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How do you break up with a girlfriend you live with?
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:34 PM Author: Scarlet aphrodisiac son of senegal I would be able to afford the place but she couldn’t, so she would have to leave. Does anyone have tips about logistics? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608281) |
Date: February 17th, 2020 3:35 PM Author: elite ratface lol good luck with that man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608290) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:35 PM Author: aggressive pervert guy i work with was in the reverse situation (didn't make enough for the apartment on his own, and she wanted to break up with him), except his gf just randomly broke up with him and told him to move out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608291) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 8:36 PM Author: motley hairy legs Same thing just happened to a bro of mine in MFH. I think he can afford the apt on his though -- just much more than he wants to spend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39609759) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:35 PM Author: walnut idiot change the locks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608292) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:35 PM Author: Misunderstood native selfie Change the locks and throw all her shit out the window (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608294) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:39 PM Author: Scarlet aphrodisiac son of senegal I wouldn’t be able to do anything illegal. Hypothetically, she would be pissed off and i wouldn’t be able to give her ammo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608309) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:36 PM Author: iridescent friendly grandma Cheat on her and let do (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608299) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 4:15 PM Author: maize gaping whorehouse cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608503) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:36 PM Author: high-end violet school dog poop Shrewder men have would just marry her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608301) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:42 PM Author: galvanic site kitty cat You have to wait for the lease to end (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608327) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:44 PM Author: Scarlet aphrodisiac son of senegal What if I was the only one who signed it? Do you think that would seem suspicious? I’d frame it like I’d be mostly responsible for paying so it makes sense, but on the other hand the landlord might not go for that anyway. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608336) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:47 PM Author: magical glittery scourge upon the earth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608349) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:50 PM Author: galvanic site kitty cat Sounds like your in violation of your lease by having an unauthorized roommate/co-tenant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608373) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:51 PM Author: Scarlet aphrodisiac son of senegal There is no lease yet but yeah a landlord would probably want everyone on the lease. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608380) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:54 PM Author: galvanic site kitty cat Even if not on the lease, she’ll have tenant rights, can’t be evicted without due process, etc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608399) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:59 PM Author: Scarlet aphrodisiac son of senegal So what if she were to refuse to leave? Seems like I’d have to make the rent payments and either deal with it or move out (and still pay the rent). I think that would be unlikely though, she would probably move out. Is there anyway to protect yourself from that? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608440) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 4:24 PM Author: dashing stubborn becky ceo yea it's the 3-3 rule in some states i think - if someone has been living there for 3 weeks or more regardless if on lease, u automatically have to wait 3 months to even be capable of filing for eviction (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608542) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 3:46 PM Author: magical glittery scourge upon the earth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608345) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 4:01 PM Author: Lime balding legal warrant just step on a bus, gus making new plans, stan |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 4:13 PM Author: Cracking Mauve Messiness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608496) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 4:02 PM Author: irradiated bawdyhouse be straightforward, do it as soon as possible. allow her a few weeks to find somewhere new to live but be stern if you feel like she's dragging her feet.
not an expert on this stuff but i'm thinking what would be best if i were in her situation |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 4:14 PM Author: Jade love of her life *common law wife
OP is in for a rude awakening |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 4:15 PM Author: Exhilarant national security agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608506) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 5:11 PM Author: offensive hell clown (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608745) |
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Date: February 18th, 2020 1:14 PM Author: chestnut stirring spot immigrant Depends on the state, but yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39612788) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 5:08 PM Author: Hairless Home Knife I've done it before. I just told her I wanted to break up and stayed at my friend's house for a week as she moved her stuff out. The pain from that split still affects me to this day. Don't take it lightly. If you can reconcile differences, do so. I couldn't, personally, but try to give it a chance. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608723) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 5:10 PM Author: magical glittery scourge upon the earth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608737) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 5:18 PM Author: Hairless Home Knife Well there was a reason you did in the first place. That's all I'm saying. If you can get back to that or see value in getting back to that, then it may be worth exploring. With that said, there's likely a valid reason why he wants to break up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608769) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 5:17 PM Author: Scarlet aphrodisiac son of senegal That sucks man. I definitely wouldn’t do it lightly, just want to have a contingency plan in case it doesn’t work out now that we are looking at places (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608766) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 5:23 PM Author: Hairless Home Knife If you have serious doubts, hold off. But yeah not a bad idea. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608790) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 5:14 PM Author: Misunderstood native selfie ghost her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608755) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 5:16 PM Author: frozen box office kill her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608762) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 5:17 PM Author: Heady territorial tattoo pistol I moved into an airbnb and gave her a month to get everything in order and move.
Dont be a dick about this. You'll regret it. |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 8:17 PM Author: Scarlet aphrodisiac son of senegal Seems like the best option, though expensive. Thanks.
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Date: February 17th, 2020 5:25 PM Author: lilac codepig cumskin I did it. Just had an honest conversation with her and she moved out. I helped her move to her new place. The next day I met a new girl on tinder that ended up becoming my next GF who I just broke up with. It can happen for you too! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39608802) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 8:19 PM Author: Indigo blathering tanning salon You have a year to find an old monied heiress. They're around if you know where to look. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39609658) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 8:33 PM Author: flushed hunting ground I did this and she cried and cried and wouldn't leave. She had her parents come down and take me to dinner to try to convince me to take her back. I ended up just kind of acting like she didn't exist like an imaginary friend. She'd get up and cook me breakfast in the morning before work and did my laundry etc. I always thanked her and tried not to be a dick about the breakup. This went on for years. On the day of her accident I was the first one at the hospital. I held her hand but she wasn't able to feel her arm anymore. She said the last thing she remembered was thinking of me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39609750) |
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Date: February 17th, 2020 8:56 PM Author: Indigo blathering tanning salon well that's obviously all your fault. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39609861) |
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Date: February 18th, 2020 12:49 AM Author: Scarlet aphrodisiac son of senegal Is this a movie or something? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39610889) |
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Date: February 18th, 2020 1:17 PM Author: chestnut stirring spot immigrant In many states you cannot legally evict someone who lives with you. Even if she’s staying there for free she is your “tenant.” Also as others have pointed out she may be able to legitimately claim she is your common law wife and file for divorce/alimony. How long have you lived together?
You should consult a divorce attorney before you do anything rash. You could be on for a world of $pain$ |
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Date: February 18th, 2020 2:46 PM Author: Beady-eyed orange fortuitous meteor string her along until the lease runs out then don't renew and find your own place. if you don't care about the $ then just bail. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4447257&forum_id=2#39613246) |