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CharlesXII - any dating tips? I'm similar to you and going on a date tomorrow
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Date: August 10th, 2019 6:19 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza i somehow found a girl who seems to be really into me. and we're going out tomorrow. any tips? how do you end a first date? we're getting an early start...meeting up for lunch and then hanging out till whenever (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667575) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:32 PM Author: Walnut travel guidebook Lol weren’t you in my Bobby Birdshit thread talking all this shit about how whites are superior to turds and chinks? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668197) |
Date: August 10th, 2019 6:32 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667624) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 6:36 PM Author: Bistre Ceo Lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667640) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 6:37 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza any tips? i'm not a chad. just looking to build a real relationship. i have literally 0 experience in this area. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667642) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 6:38 PM Author: Supple parlour In what ways are you similar to Charles? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667646) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 6:39 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza inexperienced, nerdy interests, don't know how to interact with women outside of a professional context (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667654) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:36 PM Author: Supple parlour Are you as ugly as he is? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667797) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:40 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza yes, i'm not jacked (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667832) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 6:41 PM Author: Low-t naked principal's office famous landscape painting Get her drunk (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667662) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:20 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667750) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:28 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap While I’ve had a lot more success this summer than I did before I think it’d be hubristic for me to dispense advice like an expert. That said, I’d say a big one is to not be afraid of light physical contact from pretty early on. They’ll stop you if it’s too much, and they may not like it, but you have to try for it regardless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667764) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:34 PM Author: metal laughsome chapel ie kino escalate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667786) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:38 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap Basically. Trying to avoid PUA lingo, but this is a key thing to do that came very unnaturally to a German like me used to more...personal space. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667815) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:39 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza i've never done this before. how do i do it? light touch on back as she goes through door? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667822) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:43 PM Author: metal laughsome chapel yeah and if something makes you laugh a light touch on forearm or hand, a few like that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667842) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:45 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap You can start more basic than that. When you sit for lunch, sit in a manner where you can have your legs touch. Don’t be afraid to take her hand if the opportunity presents itself. If she’s not put off, she’ll let you do it, but if she isn’t ready for it she can break contact without it being some big awkward thing. If it goes well, you can escalate further. Put an arm around her shoulder, etc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667846) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:13 PM Author: fiercely-loyal mildly autistic regret idea he suggested Lmao, Charles. What are you 12?
PSA: DON'T PLAY FUCKING FOOTSIE ON A FIRST DATE. |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:27 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap He didn’t ask you for advice, bro. He asked me and I said what worked for me. Leg kino works well early. Setting aside how it may make the girl feel, it’ll make him more confident too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667969) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:42 PM Author: metal laughsome chapel it’s not bad advice at all, I’m just messing with you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667840) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:41 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza ty. any other big ones? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667835) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:01 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap Nothing that wouldn’t sound absurd coming from me. XO hype aside I’m hardly a Chad, just a very later bloomer who has finally had some mild success. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667890) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 12:40 AM Author: Beady-eyed slippery quadroon “I’m hardly a Chad” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38673399) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 9:25 AM Author: lake marvelous theatre water buffalo "light" grabbing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38669461) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 9:26 AM Author: fiercely-loyal mildly autistic regret idea he suggested Don't end up getting #MeToo-ed, Charles! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38669464) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 12:32 AM Author: Wonderful emerald dilemma digit ratio god, youre such a fucking queer.
YOU CANT FUCKING "HAVE SUCCESS" IF YOU ARENT SMASHING.
quit trying to imply shit. you either are getting laid or you arent. nothing else matters. answer the fucking question, fag.
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Date: August 12th, 2019 11:12 AM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap Sorry about your crippling mental illness, friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38674573) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:37 PM Author: charismatic bbw She’s not into you. She’s into the idea of finding a boyfriend. Her fake interest will met away after the second date when she gets to know you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667808) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:40 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza toxic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667827) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:41 PM Author: charismatic bbw You can’t be “into” someone without having gone on a date. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667837) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:45 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza we've spent several hours alone in other contexts...jsut not like an explicit "let's hang out". that's happening tomorrow (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667848) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:46 PM Author: charismatic bbw GL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667853) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:47 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza tyty. i think she is into me...i said my favorite book was remains of the day and she literally read it the next day and texted me for hours about it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667857) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:48 PM Author: charismatic bbw This’ll end well (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667863) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:07 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap Best of luck to you. This is extremely close to what happened to me a year ago. We’d talk on the phone for 45 minutes a day, we hung out several times in quick succession, and we read the books we suggested to each other. I’ve never felt a better connection with a chick. But in the end she shot me down, and honestly I’m still not over it.
THAT SAID, I think I’d do better if I got a second chance today, and I think my failure was that I was far too passive. So do what I suggested. Initiate some physical contact, be playful, and see if she goes along with it. |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:09 PM Author: charismatic bbw Charles I doubt you’re gonna become some kind of assertive chad. If she didn’t like that you were passive that means she didn’t like YOU (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667913) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:11 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap I’ll never be an apex Chad. But I can be far more assertive than I was a year ago, and I have been. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667917) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:12 PM Author: charismatic bbw If only you’d touched her more she’d be your wife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667925) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:19 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap Sad but true! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667946) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:34 PM Author: charismatic bbw You have so far to go (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667985) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:37 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap Sorry about your toxic negativity bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667995) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:42 PM Author: charismatic bbw I’m sure you’ll end up with a fat chick that you sorta get along with. Enjoy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668008) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:03 PM Author: Supple parlour (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668076) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:26 PM Author: infuriating hell deer antler (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667967) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:11 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza how could she shoot you down? wait, this was a after several outings? i would have figured she'd know that you were inexperienced and would understand... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667921) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:19 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap I guess not, haha.
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:47 PM Author: jade office This is CR and it took me years to understand this. By far the easiest type of women to "date" is one who has a wedding to attend soon. They're mortified to show up without a date, so anybody who owns a suit instantly becomes a viable candidate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667856) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 7:48 PM Author: charismatic bbw Great example (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38667859) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:48 PM Author: Aggressive Aphrodisiac Set Scourge Upon The Earth suit owner here. can confirm.
once I went to a wedding and the girl sitting next to me asked ME out before the ceremony even began. |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 1:21 PM Author: jade office also TCR. Attend as many weddings as possible, single women feel awful and will actively hunt you down. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38670290) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:51 PM Author: charcoal voyeur Mig you're acting like some sort of misery vampire that feeds off of snuffing out optimism. I do this too sometimes. It's bad. Try to stop, dude. Just because we're miserable doesn't mean everyone is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668036) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:52 PM Author: charismatic bbw The statement I made is objectively accurate. Any normative judgment you’re making is a figment of your imagination. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668040) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 8:59 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668063) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:00 PM Author: charismatic bbw Once you fall on your face countless times this will all make sense (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668066) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:02 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap I've already fallen on my face countless times, dipshit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668070) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:02 PM Author: charismatic bbw Obviously not enough (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668072) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:12 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza are you just angry you have failed on this count and don't see any hoap for a brighter future? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668125) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:13 PM Author: charismatic bbw No I just hate seeing the kind of naïveté in others that has caused me pain in the past (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668126) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:15 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap You think my naivete hasn't caused me immense pain? Fuck off. It absolutely has, but I will not allow it to make me despair. I have improved and I will continue to do so. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668138) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:16 PM Author: charismatic bbw I think you just have too much left (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668144) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:20 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza so you've just given up? don't attack we who are still trying. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668160) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:24 PM Author: charismatic bbw No, I just have more realistic expectations about what it means to meet and get to know someone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668173) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 2:42 AM Author: lavender dashing boiling water house You actually suck though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38673571) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:08 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza CharlesXII do you ever split the check? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668103) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:10 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap I have with some and not with others. No strong thoughts on it. I typically do pick it up but I've tried to cultivate a more generous spirit of late, so I even buy shit for friends sometimes, etc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668114) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:10 PM Author: Supple parlour Whats the point of Kino if it's not to fuck? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668120) |
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Date: August 10th, 2019 9:14 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap You still need kino to kiss them and make them feel romantic attraction, bud. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38668136) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 8:25 AM Author: Walnut travel guidebook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38669353) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 8:31 AM Author: fiercely-loyal mildly autistic regret idea he suggested I rike a Charles as a poster, but asking him for dating advice is really lulzy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38669362) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 8:40 AM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38669387) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 8:44 AM Author: out-of-control violet messiness Tip #1: don’t set a first date for a Sunday unless you are a senior citizen dating another senior (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38669393) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 8:46 AM Author: mentally impaired lodge i don't get this - what's wrong with Sunday? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38669397) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 9:02 AM Author: lilac soggy plaza black woman Gret thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38669425) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 6:34 PM Author: puce nursing home (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38671736) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 7:04 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza HOLY FUCK CHARLESXII. I KISSED SOMEONE TODAY. And she definitely wanted me to show affection, she said she wanted to know when in the next two weeks we'd have "private time". Jesus fucking christ. She said it was weird that I was so confident/smooth in other aspects of my life that she was surprised I was so shy and hesitant when it comes to this stuff. But I was honest with her about my inexperience and she seemed to understand. She asked when we'd see each other again and I said...next weekend? She said what about earlier? So we're seeing each other Tuesday. How do i not fuck this up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38671874) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 7:10 PM Author: charismatic bbw Do not see her on Tuesday.
Make her wait.
She should not be calling the shots.
Seeing her too soon again will ruin it. |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 7:12 PM Author: fiercely-loyal mildly autistic regret idea he suggested lol
Ghost her. That'll show her who's in charge!! |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 7:12 PM Author: charismatic bbw Wrong (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38671916) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 7:14 PM Author: fiercely-loyal mildly autistic regret idea he suggested I was being sarcastic. You're the wrong one. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38671923) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 7:14 PM Author: charismatic bbw No, sorry. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38671929) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 12:29 AM Author: Fuchsia cracking crotch lettuce jesus christ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38673355) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 7:40 PM Author: Supple parlour How old is she, what does she look like? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38672064) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 7:53 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap Congrats, man! I don’t have too much advice for where to go from here. Best of luck though. If you do meet up on Tuesday, at least be the one calling the shots and deciding what you do. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38672114) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 9:50 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza tyty. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38672640) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 10:02 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza tyty. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38672724) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 10:03 AM Author: lake marvelous theatre water buffalo Anyways, gotta go. Let's keep in touch, and let me know if you need any help on your second date. Best of luck, brah. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38674174) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 11:50 AM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza ty. the main issue for me now is that i don't want her to see my place. honestly as the years went by i have become a "hoarder"...i just never saw any reason to keep up appearances and it may have been a symptom of feeling detached from society and from any potential for change. having met someone, honestly the first person i am really interested in, i am starting to see exactly why and how people want to improve themselves. obviously i'm going to clean up, but it's going to take like....weeks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38674777) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 12:34 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap It won’t take weeks, but you should start tonight. Get on it. You can almost certainly just throw a ton of it away. Rip the bandaid off. My apartment was never a disaster but I purged a ton of excess shit last Christmas and have no regrets. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38674998) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 10:45 AM Author: Cobalt center immigrant POUNCE while she’s into you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38674430) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 1:08 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza what does that mean... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38675197) |
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Date: August 13th, 2019 1:07 AM Author: Cobalt center immigrant it means if a girl is showing interest to the point of suggesting alone time, you have to arrange it pronto. don't listen to anyone saying you should wait. frankly, you probably could have slept with her that night. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38678826) |
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Date: August 13th, 2019 3:07 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza we're seeing a comedy show today. no plans afterward...should i try to steer things to visiting her place? she has a dog i have to meet. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38681342) |
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Date: August 13th, 2019 4:19 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38681726) |
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Date: August 13th, 2019 8:20 PM Author: Cobalt center immigrant Sorry, didn’t see this, but I think you knew the answer is yes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38682935) |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 9:44 AM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza made out with her in a park. things seem to be going well. tyty! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38684855) |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 1:33 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap 180 man nice work. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38686030) |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 1:55 PM Author: Cobalt center immigrant 180. great job! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38686187) |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 2:51 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza my problem now is i want to text her all the time. i need to have some self control here right? CharlesXII what do you think? i may be putting too much out there right now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38686571) |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 3:45 PM Author: Cobalt center immigrant tough call. kind of in that boat with the chick I banged last night. I want to text her — & objectively I think I should to reinforce interest — but then it’s the double-edged sword of either becoming a chore or a rejection.
my advice is to text her, but not obsequiously |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 3:47 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap How much does she text if you're not initiating? You don't want to seem needy or desperate. That said, you should do some. Try to direct towards seeing her again in-person, rather than having constant aimless chatter. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38686902) |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 3:59 PM Author: passionate address useless brakes Absolutely the cr here. In general just try not to be a fag. Roissy's jumbotron test is good advice in general (i.e. don't text her shit you'd be embarrassed about being shown on the jumbotron) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38686964) |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 4:40 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza it's too late for that...that seems like a pretty harsh rule. cause i'd be embarrassed to show almost any non-professional communication on the jumbotron. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38687231) |
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Date: August 11th, 2019 7:38 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38672050) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 12:29 AM Author: Wonderful emerald dilemma digit ratio the fuck would you ask an incel for date tips (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38673358) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 7:13 AM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap You’re behind the times friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38673793) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 10:46 AM Author: Cobalt center immigrant Charles has actually given good advice in this thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38674436) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 2:31 PM Author: puce nursing home (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38675594) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 8:05 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza CharlesXII do you ever reveal vulnerability...like dropping the performance of self-confidence? Like letting them know how inexperienced you are? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38677173) |
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Date: August 12th, 2019 8:24 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap This isn't a question I have a robust enough set of experiences to answer, honestly. Don't want to lead you astray with bad advice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38677266) |
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Date: August 13th, 2019 8:29 PM Author: free-loading brass athletic conference lollercausting hard ITT (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38682974) |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 3:03 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza she's korean (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38686662) |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 1:40 PM Author: cordovan talented jew dog poop In the land of the bald incels, the one haired man is king. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38686069) |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 3:49 PM Author: Magenta vivacious abode OP what kinda date are you thinking?
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Date: August 14th, 2019 4:36 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza date 1 = lunch and sitting at park at day date 2 = casual dinner + comedy show + sitting at park at night date 3 = ? i haven't thought about this yet. ideas? |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 4:40 PM Author: Magenta vivacious abode you're fucking this up man. wrong approach
see below
http://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=4323223&mc=2&forum_id=2 |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 4:40 PM Author: Cobalt center immigrant good luck. day dates fucking suck. never had success with them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38687240) |
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Date: August 14th, 2019 4:42 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza yea, it was literally my first date EVER. i was lucky that she was so forward and seems to like me a lot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38687248) |
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Date: August 17th, 2019 3:31 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza Update: I now have a girlfriend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38701608) |
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Date: August 17th, 2019 3:39 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap 180 congrats man. Describe. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38701644) |
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Date: August 17th, 2019 9:12 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza it's been a lot of fun. this past week has made me look forward to the rest of life. charlesxii you were right - she wanted physical affection and wanted me to tell her how i felt. it helps that she was understanding and took time to understand who i was and how i expressed things. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38703026) |
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Date: August 17th, 2019 6:47 PM Author: fiercely-loyal mildly autistic regret idea he suggested lol. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38702441) |
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Date: August 17th, 2019 4:15 PM Author: puce nursing home (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38701775) |
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Date: August 18th, 2019 10:14 AM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38704207) |
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Date: August 18th, 2019 11:47 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38707564) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 2:34 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726100) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 2:35 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap I want more details on how you made this chick your GF. Also any new developments? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726104) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 3:04 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza Ty, I owe you one.
Sunday 8.11 = first date - this is where I admitted I was new to this. She kissed me first. And also wondered when we'd have "private time". Monday 8.12 = talked a lot at work (we work together) Tuesday 8.13 = second date - made out after a comedy show Thursday 8.15 = talked a lot at work Saturday 8.17 = third date - brunch and helped her with errands for her upcoming international trip back home. She asked how she should describe her relationship to parents/friends. Officially boyfriend/girlfriend. Monday 8.18 = dinner after work, made out next to a river. Tuesday 8.19 = exchanged letters and gifts.
Now she's gone until Sep 20.
This writeup leaves out a TON of late night hours texting, including some that got racy. I am pretty sure we are both virgins so we are taking things slow on the physical end.
The biggest thing, CharlesXII, was that I had to force myself to be more physical - after a couple of times it felt easy and natural. I had never crossed that line before in any kind of interaction with women. Also, it seems like she loves it when I tell her how much I'm thinking about her (obviously in creative ways). It helps that I like writing and she seems to like my texting style. |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 3:26 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap 180 man, super happy for you. I don't have any advice on how to keep the flame burning for the next month, but hopefully some XOpos can advise. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726408) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 3:35 PM Author: Multi-colored Azure Headpube "helped her with errands for her upcoming international trip back home. She asked how she should describe her relationship to parents/friends. Officially boyfriend/girlfriend."
is she AZN? |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 3:37 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza yea international azn. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726460) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 4:14 PM Author: Multi-colored Azure Headpube this story arc went from inspirational to borderline pathetic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726709) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 4:16 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap Fuck off bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726726) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 4:17 PM Author: Sepia Hominid cr
heroic religionmos vs creepy agwwg narrative shift is jarring
i have no idea how he can even "read' the scenario with any degree of confidence given the culture gap |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 4:19 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza i'm azn too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726753) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 4:20 PM Author: Multi-colored Azure Headpube oh. then 180 i guess. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726764) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 4:22 PM Author: Sepia Hominid still a huge culture gap and you're pretty much still in the dark. after 1 week of "dating" you can't even be certain if she compreheneds english enough to talk about bf/gf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726781) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 4:24 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza she lived in us since 12 yrs old (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726802) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 4:27 PM Author: Sepia Hominid then her being a virgin is a massive red flag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726816) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 3:38 PM Author: Cobalt center immigrant seems implied (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726467) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 3:41 PM Author: Cobalt center immigrant I fucking blow at text messaging women. It’s my Achilles heel. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve blown a good thing due to aspie texts early in a relationship. It’s like a curse. I’m pretty good with everything else. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726483) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 3:42 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza what mistakes do you make in texting? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726489) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 4:01 PM Author: Cobalt center immigrant Most often, a joke or reference that doesn’t land. Occasionally too long; I really try to stay away from that but sometimes still make the error of being too verbose. Definitely texting while drunk is a problem.
I’ll add that I do think, though, if they like you enough, they usually let a little of this go.
EDIT: Fuck, I just read Corey Wayne’s advice on text messaging. I’m an idiot. Forgot about this & it’s important: the phone is only used to set dates. |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 3:44 PM Author: fiercely-loyal mildly autistic regret idea he suggested Bro, you better crack that cunny open with your meat sausage when she gets back from Hangzhou. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726498) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 3:47 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza seoul actually (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726508) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 3:53 PM Author: fiercely-loyal mildly autistic regret idea he suggested Are you mentally preparing yourself for NYUUG to have his way with her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726549) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 4:06 PM Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Shimmering Corner very sad thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726638) |
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Date: August 22nd, 2019 4:07 PM Author: Comical theater stage turdskin ?? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38726649) |
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Date: September 20th, 2019 3:30 PM Author: abnormal coffee pot piazza Update: I'm getting married. Thanks CharlesXII! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38862966) |
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Date: September 20th, 2019 3:31 PM Author: Amethyst Sticky Ticket Booth Mad-dog Skullcap How did things move that quickly? Congrats, regardless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38862970) |
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Date: September 20th, 2019 3:48 PM Author: orchid racy macaca green card marriage, clearly
or flame |
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Date: September 20th, 2019 3:37 PM Author: lake marvelous theatre water buffalo WTF (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4320663&forum_id=2#38863001) |