In love with online girl I haven't met yet
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:48 PM Author: Arousing Lay
it sounds like it's too late to change course
you've put in the hours, so finding out what could become of it is worthwhile
your brain has committed to a type of person who may or may not show up - try to remember that, but I doubt it's very helpful
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783453)
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:53 PM Author: Arousing Lay
no
and frankly, if you're a good person IRL I hope it turns out for you
for so many people it just doesn't
have you talked on the phone? have you video chatted?
it's a red flag that she's been chatting with you while on vacation - smells like boredom/passing the time
actually the religious/dorky thing is a red flag, too - depending on how she uses the religiousness/dorkiness in your conversation
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783491) |
Date: September 10th, 2018 7:05 PM Author: Mauve Round Eye
Damn, I'm in a similar situation. I've talked to a shitload of chicks online over the past 7 years, but a couple of weeks ago started talking to someone who stands out way above everyone else. Sure there were a few I really, really liked and it was fun to think about the possibilities, but this is the first time that I've been filled with an ominous sense of anxiety like "this definitely, definitely seems like the girl for me, what if I fuck it up?"
From having done so much online dating, I'm generally pretty objective and desensitized about it. Chicks are much more random and capricious than dudes, so there could be any number of silly reasons they ultimately like or don't like someone they meet. I've noticed that there isn't much correlation at all between whether someone likes me and whether we're well-suited to being together. Because of that, I've learned to largely be indifferent about the whole thing. Obviously I know I shouldn't be thinking about this chick the way that I am, and that it's counterproductive for a number of reasons, but in this one instance I can't help it.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783553) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:46 PM Author: Mauve Round Eye
I have a feeling that this is going to bring about some type of major change in my life, one way or the other. For the 7yrs after my divorce, I've had a very definite idea of what the chick I was going to marry would be like. Out of many, I met a few who matched up with that really well but I didn't have my shit together and got shot down. Had a couple of failed relationships with chicks who were somewhat what I wanted, but with some type of issue that was too severe to make it work in the end. Now, due to age and geography, it's much, much harder to meet the " A, B, C, . . . X, Y, Z" girl. This one seems far superior to what I had projected as my reasonable best-case outcome (everything I want + quirks I like but wouldn't actively seek out because of the statistical futility of it). I'm either going to end up with this chick or it's likely going to make me give up looking for a highly specific type of person.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783728) |
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Date: September 24th, 2018 4:23 AM Author: Mauve Round Eye
We squeezed in a second date last week before I left town. Had some nachos at a bar and talked then grabbed some milkshakes after they closed. We were just talking across a table and ended up being out for 6+ hours. She stayed out with me late enough on a weeknight to get home after 3am even though she had to be up early for work. We made out by her car at the end and will see each other again in a few weeks. I told her I had pretty much lost interest in everyone else and stopped talking to them and she said the same. Have still been texting every day since.
I think there is definitely over a 50% chance that I'm having "firsts" with my future wife right now. Just on an objective level, she's the best-suited for me of anyone I've met and I subjectively like her the most too. I just have to keep my head straight and let it progress naturally. I wrote a nice email to myself about her that I'll give her at some significant point in the future so that she'll know what I was feeling right from the very start.
I guess maybe that ominous feeling had something to it. It was always like "hmmmm, if I were texting with my future wife, this is exactly how I'd want her to talk to me." I'm happy as fuck but also incredibly anxious because I've never been this close to having something this nice, at least not as an adult.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36875668) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:32 PM Author: Arousing Lay
let's say you meet up and she's 180
are you the type to overthink it and find flaws and implode
or would you just decide you were in love with her and forge ahead
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783659) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:53 PM Author: Arousing Lay
"I feel a sense of loneliness when I date completely normal people"
what an incredible thing to actually know about yourself
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783773)
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Date: September 10th, 2018 10:52 PM Author: Hyperventilating shaky national headpube
Dude... read some Corey Wayne before you shoot yourself in the foot.
She already knows she has you where she wants you.
You're 100% going to blow this.
I can sense your desperation... no doubt she can too. Desperation is the biggest turn off to women, FYI.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36784882) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 10:55 PM Author: aqua curious hospital
Bro I watched copious Corey Wayne like 6 months ago on your suggestion
I'm not desperate. She initiates communication as much as I do and asks as many questions about me as i do her.
I'm alpha btw
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36784900) |
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