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tcr cause of “postpartum depression”
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it's like every few weeks i find out there's yet another th...
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what the fuck do all these abbreviations mean
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Holy shit, this sounds like my mom. She recently revealed to...
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I hope this is flame.
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No bro, I was hanging out with my mom one night and I asked ...
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This goes to my theory about how society has ruined marriage...
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My mom is fucked in the head. That is for sure. Whether that...
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As you should.
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its her fault
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Kids are 180 Mandy the problem is you
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Mandy doesn't like kids but she LOVES me!
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clearly the solution is to have another kid
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You're doing the right thing bringing this problem to XO.
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Reddit. I put the link above.
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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:40 PM
Author: adventurous son of senegal

Husband and I have been married five years and have a kid. Not a DB by any means, but sex is very emotional for me and as the demands of parenting have changed us and made us more distant, it's not very fulfilling. I recently reconnected with an old flame and will be seeing him next week for the first time in years. Our relationship has never been physical because we are LD, but we talk every day and he adores me. It will happen this time. We have known one another over ten years and had mutual crushes with bad timing for a decade, and as a result built an awesome friendship that is my biggest what-if. He is not married.

I didn't go into this with any plans of leaving my husband, and AP doesn't expect that. But what I'm finding since starting the emotional affair with AP is that I am really resenting my kid. I wanted her. But she ruined everything. I don't think I'd be so unhappy with my marriage or my life in general if it weren't for her tying me down. And this thought - that she is both the reason for the emotional void in my marriage AND the reason I can't leave it - has begun to pervade my everyday life and destroy what little joy I did have in parenting. I am an anxious, nervous, yelling mother. I'm not good at it. It's hard for me even on a good day. And days like today I am a shit mom and just want her to have never existed. I want my old life back, my freedom.

I want to get on that plane in two weeks and never come back.

Those of you who stay in a marriage "for the kids," is this normal? Will this feeling pass? I hate it and it makes me feel like a horrible person, more than any guilt about AP.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720860)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:41 PM
Author: Curious Big-titted Personal Credit Line Jew

jfc

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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:50 PM
Author: insane genital piercing



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:03 PM
Author: Arousing rehab



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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:44 PM
Author: pink space gaping

Kids are easier to handle than dogs. People who bitch about it are narcisstic Yankee swine or just super poor.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720874)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:44 PM
Author: Shimmering location

lol at women openly resenting the offspring fathered by betas who repulse them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720877)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:50 PM
Author: sexy roast beef water buffalo



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:00 PM
Author: Lascivious navy juggernaut



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:01 PM
Author: marvelous point puppy



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Date: August 21st, 2019 9:31 PM
Author: federal nursing home famous landscape painting

You probably shouldn't blank bump this. Just in case, my pear shaped friend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38722611)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 9:32 PM
Author: marvelous point puppy

????

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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:02 PM
Author: iridescent school faggotry



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:04 PM
Author: Violent library

really says it all

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720981)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:15 PM
Author: Drab set



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Date: August 21st, 2019 8:42 PM
Author: Rusted Whorehouse



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Date: August 21st, 2019 9:32 PM
Author: Crystalline Office Cuckold

tcr cause of “postpartum depression”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38722616)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:49 PM
Author: marvelous point puppy

https://www.reddit.com/r/adultery/comments/5a9n69/side_effect_i_hate_my_kid/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720902)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 9:35 PM
Author: doobsian 180 indirect expression

it's like every few weeks i find out there's yet another that is a dumpster full of degenerates

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38722637)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:51 PM
Author: Razzle coldplay fan

what the fuck do all these abbreviations mean

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720913)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:53 PM
Author: Vibrant state

DB=doucebag

LD=long distance

AP=alpha POC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720926)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:57 PM
Author: Multi-colored Vengeful National



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Date: August 21st, 2019 8:41 PM
Author: Boyish range



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Date: August 21st, 2019 8:43 PM
Author: Rusted Whorehouse

DB is dead bedroom

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38722376)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:04 PM
Author: Arousing rehab

DB = Dead Bedroom

guessing AP is "Adultery Partner"

STBX "Soon To Be Ex"



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720983)



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Date: August 22nd, 2019 10:43 AM
Author: Multi-colored Vengeful National

StarBux

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38724684)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:52 PM
Author: Bull Headed Exhilarant Degenerate Goal In Life

The single best thing for America is Islam.

I will vote for only the candidates who will most rapidly facilitate Islam.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720921)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:01 PM
Author: Sable toilet seat



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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:52 PM
Author: Vibrant state



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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:55 PM
Author: Sepia bisexual hominid mental disorder

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720941)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:56 PM
Author: Crimson Heady Factory Reset Button Theater

Holy shit, this sounds like my mom. She recently revealed to me why she cheated so profusely on my dad and blew up their marriage. It was this shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720948)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 2:59 PM
Author: marvelous point puppy

I hope this is flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720960)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:04 PM
Author: Crimson Heady Factory Reset Button Theater

No bro, I was hanging out with my mom one night and I asked her why she cheated on her husband so much and if she did that to her current husband. She came clean. Admitted to me that in her 30s she came to hate being tied down and hated how her role felt so predetermined. So she stepped out. Said she was angry and unhappy and that my father wasn’t there for her so it was inevitable, but it was obvious that what bothered her the most was being a parent. Dad reminded her of that so he was toxic. Us kids? Toxic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720985)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:10 PM
Author: marvelous point puppy

This goes to my theory about how society has ruined marriage. Why would any woman see marriage as the thing that is horrible because it "ties her down" rather than the source of stability and safety? Because our society has taught women to see it as the former and not the latter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38721005)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:12 PM
Author: Crimson Heady Factory Reset Button Theater

My mom is fucked in the head. That is for sure. Whether that’s her fault or society’s in general, I don’t know, but I tend to blame her for her failings.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38721009)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:31 PM
Author: marvelous point puppy

As you should.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38721103)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 8:50 PM
Author: Overrated Sickened Becky

its her fault

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38722409)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:18 PM
Author: disgusting quadroon



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Date: August 22nd, 2019 10:02 AM
Author: black school cafeteria mad cow disease

The government now forces men (dem programs/alimony) to provide for womyn when this was previously a voluntary decision. Hence womyn see no purpose in keeping the betas around

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38724394)



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Date: August 22nd, 2019 11:01 AM
Author: marvelous point puppy

That's a huge issue (creates terrible incentives) but a separate one. The notion that a woman should strive to be independent rather than an integral part of a family unit and that to the extent she contributes to husband and children it is a negative rather than a positive, that they're merely "weighing her down" is what I'm talking about here and what is causing what's in the OP.

That, and Doobs being Doobs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38724760)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:02 PM
Author: cerise cracking digit ratio

Kids are 180 Mandy the problem is you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720973)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:32 PM
Author: marvelous point puppy

Oh you motherfucker...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38721104)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 9:32 PM
Author: khaki big psychic

lol

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Date: August 21st, 2019 9:47 PM
Author: marvelous point puppy

Mandy doesn't like kids but she LOVES me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38722729)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:03 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle chapel

clearly the solution is to have another kid

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720975)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:08 PM
Author: bateful national security agency

You're doing the right thing bringing this problem to XO.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38720995)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 3:19 PM
Author: disgusting quadroon

This is one of the most disgusting, off-putting traits in any woman.

I'd rather an obese purple-haired lib who loved her kids unconditionally.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38721038)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 8:16 PM
Author: fuchsia casino

Female suffrage has been a disaster for the human race

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Date: August 21st, 2019 8:31 PM
Author: cocky charismatic weed whacker

The lingo is revolting. "My biggest what-if"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38722333)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 8:41 PM
Author: Boyish range

See a therapist

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38722365)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 8:43 PM
Author: Floppy Indigo Dragon Giraffe

tp

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Date: August 21st, 2019 8:44 PM
Author: Rusted Whorehouse

C/p from urbanbaby?

If not, stop talking to AP and find a non-feminist therapist. You are a narcissistic whore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38722384)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 9:28 PM
Author: marvelous point puppy

Reddit. I put the link above.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38722599)



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Date: August 21st, 2019 9:30 PM
Author: federal nursing home famous landscape painting

Best advice: get a ton of life insurance, wait the required amount of time, and eat a bullet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4327842&forum_id=2#38722606)



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Date: August 22nd, 2019 10:04 AM
Author: Citrine pocket flask

JFC doobs

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Date: August 22nd, 2019 10:13 AM
Author: marvelous point puppy



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Date: August 22nd, 2019 10:33 AM
Author: racy tan marketing idea

JFC Lonely Hunter

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Date: August 22nd, 2019 11:02 AM
Author: marvelous point puppy



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Date: August 22nd, 2019 10:41 AM
Author: Drab set



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