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In love with online girl I haven't met yet
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:42 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn Been talking 3 weeks she won't be home from vacation for another 2. deeply religious and geeky so i don't even care if she's with chad i love her i will marry her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783410) |
Date: September 10th, 2018 6:42 PM Author: Electric Tanning Salon Fanboi PATHETIC (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783411) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:43 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn How did u meet ur wife? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783413) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:45 PM Author: Electric Tanning Salon Fanboi Big State fraternity mixer- we reconnected when I was a 3L and knew I would be working in NYC. Rest is history (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783431) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:46 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn So there there were 3 or more years where u were apart and you're chastising our 5 weeks? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783438) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:51 PM Author: Electric Tanning Salon Fanboi RECONNECTED- we fooled around in UG for a bit- then reconnected 3 years later (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783476) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:52 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn Right so 4 years of her taking strange (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783482) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:03 PM Author: trip bronze plaza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783543) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:07 PM Author: fragrant fortuitous meteor "Mrs. ;::;:;;'';:::'.,:...:::; knew he was the one for her from the moment she laid eyes on him, she just needed a few years apart getting railed by strange dick to 'find herself' so that she could truly commit to lifetime together with no doubt or regret" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783566) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 8:48 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn Hey can't even get his own fantasy right (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36784064) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 8:36 PM Author: Opaque wonderful brethren (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36784015) |
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Date: September 11th, 2018 8:24 PM Author: maize location fat ankles devastating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36790419) |
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Date: September 24th, 2018 4:55 AM Author: Garnet aromatic library (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36875687) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:43 PM Author: razzmatazz codepig institution (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783417) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:45 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn How's ur gf bro u getting married soon? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783432) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:46 PM Author: razzmatazz codepig institution I'm proposing soon. Ring shopping absolutely sucks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783442) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:49 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn how did u meet (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783467) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:58 PM Author: motley orchid headpube im actually scared for your fiance (if she exists) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783794) |
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Date: September 16th, 2018 9:57 AM Author: Galvanic filthy azn lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36818064) |
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Date: September 24th, 2018 5:17 AM Author: razzmatazz codepig institution no matter how much money you accumulate, you will never not be asian and will ALWAYS have to live with <><><>NOWAG<><><> (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36875696) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 10:53 PM Author: anal sandwich internal respiration Agreed, but then again I cruise APP sluts, so how different really? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36784887) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:45 PM Author: Marvelous theatre building a lot up online can make the in person part a real heartbreak (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783435) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:46 PM Author: disrespectful national cr it is almost always a bad idea (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783437) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:46 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn What do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783441) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:47 PM Author: razzmatazz codepig institution Meet her ASAP. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783445) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:47 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn Did u fail to read op? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783447) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:48 PM Author: razzmatazz codepig institution yes. you're being a pussy by not insisting on meeting right away.
either meet her or move on |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:48 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn She's on vacation for 2 more weeks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783454) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:48 PM Author: Marvelous theatre it sounds like it's too late to change course
you've put in the hours, so finding out what could become of it is worthwhile
your brain has committed to a type of person who may or may not show up - try to remember that, but I doubt it's very helpful
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:48 PM Author: razzmatazz codepig institution (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783456) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:49 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn Im not sure I get it. Aren't we all more ourselves online so that I know her better than otherwise? Are you suggesting mostly her appearance might differ from my expectation? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783464) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:52 PM Author: disrespectful national irl chemistry is intangible and almost impossible to determine from online-only communication (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783488) |
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Date: September 12th, 2018 9:56 AM Author: floppy field Cr, some combo of IRL looks being different, voice, mannerisms, the way pple carry themselves, etc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36793295) |
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Date: September 12th, 2018 9:58 AM Author: Galvanic filthy azn just found video of her she is extremely awkward, shy and sad looking
perfecto |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:53 PM Author: Marvelous theatre no
and frankly, if you're a good person IRL I hope it turns out for you
for so many people it just doesn't
have you talked on the phone? have you video chatted?
it's a red flag that she's been chatting with you while on vacation - smells like boredom/passing the time
actually the religious/dorky thing is a red flag, too - depending on how she uses the religiousness/dorkiness in your conversation |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:54 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn What do u mean uses (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783498) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:58 PM Author: Marvelous theatre religiousness online can translate to this erotic innocence that is likely to embroil the male psyche
dorkiness is less "usable" -- are you two into the same dorky things, for example? |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:24 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn Im not so embroiled. Don't really care about erotic innocence
Yeah |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:27 PM Author: Marvelous theatre well good luck then (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783636) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:09 PM Author: fragrant fortuitous meteor Best thing to do would probably be talking on the phone, that will give you a much better sense of what she's like. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783578) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:20 PM Author: Marvelous theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783616) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:30 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn Yeah I agree she wants to wait to meet in person (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783643) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:52 PM Author: black aphrodisiac whorehouse useless brakes Bad thing with online is that you don't even know if you're attracted to person until you meet in person. There are a million intangible ways in which you might not be attracted that can't be determined until you see her and smell her pheromones. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783485) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:25 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn This is some osteen shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783627) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:49 PM Author: black aphrodisiac whorehouse useless brakes what (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783743) |
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Date: September 12th, 2018 9:58 AM Author: floppy field Nah its 100% true
Also a persons mannerisms can ruin their attractiveness 100% |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:53 PM Author: beady-eyed hominid dragon first date should just be to the church to get married, you'll figure the rest out from there (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783489) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:55 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn Could be worse you could be me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783500) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:04 PM Author: trip bronze plaza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783548) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 6:56 PM Author: Titillating abode post pix so that she may be JUDGED (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783507) |
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Date: September 11th, 2018 8:21 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn She's like maybe a 6 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36790408) |
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Date: September 11th, 2018 8:23 PM Author: thriller chad nibblets (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36790412) |
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Date: September 11th, 2018 8:24 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn 6 probably at best. I'm probably same (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36790421) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:05 PM Author: fragrant fortuitous meteor Damn, I'm in a similar situation. I've talked to a shitload of chicks online over the past 7 years, but a couple of weeks ago started talking to someone who stands out way above everyone else. Sure there were a few I really, really liked and it was fun to think about the possibilities, but this is the first time that I've been filled with an ominous sense of anxiety like "this definitely, definitely seems like the girl for me, what if I fuck it up?"
From having done so much online dating, I'm generally pretty objective and desensitized about it. Chicks are much more random and capricious than dudes, so there could be any number of silly reasons they ultimately like or don't like someone they meet. I've noticed that there isn't much correlation at all between whether someone likes me and whether we're well-suited to being together. Because of that, I've learned to largely be indifferent about the whole thing. Obviously I know I shouldn't be thinking about this chick the way that I am, and that it's counterproductive for a number of reasons, but in this one instance I can't help it. |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:21 PM Author: Marvelous theatre have you two met up yet?
if not, what's stopping you from meeting? |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:30 PM Author: fragrant fortuitous meteor Was swiping out of town and matched with her when I was already on my way back home. My profile was very direct, something to the effect of: "Live in [small shitty city], can't find what I want there. If you are A, B, C, . . . X, Y, Z, swipe right and I will marry you so hard." I'm thinking I'll go back there and meet her and visit my parents in a week or two. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783644) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:31 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn Power Mervin move man *fist bump* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783650) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:46 PM Author: fragrant fortuitous meteor I have a feeling that this is going to bring about some type of major change in my life, one way or the other. For the 7yrs after my divorce, I've had a very definite idea of what the chick I was going to marry would be like. Out of many, I met a few who matched up with that really well but I didn't have my shit together and got shot down. Had a couple of failed relationships with chicks who were somewhat what I wanted, but with some type of issue that was too severe to make it work in the end. Now, due to age and geography, it's much, much harder to meet the " A, B, C, . . . X, Y, Z" girl. This one seems far superior to what I had projected as my reasonable best-case outcome (everything I want + quirks I like but wouldn't actively seek out because of the statistical futility of it). I'm either going to end up with this chick or it's likely going to make me give up looking for a highly specific type of person. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783728) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 8:02 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn here we goo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783822) |
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Date: September 12th, 2018 5:20 PM Author: fragrant fortuitous meteor Going to make the trip and meet her this weekend so here we goooo indeed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36796298) |
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Date: September 16th, 2018 9:35 AM Author: fragrant fortuitous meteor So I met her last night. Date ended with a kiss on the cheek we texted for 7 hours after I got home. Haven't even slept. She already planned a second date. I am hopelessly in love. She wore a video game t-shirt (with a jacket over it) to a fairly nice restaurant. Showed up with my favorite candy (we had been texting about candy . . . a lot). She's super sweet and genuine and considerate, hot and in shape, smart and witty, easily picks up on subtleties, and a complete goofball mess. I fully intend to do everything in my power to marry her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36817982) |
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Date: September 16th, 2018 9:43 AM Author: Galvanic filthy azn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36817997) |
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Date: September 24th, 2018 4:23 AM Author: fragrant fortuitous meteor We squeezed in a second date last week before I left town. Had some nachos at a bar and talked then grabbed some milkshakes after they closed. We were just talking across a table and ended up being out for 6+ hours. She stayed out with me late enough on a weeknight to get home after 3am even though she had to be up early for work. We made out by her car at the end and will see each other again in a few weeks. I told her I had pretty much lost interest in everyone else and stopped talking to them and she said the same. Have still been texting every day since.
I think there is definitely over a 50% chance that I'm having "firsts" with my future wife right now. Just on an objective level, she's the best-suited for me of anyone I've met and I subjectively like her the most too. I just have to keep my head straight and let it progress naturally. I wrote a nice email to myself about her that I'll give her at some significant point in the future so that she'll know what I was feeling right from the very start.
I guess maybe that ominous feeling had something to it. It was always like "hmmmm, if I were texting with my future wife, this is exactly how I'd want her to talk to me." I'm happy as fuck but also incredibly anxious because I've never been this close to having something this nice, at least not as an adult. |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:32 PM Author: Marvelous theatre let's say you meet up and she's 180
are you the type to overthink it and find flaws and implode
or would you just decide you were in love with her and forge ahead |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:52 PM Author: fragrant fortuitous meteor Oh the girl definitely has flaws, she's just a mess in many of the same ways I am. I feel a sense of loneliness when I date completely normal people, so I actually prefer to date people who are a bit messed up but in a benign way that doesn't generally hurt the relationship
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:53 PM Author: Marvelous theatre "I feel a sense of loneliness when I date completely normal people"
what an incredible thing to actually know about yourself
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:26 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn This is the worry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783631) |
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Date: September 12th, 2018 9:59 AM Author: black aphrodisiac whorehouse useless brakes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36793314) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 7:38 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn Alright I'll probably pull back a little thanks bros (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36783683) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 10:42 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn Nvm in love again (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36784827) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 10:52 PM Author: hairraiser wrinkle shrine Dude... read some Corey Wayne before you shoot yourself in the foot.
She already knows she has you where she wants you.
You're 100% going to blow this.
I can sense your desperation... no doubt she can too. Desperation is the biggest turn off to women, FYI. |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 10:55 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn Bro I watched copious Corey Wayne like 6 months ago on your suggestion
I'm not desperate. She initiates communication as much as I do and asks as many questions about me as i do her.
I'm alpha btw |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 11:07 PM Author: hairraiser wrinkle shrine ok... phew (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36784967) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 11:08 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn Luv 4 dirte (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36784972) |
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Date: September 27th, 2018 9:38 PM Author: haunting confused pistol absolutely devastating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36909059) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 11:17 PM Author: irate hell degenerate i've met dozens of girls from online, 2 of whom i was in love with before meeting. both worked out well (at least for a while) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36785049) |
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Date: September 10th, 2018 11:17 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36785054) |
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Date: September 11th, 2018 8:41 PM Author: trip bronze plaza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36790542) |
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Date: September 12th, 2018 3:25 AM Author: hairraiser wrinkle shrine https://imgur.com/a/7YnnetQ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36792572) |
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Date: September 12th, 2018 9:37 AM Author: Galvanic filthy azn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36793204) |
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Date: September 12th, 2018 9:56 AM Author: Mentally Impaired Dilemma Clown (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36793299) |
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Date: September 12th, 2018 10:00 AM Author: black aphrodisiac whorehouse useless brakes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36793315) |
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Date: September 24th, 2018 5:18 AM Author: razzmatazz codepig institution (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36875697) |
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Date: September 27th, 2018 9:41 PM Author: Galvanic filthy azn After talking to her more I decided I don't like her and will stand her up tomorrow (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4074251&forum_id=2#36909099) |