just marching towards death. skin sagging, muscles decaying, fat drooping. it is this march towards deaeth that horrifies me, because i want to CLING onto life. others seem perfectly fine with marching towards death. i, on the other hand, don't want things to change, and can't stop looking back towards life.
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Date: July 15th, 2018 3:31 PM Author: ivory school old irish cottage
You're ignoring the wabi-sabi-ness of existence. You spend the majority of your life in a state of becoming, not fully mature, and as soon as you reach the apogee of your physical, your mental form, in that instant you decline and degrade. But in the journey towards your "peak" you make friends, you gain knowledge, you love, and that happens afterwards as well, you take care of those coming after you, you mentor other people, you are the strong one there when hardship comes...you are not at your peak openness to life and experience when you are at your physical peak, that is when you are much younger, you are not strong and like a rock to your family and friends at your peak that comes when you are older, life isn't this simple progression from acorn to sapling to a tall tree that soon dies, it is you as a new and changing person every day, and I am a different man than I was when I was 12, and I'll be a different man at 38, but I loved my grandfather when he was old and frail, and I love my younger relatives though they are young and dumb, but there is constantly a becoming at whatever part of life you are at, the young are alive like the old are alive like those in their prime are alive, you don't lose your humanity ever for a second for how saggy or how bent or how fat you are. There is no looking back towards life. There is life now in every second and ahead until the end.
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Date: July 15th, 2018 3:47 PM Author: Mauve rehab regret
i already agree with you that there's more to life than youth and attractiveness, and there is more to a partner than their looks.
however, it's untrue that looks don't matter to any significant degree, or that people "don't lose their humanity" as romantic partners as they get older or whatever other euphemisms you said.
now, if people simply said "i'm old, i acknowledge that my looks and my partner's looks are in no way comparable to someone who is younger, and i choose to value other things instead," then i would say fine. that's their choice, and it's rational.
instead, what i'm confused by is people who seemingly ARE still enamored by looks and attractiveness, but simply slide the scale of attractiveness along the age range, adapting for any conceivable standard of aging/obesity, and seem happy as a clam about the looks of their heavily balding / heavily obese partners, pretty much evincing the same qualitative joyfulness ABOUT looks that much younger people do. that's the bizarre aspect that confuses and confounds me.
most people do NOT go through some intense process of introspection and maturation and discard the importance of looks. they simply shoehorn america's 75% obesity rate into what it MEANs to "look good." that's what i don't get.
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Date: July 15th, 2018 4:00 PM Author: Mauve rehab regret
nah, that's where i disagree.
you basically assume that they've changed inside and live by the philosophy that looks don't matter.
i see some of the most IMMATURE specimens who are MOST prone to letting their standards slip. with these people (and they probably form the majority) i get the sense that if america becomes 100% morbidly obese, they would find some way to adapt their vision of what is "beautiful" and "good looking" to fit precisely with their new reality. and that is what is shocking to me: this unlimited adaptability and insensitivity.
you provide a good rationale for why looks shouldn't matter in an ideal world, perhaps a worldview that is lived by a small minority of zen masters. what unsettles me is everyone else, who are still creatures of a preening vain immaturity (cosmetic expenses go UP lol), who still prize beauty but find ways to rationalize the obscenely ugly as beautiful.
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Date: July 15th, 2018 3:01 PM Author: Mauve rehab regret
can you explain this to me?
is it because i can appreciate that an overweight, blown out, aged woman is vastly inferior to a young petite girl, instead of happily sticking my dick in everything and finding maximal joy in every single vagina i'm able to fuck?
is that what counts as low-t to you? a discontentment with fucking the fatties and degenerates typically on offer around me?
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Date: July 15th, 2018 3:05 PM Author: Cowardly fighting center codepig
I doubt if you had a "young petite girl," whatever kind of creepy semi-pedophilic shit that means, naked and ready to go in front of you that you could even get it up and perform.
your hormones and mental chemistry are so clearly out of the norm for a male your age you are probably beyond hope.
that's why I choose to believe you're schtick run by donny, because that makes the whole thing top 3 schticks on xo.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4026577&forum_id=2#36431248)
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Date: July 15th, 2018 3:11 PM Author: Mauve rehab regret
yeah that's true, i have mild ED and depression, and i did get my T-levels checked: they're on the lower side of normal, but nothing extraordinary.
i literally have normal-range T-levels and yet this poster and several others continually insinuate that i have the t-levels of an octagenerian or something, simply because i balk at the idea of fucking fatties.
what is it with US men and fucking fatties like it gives them a stamp of masculinity or something? so bizarre.
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Date: July 15th, 2018 3:15 PM Author: Cowardly fighting center codepig
you find almost every woman who isn't BMI underweight disgusting and fat and can't understand why men would want to fuck them.
want to know why that is? because you're actually gay. you've even fucked men before and ostensibly kept it up/nutted in the process.
gays think women are repulsive. you just need to give up and find the training twink of your dreams.
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Date: July 15th, 2018 3:17 PM Author: Mauve rehab regret
your theory doesn't hold any weight.
the entire continent of asia thinks about women's attractiveness in pretty much the same way as i do.
you do realize that right?
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Date: July 15th, 2018 3:10 PM Author: demanding comical step-uncle's house pervert
“i’m really fucking crazy and utterly confused about my sexuality. i’m still right and you’re wrong about random heterosexual dating norms.”
all of your posts make the above point much less efficiently. God bless you.
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Date: July 15th, 2018 3:12 PM Author: Seedy Anal Abode Fat Ankles
"you know that their value is in constant flux and more precisely, in exponential decline"
i dont understand why people think you are a good writer. you are a hack writer.
to be fair, that is probably one of your worst sentences, and your most pathetic attempt at sounding grand. but its a symptom of the larger disease. your mental illness likely causes you to construct such laughably idiotic sentences. you can probably feel they are stupid but you cant help yourself. you keep trying to make your writing colorful, forceful, and grand, but at its core its quite frankly, mentally ill and deranged and juvenile.
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