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Date: July 16th, 2019 12:58 AM Author: Glittery spot
Beat her to it
And by to it I mean her
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Date: July 16th, 2019 10:38 AM Author: excitant shimmering hospital cuckoldry
how is you fuck game? are you laying the pipe? DO you make herrrrr feel important in bed? Have you considered "reverse roles" maybe a nice butt plug for yourself? Maybe a whatever those faggots call it when you get ass fucked by the girl?
im not a therapist but I would suggest you exhaust all the above first
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4303838&forum_id=2#38539828) |
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Date: July 17th, 2019 10:30 AM Author: Dun hall
Oh, wow. Does she not want to go to her own therapist?
Happiness is a choice, man. She can choose to be happy about having a hard working husband, two-healthy beautiful children, a nice house, etc., or she can choose to mope about lost opportunities, a wasted life, lack of career, etc. It's really that simple; it's just a shift in perspective.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4303838&forum_id=2#38545152) |
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Date: July 17th, 2019 12:39 PM Author: Apoplectic Point
She would say that I am unreliable in that I try to take on too much at work and in life generally, and don't follow through with stuff at home, and she's sick of it. She would also say that she doesn't trust me because when I was crashing and burning early in my career and she would text me at 6 pm I would tell her I was about to leave the office but then not get home until after 8 and she would be stewing in her resentments and not speak to me and I would barely notice because I was so stressed and tired.
She would also claim that I should have done more to foster a physical relationship. She generally claims that the root cause of our physical relationship problems is that I made her feel like all I wanted was sex and our physical relationship lacked intimacy, and when she told me this I didn't change so she became closed off. I would retort that I did a lot to try to make her feel comfortable, and she was constantly rejecting me for like a decade. I would also say that the root cause issue is that her immigrant parents would physically beat her and scream at her when a boy called her house in high school and she's fucked up and needs to deal with her shit, and I would be happy to do whatever I can to help if she would take this seriously. At various points in the past she's admitted that this is an issue, and we've even done "sex therapist" exercises e.g. where she has to basically let me lightly touch her and try to enjoy it, but it's not something that a "touch" exercise can solve because it's resulted in a her being depressed generally and just not able to "self-actualize" or whatever in any phase of her life. Both her sisters are the exact same way. Her older sister just got divorced and my wife watching her go through that is the main reason why she backs off these divorce threats eventually.
So I basically stopped trying regularly to initiate anything even in the few years before kids and after kids it's just completely off the radar for both of us. When I'm horny I just wait for her to go to bed so I can watch porn. So we've had sex like maybe 15-20 times since 2010. And of course she's found porn on various devices and an escort ad once or twice and assumes I'm fucking whores on the reg.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4303838&forum_id=2#38545879) |
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Date: July 17th, 2019 4:58 PM Author: Apoplectic Point
Do you mean when I pay for her entire life, put two babies in her, comfort her after both are born with complications, take lead with every medical issue that comes up in hospital and afterward, get up with both kids at night 99% of the time to this day, also am up with them first every M-F feed them breakfast make their lunches, get them ready for school, trade off bedtimes and dishes/cleanup after dinner, watch all the shitty tv shows she chooses, pay for a sitter so we can have date nights every week and deal with in-laws constantly since her sister lives 5 min away and her parents are an hour away and my whole family is on the other side of the country?
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Date: July 17th, 2019 5:06 PM Author: razzle-dazzle party of the first part patrolman
yes this is all logical and rational and reasonable and you aren't 100% wrong to feel the way you do at this time
but there is also a nearly indescribable element here that is very clearly missing from your relationship (based on the way you describe your issues) and you may have the ability to open yourself to it. but it is a mental/emotional switch with an action potential requiring enough oomf to get to the other side and click into place. this is what your wife is craving and does not have the tools available to describe exactly how to get there, resulting in the present miscommunication and bitterness
even worse, there is a feedback loop making it more difficult to cross this barrier (requiring more effort) and easier to get into the routines and troubles of inefficiently transmitted emotional energies
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Date: July 17th, 2019 5:57 PM Author: razzle-dazzle party of the first part patrolman
those are likely all symptoms and a result of this going on for so long
imagine a car with a small mechanical problem that isn't repaired properly and just gets worse and worse overtime until there are major issues
you didn't do anything "wrong" here and seem to be putting in quite a bit of effort. it's a simple communication issue because often men and women don't even speak the same language
the bottom line is she needs something she does not know how to ask for
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Date: July 17th, 2019 4:59 PM Author: hot market brethren
How's that career going? She doesn't work?
Sounds like you're a workaholic and can't fuck her good or provide any emotional satisfaction.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4303838&forum_id=2#38547093)
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