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What should people messed up due to bad parenting do?

Let's assume (maybe it's true) those people are unsalvageabl...
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these individuals, if they are able to heal sufficiently (an...
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suck their dads dicks
American
  01/12/21
you need so much help friend
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you and your dads should all suck my dick
American
  01/12/21
do you see a therapist at least?
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yeah your therapist and he sucks my dick too lol
American
  01/12/21
i guess this is just a joke but def. talk to someone
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A simple gnome living in the forest
  01/13/21
This website is populated by incredibly broken people
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True, though I would rather call them sociopaths.
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there's nothing to do other than confront them. if they were...
texas chili bowl
  01/12/21
lashing out at them indicates you still want or need somethi...
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nah it's just closure. you can put them out of your mind aft...
texas chili bowl
  01/12/21
closure isnt real
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i beat up this kid who bullied me in 7th grade when i got bi...
texas chili bowl
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closure is just a sad attempt to reclaim something that was ...
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it's natural to seek revenge or resolution. if you think you...
texas chili bowl
  01/12/21
do you know what a naturalistic fallacy is?
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something jews invented because they hate natural order?
texas chili bowl
  01/12/21
no, something that comes from Christ
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(shlomo) it's only a fallacy if you attempt to make an ai...
texas chili bowl
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I have no time for appeals to a godless natural order. God w...
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"closure" is a nothing reddit tier iq people bring...
American
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it has nothing to do with IQ and it's been around forever. i...
texas chili bowl
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Terrible advice. The only thing to do is distance yourself f...
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suck their dads dick
Mumm-Ra
  01/12/21
http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&fo...
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apologize for the repoast!
Mumm-Ra
  01/12/21
In my case, ethereum
Wilbo Baggins
  01/12/21
what do you mean by messed up
Oh, you travel?
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Do I need to explain the meaning of each word or phrase? ...
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Call Stefan Molyneux
dey eat da poopoo
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American
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Where did he go?
Candy Ride
  01/13/21
Defamed and kicked off multiple platforms
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Get help
Trust If Asian (US Army Ret.)
  01/12/21
stop blaming your parents for all your failures. lots of peo...
chugbaser
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I made it but it’s still awful psychologically and I t...
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What’s most sad about this is your going to perpetuate...
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Shabba Ranks
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Nobody is blaming anyone, but one thing is certain, you're a...
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CR
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drink, heavily
Tutu-fueled Red PissWang Rampage
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Oh, you travel?
  01/13/21
poast on xo
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Poast on xo
Internet friends
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not procreate and repeat the cycle of abuse
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Step one: distance yourself from all toxic family members. C...
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CR on the last point. Also, replace dogs with cats.
Oh, you travel?
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Date: January 12th, 2021 10:30 PM
Author: ..,.,,..,..,,...,,..,..

Let's assume (maybe it's true) those people are unsalvageable.

What should they do? What was the point of being born? So many disgusting humans having kids when they shouldn't have had them and they did so for selfish reasons.

Humanity is an abomination.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742120)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 10:57 PM
Author: ..,.,,..,..,,...,,..,..



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742369)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:00 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


these individuals, if they are able to heal sufficiently (and by that I mean emotionally, and not becoming successful etc) are the most important people for helping others heal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742384)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:00 PM
Author: American

suck their dads dicks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742387)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:01 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


you need so much help friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742396)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:01 PM
Author: American

you and your dads should all suck my dick

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742397)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:02 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


do you see a therapist at least?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742404)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:02 PM
Author: American

yeah your therapist and he sucks my dick too lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742409)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:03 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


i guess this is just a joke but def. talk to someone

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742415)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 3:59 AM
Author: A simple gnome living in the forest

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41743295)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 3:59 AM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


This website is populated by incredibly broken people

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41743297)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 1:02 PM
Author: ..,.,,..,..,,...,,..,..

True, though I would rather call them sociopaths.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41745444)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:01 PM
Author: texas chili bowl

there's nothing to do other than confront them. if they were shitty parents because of a physical illness or disability, forgive them. if they were drug addicts or mentally ill, be harsh but ultimately leave them alone after that. if they were just straight up neglectful abusive unapologetic pieces of shit, beat their ass.

you'll never reclaim your nuclear childhood but you can at least drain your wound.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742395)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:02 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


lashing out at them indicates you still want or need something from them. indifference is the objective sign of healing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742401)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:02 PM
Author: texas chili bowl

nah it's just closure. you can put them out of your mind after that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742408)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:03 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


closure isnt real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742420)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:04 PM
Author: texas chili bowl

i beat up this kid who bullied me in 7th grade when i got bigger in high school. haven't thought about him since and who knows, i might still every once in a while if i hadn't done that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742429)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:06 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


closure is just a sad attempt to reclaim something that was taken from you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742443)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:07 PM
Author: texas chili bowl

it's natural to seek revenge or resolution. if you think you're above it you're lying to yourself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742446)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:07 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


do you know what a naturalistic fallacy is?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742454)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:08 PM
Author: texas chili bowl

something jews invented because they hate natural order?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742457)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:09 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


no, something that comes from Christ

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742463)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:12 PM
Author: texas chili bowl

(shlomo)

it's only a fallacy if you attempt to make an airtight moral judgment or logical conclusion about something based on whether it is natural or not. using nature as a guiding heuristic for what you should "probably" do is akin to using symmetry as a guiding heuristic in science or mathematics. so you "probably" shouldn't try to fight your natural instincts so much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742495)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:16 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


I have no time for appeals to a godless natural order. God wills not violence. If you seek to make me your scapegoat it is you who will be judged for it on the last day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742514)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:05 PM
Author: American

"closure" is a nothing reddit tier iq people bring up as a stand in concept to justify their feeling that they are owed something

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742431)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:06 PM
Author: texas chili bowl

it has nothing to do with IQ and it's been around forever. it isn't rational, but emotions aren't rational. no one is above having these feelings, even the "chillest" Tibetan monk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742444)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 1:53 PM
Author: ...........,........,,,,,,,,.,,,,


Terrible advice. The only thing to do is distance yourself from your toxic parents and create new bonds and a new family that is not toxic. Dogs help. Dogs will naturally teach you how to be a decent human being.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41745829)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:02 PM
Author: Mumm-Ra

suck their dads dick

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742407)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:02 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742404

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742410)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:05 PM
Author: Mumm-Ra

apologize for the repoast!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742430)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:07 PM
Author: Wilbo Baggins (Krugerrand)

In my case, ethereum

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742451)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:08 PM
Author: Oh, you travel?

what do you mean by messed up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742458)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 2:33 AM
Author: ..,.,,..,..,,...,,..,..

Do I need to explain the meaning of each word or phrase?

What do you mean by what do you mean?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41743198)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:13 PM
Author: dey eat da poopoo

Call Stefan Molyneux

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742499)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:13 PM
Author: American



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742501)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 7:39 AM
Author: Candy Ride

Where did he go?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41743590)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 7:51 AM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,


Defamed and kicked off multiple platforms

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41743618)



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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:19 PM
Author: Trust If Asian (US Army Ret.)

Get help

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742536)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 2:34 AM
Author: chugbaser

stop blaming your parents for all your failures. lots of people with legit awful parents maed it, so quit this whining just because your dad didn't jerk you off enough

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41743202)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 3:57 AM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,


I made it but it’s still awful psychologically and I think about almost daily how bad my family situation was growing up even like 20 years later.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41743291)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 4:00 AM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


What’s most sad about this is your going to perpetuate this narcissism into the next generation

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41743299)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 7:52 AM
Author: Shabba Ranks



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41743622)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 12:00 PM
Author: ..,.,,..,..,,...,,..,..

Nobody is blaming anyone, but one thing is certain, you're an ignorant fool if you think every person will come out of a horrible situation in the same way. Those people you say had awful parents and still made it very likely had other things in their favor, whether money, relatives/friends who cared about them or personal qualities that others did not have.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41744954)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 1:53 PM
Author: ...........,........,,,,,,,,.,,,,


CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41745833)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 4:42 AM
Author: Tutu-fueled Red PissWang Rampage

drink, heavily

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41743322)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 12:01 PM
Author: Oh, you travel?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41744959)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 12:01 PM
Author: .,,,.,,..,.,.,:,.:,,...,::,...,:,.,..:.,:.::,.


poast on xo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41744962)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 12:02 PM
Author: Internet friends (Dork Enlightenment)

Poast on xo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41744966)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 1:03 PM
Author: ...;;;,.,.,.;,.,;.,;.,;.,.,.,.,...,,,,...,.,..,.


not procreate and repeat the cycle of abuse

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41745457)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 1:57 PM
Author: ...........,........,,,,,,,,.,,,,


Step one: distance yourself from all toxic family members. Cut off ties, leave the state leave the country if you need to. Do NOT confront and get sucked back in.

Step two: replace toxic relationships with good ones. This is hard because your instincts are all messed up but follow the golden rule of treating others the way you want to be treated. Also, as i said earlier, get a dog and treat him well. The dog will instinctively teach you what a healthy relationships is like. Try to emmulate that with real human beings but dont raise your expectations too high. Dogs are better than humans but find the friends that are the next best thing. Do not be afraid to be alone. Alone is better than being surrounded by toxic shitheads.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41745870)



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Date: January 13th, 2021 2:09 PM
Author: Oh, you travel?

CR on the last point. Also, replace dogs with cats.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41745971)