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Un-retiring for an hour to share what the divorce attorney told me (Muscadine)

So, I was finally getting my shit together to get a divorce....
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
How long would the alimony last for? There's got to be a su...
Fear-inspiring Elastic Band
  09/25/18
Depends. If we couldn't settle, it would be until death/ re...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
Holy shit!
Fear-inspiring Elastic Band
  09/25/18
The fuck? In futuro alimony barely exists anymore
histrionic brethren
  09/25/18
wtf. how old are you? in NJ you only get permanent alimony i...
Fragrant Overrated Background Story
  09/25/18
40.
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
Your state sucks fucking ass.
wine sinister business firm
  09/25/18
There’s no way this is true even in california unless you we...
Laughsome Coldplay Fan Public Bath
  09/25/18
I do this kind of work, but I'm sharing what I was told when...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
who whoa whoa...you consulted with a female lawyer?
curious parlour
  09/25/18
Lmao
wine sinister business firm
  09/25/18
pwn3d
frozen racy base
  09/25/18
lmao
jade soul-stirring site hunting ground
  09/25/18
...
vivacious sexy library
  09/25/18
how cucky is this guy?
violet 180 lay
  09/25/18
the only jew in south carolina.
curious parlour
  09/25/18
Is that the state? I’ve heard horror stories about their div...
fantasy-prone casino doctorate
  09/25/18
yes, and that's what he's said over the years.
curious parlour
  09/25/18
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Marvelous Alpha Son Of Senegal
  09/25/18
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unholy excitant school cafeteria
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fluffy gunner
  09/25/18
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Magenta trailer park halford
  09/25/18
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Cream charismatic boiling water
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provocative turquoise point giraffe
  09/26/18
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Stimulating puppy affirmative action
  09/26/18
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exciting mother hissy fit
  07/31/23
You don't know what you are talking about. A long term marri...
Gay bateful stage
  09/25/18
you should seriously consider murdering your wife bro. take ...
frisky aphrodisiac stock car locus
  09/25/18
"I could have been getting tatted up, smoking pot, drin...
frisky aphrodisiac stock car locus
  09/25/18
You can be a great lawyer and smoke pot and get wasted every...
Passionate Depressive
  09/26/18
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Puce forum
  04/04/23
Don't divorce
claret step-uncle's house
  09/25/18
that appears to be the answer
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
Would giving her a 1000 dollar allowance make her happy? You...
claret step-uncle's house
  09/25/18
She has about 1500 a month to blow and is very unhappy about...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
The peterman story
aromatic umber filthpig stage
  09/25/18
haha wow, i'm guessing you don't hit her.
curious parlour
  09/25/18
This is insane. How can her alimony be so high - child suppo...
saffron indirect expression ape
  09/25/18
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pale clown
  09/25/18
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diverse piazza
  09/25/18
you must also think "she promised until death do us par...
curious parlour
  09/25/18
Don't divorce
Brilliant codepig turdskin
  09/25/18
That appears to be the answer. I feel bad for my children, ...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
They would not be better off with your wife 100% of the time...
saffron indirect expression ape
  09/25/18
...
Passionate Depressive
  09/26/18
yeah... not sure what divorce would accomplish here other th...
Razzle-dazzle half-breed
  09/25/18
And relegating you to shack-in-the-hood-like living conditio...
bespoke stead
  09/25/18
Really, this is a shitty way to go through life, although it...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
i'm sorry, brother. good luck, i hope your wife calms down s...
Razzle-dazzle half-breed
  09/25/18
"Maybe something will change." Me on marriage/ cry...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
ouch
Fear-inspiring Elastic Band
  09/25/18
What a shitty set of options. Sorry bro. As an unmarriedmo, ...
Contagious indian lodge skinny woman
  09/25/18
FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE! you signed the contract. You know...
Brilliant codepig turdskin
  09/25/18
...
jade soul-stirring site hunting ground
  09/25/18
At no time in my life was this ever more crystal clear than ...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
How does alimony work in your state? In my state, spousal su...
cobalt alcoholic university black woman
  09/25/18
How are those alimony calculations correct? You'd be homeles...
Wonderful Theatre Faggotry
  09/25/18
What was this?
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
I mean he's not counting the 100k bonus, but yeah that does ...
histrionic brethren
  09/25/18
Distributions from past year are going to be factored into m...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
why not do monthly based on cash flow with an additional pay...
Emerald nubile abode quadroon
  09/25/18
In a negotiation, if it came to that, I would have to work s...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
So if you wait a year or two and don't work as hard, maybe t...
Fear-inspiring Elastic Band
  09/25/18
How could I do that as a lawyer?
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
Take fewer cases/clients. Bill fewer hours. Fish more.
Fear-inspiring Elastic Band
  09/25/18
Not at age 40. That’s make or break time.
wine sinister business firm
  09/25/18
Given the circumstances, a one-year slow down might be worth...
Fear-inspiring Elastic Band
  09/25/18
you're getting divorced? you used to be one of the most obno...
Stirring principal's office toilet seat
  09/25/18
Sorry, when I said "I'm in the same boat" I meant ...
Fear-inspiring Elastic Band
  09/25/18
I could pull that off with remarkable ease
saffron indirect expression ape
  09/25/18
might still get "imputed income" pwn3d
frozen racy base
  09/25/18
Yeah, I'm ignorant about how it works (in general and in SC)...
Fear-inspiring Elastic Band
  09/25/18
Wait a year and bank all the cash from distributions. Say y...
wine sinister business firm
  09/25/18
divorce and move to thailand
arousing learning disabled corner kitty cat
  09/25/18
Staying married longer is stupid if this is your situation. ...
Fragrant Overrated Background Story
  09/25/18
I remember you bragging about how good SC divorce law was fo...
Beady-eyed pink sanctuary
  09/25/18
If she commits adultery, it would be great. She's not going...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
Do you need a 6'4" jacked pumo PE baller to help you (h...
Fear-inspiring Elastic Band
  09/25/18
Hire a PI to frame her. This is legal advice.
razzmatazz hairless property
  09/25/18
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walnut irradiated locale liquid oxygen
  09/25/18
hire a man to seduce her and document the evidence of her ch...
pontificating effete range
  09/25/18
You actually can't in most places
histrionic brethren
  09/25/18
I hate libs
Wonderful Theatre Faggotry
  09/25/18
His only shot is gaslighting her into trying (and hopefully ...
jade soul-stirring site hunting ground
  09/25/18
but....wait a minute....wouldn't that mean....
pontificating effete range
  09/25/18
South Carolina allows fault based divorce and not providing ...
Contagious indian lodge skinny woman
  09/25/18
Cruel and inhuman treatment then
histrionic brethren
  09/25/18
Hit her as hard as you can in the face with a closed fist.
charcoal church building
  09/25/18
...
boyish native becky
  09/25/18
Best advice ITT.
useless dopamine
  09/25/18
cr. then do it at least 10 more times.
walnut irradiated locale liquid oxygen
  09/25/18
I still don't fully understand why many women get so mean an...
Vermilion lodge masturbator
  09/25/18
This happens because nu-males don't control their women. No...
Brilliant codepig turdskin
  09/25/18
Domestic violence laws make it impossible
jade soul-stirring site hunting ground
  09/25/18
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Comical tantric market mad-dog skullcap
  09/26/18
OP doesn't strike me as a nu-male who listens to pop culture...
Fear-inspiring Elastic Band
  09/25/18
really? he strikes me as a whiny gigaqueer, which he is, whi...
violet 180 lay
  09/25/18
There's not a fucking thing I can do. I'm not a push over a...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
Yeah I have trouble with this. Never got married cause I jus...
Vermilion lodge masturbator
  09/25/18
you are 100% a pushover. you let your wife walk all ov...
violet 180 lay
  09/25/18
What's your suggestion? Knock her ass out?
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
deus vult, you're a solid dude, but I'm not sure if you real...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
were not talking about her, were talking about you. you...
violet 180 lay
  09/25/18
Cr. And Ljl at getting married without a prenup
Electric organic girlfriend
  09/25/18
ljl at thinking a prenup means shit against a psycho wife wi...
bipolar whorehouse
  09/25/18
lol yea sure
sepia galvanic heaven travel guidebook
  09/26/18
lol
Bat-shit-crazy Pocket Flask Box Office
  09/26/18
Reminds me of the time my wife got concerned about my guns ...
Beta ultramarine rigpig theater stage
  09/26/18
This is why Robin Williams killedself basicallt. Why not...
jade soul-stirring site hunting ground
  09/25/18
You've got nothing to lose, just live the life you want at t...
Maroon psychic mexican
  09/25/18
This is probably the best response of the thread
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
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jade soul-stirring site hunting ground
  09/25/18
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Magenta trailer park halford
  09/25/18
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Amber Brunch
  09/25/18
Maybe I should accept my fate and go buy a big boat.
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
I would 100% start blowing money and hiding assets somewhere...
Appetizing athletic conference den
  09/25/18
wish for the best for you brother. Sorry to hear all of this
Dashing mood
  09/25/18
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aquamarine associate
  09/25/18
jfc sorry you're going through this. i'd say it will get be...
hateful station
  09/25/18
He can leave the country when daughter turns 18
jade soul-stirring site hunting ground
  09/25/18
Sounds like you need to put the divorce lawyer on hold and r...
maniacal cumskin
  09/25/18
I normally would tell people not to divorce, but, in your si...
Rusted Vengeful Orchestra Pit Volcanic Crater
  09/25/18
There's a part of me that wants to say, fuck it, let's do it...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
I mean how much worse could divorce actually make things? Yo...
Rusted Vengeful Orchestra Pit Volcanic Crater
  09/25/18
"not all women are hateful whores" Extraordin...
violet 180 lay
  09/25/18
as someone who's skipped out of more codependent relationshi...
curious parlour
  09/25/18
...
Stimulating puppy affirmative action
  09/25/18
"you can create pdfs of brokerage statements showing lo...
Fear-inspiring Elastic Band
  09/25/18
mazel tov
curious parlour
  09/25/18
"cheating on you with tattooed men with criminal record...
sadistic area
  09/25/18
"good family court judge"
curious parlour
  09/25/18
Naw man, I think he's thinking of someone else.
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
no, i'm saying what you can say about her.
curious parlour
  09/25/18
He couldn’t lie about her. That would be immoral.
jade soul-stirring site hunting ground
  09/25/18
i didn't account for that.
curious parlour
  09/25/18
Lol
wine sinister business firm
  09/25/18
cr
shimmering garrison
  09/25/18
Get a side piece. Maybe your wife is the type that is ok, j...
geriatric national
  09/25/18
she'll call him a disgusting asshole and not give him sex to...
curious parlour
  09/25/18
He's not getting sex now though. Not much to lose at this p...
geriatric national
  09/25/18
I cannot allow a situation where my wife has full custody of...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
Would she want them full time? Perhaps that's your leverage.
Emerald nubile abode quadroon
  09/25/18
- Marriage counseling or therapy - start putting liquid as...
carnelian heady crotch
  09/25/18
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Dashing mood
  09/25/18
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Stimulating puppy affirmative action
  09/25/18
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violent rebellious dysfunction
  09/25/18
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fluffy gunner
  09/25/18
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Amber Brunch
  09/25/18
The important question is how many years is she likely to ge...
histrionic brethren
  09/25/18
...
Rusted Vengeful Orchestra Pit Volcanic Crater
  09/25/18
doesn't it make more sense to gut it out until the end of th...
Bat-shit-crazy Pocket Flask Box Office
  09/25/18
It will take that long anyway and that's just more money for...
histrionic brethren
  09/25/18
okay so he only gets half of it. That still gives him a cush...
Bat-shit-crazy Pocket Flask Box Office
  09/25/18
yeah just open the books up. hell hire a sox compliance offi...
curious parlour
  09/25/18
http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3735127&mc=43&...
Magenta trailer park halford
  09/25/18
She's a SAHM, right? Did she have a career before? Definitel...
sadistic area
  09/25/18
Wrong. The cause is the divorce/alimony laws and this chick'...
Emerald nubile abode quadroon
  09/25/18
JFC
Contagious indian lodge skinny woman
  09/25/18
she jokingly suggested she be my mistress (we were FWBs at o...
Emerald nubile abode quadroon
  09/25/18
Hungry little buttsluts for GC
jade soul-stirring site hunting ground
  09/25/18
run
Talented crackhouse therapy
  09/25/18
:(
Cracking cuck
  09/25/18
Thoughts and prayers.
Metal Hall
  09/25/18
Move to a state or country with no alimony/little alimony, t...
Supple idiotic roommate mediation
  09/25/18
Texas is one of the hardest states to get alimony payments ...
Supple idiotic roommate mediation
  09/25/18
Is this true?
Titillating judgmental meetinghouse
  07/31/23
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brass mind-boggling nursing home azn
  09/25/18
Any family lawyers in here?
maniacal cumskin
  09/25/18
I think two years in Texas would do it.
wine sinister business firm
  09/25/18
Crrr. “Baby let’s move our life anywhere else and try again....
fantasy-prone casino doctorate
  09/25/18
Ran here for this. Also, do not underestimate at fault ...
Bistre big center regret
  09/25/18
...
Amber Brunch
  09/25/18
dont divorce, just get your whore wife in line. man up.
violet 180 lay
  09/25/18
You know what man, fucking CR. But after years of this shit...
hairraiser scarlet senate
  09/25/18
you have kids. fix it.
violet 180 lay
  09/25/18
Cr. Theres no winning with a woman like this. They actually ...
stubborn bawdyhouse
  09/25/18
I once read in a book that emotional women do this to feel a...
Peach swashbuckling legal warrant chapel
  09/26/18
Can you have her committed to a mental institution? Some sta...
Supple idiotic roommate mediation
  09/25/18
Wow not flame: http://www.scalimonyreform.com Actually i...
Dun lascivious church queen of the night
  09/25/18
Jfc he's in literally the worst place for this
histrionic brethren
  09/25/18
LJL at that video of two women titled "Alimony is like ...
Contagious indian lodge skinny woman
  09/25/18
"I thought about it and realized: I don't want to work ...
Vibrant juggernaut
  09/25/18
...
brass mind-boggling nursing home azn
  09/25/18
Sorry to hear this. Can you elaborate on behavior? History ...
Glittery Sienna Space
  09/25/18
Hilarious that her mental illness gets her more money in SC...
Dun lascivious church queen of the night
  09/25/18
Get divorced. You'll be way happier and feel like you're in ...
stubborn bawdyhouse
  09/25/18
Can you ONE WEIRD TRICK this by moving to Georgia? Or is tha...
Emerald nubile abode quadroon
  09/25/18
...
Mewling cerebral trump supporter
  09/25/18
Move to Russia or Mexico for 3 to 6 months, then divorcepwn ...
balding menage sandwich
  09/25/18
Get a job transfer to Texas, wait 6 months, divorce her.
angry odious wrinkle
  09/25/18
Tcr
Supple idiotic roommate mediation
  09/25/18
This is the most credited advice so far.
Wonderful Theatre Faggotry
  09/25/18
100% cr.
violent rebellious dysfunction
  09/25/18
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brass mind-boggling nursing home azn
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Amber Brunch
  09/25/18
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Gay bateful stage
  09/25/18
feels like youve been giving this some thought.
Fragrant Overrated Background Story
  09/25/18
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Rose private investor
  11/19/19
Don't divorce. Also unretire from XO to cope. That said, a s...
Crimson Karate Resort
  09/25/18
like all dudes, he was tricked by the facade she built as sh...
curious parlour
  09/25/18
Ljl at this naive virginal papist bullshit. Live with a wom...
histrionic brethren
  09/25/18
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Multi-colored amethyst ticket booth round eye
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Marvelous Alpha Son Of Senegal
  09/25/18
sorry charles but this is cr
Razzle light useless brakes
  09/25/18
*Naive person asks experienced person about his experiences*...
Crimson Karate Resort
  09/25/18
it's not an honest question you had an edge to it as if you'...
curious parlour
  09/25/18
...
Razzle light useless brakes
  09/26/18
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Dull Community Account
  09/25/18
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Stirring principal's office toilet seat
  09/25/18
It’s weird to realize which poasters read certain threads v ...
Dun lascivious church queen of the night
  09/25/18
this is true. MW acted stupidly. but it doesn't mean he shou...
saffron indirect expression ape
  09/25/18
Oh, I've read most of his threads and knew it was something ...
Crimson Karate Resort
  09/25/18
Welcome home; we missed you. It's good to have you back.
Henna pit
  09/25/18
cr, Muscadine is a top poaster and a great guy
Emerald nubile abode quadroon
  09/25/18
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Beta ultramarine rigpig theater stage
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jet hominid hell
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You can get an amateur weather balloon for $300 that would t...
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curious parlour
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Stimulating puppy affirmative action
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carnelian heady crotch
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vivacious sexy library
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fluffy gunner
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Amber Brunch
  09/25/18
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pungent transparent potus immigrant
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shimmering garrison
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Cream charismatic boiling water
  09/26/18
MW furiously googling South Carolina coastal wind patterns
Comical tantric market mad-dog skullcap
  09/26/18
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Ruby adventurous jewess boltzmann
  11/15/19
The replies in this thread are amazing some giving conc...
Stimulating puppy affirmative action
  09/25/18
i really like it here
fluffy gunner
  09/25/18
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jade soul-stirring site hunting ground
  09/25/18
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Gay bateful stage
  09/25/18
u hittin the vape?
Sooty Dilemma
  09/25/18
yee
Stimulating puppy affirmative action
  09/25/18
"The Muscadine responses fall within roughly three cate...
stubborn bawdyhouse
  09/26/18
...
Stimulating puppy affirmative action
  09/26/18
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tan talking dog poop
  11/15/19
This is heartbreaking.
wine sinister business firm
  09/25/18
Daddy Beds (aka a couch) would be a good moniker
wine sinister business firm
  09/25/18
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Peach swashbuckling legal warrant chapel
  09/26/18
Would your wife or her potential lawyer know about crypto? ...
autistic theater gay wizard
  09/25/18
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Mewling cerebral trump supporter
  09/25/18
for old's time sake link to a poast where you debated why ge...
curious parlour
  09/25/18
Would your partners agree to cook the books for you? Might m...
razzmatazz hairless property
  09/25/18
believe this has been covered, brother.
curious parlour
  09/25/18
suicide seems like a good idea
indecent roast beef hospital
  09/25/18
I’m really sorry to hear this bro and I hope that you maek i...
canary high-end shitlib gas station
  09/25/18
All I can say is that I’m sorry for your awful situation.
Mustard startled plaza
  09/25/18
Have you tried giving yourself a chance to love her?
orange cruise ship
  09/25/18
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Dun lascivious church queen of the night
  09/25/18
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unholy excitant school cafeteria
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shimmering garrison
  09/25/18
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harsh weed whacker
  09/26/18
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chestnut kitchen
  09/26/18
Love you brother One of my all time favorite poasters an...
Appetizing athletic conference den
  09/25/18
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Mustard startled plaza
  09/25/18
Can you find a way to get her committed to a mental hospital...
spectacular house
  09/25/18
Russian passport + leave the US. Pay not one cent to your Ya...
self-absorbed shrine ceo
  09/25/18
Sorry to hear you are going through this. If anyone on XO ca...
crystalline deer antler partner
  09/25/18
you see the answer. we all do. it's just what are the chance...
curious parlour
  09/25/18
The answer is keep your money in Russia and get the fuck out...
self-absorbed shrine ceo
  09/25/18
haha wow holy shit
Green fanboi
  09/25/18
stuffwhitepeoplelike: pretending they live in the first worl...
thriller greedy home place of business
  09/25/18
Fake some attacks by her. Run into a wall, call the cops an...
federal coiffed state
  09/25/18
Brother: I retired for the same reason.... our story is t...
Ebony Party Of The First Part
  09/25/18
lol@ this thread literally being a battered husband syndrome...
thriller greedy home place of business
  09/25/18
it’s not like that I’m not battered. I made choices. But...
Ebony Party Of The First Part
  09/25/18
denial...yes
thriller greedy home place of business
  09/25/18
(Guy whose wife fleeced him and went back to Russia)
canary high-end shitlib gas station
  09/25/18
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thriller greedy home place of business
  07/05/23
muscadine seems like a sincere guy but most of the posturing...
Stirring principal's office toilet seat
  09/25/18
bro why are you even playing armchair psychiatrist with this...
thriller greedy home place of business
  09/25/18
women are horrible. i have no reason to doubt his side. and ...
curious parlour
  09/25/18
I don't doubt that his wife is a bitch and he doesn't want t...
Stirring principal's office toilet seat
  09/25/18
suppose it weren’t muscadine. I want to hear what u have to...
Ebony Party Of The First Part
  09/25/18
i've almost married the flip hookers and law is actually, fu...
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Date: September 25th, 2018 4:59 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

So, I was finally getting my shit together to get a divorce. Quitting XO was a part of that, being that coming hear to vent frustrations was a crutch that helped keep me complacent and stuck in this horrible marriage.

So, I sit down with the attorney, and we go into income. I had a good year last year, but I spent most of my excess money paying down my commercial building loan. Really, I feel like I have no money at all.

The attorney tells me that I'm looking at between 4k - 5k in alimony and then an additional 1k in child support. My base salary is 100k (with an additional 25k-100k in partnership distributions depending on the year). Thus, on my normal month, I have approx. 6,700 in take home pay, and I'm looking at seeing 5k at best going out the door.

I just can't stress enough how much I hate the situation I'm in. I worked so hard, kept my student loans down, took enormous chances to start my own business and suffered financial deprivation getting this business running, and it was all for nothing.

I could have been getting tatted up, smoking pot, drinking every night, working as a bartender or a first mate on a fishing boat, having a great time for the past 15 years. No, I chose to be a lawyer and work hard. It was all a lie. All of it.

The sheer magnitude of how badly I have fucked up my life is simply staggering. It's so bad that it's almost too profound to fully grasp.

So, my choices are stay married to just horrible, aggressive, frigid, awful shrew of a woman who cries and yells from the second she gets up until the second she can reach a state of disassociation through multiple hours of watching the fucking Bravo channel, or face what appears to be financial suicide.

Side note, I decided to get real about divorce because my daughter is starting to react to my wife's insanity. Some of it is funny, like her telling people that "Mommy hates Daddy, she's soooooo mad at him" frequently or referring to couches as "daddy beds," but some of it is not funny and I'm not going to share that.

I love my kids so much and that is the only reason that I don't put a bullet in my head.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887052)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Elastic Band

How long would the alimony last for? There's got to be a sunset on that, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887201)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

Depends. If we couldn't settle, it would be until death/ remarriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887228)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:19 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Elastic Band

Holy shit!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887247)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: histrionic brethren

The fuck? In futuro alimony barely exists anymore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887253)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: Fragrant Overrated Background Story

wtf. how old are you? in NJ you only get permanent alimony if the marriage is > 20 years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887297)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

40.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887304)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:05 PM
Author: wine sinister business firm

Your state sucks fucking ass.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887608)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:27 PM
Author: Laughsome Coldplay Fan Public Bath

There’s no way this is true even in california unless you were married for 30+ years. The alimony term shouldnt be for any longer than the length of the marriage and should likely be for less. However the Court would retain jurisdiction and could theoretically potentially order it to continue for some specified period of time but no way would it be for that long.

You will be paying child support for quite a while. Enjoy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887332)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

I do this kind of work, but I'm sharing what I was told when I went to a consult with another attorney. Maybe she was a little high on the figures(?)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887357)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:59 PM
Author: curious parlour

who whoa whoa...you consulted with a female lawyer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887571)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:06 PM
Author: wine sinister business firm

Lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887613)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:08 PM
Author: frozen racy base

pwn3d

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887628)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:02 PM
Author: jade soul-stirring site hunting ground

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887989)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:10 PM
Author: vivacious sexy library



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888429)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:27 PM
Author: violet 180 lay

how cucky is this guy?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888546)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:29 PM
Author: curious parlour

the only jew in south carolina.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888567)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:06 PM
Author: fantasy-prone casino doctorate

Is that the state? I’ve heard horror stories about their divorce law

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888864)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:14 PM
Author: curious parlour

yes, and that's what he's said over the years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889321)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:18 PM
Author: Marvelous Alpha Son Of Senegal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888936)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:46 PM
Author: unholy excitant school cafeteria



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889158)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:03 PM
Author: fluffy gunner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889261)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:04 PM
Author: Magenta trailer park halford



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889263)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:04 PM
Author: Cream charismatic boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889269)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:24 AM
Author: provocative turquoise point giraffe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891179)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 10:03 AM
Author: Stimulating puppy affirmative action



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891402)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 1:27 PM
Author: exciting mother hissy fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46611991)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:38 PM
Author: Gay bateful stage

You don't know what you are talking about. A long term marriage is 10 years in California. On the hook for paying spousal support for life on a long term marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887433)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:28 PM
Author: frisky aphrodisiac stock car locus

you should seriously consider murdering your wife bro. take a vacation to the grand canyon then.....ooops.

*gently shoves her off* "honey! no no NO!! well kids....terrible, really terrible. but we'll move past it as a family."

not professional advice btw, but...some kind of advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888558)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:29 PM
Author: frisky aphrodisiac stock car locus

"I could have been getting tatted up, smoking pot, drinking every night, working as a bartender or a first mate on a fishing boat, having a great time for the past 15 years. No, I chose to be a lawyer and work hard. It was all a lie. All of it."

hmmm.....yeah idk if that would work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888564)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:46 AM
Author: Passionate Depressive

You can be a great lawyer and smoke pot and get wasted every night

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891290)



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Date: April 4th, 2023 8:41 PM
Author: Puce forum



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46144776)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:00 PM
Author: claret step-uncle's house

Don't divorce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887061)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:02 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

that appears to be the answer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887077)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:08 PM
Author: claret step-uncle's house

Would giving her a 1000 dollar allowance make her happy? You'd both win

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887136)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

She has about 1500 a month to blow and is very unhappy about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887174)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: aromatic umber filthpig stage

The peterman story

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887551)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:06 PM
Author: curious parlour

haha wow, i'm guessing you don't hit her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887616)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:01 PM
Author: saffron indirect expression ape

This is insane. How can her alimony be so high - child support I get.

Wait how does she get the kids anyway? Doesn’t she have a recorded history of mental problems.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887070)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:06 PM
Author: pale clown



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887120)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: diverse piazza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887205)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: curious parlour

you must also think "she promised until death do us part; ergo she gets nothing for lying."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887454)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:03 PM
Author: Brilliant codepig turdskin

Don't divorce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887083)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:08 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

That appears to be the answer. I feel bad for my children, it's an awful environment at my house.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887135)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: saffron indirect expression ape

They would not be better off with your wife 100% of the time. That seems clear

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887176)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:47 AM
Author: Passionate Depressive



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891294)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:07 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle half-breed

yeah... not sure what divorce would accomplish here other than destroying your daughter

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887133)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: bespoke stead

And relegating you to shack-in-the-hood-like living conditions until (if) your salary

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887155)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

Really, this is a shitty way to go through life, although it seems clear now that I don't have any viable alternatives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887162)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle half-breed

i'm sorry, brother. good luck, i hope your wife calms down somehow, although that might not seem likely.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887171)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:14 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

"Maybe something will change." Me on marriage/ crypto

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887198)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:16 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Elastic Band

ouch

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887215)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:08 PM
Author: Contagious indian lodge skinny woman

What a shitty set of options. Sorry bro. As an unmarriedmo, I can't imagine having to live with that everyday. But it sounds like divorce isn't a viable option either.

Good luck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887139)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:08 PM
Author: Brilliant codepig turdskin

FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE!

you signed the contract. You know how this works, Mr. Lawyer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887140)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:09 PM
Author: jade soul-stirring site hunting ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887146)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:16 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

At no time in my life was this ever more crystal clear than today.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887214)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:09 PM
Author: cobalt alcoholic university black woman

How does alimony work in your state? In my state, spousal support only goes on for a certain amount of time. You might be fucked financially for a few years, but you'll be way happier and long term will be able to get back what you have given up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887150)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: Wonderful Theatre Faggotry

How are those alimony calculations correct? You'd be homeless.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887153)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

What was this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887170)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: histrionic brethren

I mean he's not counting the 100k bonus, but yeah that does suck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887180)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:13 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

Distributions from past year are going to be factored into monthly alimony.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887186)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:14 PM
Author: Emerald nubile abode quadroon

why not do monthly based on cash flow with an additional payment at distribution time, i.e., her alimony would mirror your comp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887197)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:16 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

In a negotiation, if it came to that, I would have to work something like into an agreement. I would be left with almost nothing if it were done on a monthly basis (which is the way that courts prefer to award alimony).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887209)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Elastic Band

So if you wait a year or two and don't work as hard, maybe the alimony amount would be less?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887224)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

How could I do that as a lawyer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887233)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Elastic Band

Take fewer cases/clients. Bill fewer hours. Fish more.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887254)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:08 PM
Author: wine sinister business firm

Not at age 40. That’s make or break time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887624)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:12 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Elastic Band

Given the circumstances, a one-year slow down might be worth it.

Also, fuck that. I'm in the same boat and lazy as shit about making $$$.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887651)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:53 PM
Author: Stirring principal's office toilet seat

you're getting divorced? you used to be one of the most obnoxious marriage+kids=human destiny trolls on this shitbort.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889656)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Elastic Band

Sorry, when I said "I'm in the same boat" I meant approximately 40 with my own law practice. I am an unabashed marriage and kids troll, but not sure about the human destiny part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889873)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:41 PM
Author: saffron indirect expression ape

I could pull that off with remarkable ease

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888215)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:09 PM
Author: frozen racy base

might still get "imputed income" pwn3d

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887631)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:12 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Elastic Band

Yeah, I'm ignorant about how it works (in general and in SC).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887654)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:07 PM
Author: wine sinister business firm

Wait a year and bank all the cash from distributions. Say you lost it all in crypto.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887623)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: arousing learning disabled corner kitty cat

divorce and move to thailand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887157)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: Fragrant Overrated Background Story

Staying married longer is stupid if this is your situation. How long was the marriage? There's a light at the end of the tunnel re: alimony, but if you stay married for much longer it becomes but a fleeting glimmer.

No idea what state you are in but I could provide my general thoughts if you were interested.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887158)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: Beady-eyed pink sanctuary

I remember you bragging about how good SC divorce law was for men one time.

Anyways, how does she get alimony?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887163)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

If she commits adultery, it would be great. She's not going to do that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887178)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:19 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Elastic Band

Do you need a 6'4" jacked pumo PE baller to help you (her) out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887241)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:14 PM
Author: razzmatazz hairless property

Hire a PI to frame her. This is legal advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887666)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:35 PM
Author: walnut irradiated locale liquid oxygen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889483)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: pontificating effete range

hire a man to seduce her and document the evidence of her cheating, and use that as ammo in the divorce. i'm not a lawyer but i'm pretty sure you can get alimony reduced or thrown out if your partner is caught blatantly cheating on you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887177)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:13 PM
Author: histrionic brethren

You actually can't in most places

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887189)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: Wonderful Theatre Faggotry

I hate libs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887200)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: jade soul-stirring site hunting ground

His only shot is gaslighting her into trying (and hopefully failing) to kill him

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887203)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: pontificating effete range

but....wait a minute....wouldn't that mean....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887204)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:23 PM
Author: Contagious indian lodge skinny woman

South Carolina allows fault based divorce and not providing for alimony to the spouse at fault

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887280)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: histrionic brethren

Cruel and inhuman treatment then

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887289)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: charcoal church building

Hit her as hard as you can in the face with a closed fist.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887179)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:03 PM
Author: boyish native becky



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887598)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:18 PM
Author: useless dopamine

Best advice ITT.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887689)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:35 PM
Author: walnut irradiated locale liquid oxygen

cr. then do it at least 10 more times.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889489)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: Vermilion lodge masturbator

I still don't fully understand why many women get so mean and angry as they age. I don't believe it's just genetic nuttiness. I'm not saying its your fault but do you have any insight into why it happened in your case or what you could have done differently to stop it? Do you think the change in American culture over the past ten years did it or was she headed down this path anyways?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887181)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:16 PM
Author: Brilliant codepig turdskin

This happens because nu-males don't control their women. Now his wife has turned into a raging banshee to the detriment of his kids... all because he didn't control his woman because GC told him that's wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887207)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:17 PM
Author: jade soul-stirring site hunting ground

Domestic violence laws make it impossible

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887218)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 1:15 PM
Author: Comical tantric market mad-dog skullcap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36892929)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Elastic Band

OP doesn't strike me as a nu-male who listens to pop culture re interpersonal affairs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887271)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:26 PM
Author: violet 180 lay

really? he strikes me as a whiny gigaqueer, which he is, which is why his wife hates him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887321)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

There's not a fucking thing I can do. I'm not a push over and there is only so much shit I tolerate from her before I just leave the house.

I say this from the bottom of my heart: there is something seriously wrong with my wife. It's some sort of chemical imbalance, or autism, or just severe BP. But there is something wrong, her behavior is fucking nuts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887299)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:28 PM
Author: Vermilion lodge masturbator

Yeah I have trouble with this. Never got married cause I just walk away. Have no real desire to try to use passive aggressive husband and wife nonsense to keep a woman from going nuts. I suspect a lot of it has to do with gc frying their brains too. They see people consuming so much on instagram and don't fully understand the dynamics of 200k today vs thirty years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887343)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:30 PM
Author: violet 180 lay

you are 100% a pushover.

you let your wife walk all over you and just cry about it on xo. there is literally no way you could be more of a pushover. literally nothing could make you more of a pushover faggot.

you wouldnt be a pushover if you "left the house" because there was "only so much you could take." but you didnt. because youre a pushover.

edit: her chemical imbalance is being married to a bitchmade faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887369)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:34 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

What's your suggestion? Knock her ass out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887405)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

deus vult, you're a solid dude, but I'm not sure if you really get what's going on here. When you have a woman that thrives on violent confrontation, regularly, and is perpetually angry, how do you think you can deal with this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887422)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:39 PM
Author: violet 180 lay

were not talking about her, were talking about you.

you think she would get violent with me? if she did shed be making a mistake she wouldnt make twice.

time to tell her she thinks its one way but its the other way. you want to draw a line in the sand--so draw it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887441)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:15 PM
Author: Electric organic girlfriend

Cr. And Ljl at getting married without a prenup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887672)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:40 PM
Author: bipolar whorehouse

ljl at thinking a prenup means shit against a psycho wife with a half-decent lawyer.

also, to respond to the poast above you: shut the fuck up steez you clitdick virgin.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889527)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 8:39 AM
Author: sepia galvanic heaven travel guidebook

lol yea sure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891055)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:50 AM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy Pocket Flask Box Office

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891323)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:55 AM
Author: Beta ultramarine rigpig theater stage

Reminds me of the time my wife got concerned about my guns

“What if you get drunk and want to hurt me?”

“If I want to hurt you I don’t need a gun.”

*panties moisten*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891367)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: jade soul-stirring site hunting ground

This is why Robin Williams killedself basicallt.

Why not get a seperation ?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887182)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:13 PM
Author: Maroon psychic mexican

You've got nothing to lose, just live the life you want at this point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887193)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

This is probably the best response of the thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887236)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: jade soul-stirring site hunting ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887265)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Magenta trailer park halford



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887427)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:21 PM
Author: Amber Brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888961)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

Maybe I should accept my fate and go buy a big boat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887275)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:10 PM
Author: Appetizing athletic conference den

I would 100% start blowing money and hiding assets somewhere for your daughter jic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888047)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:15 PM
Author: Dashing mood

wish for the best for you brother. Sorry to hear all of this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887206)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:16 PM
Author: aquamarine associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887210)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:17 PM
Author: hateful station

jfc sorry you're going through this. i'd say it will get better but it probably wont. we lost by playing in the first place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887220)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: jade soul-stirring site hunting ground

He can leave the country when daughter turns 18

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887229)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:17 PM
Author: maniacal cumskin

Sounds like you need to put the divorce lawyer on hold and retain an asset protection lawyer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887223)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: Rusted Vengeful Orchestra Pit Volcanic Crater

I normally would tell people not to divorce, but, in your situation, I would take the financial hit. Divorce is tough on kids, but it is not like your daughter is growing up in a stable household now. Would your wife actually want custody? She seems like she would rather not bother with raising a kid.

Free yourself from this situation, even if it means making a huge financial sacrifice. Learn to live like a poor dude and it could end up being a benefit to you in the end when you are raking in more money and have learned that GC-forced mass consumption is bullshit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887227)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

There's a part of me that wants to say, fuck it, let's do it anyways and see what happens.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887255)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:26 PM
Author: Rusted Vengeful Orchestra Pit Volcanic Crater

I mean how much worse could divorce actually make things? You would be poorer, sure, but at least you can get on with your life. You are resigning yourself to a life of no sex and no love. Divorced, you might fall in love again with someone else who would make you happy. Despite xo consensus, not all women are hateful whores.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887317)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:26 PM
Author: violet 180 lay

"not all women are hateful whores"

Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888542)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: curious parlour

as someone who's skipped out of more codependent relationships with personality disorder laden women...start dissipating your marital estate into foreign accounts disguising the losses as business expenses or bad investments (you can create pdfs of brokerage statements showing losses in shit you never bought). i won't go into details but suffice to say you need three things:

(1) your kid(s) - so dirty her up. start calling dcf and mentioning her cursing, cheating on you with tattooed men with criminal records, her drug and drinking problem, her suicide attempts, her miscarriage taking it on your daughter, etc. etc.

(2) no alimony. guise up the demise of the marital estate and your own income. have your partners "fire you" or knock your salary down to $40K with deferred bonuses sitting on muni funds for interest under a shell company's account.

(3) you can't be with her. as much as being a lawyer sucks, being a lawyer with no reason to make money for someone to make you suffer regardless, there's a world of difference.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887232)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: Stimulating puppy affirmative action



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887267)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Elastic Band

"you can create pdfs of brokerage statements showing losses in shit you never bought"

That sounds like some top-notch legal advice right there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887301)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: curious parlour

mazel tov

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887366)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:26 PM
Author: sadistic area

"cheating on you with tattooed men with criminal records, her drug and drinking problem, her suicide attempts, her miscarriage taking it on your daughter,"

His wife did all that? Oh dear lord. Hang in there OP.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887322)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:30 PM
Author: curious parlour

"good family court judge"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887370)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

Naw man, I think he's thinking of someone else.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887373)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:39 PM
Author: curious parlour

no, i'm saying what you can say about her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887438)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: jade soul-stirring site hunting ground

He couldn’t lie about her. That would be immoral.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887453)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: curious parlour

i didn't account for that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887459)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:09 PM
Author: wine sinister business firm

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887633)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:48 PM
Author: shimmering garrison

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887908)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:19 PM
Author: geriatric national

Get a side piece. Maybe your wife is the type that is ok, just as long as it's not too obvious.

If that's too much I would at least raise the option the next time she jokes about not having sex with you. Watch her reaction. She might surprise you.

At the very least, she will know you don't find it very funny.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887239)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: curious parlour

she'll call him a disgusting asshole and not give him sex too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887252)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: geriatric national

He's not getting sex now though. Not much to lose at this point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887274)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:27 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

I cannot allow a situation where my wife has full custody of the kids. That woman can't take care of a dog much less children on a full time basis.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887328)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: Emerald nubile abode quadroon

Would she want them full time? Perhaps that's your leverage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887362)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:19 PM
Author: carnelian heady crotch

- Marriage counseling or therapy

- start putting liquid assets in a trust for the kid

- take on a shitload of debt for new commercia ventures

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887244)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: Dashing mood



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887259)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:22 PM
Author: Stimulating puppy affirmative action



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887273)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:34 PM
Author: violent rebellious dysfunction



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887402)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:47 PM
Author: fluffy gunner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888712)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:36 PM
Author: Amber Brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889498)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:19 PM
Author: histrionic brethren

The important question is how many years is she likely to get. Bloodacre is right that you're better off acting sooner rather than later. Yes you'll be dirt ass poor until your distribution, but that's doable and it will only get worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887246)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: Rusted Vengeful Orchestra Pit Volcanic Crater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887250)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy Pocket Flask Box Office

doesn't it make more sense to gut it out until the end of the year so at least you have the distribution in the bank to live off of for the next year?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887261)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:23 PM
Author: histrionic brethren

It will take that long anyway and that's just more money for her to get initially. So fuck no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887283)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:25 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy Pocket Flask Box Office

okay so he only gets half of it. That still gives him a cushion and keeps him from having to stay in some flop house

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887309)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: curious parlour

yeah just open the books up. hell hire a sox compliance officer for your wife to review your financials.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887359)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: Magenta trailer park halford

http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3735127&mc=43&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887248)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: sadistic area

She's a SAHM, right? Did she have a career before? Definitely one of the potential drawbacks with trying to live in a "traditional" marriage with the wife at home. With social media and modern lifestyles, the desire to consume is endless and women without real jobs don't appreciate how hard it is nowadays to bring in the dough. When each side is bringing in about the same an amicable split is a lot easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887249)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:25 PM
Author: Emerald nubile abode quadroon

Wrong. The cause is the divorce/alimony laws and this chick's illness and personality, not that a wife is raising the kids at home.

Women with jobs consume just as much -- more even. My fiend who is a senior associate has been laid off a bunch of times. and each time after YEARS of making 250-400k per year by herself, she was literally 90 days from being on the streets and destitute with no money. That's how much she consumed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887307)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Contagious indian lodge skinny woman

JFC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887398)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Emerald nubile abode quadroon

she jokingly suggested she be my mistress (we were FWBs at one point). i guarantee she would have accepted if i had offered.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887417)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: jade soul-stirring site hunting ground

Hungry little buttsluts for GC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887423)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: Talented crackhouse therapy

run

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887258)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: Cracking cuck

:(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887260)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:21 PM
Author: Metal Hall

Thoughts and prayers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887266)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:23 PM
Author: Supple idiotic roommate mediation

Move to a state or country with no alimony/little alimony, then get divorced.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887278)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: Supple idiotic roommate mediation

Texas is one of the hardest states to get alimony payments in the country. ..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887303)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 7:33 PM
Author: Titillating judgmental meetinghouse

Is this true?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46613626)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:34 PM
Author: brass mind-boggling nursing home azn



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887406)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:46 PM
Author: maniacal cumskin

Any family lawyers in here?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887498)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:10 PM
Author: wine sinister business firm

I think two years in Texas would do it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887637)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:16 PM
Author: fantasy-prone casino doctorate

Crrr. “Baby let’s move our life anywhere else and try again. For our kids sake. How about Texas?”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888926)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:26 PM
Author: Bistre big center regret

Ran here for this.

Also, do not underestimate at fault states and how effectively you can entrap her into being at fault.

I post this as my standard thought on divorce law.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/H._Beatty_Chadwick



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889405)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:36 PM
Author: Amber Brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889493)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:23 PM
Author: violet 180 lay

dont divorce, just get your whore wife in line.

man up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887284)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:28 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

You know what man, fucking CR. But after years of this shit, at some point you have to be real and admit defeat. This woman thrives on conflict and loves nothing more than to fly off the handle in a rage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887344)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: violet 180 lay

you have kids. fix it.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887396)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:40 PM
Author: stubborn bawdyhouse

Cr. Theres no winning with a woman like this. They actually enjoy the conflict because it's how they feel like they matter

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887451)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 4:56 PM
Author: Peach swashbuckling legal warrant chapel

I once read in a book that emotional women do this to feel alive. It's very common for emotional women to start conflicts when their life is boring because they need to feel. Negative or positive emotions are better than none. Drama makes them feel alive which is better than straight boredom of everyday life, especially for a sahm.

I forgot exactly how you're supposed to respond but they said she will appreciate a spanking. She needs boundaries and wants you, as a man, to set them for her. She will respect you more and feel safer when you spank her. Google it if you're serious about improving your situation without resorting to expensive divorce. Not flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36894728)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:26 PM
Author: Supple idiotic roommate mediation

Can you have her committed to a mental institution? Some states allow involuntary commitment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887325)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:28 PM
Author: Dun lascivious church queen of the night

Wow not flame:

http://www.scalimonyreform.com

Actually if Muscadine was a super long running men’s rights flame schtick I bow down.

Lol at you SC cucks. Texas caps at 5k or 20% of gross income per month, whichever is lower and cuts it off at 5 years if the marriage lasted 10-20. I make more than your best year and would pay a mere 5k per month in alimony and child support and have a glorious 3500 a month to live on, and would jump to 6k plus whatever additional earnings I build minus child support for the 10 remaining years until our youngest was 18.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887346)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:30 PM
Author: histrionic brethren

Jfc he's in literally the worst place for this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887368)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Contagious indian lodge skinny woman

LJL at that video of two women titled "Alimony is like winning the lottery!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887420)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: Vibrant juggernaut

"I thought about it and realized: I don't want to work that hard!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889852)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: brass mind-boggling nursing home azn



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887363)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:32 PM
Author: Glittery Sienna Space

Sorry to hear this. Can you elaborate on behavior? History of mental illness or substance use? Does she think she has an issue?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887380)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:32 PM
Author: Dun lascivious church queen of the night

Hilarious that her mental illness gets her more money in SC.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887387)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: stubborn bawdyhouse

Get divorced. You'll be way happier and feel like you're in control even if you're a poor. Try to get her to settle for no alimony even if it means surrendering almost everything you have including retirement accounts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887399)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:35 PM
Author: Emerald nubile abode quadroon

Can you ONE WEIRD TRICK this by moving to Georgia? Or is that too far?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887408)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Mewling cerebral trump supporter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887419)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:38 PM
Author: balding menage sandwich

Move to Russia or Mexico for 3 to 6 months, then divorcepwn that bitch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887436)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:43 PM
Author: angry odious wrinkle

Get a job transfer to Texas, wait 6 months, divorce her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887470)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:44 PM
Author: Supple idiotic roommate mediation

Tcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887476)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:44 PM
Author: Wonderful Theatre Faggotry

This is the most credited advice so far.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887480)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:46 PM
Author: violent rebellious dysfunction

100% cr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887491)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:47 PM
Author: brass mind-boggling nursing home azn



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887504)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:02 PM
Author: erotic mental disorder nibblets



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887596)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:07 PM
Author: Amber Brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887618)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:40 PM
Author: Gay bateful stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887850)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:52 PM
Author: Fragrant Overrated Background Story

feels like youve been giving this some thought.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889652)



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Date: November 19th, 2019 10:54 AM
Author: Rose private investor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39139282)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:46 PM
Author: Crimson Karate Resort

Don't divorce. Also unretire from XO to cope. That said, a serious question: Why did you want to marry the woman who became your wife in the first place? How did you end up together and what factors made you choose her as "the one?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887499)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:50 PM
Author: curious parlour

like all dudes, he was tricked by the facade she built as she disguised her psychotic craziness until inertia brought the relationship here, whether pre-engagement or the facade falling around year 5 f marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887525)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: histrionic brethren

Ljl at this naive virginal papist bullshit. Live with a woman then get back to us

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887580)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:03 PM
Author: Multi-colored amethyst ticket booth round eye



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:20 PM
Author: Marvelous Alpha Son Of Senegal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888952)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:24 PM
Author: Razzle light useless brakes

sorry charles but this is cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888983)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:39 PM
Author: Crimson Karate Resort

*Naive person asks experienced person about his experiences*

XO: WTF idiot!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889112)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:15 PM
Author: curious parlour

it's not an honest question you had an edge to it as if you're above this occurrence and nobody is, ever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889329)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 12:37 PM
Author: Razzle light useless brakes



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36892583)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:58 PM
Author: Dull Community Account



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:55 PM
Author: Stirring principal's office toilet seat



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889680)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:06 PM
Author: Dun lascivious church queen of the night

It’s weird to realize which poasters read certain threads v other poasters who completely miss them. Muscadine has explained at some length more than once that she was blatantly crazy from the jump and he willed himself to excuse and overlook it. His wife was the hot, big titted, crazy chick at the bar one night, and he met her when he was drunk and feeling good about himself. And then his dick took over and next thing he knew he was married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888024)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:40 PM
Author: saffron indirect expression ape

this is true. MW acted stupidly. but it doesn't mean he should be getting fucked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888210)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:52 PM
Author: Crimson Karate Resort

Oh, I've read most of his threads and knew it was something like that, but I was just interested in a refresher and getting more details, for the sake of possibly learning from this human tragedy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888298)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:51 PM
Author: Henna pit

Welcome home; we missed you. It's good to have you back.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887527)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:52 PM
Author: Emerald nubile abode quadroon

cr, Muscadine is a top poaster and a great guy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887532)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:38 PM
Author: Beta ultramarine rigpig theater stage



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:39 PM
Author: jet hominid hell



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:54 PM
Author: aromatic umber filthpig stage

You can get an amateur weather balloon for $300 that would take something the same weight as an average human up to an altitude so high that it would probably travel 100 miles over the sea before falling from a height so great that whatever was attached would disintegrate on impact and quickly be eaten by fish&sharks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887546)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 5:59 PM
Author: curious parlour



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887568)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:07 PM
Author: Stimulating puppy affirmative action



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:04 PM
Author: carnelian heady crotch



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:04 PM
Author: Nudist trip double fault



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:12 PM
Author: vivacious sexy library



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:00 PM
Author: fluffy gunner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888824)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:24 PM
Author: Amber Brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888986)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:25 PM
Author: Razzle light useless brakes



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888992)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:37 PM
Author: pungent transparent potus immigrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889104)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:31 PM
Author: shimmering garrison



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889942)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 4:20 AM
Author: Cream charismatic boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36890801)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 1:25 PM
Author: Comical tantric market mad-dog skullcap

MW furiously googling South Carolina coastal wind patterns

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36893005)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 5:23 AM
Author: Ruby adventurous jewess boltzmann



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121244)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:02 PM
Author: Stimulating puppy affirmative action

The replies in this thread are amazing

some giving concrete advice based on legal reasoning

others giving advice from personal exp

others giving examples of toxic women

others coming from a religious point of view

some lamenting the end of western civilization

some giving possibly illegal legal advice

some providing methods in which OP could murder his wife and get away with it

just lulzy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887592)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:01 PM
Author: fluffy gunner

i really like it here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888829)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: jade soul-stirring site hunting ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889597)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: Gay bateful stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889909)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:16 PM
Author: Sooty Dilemma

u hittin the vape?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888928)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:26 PM
Author: Stimulating puppy affirmative action

yee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889401)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:50 AM
Author: stubborn bawdyhouse

"The Muscadine responses fall within roughly three categories"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891331)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 3:21 PM
Author: Stimulating puppy affirmative action



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Date: November 15th, 2019 6:46 AM
Author: tan talking dog poop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121349)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:04 PM
Author: wine sinister business firm

This is heartbreaking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887602)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:05 PM
Author: wine sinister business firm

Daddy Beds (aka a couch) would be a good moniker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887611)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 4:59 PM
Author: Peach swashbuckling legal warrant chapel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36894757)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:08 PM
Author: autistic theater gay wizard

Would your wife or her potential lawyer know about crypto?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887627)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:11 PM
Author: Mewling cerebral trump supporter



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:12 PM
Author: curious parlour

for old's time sake link to a poast where you debated why getting engaged to her was a great idea on your part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887650)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:25 PM
Author: razzmatazz hairless property

Would your partners agree to cook the books for you? Might mean filing a felonious tax return. Not sure I'd do that for a friend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887741)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:41 PM
Author: curious parlour

believe this has been covered, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887853)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:25 PM
Author: indecent roast beef hospital

suicide seems like a good idea

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887744)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:38 PM
Author: canary high-end shitlib gas station

I’m really sorry to hear this bro and I hope that you maek it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887835)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:38 PM
Author: Mustard startled plaza

All I can say is that I’m sorry for your awful situation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887838)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 6:48 PM
Author: orange cruise ship

Have you tried giving yourself a chance to love her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887902)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:08 PM
Author: Dun lascivious church queen of the night



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:01 PM
Author: unholy excitant school cafeteria



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:45 PM
Author: shimmering garrison



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:32 AM
Author: harsh weed whacker



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Date: September 26th, 2018 1:35 PM
Author: chestnut kitchen



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:01 PM
Author: Appetizing athletic conference den

Love you brother

One of my all time favorite poasters and have been following this awhile

Let this be a cautionary i told you so take for all poasters to see that all is flame under the sun, but nothing moar flame than love and marriage

im a Chad btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36887985)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:07 PM
Author: Mustard startled plaza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888029)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:08 PM
Author: spectacular house

Can you find a way to get her committed to a mental hospital instead?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888032)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:09 PM
Author: self-absorbed shrine ceo

Russian passport + leave the US. Pay not one cent to your Yankee wife. Glory to the empire.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888037)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:13 PM
Author: crystalline deer antler partner

Sorry to hear you are going through this. If anyone on XO can relate to your situation, it has to be me. It is not your fault your wife is a raving cluster B bitch. There is no "controlling" a person who innately has these traits. It is not a reflection on you as a man.

It enrages me to hear this is how you would be treated by the court system - you don't deserve this and the way men are treated by family courts is a huge injustice. I don't see any good answer for your situation, but wish you luck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888067)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:24 PM
Author: curious parlour

you see the answer. we all do. it's just what are the chances of getting away clean plus the happiness co-efficient of starting over divided over the csi skills needed to avoid the electric chair.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888143)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:36 PM
Author: self-absorbed shrine ceo

The answer is keep your money in Russia and get the fuck out of Yankeestan.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888187)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 7:15 PM
Author: Green fanboi

haha wow holy shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888074)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 8:48 PM
Author: thriller greedy home place of business

stuffwhitepeoplelike: pretending they live in the first world

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36888719)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:33 PM
Author: federal coiffed state

Fake some attacks by her. Run into a wall, call the cops and say she attacked you. File for divorce for cause. No alimony that way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889078)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:14 PM
Author: Ebony Party Of The First Part

Brother:

I retired for the same reason.... our story is the same. Daughter, wife, illness, condition. I am younger than you but not by much. Our daughters are the same age

I wish I could reach out to you. I know you are hurting so bad

Fuck deus vult. Morons like him don’t understand

I’m going underground after posting this and will never come back, but stay strong and I’m going to try to do the same

I promise (and I mean it) I think about you and will pray for you often

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889324)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:19 PM
Author: thriller greedy home place of business

lol@ this thread literally being a battered husband syndrome support thread

when will cumskins take control of their women? serious question.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889360)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:33 PM
Author: Ebony Party Of The First Part

it’s not like that

I’m not battered. I made choices. But it is what it is.

Good luck to all

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889462)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:36 PM
Author: thriller greedy home place of business

denial...yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889492)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:54 PM
Author: canary high-end shitlib gas station

(Guy whose wife fleeced him and went back to Russia)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889666)



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Date: July 5th, 2023 1:17 AM
Author: thriller greedy home place of business



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46510297)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:24 PM
Author: Stirring principal's office toilet seat

muscadine seems like a sincere guy but most of the posturing in the OP is a massive red flag that he's heavily in denial about some of what is occurring here.

people that are this one-sided and self-martyring about their domestic circumstances are rarely willing to relate the whole truth of the matter. it's natural - he's posting to receive support and encouragement, so you're going to get a pitch of some sort.

muscadine, brother, please don't let alcohol and self-pity over aging out of being too old to get pussy like when you were young completely remove you from rational hesitancy. i'm not saying don't deal with your problems, but you're an alcoholic, an egoist, and underdeveloped due to your nostalgia for your salad says. if you devolve further into this victim/cross-dragging mentality over your failed marriage to the extent that you start having middle-aged Baby Boomer pity parties because of 'all the lies you were told,' then you're bound to fail at this life transition.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889387)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:27 PM
Author: thriller greedy home place of business

bro why are you even playing armchair psychiatrist with this guy.

its simple: the guy is trapped by a third world marriage and now he realizes there is NO WAY OUT

you act as if he ever had a choice to begin with. and that makes him a true tragedy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889413)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:27 PM
Author: curious parlour

women are horrible. i have no reason to doubt his side. and i'm sure the shit his kids say is as bad as watching that golden retriever video. women are disgusting monsters.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889414)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:46 PM
Author: Stirring principal's office toilet seat

I don't doubt that his wife is a bitch and he doesn't want to be married to her anymore. i also believe he loves his kids and he has grown to think that this is all for their sake. can't really comment on the latter point and he'll inevitably fly into a rage if i suggest i really know the truth of his situation, so I'll back away from that.

the real thrust is that this guy sees himself as a faultless lamb in a hellstorm of completely unfair circumstances. his marriage is a fraud. his career is a fraud. his life broadly is a fraud because he could have been having so much fucking fun as a merchant marine making $32K a year and banging flip hookers on his once-a-month 11 hours of shore leave. he'd get tats and rail lines! he'd be a bartender and life in a cool loft where he would bang hot chicks!

he's in full blown self-pitying indulgence mode. it's part and parcel to wistful boozing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889579)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:49 PM
Author: Ebony Party Of The First Part

suppose it weren’t muscadine. I want to hear what u have to say. Don’t hold back.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889617)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:50 PM
Author: curious parlour

i've almost married the flip hookers and law is actually, fuck, equal in shitiness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889627)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:01 PM
Author: floppy chartreuse field lettuce



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889721)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 3:17 PM
Author: sepia galvanic heaven travel guidebook

I don't doubt that his wife is a horrible bitch and all the shit he says about her is true but I also get that sense too that he's not as perfect as he let's on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36893976)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:24 PM
Author: Amber Brunch

Seriously, you must know that this can't actually stand. No point in continuing on as is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889391)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:49 PM
Author: Stirring principal's office toilet seat

what is your murder-suicide plan if, on one of your routine fidelity checks, you discover that seven years ago mandy made out with a drunk law school acquaintance in an opportunistic moment?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889607)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:09 PM
Author: Amber Brunch

I'm confident she has never done that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889764)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: Bistre big center regret

Because neither of you interacted with other students in law school or for some other reason?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889851)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:21 PM
Author: Amber Brunch

The fact that she is totally antisocial helps, sure.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889862)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:24 PM
Author: floppy chartreuse field lettuce

Do you think Mandy ever fantasizes about a taller guy with a bigger dick and less sour breath?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889888)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:24 PM
Author: Amber Brunch

No and wtf @ the sour breath???

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36889893)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 12:40 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring Elastic Band

That was the best part

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36892614)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 4:02 AM
Author: Vigorous cuckold circlehead

Keep talking shit about Bravo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36890779)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 3:23 PM
Author: saffron indirect expression ape



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36894045)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 4:16 AM
Author: hot motley location digit ratio

I thought you love BBW

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36890796)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 8:31 AM
Author: Olive pozpig hairy legs

Hey man i hope you're still lurking at least. Your situation is toxic as fuck and will only get worse. Your interpersonal relationship with her will never improve but the longer this goes on the worse the financial impact will be. You will have been married for longer and you will likely be earning more. So if you are at this point you need to bite the bullet and move forward. A year from now you will not believe you ever waited so long.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891043)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:02 AM
Author: Vigorous cuckold circlehead

He's 180. Needs to dump her fast and post more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891112)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 11:50 PM
Author: Zombie-like exhilarant legend office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36897812)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:44 AM
Author: hot motley location digit ratio

His solution was to impregnate the sack of shit again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121093)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:53 AM
Author: Appetizing athletic conference den



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121108)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 6:02 AM
Author: vivacious sexy library



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121302)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 9:09 AM
Author: Zombie-like exhilarant legend office

Sorry friend. If you ever need to chat. Xojoedirtexo@gmail.com.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#36891139)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:28 AM
Author: thriller greedy home place of business

good times

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121057)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:36 AM
Author: hot motley location digit ratio

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121076)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:39 AM
Author: thriller greedy home place of business

muscadine is in a better place now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121084)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:40 AM
Author: hot motley location digit ratio

Now he has 3 kids with the same nutbag. The world is now an infinitely worse place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121085)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:44 AM
Author: thriller greedy home place of business

lol no way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121092)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:45 AM
Author: hot motley location digit ratio

Yeah he made a post about it this week. He got the bitch pregnant again!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121094)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:52 AM
Author: thriller greedy home place of business

lollercausting hard ITT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121106)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:55 AM
Author: hot motley location digit ratio

Nothing funny about it, it's profoundly fucked up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121111)



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Date: April 4th, 2023 8:42 PM
Author: wine sinister business firm

He reached an emotionally mature place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46144784)



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Date: November 19th, 2019 9:46 AM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

I'm glad that I didn't file for divorce. My wife and I are getting along much better and my life is much better today having stayed married than what I imagine a divorce would have brought.

That being said, this thread was fun to read, if anything just to reminisce about how bad things really got.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39138982)



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Date: November 19th, 2019 10:45 AM
Author: Up-to-no-good Mad Cow Disease

charles was right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39139219)



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Date: November 19th, 2019 10:49 AM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

yea, seems he was

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39139251)



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Date: November 19th, 2019 11:07 AM
Author: Crimson Karate Resort

180, glad to hear it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39139350)



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Date: November 19th, 2019 11:16 AM
Author: Hyperventilating School



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39139385)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:44 AM
Author: big-titted obsidian parlor cuckoldry

180 thread... confirms all the horror of modern day marriage and western womens

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121091)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 5:26 AM
Author: Ruby adventurous jewess boltzmann



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121246)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 1:42 AM
Author: Concupiscible boistinker jew

how is she entitled to that much alimony wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121089)



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Date: November 15th, 2019 6:03 AM
Author:  address



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#39121306)



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Date: April 4th, 2023 9:30 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

Big W muscadine bumped this today, and it almost brought me to tears reading this. I forgot all about this post.

I am so thankful, and I mean I thank God in heaven, that I did not divorce my wife. I can't believe how close I was to losing my family, and I think about our youngest child and how she wouldn't be here today if we hadn't stayed together. It would have been such an awful mistake to divorce.

Times were hard, and I don't know how I kept it together through these tough times, but I am so thankful that I did.

I can't imagine where I would be if this had gone the wrong way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46145007)



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Date: April 4th, 2023 9:33 PM
Author:  preventive strike

180 brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46145014)



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Date: April 4th, 2023 9:33 PM
Author:  patrolman stag film

1800000 so happy to hear, man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46145016)



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Date: July 5th, 2023 1:22 AM
Author: Adulterous famous landscape painting

unmitigated 190, i'm always happy to see bros here turn they life around

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46510309)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 3:03 PM
Author:  institution

How is it turned around? Seems like he is OK with not having sex. Maybe he decided if he got divorcepwned he'd have no $$ to even hire a whore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46612595)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 12:05 AM
Author: fluffy gunner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46610153)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 1:12 AM
Author:  institution

How often do u fuck? How much does she weight and any change since 2018?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46610244)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 1:22 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

About once a month, and her body remains fantastic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46611969)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 1:24 PM
Author: Onyx tank

Damn dude how do you not make if your life's mission to try and fuck her more. Like, get into Broadway musicals. Whatever it takes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46611974)



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Date: August 1st, 2023 12:08 PM
Author: hairraiser scarlet senate

Reasonable expectations go a long way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46616142)



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Date: August 1st, 2023 12:11 PM
Author: Onyx tank

I have no clue what this means. Translate into English?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46616148)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 3:02 PM
Author:  institution

Do u have such low sex drive or what? I don't have a bitch and I easily afford a whore once a month. Really 1 hr with a whore in euro costs no more than my 1 night stay at a hotel. I thought the advantage of marriage is that u pay the same for the hotel or your house but get to fuck each day, which would otherwise cost $300+/hr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46612587)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 1:24 PM
Author: Slimy goyim



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46611977)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 12:01 AM
Author: Puce forum



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46610142)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 4:58 PM
Author: alcoholic white spot

What's the lookback window for income? Meaning can you earn shit for a year or two then divorce and be on the hook for much lower alimony? Maybe now is the time to discover your altrustic side and devote tike to your local legal aid society.

Also, keep in mind people usually end up with the right person for them and this is the mother of your children. Maybe shes just in the wrong and youre the good guy but take a long hard look at yourself and your future prospects before you go down this path.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46613070)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 5:02 PM
Author:  institution

He chose life of 1x/month sex with 40yo woman that had 3 kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46613080)



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Date: July 31st, 2023 5:10 PM
Author:  Set

I haven’t read the other responses yet but have you considered fleeing to Baja or Southeast Asia?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46613112)



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Date: August 1st, 2023 12:13 PM
Author: wine sinister business firm

I really love that this thread is evergreen

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087371&forum_id=2#46616152)