What should people messed up due to bad parenting do?
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Date: January 12th, 2021 10:30 PM Author: ..,.,,..,..,,...,,..,..
Let's assume (maybe it's true) those people are unsalvageable.
What should they do? What was the point of being born? So many disgusting humans having kids when they shouldn't have had them and they did so for selfish reasons.
Humanity is an abomination.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742120) |
Date: January 12th, 2021 10:57 PM Author: ..,.,,..,..,,...,,..,..
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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:00 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
these individuals, if they are able to heal sufficiently (and by that I mean emotionally, and not becoming successful etc) are the most important people for helping others heal
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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:01 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
you need so much help friend
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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:02 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
do you see a therapist at least?
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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:03 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
i guess this is just a joke but def. talk to someone
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Date: January 13th, 2021 3:59 AM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
This website is populated by incredibly broken people
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Date: January 13th, 2021 1:02 PM Author: ..,.,,..,..,,...,,..,..
True, though I would rather call them sociopaths.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41745444) |
Date: January 12th, 2021 11:01 PM Author: texas chili bowl
there's nothing to do other than confront them. if they were shitty parents because of a physical illness or disability, forgive them. if they were drug addicts or mentally ill, be harsh but ultimately leave them alone after that. if they were just straight up neglectful abusive unapologetic pieces of shit, beat their ass.
you'll never reclaim your nuclear childhood but you can at least drain your wound.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742395) |
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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:02 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
lashing out at them indicates you still want or need something from them. indifference is the objective sign of healing
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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:03 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
closure isnt real
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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:06 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
closure is just a sad attempt to reclaim something that was taken from you
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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:07 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
do you know what a naturalistic fallacy is?
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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:09 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
no, something that comes from Christ
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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:16 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
I have no time for appeals to a godless natural order. God wills not violence. If you seek to make me your scapegoat it is you who will be judged for it on the last day.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742514) |
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Date: January 13th, 2021 1:53 PM
Author: ...........,........,,,,,,,,.,,,,
Terrible advice. The only thing to do is distance yourself from your toxic parents and create new bonds and a new family that is not toxic. Dogs help. Dogs will naturally teach you how to be a decent human being.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41745829) |
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Date: January 12th, 2021 11:02 PM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41742404
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Date: January 13th, 2021 2:33 AM Author: ..,.,,..,..,,...,,..,..
Do I need to explain the meaning of each word or phrase?
What do you mean by what do you mean?
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Date: January 13th, 2021 7:51 AM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,
Defamed and kicked off multiple platforms
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Date: January 13th, 2021 3:57 AM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,
I made it but it’s still awful psychologically and I think about almost daily how bad my family situation was growing up even like 20 years later.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41743291) |
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Date: January 13th, 2021 4:00 AM
Author: .,.,;,.,..,.,,,,:,,:,..,:::,.,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
What’s most sad about this is your going to perpetuate this narcissism into the next generation
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41743299) |
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Date: January 13th, 2021 12:00 PM Author: ..,.,,..,..,,...,,..,..
Nobody is blaming anyone, but one thing is certain, you're an ignorant fool if you think every person will come out of a horrible situation in the same way. Those people you say had awful parents and still made it very likely had other things in their favor, whether money, relatives/friends who cared about them or personal qualities that others did not have.
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Date: January 13th, 2021 1:53 PM
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CR
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Date: January 13th, 2021 12:01 PM
Author: .,,,.,,..,.,.,:,.:,,...,::,...,:,.,..:.,:.::,.
poast on xo
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Date: January 13th, 2021 1:03 PM
Author: ...;;;,.,.,.;,.,;.,;.,;.,.,.,.,...,,,,...,.,..,.
not procreate and repeat the cycle of abuse
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Date: January 13th, 2021 1:57 PM
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Step one: distance yourself from all toxic family members. Cut off ties, leave the state leave the country if you need to. Do NOT confront and get sucked back in.
Step two: replace toxic relationships with good ones. This is hard because your instincts are all messed up but follow the golden rule of treating others the way you want to be treated. Also, as i said earlier, get a dog and treat him well. The dog will instinctively teach you what a healthy relationships is like. Try to emmulate that with real human beings but dont raise your expectations too high. Dogs are better than humans but find the friends that are the next best thing. Do not be afraid to be alone. Alone is better than being surrounded by toxic shitheads.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4738042&forum_id=2#41745870) |
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