Being white and living in China
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Date: November 12th, 2018 12:35 PM Author: 180 maroon garrison
follow-up long form to post here: http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4130162&forum_id=2#37209985
lots of white guys in the current year harbor fantasies of escaping western degeneration by moving to china. i'm here to tell you about my personal experience and why this doesn't work. for starters, you should know that china is working on a pretty epic economic collapse, but this post is going to be more about general cultural and ethnic differences between whites and chinese
chinese women will love you. this much is true. chinese men are unrefined, selfish, terrible lovers, and generally very clueless about women. not to mention the small dick thing, which is very real, and something that asian men are very self-conscious about
speaking of which - although the chinese women will love you, the chinese men will resent you. they will never really accept you as one of them. because you aren't one of them. you will never be one of them. they will respect you, yes (if you are worthy of respect). they may even defer to you a majority of the time. but they'll never see you as one of them. you'll always be a lao wai, even if you marry a chinese girl or speak their language just as fluently as they do. and when the chips are down, they'll always side with other chinese over you. as well they should - you're an invader in their land who they accommodate, just as the chinese immigrants in western lands are invaders who we accommodate
you'll never achieve the same camaraderie with chinese that you will with other white people. you'll never really understand what it means to be chinese, just as they will never really understand what it means to be a white american. this may seem like a simple statement that doesn't say much, but it's something that i didn't *get* until actually experiencing it for myself, and it's a common refrain among white expats in china. yes, you will make chinese friends, and you will genuinely enjoy each other's company. but it won't ever be quite the same as relationships with people who genuinely understand you and value you for what you really are
i never appreciated just how fundamentally different groups of humans really are until i lived in china for an extended period of time. "diversity" may not be "our strength," but it is real - we really are different from each other. this is not some kind of nebulous thing made up by internet nazis. and it's okay to be different. refusing to recognize differences between groups is wrong, and it hurts everyone
if you have specific questions about china for me, go ahead and ask. i would highly recommend it as a place to visit, or even to live there for a while. but moving there and staking out a brand-new life for yourself as a white person will not work. i haven't personally lived in other parts of asia (or anywhere else in the world), but i'm virtually certain that this same principle applies to everywhere else, too. you'll never be truly happy or content unless you live among your own kind
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4131015&forum_id=2#37216130) |
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Date: November 12th, 2018 12:55 PM Author: Thriller scarlet abode
most FOBs i know much prefer asian men
they prob mainly wanted your $$$, not your cock
mainlanders were all dirt poor peasants until this generation
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4131015&forum_id=2#37216278) |
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Date: November 12th, 2018 3:03 PM Author: buff naked jewess
Lol the women are easy as fuck in Taiwan
The issue with Singapore and HK isn't their wealth but the abundance of white men who live there
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4131015&forum_id=2#37217306)
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Date: November 12th, 2018 1:08 PM Author: Avocado legal warrant hominid
Yeah, wow, I feel so much solidarity with America and Facebook and shitlibs and CNN!
All of your criticisms are pretty neutral man
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4131015&forum_id=2#37216366) |
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Date: November 12th, 2018 2:00 PM Author: supple shimmering shitlib
90% of people in every society have no theory of mind capabilities. NPCs and all.
it's just that as an American, you have a deeper understanding of American culture that allows you to immediately weed out NPCs from your life.
it's unlikely that most expats have a deep enough understanding of their new countries to really have solid heurestics to weed out NPCs. like what would the Chinese version of a "eat, laugh, travel" door mat be?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4131015&forum_id=2#37216845) |
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Date: November 12th, 2018 5:23 PM Author: Frozen affirmative action dragon
Regarding the Chinar NPC meme, Rainy archetype encapsulates this very well:
i'm a sunshine girl, like to eat, sleep, laugh every day~~
maybe you can have a try?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4131015&forum_id=2#37218281) |
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Date: November 12th, 2018 3:28 PM Author: 180 maroon garrison
re: your poast below - see the link in my OP for the context
i was a chinese linguist in the US military and decided to live in china for a while after i became a civilian again. at the time i was pretty disillusioned with america's future and was looking for somewhere to escape to where i could actually settle down and stake out a new life. i left for the reason that i explain in my OP - i could never live long-term in a place where i'd always be an outsider. still looking for a place to escape to from the gradual degeneration of america, though
there are a lot of differences, of course, but i'll focus on the main two: 1. chinese people have almost no concept of individual identity and individual rights, and 2. chinese people view the world as a series of formulaic material and social transactions. these two things are strikingly different than how white westerners see the world, and almost all of the other differences between whites and chinese derive from these two main differences
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4131015&forum_id=2#37217480) |
Date: November 12th, 2018 2:46 PM Author: Sable gaming laptop space
"lots of white guys in the current year harbor fantasies of escaping western degeneration by moving to china."
btw, i don't know anyone irl who dreams of living in china for the authoritarianism
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4131015&forum_id=2#37217157) |
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