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Really can't stand my wife. At what point do you divorce when you have a kid?
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:49 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo Just so incredibly bored of life.
She is mostly nice and has gone from a 7-8 to a 4 post-kid. Slightly overweight, half her hair fell out, weird neck lines, doesn't take care of herself.
She bores the ever living fuck out of me. |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:49 PM Author: thriller school idea he suggested She bores you, huh? Brother, that's a top life outcome. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482506) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:45 PM Author: laughsome chestnut mad cow disease (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486760) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:46 PM Author: saffron vibrant sanctuary nibblets Good sub thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486770) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:19 PM Author: bearded hissy fit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488741) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:41 PM Author: titillating partner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488870) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 6:09 PM Author: boyish yarmulke headpube (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40489047) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:54 PM Author: bateful knife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488953) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:10 PM Author: charismatic theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488684) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:13 PM Author: cream federal twinkling uncleanness negative (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488695) |
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Date: June 25th, 2020 11:43 AM Author: cracking church building "Weird neck lines," is dispositive. If that shit starts bothering you, you need to get a divorce. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40492831) |
Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:50 PM Author: odious startled mexican kitty kids would rather have two houses, two sets of families so to speak than one shitty miserable household. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482179) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:11 PM Author: aqua unholy business firm LOL no. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482298) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 9:21 AM Author: Domesticated center death wish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40485385) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:13 PM Author: Copper Aromatic Generalized Bond (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488702) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:50 PM Author: bright excitant heaven jewess (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482180) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:51 PM Author: silver nowag Just spend all your time away from home (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482183) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:54 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo I've done this for some time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482205) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:51 PM Author: curious clear halford karate Suck it up. Find excitement elsewhere.
Having a mean wife is far, far worse. |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:57 PM Author: flushed fat ankles home Cr. Op needs to find his own interests and lead his family and stop being a bitch worried about his happiness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482213) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:57 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo Trying to -- been going to the shooting range, playing a weekly poker game with friends, hiking with 2 of my friends, etc.
But she wants to do stuff together.
Today she said that "maybe on your way home spice things up by picking up food for a recipe that you can cook (keep in mind I don't cook). you'll have something to look forward to"
this was in response to me saying i'm bored out of my mind and feeling depressed
other suggestions from her: go do a return for her at the mall, pack up my car full of shit she wants me to take to her parents, give kid a bath, etc.
GREAT SUGGESTIONS |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:01 PM Author: curious clear halford karate Just be honest and direct with her. Try to be as nice as possible about it but you need to communicate your feelings.
At the end of the day, you are very lucky that you are only bored and that she's not mean or something worse to you. |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:08 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo "be lucky she's not mean"
isn't that a crazy low threshold? |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:44 PM Author: snowy mother liquid oxygen Not for aging women who have to live with one of us. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482464) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 11:37 AM Author: curious clear halford karate You would think but it's really not. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486200) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:02 PM Author: flushed fat ankles home Stop being a bitch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482251) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:21 PM Author: bearded hissy fit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488747) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:23 PM Author: cruel-hearted selfie You know what I tell my kids when they tell me they’re bored? I tell them I have chores and cleaning they can do. They get un-bored real fast. What kind of grown man whines about being bored? Figure out a project to throw yourself into. Suggest family activities you can do together. Man up and stop putting it all on her or acting like it’s all her fault. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482341) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 10:21 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo i dunno man. she's not that bright. we have nothing to talk about.
just activities to pretend we're having fun |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 11:26 PM Author: flushed fat ankles home Op thought once he had kids he’d be attending only the best parties nightly and discussing classic literature w his wife into the early hours of the morning. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40483594) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:23 PM Author: boyish yarmulke headpube He expected to be hosting a weekly salon of intellectuals and artists at their Yonkers home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488758) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:57 PM Author: Domesticated center death wish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488973) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 10:27 PM Author: Submissive galvanic masturbator I might have to knock my wife’s teeth out if she suggested I do more than one of those things you listed in the span of a week or less.
What’s her job/income and how much cooking / cleaning does she do? |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 11:50 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo job = finance role making about 150k/year
100% of cooking (dinner 4-5 days a week and we order in the other days).
20% of cleaning (maid does 70% and I do 10%) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:42 PM Author: Brass private investor wait, SHE makes 150k in finance?
it sounds like she's the breadwinner and she's rightfully bossing you around |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 6:00 PM Author: Domesticated center death wish And what do you make? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488994) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 6:10 PM Author: saffron vibrant sanctuary nibblets OP is not currently working as the corporate world was too boring (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40489049) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 6:19 PM Author: navy organic girlfriend trailer park (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40489115) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 6:36 PM Author: Domesticated center death wish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40489201) |
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Date: June 25th, 2020 11:33 AM Author: Magical abode (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40492741) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:42 PM Author: saffron vibrant sanctuary nibblets Lmfao this sounds like the kindest way possible to tell you that she does everything and then has to hear you bitch about being bored on top of it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486732) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:42 PM Author: cruel-hearted selfie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486740) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:46 PM Author: bat-shit-crazy floppy base becky (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486768) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:42 PM Author: titillating partner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488881) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:44 PM Author: Passionate Chocolate Internal Respiration (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488903) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:57 PM Author: Domesticated center death wish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488976) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:52 PM Author: Stirring School Cafeteria Mods (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482187) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:52 PM Author: zombie-like patrolman boiling water JUst don't do marriage, kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482192) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:56 PM Author: French Rehab How to have kids with two parents? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482208) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:58 PM Author: zombie-like patrolman boiling water Only fat balding lawyers are pathetic enough to stay with a bitch they hate for the sake of their kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482221) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:59 PM Author: French Rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482231) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:57 PM Author: big-titted fear-inspiring mad-dog skullcap If things are so bad that it is high-conflict in front of the kids (frequent screaming, plate smashing, door slamming, cursing, insulting, etc.) then get divorced
If you're just unhappy but can otherwise peacefully co-exist with your spouse, getting divorced before the kids leave home is the height of selfishness - you need to stick it out for the next 15 years or so, and then you can go and find some kind of happiness. if you're in this case, your best bet is try to make yourself love your wife by being nice and affectionate (fake it until you make it). |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:58 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo fake it for 18 years?
fuck me.
we're not screaming or cursing really. just getting very upset with each other and she occasionally cries as well. |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:00 PM Author: big-titted fear-inspiring mad-dog skullcap your #1 priority is the kid right now.
If the kid is still a noob, understand that this is a really fucking stressful time for everyone and your wife may even be going through post-partum - it gets better as the kid gets older. |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:00 PM Author: zombie-like patrolman boiling water This is horrible advice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482239) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:03 PM Author: big-titted fear-inspiring mad-dog skullcap (guy with no relationship with his fucked up kids who have abandonment issues) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482256) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:04 PM Author: zombie-like patrolman boiling water This kid is going to grow up to be progressively more miserable and hateful of men as his mom continues to poison his mind. Much better to cut shit off now and live separately for the kid's sake. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482265) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:06 PM Author: French Rehab He needs to get a younger hotter tighter bitch who the kid sees you havingh a healthy relationship with (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482276) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:10 PM Author: zombie-like patrolman boiling water Yes exactly.
Bitch is going to progressively poison this kid throughout his life if OP allows his marriage to continue. |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 10:03 PM Author: French Rehab Rate me as a Fury knockout (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40483039) |
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Date: July 1st, 2020 3:53 PM Author: French Rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40529587) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:32 PM Author: onyx violent marketing idea This is true but works best if you leave when the kid is old enough that they don't miss out on the elementary school years when you are their God and still consumed enough with puberty hormones that their old ass dad pulling a hotter younger chick has the maximum effect. If you do this when the kid is 2 years old they just feel abandoned, and by the time they are 15 the once hot younger woman still seems old and gross by then. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486653) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:04 PM Author: curious clear halford karate Dude it could be much worse. The shit my wife say to each other is awful. Your case isn't even that bad. Just be honest and do what you need to do to stay happy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482263) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:15 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo can u give a couple examples how your situation is more awful. maybe i just need some perspective (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482312) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 11:39 AM Author: curious clear halford karate Constant blowout arguments over stupid shit.
Saying the worst things possible to each other.
I wish I was just bored. You sound like you have no clue how much potential for happiness you have. |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 7:59 PM Author: seedy ladyboy did you think women stayed nubile beyond 30? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482230) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:03 PM Author: zombie-like patrolman boiling water The ones not married to balding obese lawyers do. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482255) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:01 PM Author: Rose trip toilet seat shitlib How long since kid?
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:11 PM Author: Stubborn lascivious jap wtf did you expect would happen you selfish retard?
women lose their attractiveness after pregnancy and with age - is this new information to you? if not, suck it up. if yes, you're a moron
your wife is 180 and you will never be happy. just do everyone a favor and go EAT | PRAY | LOVE until you're miserable and alone again, and then =kill yourself |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:13 PM Author: zombie-like patrolman boiling water His wife is likely an angry fat cow who has gotten even fatter since taking a creampie to conception and OP is faced with the terrifying prospect of being with this cow for the next 4-5 decades. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482308) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:16 PM Author: Stubborn lascivious jap 1. he already said his wife is very nice, and whatever anger she's had towards him was undoubtedly due to his selfish niggerish attitude and mindset
2. what are his prospects as a late 30s man? models i'm sure lmao. and what is he going to do when the next girl gets old ugly and fat too? |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:28 PM Author: zombie-like patrolman boiling water He said she is mostly nice and is becoming increasingly boring, meaning he has outgrown her.
Not every male is a balding obese laywer. Plenty of late 30s men can get attractive women... |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:30 PM Author: cruel-hearted selfie Or maybe he's bored and depressed after 3 months of quarantine. You seem like you're projecting a lot ITT (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482384) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:31 PM Author: zombie-like patrolman boiling water No, he makes posts every so often about hating marriage and being bored of his wife.
It is very common in modern society. Man was not designed for marriage. |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:18 PM Author: vengeful locus associate I’m 100% convinced I could have a happy 180 relationship with any woman. The secret is to just cuck on everything and give her whatever she wants. I don’t have an opinion on anything. I just do whatever she wants. Makes things very easy. LJL at making your wife cry. The fuck did you do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482317) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:26 PM Author: cruel-hearted selfie Happy wife, happy life! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482360) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:48 PM Author: Rose trip toilet seat shitlib JFC. opposite. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482497) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 10:01 PM Author: Misanthropic athletic conference brethren wow this is gay, holy shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40483022) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 10:29 PM Author: wonderful blue indian lodge ceo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40483210) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 11:22 PM Author: hideous iridescent keepsake machete (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40483568) |
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Date: July 1st, 2020 3:53 PM Author: French Rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40529585) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 10:28 PM Author: Submissive galvanic masturbator I thought Russians didn’t negotiate with terrorists (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40483201) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 11:23 PM Author: Magical abode (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40483570) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 9:22 AM Author: Domesticated center death wish Wow, you are a real Jewish man. Holy fuck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40485392) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:44 PM Author: bat-shit-crazy floppy base becky Not a smart ass question: why did you marry her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482466) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:48 PM Author: zombie-like patrolman boiling water Boredom, caving into societal expectations, etc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482492) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 10:25 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo not too far from the truth.
but in addition to that good morals/values (not a whore), very pretty and in shape, fun group of friends, successful for someone who didn't go to grad school (makes around 150k), nice and innocent.
didn't marry her for her intelligence but it's a trait i wish i more heavily weighed. i get so tired of talking to her because even discussing the most BASIC shit i have to give her elementary background info. |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 10:27 PM Author: Stirring School Cafeteria Dude, I swear you are describing my wife and my relationship. We have blowout fights with some frequency though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40483195) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:36 PM Author: boyish yarmulke headpube It sounds like you are an uptight faggot. Who cares that you're smarter than your wife and have to "explain" things to her? The alternative is likely someone a bit smarter who has an aggressively *wrong* worldview and is very opinionated about it. It seems like you're caught up looking for an "equal" in every way, which in all likelihood leads to arguments rather than a good relationship. You're much better off treating it as looking for a toy that you enjoy playing with. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488841) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:55 PM Author: mildly autistic rigor Sounds like she should be divorcing you , you miserable little turd. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482543) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:55 PM Author: zombie-like patrolman boiling water Yeah every guy dreams of a fat boring single mother! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482547) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:58 PM Author: mildly autistic rigor Oh, I thought we were talking about your wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482565) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 8:59 PM Author: zombie-like patrolman boiling water There is nothing more attractive than a woman who is basically a child mentally but has the body of a 55 year old at 30. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40482574) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 9:55 PM Author: talking menage If she is physically abusing your or the kid, or has functionally abandoned the marriage, plus whatever other unconscionable scenarios you can think of, then ok.
Otherwise, suck it up. |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 9:59 PM Author: violet impertinent tanning salon This is sad. OP in the long term, a seflish choice now will you leave an empty husk of a man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40483011) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 10:01 PM Author: Pale irradiated pit clown Holy fuck lol at one kidmo problems. Your entire life is a vacation faggot. Go play golf then go to a strip club then go home and bang your 4 wife in the butt while your one kid is asleep (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40483023) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 10:03 PM Author: French Rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40483042) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 10:05 PM Author: Magical abode irl loled (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40483056) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 10:26 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo haha
what if she's pregnant with our 2nd? kill self now or later? |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 1:38 PM Author: Pale irradiated pit clown just stop being such a bitch. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40487215) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:22 PM Author: bearded hissy fit lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488753) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:43 PM Author: titillating partner mfcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488894) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:58 PM Author: bateful knife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488980) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 10:50 PM Author: Transparent shrine most mothers are dumpy and fat.
your wife is at least a good person and makes money.
% of women over 30 with child(ren) who are intellectually stimulating (is this what you're looking for?) to your avg xo poaster is miniscule. and most of them aren't nice.
your wife is a not rich working mother. of course she's boring as fuck. |
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Date: June 23rd, 2020 11:48 PM Author: concupiscible boistinker If you seriously can't picture yourself ever interested in your wife again then I say just get divorced. Life is too short to waste years in an unhappy, boring relationship, even if you happen to have a kid with that person. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40483776) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 9:25 AM Author: Domesticated center death wish Holy shit, so much toxic shit ITT. OP, you an awful excuse for human excrement. I'd tell you to find excitement elsewhere but if you weren't a boring, shitty person we wouldn't be seeing this thread anyway. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40485398) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 10:04 AM Author: hideous iridescent keepsake machete lol at how invested marriedmos are in their scam. this board has featured legit pedophiles and people calling for mass genocide, but it takes a guy wanting to divorce his dumpy wife for you to finally get indignant and call them "an awful excuse for (sic) human excrement" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40485576) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 11:45 AM Author: maroon frisky pervert forum LOL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486247) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:45 PM Author: Domesticated center death wish Most "teen by the pool" posting is harmless. Most people ranting about race realism are edgelords. A good portion of them are related to the groups they're calling to be genocided. Earl on the Chinese, a bunch of the anti-Semitic posters are part-Jewish, etc. IOW, it is typical internet bullshit.
People actually looking at dumping their child and wife are (generally) real people who are considering hurting the people that are supposed to be closest to them in their lives. It is far sadder than the shit in the first paragraph.
Also, I'm fine with "I'll never get married because marriage is scam" posting or "I'll never have kids because kids suck" or whatever. No one is actually harmed by that. |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 6:06 PM Author: vigorous shaky address pisswyrm cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40489028) |
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Date: June 25th, 2020 10:51 AM Author: hideous iridescent keepsake machete teen by pool? people here boast about flirting with 7 year olds. is that a teen to you? "a good portion of them are related to the groups they're calling to be genocided," he said without evidence. people here are extremely vindictive and have showed no compunction in trying to ruin other people's lives because they didn't like their politics or their race or whatever. turd sandwich was sold a bill of false goods. if he wants to salvage the rest of his life, so be it. you can criticize him without being a moralizing faggot about it |
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Date: June 25th, 2020 10:55 AM Author: Domesticated center death wish "people here boast about flirting with 7 year olds"
Link? This doesn't ring a bell.
"turd sandwich was forced a sold a bill of goods"
In what way? Did she tell him she wouldn't age or that she would always keep him entertained or what? |
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Date: June 25th, 2020 10:57 AM Author: hideous iridescent keepsake machete http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568443&mc=14&forum_id=2
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Date: June 25th, 2020 11:43 AM Author: Domesticated center death wish That thread was mental illness more than anything else. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40492830) |
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Date: June 25th, 2020 11:47 AM Author: saffron vibrant sanctuary nibblets That was a lot of mental illness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40492862) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 11:50 AM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo whoa whoa whoa settle down, shithead. why are you such a grouchy nigger today? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486271) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:09 PM Author: Domesticated center death wish Today? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488676) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 10:00 AM Author: Dun milk rigpig Home improvement projects. Playground for kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40485560) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 11:39 AM Author: awkward spot Do as thou will (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486212) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 11:43 AM Author: heady travel guidebook really tough guy join coast guard & tell her u got drafted. she'll proudly put US Flag in ur yard & brag about u while ur on some party boat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486238) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:43 PM Author: titillating partner best advice ITT tbh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488899) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 11:53 AM Author: big national security agency How old is your kid? Most wives look like shit for much of the first year after kids, but they eventually bounce back if they take care of themselves.
You need to communicate clearly with her. Go to your pastor or a counselor and work on righting the ship now before it's too late. |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 11:55 AM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo around a year
we're seeing a therapist. 4 sessions so far. don't like her much and we've already spent $1000. will give it another couple sessions
so far it's felt like all she's done is listen to us complain. such a fraud occupation |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:00 PM Author: big national security agency She sounds like a shitty therapist. Sorry brother. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486358) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:02 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486386) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:00 PM Author: brilliant public bath half-breed Tbf the first year kind of sucks. Pretty soon he/she will become your little buddy and then you and wife enter into a new phase as a family that actually does stuff together. Also, COVID is really fucking with all of this and exacerbates the issue because the few things you can do with a 1yo are closed or restricted. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486360) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:02 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486384) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:44 PM Author: titillating partner that is a fuckload of money for four chat sessions
you've gotten more than $250 in value out of this thread alone |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:58 PM Author: Domesticated center death wish "so far it's felt like all she's done is listen to us complain"
That's what couples therapy is. And it is a total scam. |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:18 PM Author: Abusive set Married with two kids under three. By far the worst time of my life. Sup. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486530) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:33 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo not considering divorce though? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486665) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:45 PM Author: Abusive set Not really. Just waiting it out until kids get older and more independent. Hoping that will improve things. Divorcing would crush my wife more than me. She would have to go back to work, would destroy her finances, etc. Our problems are 100% artributable to our kids though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486754) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 6:07 PM Author: arousing violent crackhouse quadroon why the kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40489037) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 6:24 PM Author: Abusive set Because they cause stress, anxiety, take up any free time we have, and just generally leave us exhausted and often in a bad mood. 100% of the “fights” we have is caused by something kid related. 100%. Being in a childless marriage with her was cake compared to this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40489139) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:37 PM Author: Stirring School Cafeteria sup. we got a crew (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486694) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 1:37 PM Author: Pale irradiated pit clown 2-3 yrs old is actually a nice time. 3-5 is way worse. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40487205) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 6:26 PM Author: Abusive set Why? Older one is two and a total hellraiser. Old enough to make trouble but not old enough to employ any kind of foresight or impulse control. He basically cant be left alone ever. Zero independence. Have to watch/correct him constantly. Total nightmare. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40489151) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 12:45 PM Author: mahogany racy kitty cat I would love to have your problem. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40486758) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:03 PM Author: Nighttime market Thank Allah I’m a childless faggot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488641) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 5:24 PM Author: bearded hissy fit I used to get bored too before I discovered weed and video games. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40488763) |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 6:13 PM Author: bateful knife OP, you have several things going on here. The majority of your problems are being caused by you and the good news is you're in charge of all of the solutions.
First, realize that you cannot control other people or outcomes. The only thing you can control is the action you take and the decisions you make. From now on, you're the only person you can blame for your situation.
Second, this is all completely normal. People get bored in marriages and having a kid takes a lot of the fun out of it. So now you need to figure out your actions and your decisions going forward.
Third, if you're depressed then you should get help. See a talk therapist and see if they recommend a psychiatrist. Here's the thing about anti-depressants: they work. You can try different medications until you find one that works and doesn't make you get fat or cause your penis to not work. Seriously, this should be your first phone call after reading this post.
Fourth, okay now you're working on your depression and you can start to improve yourself as a father and a husband. What type of father do you want to be? Your kid is watching you now and learning how to act, so you need to set the example for them. Imagine the perfect Saturday. What does it consist of? Write down those things and start making every day like that.
Fifth, you're upset your wife is getting fat and frumpy while she suggests you do things together. Hrmmm, you can kill two birds with one stone, friend. Start taking her and the kid on long walks after dinner every night. Take up bike rides together as a family. Join the Y and go to the gym with her while you get childcare.
Sixth, your diet sounds like it could be one source of your depression and a real man knows how to cook. Cook good healthy dinners for your family at least one night a week. Start simple with chicken and veggies, but eventually get to the point where family dinner is expected. You and your wife can take turns, which should make you feel more connected and more helpful.
Seventh, what were your marriage vows? How are you living up to them? Every day I ask myself, how can I be of service to my wife and I find one thing (usually more) that I can do to help her with no expectation of anything in return. It can be as simple as telling her she looks good today or running an errand with no complaining. But when I started doing this on a daily basis, it was a miracle: my wife became such a better person.
Eighth, by now you're working to create a happier self, a better dad, a better husband, and a happy household. Keep it going by practicing daily mediation or reading the Daily Stoic or some other daily practice that is just for you.
If you do this for six months, your life will change like a miracle. The mind follows the body, not the other way around.
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Date: June 24th, 2020 6:17 PM Author: bateful knife And if six months of this doesn’t work then go see a marriage counselor. You’re at least a year of trying away from divorce. The man almost always regrets it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40489103) |
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Date: June 25th, 2020 10:42 AM Author: bateful knife OP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40492389) |
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Date: June 25th, 2020 11:33 AM Author: bat-shit-crazy floppy base becky This is a lot of good advice, but disagree with this: "Third, if you're depressed then you should get help. See a talk therapist and see if they recommend a psychiatrist. Here's the thing about anti-depressants: they work. You can try different medications until you find one that works and doesn't make you get fat or cause your penis to not work. Seriously, this should be your first phone call after reading this post."
Anyway. I think this boils down to why you married your wife. If you loved her then, you have to find that feeling again. Sometimes spouses get hung up on a thing-- she is gaining weight, he is not doing enough around the house-- and it festers and takes over your good feelings for your spouse. Remember why you got married. You loved her (presumably) and that can be found again (hopefully). Focus on the good and work to correct the bad. You have kids, so it is worth the effort. |
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Date: June 25th, 2020 12:11 PM Author: bateful knife I didn't say he had to get on anti-depressants. I meant he needs to find out if he's clinically depressed and explore solutions to a medical condition that could be affecting him.
But I agree with what you said. So much of liking your spouse is mental. Pick and choose what to care about carefully and if you don't mind then it doesn't matter. |
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Date: June 24th, 2020 6:27 PM Author: navy organic girlfriend trailer park A pleasant, average looking, breadwinning mother who brings home low six figs and handles the majority of housework.
Fuck.
No poaster should be subjected to this kind of torture. |
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Date: June 25th, 2020 10:56 AM Author: titillating partner she has weird neck lines though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40492499) |
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Date: June 25th, 2020 11:45 AM Author: Domesticated center death wish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40492846) |
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Date: July 1st, 2020 3:52 PM Author: bateful knife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40529575) |
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Date: July 1st, 2020 3:54 PM Author: greedy beady-eyed bawdyhouse wagecucks assuming she has high sex drive and into wild, kinky sex. you should be grateful (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40529594) |
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Date: July 1st, 2020 4:02 PM Author: Aphrodisiac University Tattoo she doesn't (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4568493&forum_id=2#40529644) |