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Going through some serious serious financial woes right now need advice

Long time lurker, first time poaster. My wife and I used to ...
Laughsome plaza coldplay fan
  10/17/20
I advise you to make more money and spend less money
amethyst learning disabled cuckoldry
  10/17/20
No alternative to a hard conversation with a spreadsheet and...
Dull prole office
  10/17/20
Won’t work. And I can’t leave her.
Laughsome plaza coldplay fan
  10/17/20
Look, motherfucker, sit her down with a spreadsheet for expe...
amethyst learning disabled cuckoldry
  10/17/20
She seems to think my $300k was our money and the $300k she ...
Laughsome plaza coldplay fan
  10/17/20
I am not joking. Here is a manual: https://www.youtube.com/w...
amethyst learning disabled cuckoldry
  10/17/20
Then you have to tell her a budget and limits her cards (lik...
Dull prole office
  10/17/20
This. Put her on a budget
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  10/17/20
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  10/17/20
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  10/17/20
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  10/17/20
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smoky talented sneaky criminal
  10/17/20
Yep, some of us here might even help her channel get off the...
domesticated slippery resort marketing idea
  10/17/20
atd
maize gay wizard temple
  10/17/20
How much credit card debt do you have?
rebellious swashbuckling trailer park toilet seat
  10/17/20
Close to $90k. Very low interest though
Laughsome plaza coldplay fan
  10/17/20
holy fuck man
amethyst learning disabled cuckoldry
  10/17/20
(((low interest)))
domesticated slippery resort marketing idea
  10/17/20
your flame just jumped the shark, unless you're black
greedy home
  10/17/20
What are the major expenses? I know couples with HHI of 200K...
Diverse Boistinker
  10/17/20
Million dollar house $90k credit card debt A bunch of ...
Laughsome plaza coldplay fan
  10/17/20
You need Dave Ramsey and God's help
amethyst learning disabled cuckoldry
  10/17/20
lol
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  10/17/20
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big big-titted legal warrant native
  10/17/20
If this is not flame, I feel bad for you bro
Self-centered newt
  10/17/20
You need to control her access to the money and credit
Galvanic stag film
  10/17/20
See above.
Laughsome plaza coldplay fan
  10/17/20
Is your job safe?
rebellious swashbuckling trailer park toilet seat
  10/17/20
Well I just got passed over for a promotion to a semi-divers...
Laughsome plaza coldplay fan
  10/17/20
trying a bit too hard with this one
vivacious lettuce wagecucks
  10/17/20
What do you do? What did she do? For all her insanity, T...
Adventurous water buffalo
  10/17/20
Can you separate out your finances? Your salay belongs to yo...
Ivory razzle-dazzle circlehead
  10/17/20
I like this
Dull prole office
  10/17/20
Just a chill long time lurker with a user account and passwo...
Jet-lagged scarlet hunting ground round eye
  10/17/20
Cosmos De’ Medici?
Laughsome plaza coldplay fan
  10/17/20
A wise dude once told me it’s not what you make it&rsq...
Low-t concupiscible gas station candlestick maker
  10/17/20
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clear range mediation
  10/17/20
1. Flame. 2. Cut off her access to the money.
Elite Hospital Puppy
  10/17/20
begin/keep hitting her with a closed fist at least 1x per da...
Sapphire theater
  10/17/20
she sounds like a petulant child so treat her like one -- cu...
Razzmatazz orchestra pit sweet tailpipe
  10/17/20
slice up all your credit cards but 1 and spreadsheet budget ...
heady bright shrine volcanic crater
  10/17/20
Holy shit, my nightmare. Did she always show signs of being ...
Up-to-no-good hot fanboi
  10/17/20
JFC, all you had to do was live with another bro, and be bro...
Racy elastic band
  10/17/20
Why make this post where your wife’s profligate lifest...
Nubile boiling water
  10/17/20
How do you only have 70k equity? Do they really let you get ...
Insane Soul-stirring Windowlicker Dingle Berry
  10/17/20
Zero down. Fucking insane.
Laughsome plaza coldplay fan
  10/17/20
...
Up-to-no-good hot fanboi
  10/17/20
...
crusty dragon
  10/17/20
Chris Watts 2.0 in the making here
Translucent aromatic mood stage
  10/17/20
Flame
Indigo International Law Enforcement Agency
  10/17/20
great thread.
wine dead weed whacker abode
  10/17/20
eager for an update in a week if somehow not flame
amethyst learning disabled cuckoldry
  10/17/20
You’d be fine w a flame update too I hope
Nubile boiling water
  10/17/20
it would have to be convincing, but yes
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  10/17/20
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  10/17/20
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Olive Cerebral Locale Psychic
  10/17/20
The fact is that $600k/year just wasn't that much. $300k/ye...
Olive Cerebral Locale Psychic
  10/17/20
How will the baby cost $100k? Formula is not that expensive ...
Laughsome plaza coldplay fan
  10/17/20
Well if she goes back to work she'll need a nanny, plus fash...
Olive Cerebral Locale Psychic
  10/18/20


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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:36 PM
Author: Laughsome plaza coldplay fan

Long time lurker, first time poaster. My wife and I used to make $300k each and live a $700k lifestyle. We were always living like we made an extra $100k when we didn’t. That was because of her to be honest. I was always ok with a Honda Accord but she needed a Range Rover because “I MAKE $300k!”

Now we’re fucked. We just had a baby and she’s not working. Our savings is shit and our non real estate debt is higher than our savings.

We have $300k a year coming in and we’re still living like we make $700k. She spends like an idiot. The last week she bought a Peleton and a $2k jacket because “well what I’m saving on child care...I’m I deserve it!”

She doesn’t get that we are completely fucked if we keep going this route.

Divorce is not an option. Her working is not an option. We have about $70k equity in a million dollar house. We’re fucked. No way about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131036)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:38 PM
Author: amethyst learning disabled cuckoldry

I advise you to make more money and spend less money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131045)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:39 PM
Author: Dull prole office

No alternative to a hard conversation with a spreadsheet and some hard truths about what bills can't be paid if she buys shit because "she deserves it". Good luck friend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131049)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:39 PM
Author: Laughsome plaza coldplay fan

Won’t work. And I can’t leave her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131056)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:43 PM
Author: amethyst learning disabled cuckoldry

Look, motherfucker, sit her down with a spreadsheet for expenses and a sheet with all of your accounts. Explain you are both gonna be fucking homeless if she keeps it up. If that doesn't work, bend her over your knee and spank her until she says the words, "I understand." Call the bank and put a limit on her card.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131068)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:44 PM
Author: Laughsome plaza coldplay fan

She seems to think my $300k was our money and the $300k she brought in was her play money. Now that $300k is gone, she thinks my money is play money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131079)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:48 PM
Author: amethyst learning disabled cuckoldry

I am not joking. Here is a manual: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxObkfSqmQM&ab_channel=21reese18

Do what I articulated here: http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131068 -- you are fucked if you do not. Then take a serious look at Dave Ramsey or other financial education programs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131105)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:49 PM
Author: Dull prole office

Then you have to tell her a budget and limits her cards (like Hegemon tp said)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131106)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 2:25 PM
Author: Mauve People Who Are Hurt Theatre

This. Put her on a budget

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131572)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 5:09 PM
Author: lavender glittery box office laser beams



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41132282)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:39 PM
Author: bonkers fragrant cuckold forum

OnlyFans

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131051)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:40 PM
Author: bull headed depressive



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131061)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 1:51 PM
Author: smoky talented sneaky criminal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131418)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 3:29 PM
Author: domesticated slippery resort marketing idea

Yep, some of us here might even help her channel get off the ground.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131850)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:40 PM
Author: maize gay wizard temple

atd

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131057)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:40 PM
Author: rebellious swashbuckling trailer park toilet seat

How much credit card debt do you have?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131060)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:41 PM
Author: Laughsome plaza coldplay fan

Close to $90k. Very low interest though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131063)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:43 PM
Author: amethyst learning disabled cuckoldry

holy fuck man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131072)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 3:29 PM
Author: domesticated slippery resort marketing idea

(((low interest)))

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131852)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 4:29 PM
Author: greedy home

your flame just jumped the shark, unless you're black

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41132135)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:41 PM
Author: Diverse Boistinker

What are the major expenses? I know couples with HHI of 200K buying pelatons and expensive clothes and they seem to be alright

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131062)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:43 PM
Author: Laughsome plaza coldplay fan

Million dollar house

$90k credit card debt

A bunch of personal loans

Car loans

About $70k left in student debt

Funeral expense for my dad

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131069)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:44 PM
Author: amethyst learning disabled cuckoldry

You need Dave Ramsey and God's help

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131074)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 1:45 PM
Author: crimson library faggotry

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131391)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 3:22 PM
Author: big big-titted legal warrant native



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131823)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 2:22 PM
Author: Self-centered newt

If this is not flame, I feel bad for you bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131559)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:43 PM
Author: Galvanic stag film

You need to control her access to the money and credit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131071)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:44 PM
Author: Laughsome plaza coldplay fan

See above.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131083)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:44 PM
Author: rebellious swashbuckling trailer park toilet seat

Is your job safe?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131082)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:46 PM
Author: Laughsome plaza coldplay fan

Well I just got passed over for a promotion to a semi-diversity hire and it’s an up or out type of job so I would say no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131088)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 8:59 PM
Author: vivacious lettuce wagecucks

trying a bit too hard with this one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41133398)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:46 PM
Author: Adventurous water buffalo

What do you do? What did she do?

For all her insanity, Thunder Collins's wife seemed to have a great gig. High paying, very flexible, WFH. Any chance of your wife doing anything like that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131089)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:46 PM
Author: Ivory razzle-dazzle circlehead

Can you separate out your finances? Your salay belongs to you. put it in a separate account. Let her see her debt run up. Otherwise you will need to divorce or at least threaten divorce. You dont need to leave her. Just tell her you love her but finances need to be separated to protect your childrens future. She needs a wake up call.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131096)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:49 PM
Author: Dull prole office

I like this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131111)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 12:52 PM
Author: Jet-lagged scarlet hunting ground round eye

Just a chill long time lurker with a user account and password for a site no one has been able to register for in 3 years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131129)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 1:20 PM
Author: Laughsome plaza coldplay fan

Cosmos De’ Medici?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131269)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 1:00 PM
Author: Low-t concupiscible gas station candlestick maker

A wise dude once told me it’s not what you make it’s what you keep - you gotta look to optimize your finances by paying off debt, maximizing tax savings and not spending an excessive amount of money.

You should seek to build the equity in your home to $200k as well and maybe refinance to get rid of private mortgage insurance and get a lower rate. PMI isn’t required after 20% equity.

Also stop spending like a degenerate and tell your wife that as well. You basically need to reality check this chick quick and get your house in order before you start sending the kid to school which is likely gonna be huge money drain given your consumption habits.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131169)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 1:41 PM
Author: clear range mediation



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131378)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 1:44 PM
Author: Elite Hospital Puppy

1. Flame.

2. Cut off her access to the money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131386)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 1:47 PM
Author: Sapphire theater

begin/keep hitting her with a closed fist at least 1x per day

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131399)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 1:56 PM
Author: Razzmatazz orchestra pit sweet tailpipe

she sounds like a petulant child so treat her like one -- cut off her allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131452)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 2:19 PM
Author: heady bright shrine volcanic crater

slice up all your credit cards but 1 and spreadsheet budget absolutely everything. sit her down and walk through it. otherwise you will end up filing for bankruptcy and getting divorced.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131539)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 2:20 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good hot fanboi

Holy shit, my nightmare. Did she always show signs of being a materialistic consumer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131545)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 2:23 PM
Author: Racy elastic band

JFC, all you had to do was live with another bro, and be bros, and help each other out as the need arose, and your life could have been great. Instead you've lost everything to a greasy slime pit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131565)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 2:26 PM
Author: Nubile boiling water

Why make this post where your wife’s profligate lifestyle is obviously the main problem but just reply there is nothing that can be done about your wife? Just kill her, okay? She sounds insufferable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131582)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 2:27 PM
Author: Insane Soul-stirring Windowlicker Dingle Berry

How do you only have 70k equity? Do they really let you get a $1m mortgage with zero down when you make 600k?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131587)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 4:12 PM
Author: Laughsome plaza coldplay fan

Zero down. Fucking insane.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41132032)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 4:21 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good hot fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41132088)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 3:09 PM
Author: crusty dragon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131758)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 3:35 PM
Author: Translucent aromatic mood stage

Chris Watts 2.0 in the making here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131878)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 3:44 PM
Author: Indigo International Law Enforcement Agency

Flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41131908)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 4:27 PM
Author: wine dead weed whacker abode

great thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41132119)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 4:33 PM
Author: amethyst learning disabled cuckoldry

eager for an update in a week if somehow not flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41132150)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 4:38 PM
Author: Nubile boiling water

You’d be fine w a flame update too I hope

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41132172)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 5:00 PM
Author: amethyst learning disabled cuckoldry

it would have to be convincing, but yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41132248)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 7:01 PM
Author: brilliant deep juggernaut nursing home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41132809)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 9:01 PM
Author: Beady-eyed pocket flask sandwich

Xo catnip ITT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41133408)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 10:16 PM
Author: Olive Cerebral Locale Psychic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41133757)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 10:17 PM
Author: Olive Cerebral Locale Psychic

The fact is that $600k/year just wasn't that much. $300k/year definitely isn't much. She HAS to get back to work. And both of you need to earn more. Because the baby alone will cost $100k/year, you really both need to start making $400k/year each just to break even. $500k/year each would be better.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41133763)



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Date: October 17th, 2020 10:19 PM
Author: Laughsome plaza coldplay fan

How will the baby cost $100k? Formula is not that expensive plus my buddy makes it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41133773)



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Date: October 18th, 2020 12:09 AM
Author: Olive Cerebral Locale Psychic

Well if she goes back to work she'll need a nanny, plus fashionable clothes and carriages for the baby, plus more drugs due to the added stress.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4653765&forum_id=2#41134272)