XO Married Guys: what characteristics matter?
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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:10 PM Author: CommunityAccount123
For the few of you with good marriages, how do you rate the importance of these characteristics in terms of your relationship:
Overall good judgment
Kindness
Raw Intelligence
Hotness
Youth (being younger than you)
Financial discipline
Physical discipline (stays fit)
Sense of humor
Having the same political views
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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:17 PM
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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:20 PM
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"does she meltdown in stressful situations or handle it well? critical test."
this is cr
re: politics, the country is becoming increasingly polarized so you could have gotten with a regular lib 5-10 years ago and be with an insane foaming at the mouth shitlib now. no guarantees here
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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:19 PM
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"Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way."
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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:24 PM
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Overall good judgment -- very important since she will be raising your kids, and since you can't confer on every decision
Kindness -- moderately important. she needs to be kind at the right times and to the right people, moreso than just being "kind"
Raw Intelligence -- very important for having smart kids, though you don't want her to be ambitious
Hotness -- she needs to be at least close to what you can get in the market while putting in modest effort. for example if you are married to a 4, but you go on a business trip and 6s/7s give you attention and would sleep with you, cheating will start to become attractive to you
Youth (being younger than you) -- you usually want at least the same age or a little younger. again, you don't want someone who, 10 years down the road, is suddenly looking way older than you such that you can constantly pull much hotter pussy with relative ease.
Financial discipline -- modestly important. you can control a lot of things w/r/t spend.
Physical discipline (stays fit) -- important only as it relates to her staying in a certain attractiveness wheelhouse, OR if a major feature of your relationship is physical fitness
Sense of humor -- great to have, but not critical, and most women have shitty senses of humor
Having the same political views -- it's important that you share the same overall values. you don't want your wife telling your daughter that having kids will derail her career, while telling your son he can be a woman if he wants to. that said, so long as you are in the same ballpark politically you should be okay, especially as a good woman will give some deference to her husband on these matters.
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Date: July 10th, 2020 7:31 PM
Author: (*_*)//(^_^)\\\\(*_*)______(\'~\')
Judgment is tops because you need to trust your partner to make good decisions especially in your absence. Poor judgment is probably also reflective of low intelligence or shitty upbringing.
I think humor is fairly important because life is stressful and the least you can do is laugh together and at each other. If your partner is uptight or freaks out about stuff you find funny it sucks. That isn’t to say she should tolerate you making nigger jokes at dinner parties, see #1 above.
Kindness and intelligence are both fine within broad ranges at or above median.
Also genetics. Lack of major inheritable disorders or mutations or diseases or whatever is critical if you want kids.
The physical stuff is minimally important. You don’t want your partner to be repulsive, but it is almost guaranteed you will get bored of fucking no matter how good the person looks.
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