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XO Married Guys: what characteristics matter?

For the few of you with good marriages, how do you rate the ...
CommunityAccount123
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"does she meltdown in stressful situations or handle it...
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This seems CR. I used to think it didn't matter, but increa...
CommunityAccount123
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"Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is ...
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Overall good judgment -- very important since she will be ra...
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Seems CR, especially on sense of humor lol. I legit think a...
CommunityAccount123
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I’d stay as far away from any chick with even a decent...
Whiteponyguy
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This is one of those things that ebbs and flows based on how...
CommunityAccount123
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Judgment is tops because you need to trust your partner to m...
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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:10 PM
Author: CommunityAccount123

For the few of you with good marriages, how do you rate the importance of these characteristics in terms of your relationship:

Overall good judgment

Kindness

Raw Intelligence

Hotness

Youth (being younger than you)

Financial discipline

Physical discipline (stays fit)

Sense of humor

Having the same political views



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4581140&forum_id=2#40582345)



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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:17 PM
Author: .......,,....,.,..,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.




(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4581140&forum_id=2#40582372)



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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:20 PM
Author: .,,.,,.,.,,,.....,,,.,.,.,...,.,.


"does she meltdown in stressful situations or handle it well? critical test."

this is cr

re: politics, the country is becoming increasingly polarized so you could have gotten with a regular lib 5-10 years ago and be with an insane foaming at the mouth shitlib now. no guarantees here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4581140&forum_id=2#40582383)



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Date: July 10th, 2020 7:05 PM
Author: CommunityAccount123

This seems CR. I used to think it didn't matter, but increasingly political divisions are infecting all aspects of life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4581140&forum_id=2#40583069)



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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:19 PM
Author: .,,.,,.,.,,,.....,,,.,.,.,...,.,.


"Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4581140&forum_id=2#40582380)



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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:24 PM
Author: ......;,;.,;,,.,;,.,;,.;;,.,;,..,.,;,.,.;,


Overall good judgment -- very important since she will be raising your kids, and since you can't confer on every decision

Kindness -- moderately important. she needs to be kind at the right times and to the right people, moreso than just being "kind"

Raw Intelligence -- very important for having smart kids, though you don't want her to be ambitious

Hotness -- she needs to be at least close to what you can get in the market while putting in modest effort. for example if you are married to a 4, but you go on a business trip and 6s/7s give you attention and would sleep with you, cheating will start to become attractive to you

Youth (being younger than you) -- you usually want at least the same age or a little younger. again, you don't want someone who, 10 years down the road, is suddenly looking way older than you such that you can constantly pull much hotter pussy with relative ease.

Financial discipline -- modestly important. you can control a lot of things w/r/t spend.

Physical discipline (stays fit) -- important only as it relates to her staying in a certain attractiveness wheelhouse, OR if a major feature of your relationship is physical fitness

Sense of humor -- great to have, but not critical, and most women have shitty senses of humor

Having the same political views -- it's important that you share the same overall values. you don't want your wife telling your daughter that having kids will derail her career, while telling your son he can be a woman if he wants to. that said, so long as you are in the same ballpark politically you should be okay, especially as a good woman will give some deference to her husband on these matters.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4581140&forum_id=2#40582409)



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Date: July 10th, 2020 7:07 PM
Author: CommunityAccount123

Seems CR, especially on sense of humor lol. I legit think an increasing number of liberal women would indeed tell their son "he can be a woman if he wants to" though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4581140&forum_id=2#40583080)



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Date: July 10th, 2020 7:07 PM
Author: Whiteponyguy

I’d stay as far away from any chick with even a decently well off family. She’ll never appreciate you being a provider otherwise. Obviously don’t go overboard and marry trailer trashed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4581140&forum_id=2#40583075)



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Date: July 10th, 2020 7:09 PM
Author: CommunityAccount123

This is one of those things that ebbs and flows based on how rich. If super rich and inheriting $, she may not care if you provide more. The worst case scenario is she had some BOOMER parent who was a Dr or lawyer who spent every cent he made and imposed no spending controls on his kids. She'll expect that environment in perpetuity.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4581140&forum_id=2#40583089)



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Date: July 10th, 2020 7:31 PM
Author: (*_*)//(^_^)\\\\(*_*)______(\'~\')


Judgment is tops because you need to trust your partner to make good decisions especially in your absence. Poor judgment is probably also reflective of low intelligence or shitty upbringing.

I think humor is fairly important because life is stressful and the least you can do is laugh together and at each other. If your partner is uptight or freaks out about stuff you find funny it sucks. That isn’t to say she should tolerate you making nigger jokes at dinner parties, see #1 above.

Kindness and intelligence are both fine within broad ranges at or above median.

Also genetics. Lack of major inheritable disorders or mutations or diseases or whatever is critical if you want kids.

The physical stuff is minimally important. You don’t want your partner to be repulsive, but it is almost guaranteed you will get bored of fucking no matter how good the person looks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4581140&forum_id=2#40583224)



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Date: July 10th, 2020 7:36 PM
Author: impudent trumpet

#1 CGWBT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4581140&forum_id=2#40583252)