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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy asks: is your man pornsick?

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Disturbing Ratface Doctorate
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I check a lot of the greenflag boxes but still am pornsick
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- "Very vocally sex-positive, acts like its progressive...
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greenflag guy has lots of homo redflags
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yeah, those are signs that you're dating a homo
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Date: August 7th, 2020 11:00 PM
Author: Disturbing Ratface Doctorate

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e8eaz2/how_to_detect_pornsick_men_share_you_experience/

Redflag "Shit, he's pornsick!".

- Talks about sex way too early in the relationship.

- Gives off that "pervert vibe" that once upon a time only old creeps used to give. Now even young, good looking, "normal" guys that are pornsick give off that vibe. It's the vibe people who are constantly thinking about sex give. He's constantly imagining sex scenarios in his head because he's brain is distorted by the image he's viewing.

- "Follows lots of half naked insta models and real girls he just uses to jerk off to and maybe inappropriately msg."

- "Completely without concern telling disgusting anecdotes in mixed company after a few drinks."

- "They need more than just nice underwear to get hard."

- "Taking bis phone to the bathroom every single time is a red flag."

- "mentions sex acts or positions that are popular in porn, like anal. I had a boyfriend that would ask if we could switch to doggy style when he started losing his erection"

- "erectile dysfunction at a young age (20s)"

- "feeling rushed whenever you’re intimate"

- "if he zones out or seems like he’s in his head when you’re intimate. Again, same boyfriend as before was LESS affectionate during sex, and wouldn’t make as much eye contact as normal."

- "insecure about the size of his dick even though it’s normal or above average"

- "Is he looking at you the way an innocuous man would, or is he leering at you like you’re about to get down on your knees and make his day? The eyes reveal all."

- "It’s also in the way he speaks. If he is reading sexual tones into non sexual things, that’s a dead give away."

- "If he is not hard while kissing"

- " If his idea of sex is no foreplay, and just jackhammering"

- "Are more likely to brag about how good they are in bed. They are actually terrible in bed: either they can't get hard, they can't maintain an erection, or they can't finish easily so sex lasts way too long. Sex is mechanical and he'll never bother to find out what pleases you, because he's going through a list in his head or performing for an imaginary audience"

- "Have a full list of kinks that they want to try with you, all with pornified language, before he even gets to know you. It seems like he's checking off a list mentally and actually fulfilling any of those kinks makes him push for more. Soon you are no longer having anything resembling vanilla sex. Kinks he may ask for include: Anal, choking, slapping, spanking, asking to finish on your face or hair, wanting you to swallow or deep throat, wanting to be pegged, threesomes, gangbangs, hot wife or cuckhold fetishes, obsession with feet, degrading slurs slung at you in bed. Wants you to perform for him: lingerie, stripping, lap dance, asks you to get loud during sex."

- "Uses the word 'cum' to describe orgasming."

- "Doesn't enjoy handjobs. His fist has been gripping far too tight for yours to compare."

- "Talk sexually about their exes, random people on the street, coworkers"

- "Always looking at women in public"

- "Implies that men are visual creatures and women aren't."

- "Will always lie about porn use. He won't ever give it up for you. He also will defend his porn"

- "Does not give a fuck about women who are trafficked and raped to provide him free entertainment."

- "Very vocally sex-positive, acts like its progressive to enjoy watching videos of rape."

- "Vocally sex-negative, but most of his vitriol is aimed at women. Acts like men are slaves to their libidos. Jerks off to pictures of the women he calls slutty for showing skin when he says he's working."

- "Uses porn in public places or at work."

- "Thinks sex dolls are feminist"

- Uses pornified language.

- "They also get very touchy too fast."

- "Argues with you about what you like"

- "spending too much time playing video games seems to be common."

- "Socially inept."

- "Be weary of anime watchers, a lot of shows are hypersexualized & we all know hentai."

Greenflag "Yes, his dick will work!".

- Doesn't talk about sex right away. To him sex is intimate and needs to be brought on slowly (to be truly enjoyed)

- He has female friends (actual friends). He views women as actual humans with feelings and enjoy their company without sexing them.

- " high energy and has lots of hobbies or interests."

- " he has HVM as friends, doesnt keep contact if the friend is talking bad about women or objectifies women openly. His friends are respectful and have wonderful wives who seem to be really happy."

- " if he has a sex drive and gets randomly hard just by looking at you wearing something sexy (talking about underwear and that stuff) he probably isnt a consumer of porn all the time."

- "super outdoorsy"

- "doesn’t really use social media"

- "he's never been to a strip club"

- "your know all his passwords and he doesn't care"



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40722540)



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Date: August 7th, 2020 11:04 PM
Author: Sable deep rehab jap

JFC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40722562)



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Date: August 7th, 2020 11:10 PM
Author: stirring gaping

Some of these are ridiculous. I don’t like handjobs either, but not because I’m “pornsick,” but because women are almost universally terrible at them. No woman can give a handjob as good as the man can give himself one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40722581)



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Date: August 7th, 2020 11:13 PM
Author: Disturbing Ratface Doctorate

it's crowdsourced from all the respondents in that thread, which is why some of them are spot-on while others are stupid as shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40722601)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 12:13 AM
Author: adulterous brilliant sanctuary fat ankles



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40722751)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:12 PM
Author: razzmatazz shrine toilet seat

uses the word "cum" to describe orgasming, instead of the preferred terms "spunk" or "jizzblast"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40737931)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:19 PM
Author: cream mind-boggling public bath

I used to think this until I showed an ex some russian handjob videos. She actually studied them well and developed an HJ technique that kind of blew my mind, like it felt better than sex. Two hands, twisting, all of that stuff.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40737947)



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Date: August 7th, 2020 11:13 PM
Author: coiffed telephone

A lot of this is v cr and a good thing to check your own behavior for

If you can’t be sexually intimate without dissociation or thinking of porn, that’s a serious problem

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40722600)



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Date: August 7th, 2020 11:14 PM
Author: Disturbing Ratface Doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40722603)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 1:20 PM
Author: coiffed telephone

180 synergy at work here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40724202)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 1:56 PM
Author: Rebellious ticket booth trump supporter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40738642)



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Date: October 14th, 2023 4:48 PM
Author: Lake parlour



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#46935903)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 12:19 AM
Author: fantasy-prone abode prole

Thanks for the great reddit content. Upvoted

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40722761)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 12:21 AM
Author: chocolate tank site



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40722772)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 6:03 PM
Author: sadistic set



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40725216)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 6:37 PM
Author: passionate sepia principal's office

(guy insecure about the size of his dick even though it’s normal or above average)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40725303)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:02 PM
Author: Frisky pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40737871)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:42 PM
Author: sinister beta church foreskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40738074)



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Date: October 14th, 2023 4:56 PM
Author: Misunderstood Partner Friendly Grandma



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#46935925)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 12:20 AM
Author: Navy Soul-stirring Corn Cake Mother

the writer of all of this needs to kill herself. not only is she taking on a masculine persona by trying to write critical commentary in an authoritative voice, but she also sounds like a semi-literate retard, and is also way too sex obsessed, and jealous of the male experience and way of life. not only that, she is low iq, and way off the mark in her analysis.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40722765)



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Date: October 14th, 2023 4:46 PM
Author: cerebral fishy sound barrier



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#46935897)



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Date: October 14th, 2023 5:02 PM
Author: scarlet old irish cottage dopamine



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Date: August 8th, 2020 12:23 AM
Author: brindle hilarious stage

woman with black bf "not at all, thats part of the superior black male sex drive"

shitlib with white bf "yes" "jesus christ that creep is addicted to porn"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40722776)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 1:44 PM
Author: Frisky pit

I am a leering dravidian. Bumble 5, take my eyes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40724283)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 5:58 PM
Author: doobsian gay boltzmann



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Date: August 8th, 2020 6:04 PM
Author: snowy skinny woman double fault



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40725220)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 6:09 PM
Author: puce indian lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40725236)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:09 PM
Author: walnut excitant goal in life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40737921)



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Date: August 8th, 2020 6:01 PM
Author: Buff meetinghouse

I check a lot of the greenflag boxes but still am pornsick

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40725210)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:06 PM
Author: Dun swashbuckling twinkling uncleanness gas station

- "Very vocally sex-positive, acts like its progressive to enjoy watching videos of rape."

- "Vocally sex-negative, but most of his vitriol is aimed at women. Acts like men are slaves to their libidos. Jerks off to pictures of the women he calls slutty for showing skin when he says he's working."

these "red flags" feel slightly contradictory

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40737903)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:29 PM
Author: vermilion exciting piazza filthpig

greenflag guy has lots of homo redflags

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40738008)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 1:15 PM
Author: sadistic set



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40738308)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:39 PM
Author: Light hairy legs

xo is filled with pornography addicts, so they're not going to like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40738064)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:41 PM
Author: contagious orchestra pit

yeah you can tell this is reddit because only 30% of these are porn related

luckily I have extremely high blood pressure and am handsome so women don't care if I suffer from them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40738071)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:53 PM
Author: Avocado liquid oxygen hall



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:54 PM
Author: chocolate tank site



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Date: August 11th, 2020 1:35 PM
Author: contagious orchestra pit



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Date: August 11th, 2020 12:43 PM
Author: carnelian bawdyhouse

Greenflag

- He has female friends (actual friends). He views women as actual humans with feelings and enjoy their company without sexing them.

I mean, sure, I view them as human, but enjoy their company as friends? Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40738088)



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Date: August 11th, 2020 1:54 PM
Author: sinister beta church foreskin

yeah, those are signs that you're dating a homo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#40738631)



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Date: October 14th, 2023 4:40 PM
Author: titillating mahogany macaca

Red flags listed get you pussy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4599662&forum_id=2#46935877)