Accepting myself as a LOSER has been LIBERATING. 34/m/alone but happy.
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:38 AM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\'
It's probably something akin to stoicism, but I've found it LIBERATING to just ACCEPT REALITY and not fight it anymore. With women. Work. My family.
I just do what brings me peace. I don't strive anymore. I don't have a glamorous life but it works for me.
I'm 5'7" btw, and a lot of it has to do with being short. But once you give up chasing women, you are freed from that biological prison.
At work I no longer stress. I do the minimum to not be fired. I won't be fired. I won't be promoted, either, but I can just ride this out as long as I want.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579624)
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:37 PM
Author: ,.,.,.,..,.,.,,.,.,.,..,.,.,,.,.,,:.,:.,:.::,.
https://www.unz.com/runz/american-pravda-the-adl-in-american-society/
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40584296) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:40 AM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\'
I gave up my law license years ago. I can't be helped by CSLG. But in my LOSERDOM I have found confidence which in a way makes me more like him.
Don't know Corey Wayne.
Don't want or need coaching. What is there to coach? It's predicated on the idea that you must continuously be striving. But what if I don't want to?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579640) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:49 PM
Author: .,.,..,,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,.,..,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,. ( 🦈)
"I don't want that, why the hell do I want some fobbish wife?"
Yeah, you're clearly too good for a hot foreign woman.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40582605) |
Date: July 10th, 2020 11:43 AM
Author: ,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,.,.,..,.,., ( Dork Enlightenment)
mods
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579668) |
Date: July 10th, 2020 11:58 AM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\'
160K salary
550 sq ft 1 bedroom apartment
Car with 40,000 miles
Photography hobby
Like to take night drives for hours by myself
Enjoy volunteering too
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579813) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:15 PM
Author: .........,..,,,.,.,,,.,.,.,,,,..
how much are you saving? are you on track to retire by 40-50?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579930) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:28 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\'
Small success: I got a project done at work
Big success: I did an evening master's program, mostly paid for by work, because I wanted to do it
You have to understand I've failed at almost everything in my life. I went to bad schools. Bad grades. Failed the bar. I'm short. I've failed at every relationship. I have multiple psychiatric disorders. I fucking suck.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580015) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:37 PM
Author: :;:;;;::;:;:;;:::;:;:::;;:;
what's driving you to focus on your failures you think? You make a good living, have time to explore whatever you want to explore.
were you conditioned to expect something else or your definition of "success" warped by a rough childhood?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580113)
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:43 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\'
Because I fail at most things. It's constantly in my face. I won't ever get promoted at work. I won't have a stable relationship with a woman. I will never have kids. I will likely never own a home.
These things add up, especially if you were born into at least semi-luxury.
Childhood was only rough due to the typical white UMC divorce.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580159) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:50 PM
Author: .,.,..,,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,.,..,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,. ( 🦈)
"I have multiple psychiatric disorders."
This is the real story here, isn't it?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40582608) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:47 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\'
Every relationship ended poorly. No woman was ultimately happy. I am too moody. My sex drive goes down, too far down, after a while. I am not good in bed. I am not ugly but I am not attractive and my penis size is very normal.
But the kicker is that I AM SHORT. I AM SHORT. I AM SHORT. Every woman fucking hates that. They're disgusted with themselves when they date me.
Then add in the fact urban downtown women are shitlib freaks and you'll see I have a bad dating pool nor am I any kind of catch myself.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580183) |
Date: July 10th, 2020 12:45 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\'
It's the most liberating thing for work. I never volunteer for anything. I never do more than exactly what I have to do. I never come in early. I never stay past 5pm.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580173)
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:56 PM
Author: ,,,,,,,,,,.......,,,,,,...,..,..,...,,,.,
Same height, similar background - I wholly understand these feelings. Haven't come to a conclusion on what to do about them yet though
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580263) |
Date: July 10th, 2020 12:57 PM
Author: .,.,,.,..,.,.,:,,:,..,:::,...,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
alone is what we always wanted
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580275) |
Date: July 10th, 2020 1:03 PM
Author: .,;,,.;,,.,;,.:.,,;;.;.,.;,;,.;,,:,.;;.....:..,.:;
lol is this a johnsmeyer thread
you are not deformity level short. you can maek it
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580329) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:05 PM
Author: .,;,,.;,,.,;,.:.,,;;.;.,.;,;,.;,,:,.;;.....:..,.:;
lol this simply isn’t true man. which is why it seems like you’re flaming
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580346) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:08 PM
Author: .,;,,.;,,.,;,.:.,,;;.;.,.;,;,.;,,:,.;;.....:..,.:;
it’s a big factor in that you won’t ever be a chad but plenty of short bros end up with a beautiful, loving wife and family
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580359) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:10 PM
Author: .,;,,.;,,.,;,.:.,,;;.;.,.;,;,.;,,:,.;;.....:..,.:;
stop being a pussy. that’s my only advice
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580372) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:11 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\'
understood and this is probably the best counter-argument to my life, that I am being a huge pussy
but once you accept you're a loser you don't care if you're being a pussy, you know you suck, and you just live for your self
I am essentially a narcissist
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580379) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:16 PM
Author: .,;,,.;,,.,;,.:.,,;;.;.,.;,;,.;,,:,.;;.....:..,.:;
ill pray for u
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580431) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:15 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\'
well I have some conditions and I needed help and CBT addressed some problems
I also needed to explore deep sadness and depression that stems from a bad family experience with divorced parents and every relationship failing with women
I stopped going because there was nothing left to explore, I realized that essentially a Volcel chill internal life was best for me
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580423) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:31 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\'
They didn't neglect like you'd see in the movies. It was more like dad stopped really being interested in my life and I'd see him maybe once a week or stay with him every other weekend. He couldn't tell you a single friend of mine.
Mom had me fed and clothed and all that shit but she wasn't very interested in my day to day life. For example, a lot of people would recount their days with their parents. Mine never asked.
You can survive the divorce. Just care. Show up. Be attentive. It doesn't have to be this way.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580564) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:47 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\'
you made 5.6M last year + have an organic wife from school
give me a break
you're also the top .01% of outcomes
most men have a wife who resents being with them
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580686)
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:57 PM
Author: .,....,,..,.,.,:,,:,..,..,:::,....,:,.,.:.,:.,:.:
A huge part of your work ethic, drive, and ability to constantly think about money 24/7 like a sociopathic freak is genetic. You are born with a lot of traits that helped you succeed. Stop bullshitting people with this motivational speaker nonsense about how everyone can be as happy as you
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580775) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 2:04 PM
Author: .,.,...,..,,.,:,,:,...,:::,...,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
This is laughably false. You’re either delusional and unable to see beyond yourself or just being a conman salesman giving people false hope
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580858) |
Date: July 10th, 2020 1:51 PM
Author: .,,,.,.,..,.,:,..::,,...,:,...,:,.,..:.,:.::,.
i know plenty of short guys who banged a lot of chicks and generally weren't losers. you guys just like to use it as an excuse.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580723) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:55 PM
Author: ,,,,,,,,,,.......,,,,,,...,..,..,...,,,.,
to be fair, the height meme has become more extreme in women more recently.
talking to Gen X about their dating experiences is like talking to a martian about martian dating rituals - it's that utterly alien to dating now
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580756)
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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:52 PM
Author: .,.,..,,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,.,..,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,. ( 🦈)
Right, so don't date American women. This isn't hard.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40582625) |
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