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Any way to responsibly have sexual relationship with secretary?
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:45 AM Author: Black university I'm a solo. It's a very small office. Just me, 1 fulltime secretary/paralegal and a part-time bookkeeper who comes like once a week.
Secretary is a 25 year old tallish brunette. She's got a nice feminine figure. Not skinny but absolutely would never be described as fat. She's got a sweet, girl next door type of face.
We spend a lot of time together, and there is clear rising sexual tension between us. She will extend conversations for longer than they call for, we exchange looks and smiles, have been working in a way lately that puts us in very close physical proximity.
I'm 41. Divorced, no kids. She has a long term boyfriend that she does not seem very into and seems to be relocating soon for a job.
I get the feeling that it wouldn't take much to push things over the edge. Would this be a huge mistake? Has anyone gone down this path before? |
Date: April 24th, 2024 11:46 AM Author: Impertinent medicated jew You're overthinking this, what could go wrong? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606567) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:47 AM Author: comical territorial travel guidebook home Just start having sex with her lol what are you even asking here? Obviously at some point you'll get tired of having sex with each other, at which point you're gonna need a new secretary, so hopefully she isn't that good at her job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606570) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:50 AM Author: Fighting sable step-uncle's house gaping 1) There is no sexual tension. 2) Enjoy the lawsuit.
OTOH, one of my friends from law school married his secretary a few years after LS, and was probably fucking her as soon as they worked together. They have kids now and seem happy. |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:50 AM Author: Frisky cocky coldplay fan place of business (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606589) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 12:52 PM Author: Black university Correct.
I either have completely misread the situation and if I take some action, she will freak out and potentially sue me for sexual harassment. Spending so much time together, I might be overlooking the possibility that she's just being nice to me because i'm her boss.
Alternatively, she's receptive to it and a relationship blossoms. This could either end badly or with a happy marriage.
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:54 AM Author: Milky indecent keepsake machete Good thing you came to the Chad Poon Hound Clubhouse to ask for permission to stick your dick in this retarded whore who is definitely interested in you because you’re a mouthbreathing kike paperwork chad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606601) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:55 AM Author: comical territorial travel guidebook home mouthbreathing kike paperwork chad tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606606) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:55 AM Author: Impertinent medicated jew sup (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606611) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 12:22 PM Author: Milky indecent keepsake machete Maybe TT and steez can weigh in and help our fellow alpha navigate this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606762) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 1:23 PM Author: White Excitant Gas Station Liquid Oxygen (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606915) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:59 PM Author: Dun Slap-happy Crotch great poast (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608228) |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 7:27 AM Author: disgusting ceo theater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608378) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:55 AM Author: scarlet stead pozpig Yes, marry her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606609) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:56 AM Author: Milky indecent keepsake machete Lol cr! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606614) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 12:13 PM Author: Black university In a perfect world, this would be our trajectory. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606726) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 1:25 PM Author: White Excitant Gas Station Liquid Oxygen the OP is literally just copy and pasting the plot of that one james spader b-movie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606922) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 4:08 PM Author: Black university I don't want to spank her or have some weird dom/sub thing with her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47607294) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 4:13 PM Author: Adventurous range Divorce your feelings towards her from your objective analysis of the situation. Maybe you're not a sociopath though... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47607313) |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 7:36 AM Author: slate chest-beating pit windowlicker not exactly
solid movie though |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 1:26 PM Author: Amber Rebellious Legal Warrant put a baby in her already (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606928) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 1:26 PM Author: Aggressive bearded jewess I'm sorry you got divorced man, especially before you had a chance to have kids, assuming that's what you wanted. but this will not end well and you're just lonely. you need to boss up and quit making googly eyes with the staff. go meet a woman at church, a bar, your country / yacht club, soho house, literally anywhere else than this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47606929) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 4:12 PM Author: Black university This is likely the best advice ITT.
I am lonely and would like a companion. Having kids isn't that important to me. I'd be open to it with the right person. She'd have to be younger than me though and willing to do pretty much all of the diaper changing bullshit. |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 4:14 PM Author: Adventurous range Disagree, she wants you and fulfills everything you could ask for. She's aching to be filled (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47607315) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 4:12 PM Author: Adventurous range Friend, women (and 99%) of men have no agency. She's not planning to fuck you up with a suit. She just genuinely, subconsciously wants to be your daughter and have babies put into her
Tell her your feelings |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 4:15 PM Author: Black university We do have a father daughter kind of dynamic. Despite being smart and very competent, she is very unsure of herself maybe because her dad wasn't around much during her childhood. I validate and encourage her a lot, and she likes that. i'll ask for her input and opinions on cases even when i don't need it just to make her feel special. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47607317) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 4:16 PM Author: Adventurous range 100% she would be head over heels in love with you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47607321) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 4:15 PM Author: marvelous sooty double fault (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47607319) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 4:52 PM Author: Milky indecent keepsake machete Holy shit gas all jews yesterday (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47607421) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 4:15 PM Author: galvanic personal credit line sexcretary (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47607320) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 4:44 PM Author: smoky curious juggernaut haunted graveyard Should be fine, as long as you go about it in a totally ethical way. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47607386) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:11 PM Author: Black university Go on... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608173) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 4:53 PM Author: arrogant parlor circlehead If you’re tall and hung, it will all work out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47607428) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:11 PM Author: Black university I'm decidedly average in both departments. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608174) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:21 PM Author: arrogant parlor circlehead She will regret it and it will have been rape (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608186) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 8:28 PM Author: Aromatic Grizzly Station Here's some actual good advice.
Do you want to marry this girl? If not, then if you do anythig you're an idiot.
If you do want something serious with her, then assuming the book keeper is normal cool, ask the book keeper if they think its a good idea. You need a third party opinion to see if what you're proposing will be reasonably received or not.
Also, you need a fucking escape plan for what happens if she says no or if you do date and break up. Get ready to pay for some hefty severance. |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:35 PM Author: Black university I would pursue her in a serious manner and do believe she's wife material. The age difference might be a bit much, more so for her than me.
discussing with bookkeeper might actually be a good idea. She's my age and we are pretty tight. she's also very blunt with me.
Agreed on the last part which is obviously my big worry. I don't know what the escape plan could be. |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 4:20 AM Author: Amber Rebellious Legal Warrant hmm I wonder what the 40yo female bookkeeper will say lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608335) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 8:32 PM Author: racy base athletic conference the real question is... what led you to hire her? what led her to accept? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47607851) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:39 PM Author: Black university I was in desperate need of a secretary. she was a recent college grad with basically no experience but handled the interview very well and had a recommendation.
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:14 PM Author: Free-loading Resort 1) Find her a better job 2) encourage her to leave for that better job 3) ask out on date. |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:39 PM Author: Black university Part of my fantasy is that we fall in love, get married and then get to spend every day together. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608204) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:48 PM Author: Free-loading Resort Why the fuck would you want to work with the girl you're dating. That's insane. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608212) |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 12:02 AM Author: beady-eyed mint indirect expression doctorate He's an old fashioned romantic. I think it's sweet. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608234) |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 9:11 AM Author: Aquamarine tank I agree, many retards are sweet (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608495) |
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:47 PM Author: beady-eyed mint indirect expression doctorate I know a few lawyers whose wives work as their office managers. I never thought about how many of them just started as employees.
I've noticed that these women frequently terrorize the other female employees.
Coming onto an employee is more often than not a very bad idea. |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 7:42 AM Author: ruddy duck-like area round eye Just go for it. Ask her if she wants to get a drink after work some time. Be prepared to lose her if the request or the date doesn't go well. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608384) |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 9:13 AM Author: thriller knife Insist on no condoms from the beginning, finish in deep missionary (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608499) |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 9:13 AM Author: Aquamarine tank Ur a divorced solo, you don't have anything to "lose." But ur betaness is palpable and repulses her physically (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608501) |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 9:14 AM Author: Stirring Submissive Turdskin Shrine hey you can't say that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608502) |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 9:51 AM Author: Amber Rebellious Legal Warrant a divorced 41yo solo with no kids is afraid to say fuck it and just YOLO
man the law really attracts some risk averse fucks |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 9:55 AM Author: Black university You sound like my ex-wife! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608568) |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 10:14 AM Author: Amber Rebellious Legal Warrant well there you go
it’s not her, it’s you |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 10:15 AM Author: mustard locale ratface Do it in the butt. (Your butt) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608602) |
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Date: April 25th, 2024 10:34 AM Author: Low-t Whorehouse What's his name? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5521063&forum_id=2#47608663) |