http://members.nowpublic.com/andcalliope

As to the allegations regarding sexual abuse, I am frankly astonished at the close-minded views towards sex. I know dozens of perfectly healthy relationships that involve an element of domination play, S&M, etc. Power is sexy, both being in power and the giving of power to someone else, and as long as everyone stays safe, this play is fine. The comment from Mir that they had a safety word should not be ignored. This makes me think of an episode of Sex and City where Samantha engages in role-playing with the boyfriend Smith in which she is a housewife and he is a burglar who breaks in, forces her down and screams "SHUT THE FUCK UP" as they have sex. Of course, the friends are appalled but Samantha says, "You can't censor a fantasy." Rape fantasies might make people uncomfortable but that does not erase the fact that people have them, and explore them in safe venues with significant others. There is DEFINITELY a jump between sexual fantasy and what you really want to happen. I say cheers to Chen for giving so honest a portrayal of sex, with which many people can surely relate.

Caley Walsh also seems very "oral"

http://media.tumblr.com/8xP7m0AwMb5tcn9d4kbnLiId_500.jpg

Caley Walsh

caleywalsh@gmail.com

085 8186091

Arts and Humanities/English, Law

http://www.gsu.tcd.ie/node/827

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=834825&forum_id=1#9972496)

http://www.recipe4living.com/Common/Article.aspx?id=55344

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=834825&forum_id=1#9972520)