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XO, am I the asshole? (story time)

I dated a woman for 4 years. We broke up and a year later sh...
Matt Walsh's "What Is A Goyim?"
  12/01/25
This is a good situation for you and everyone in your cousin...
Roblox
  12/01/25
I haven't talked to him in years. He tries to text me now an...
Matt Walsh's "What Is A Goyim?"
  12/01/25
I think I can picture what you’re saying, but you shou...
.....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;
  12/01/25
Interestingly she dresses unfashionably on insta. In fact sh...
Matt Walsh's "What Is A Goyim?"
  12/01/25
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Matt Walsh's "What Is A Goyim?"
  12/01/25
not sure why you're asking if you're an asshole. You haven't...
Juan Eighty
  12/01/25
I look down on my cousin. I essentially view him as a bottom...
Matt Walsh's "What Is A Goyim?"
  12/01/25
so basically the cousin's mom had rich parents and his dad w...
....,.,.;;;,.,,:,.,.,::,.....,:,..,..
  12/01/25
This is correct. My aunt's father was a stoic self made rich...
Matt Walsh's "What Is A Goyim?"
  12/01/25
no asshole behavior cited, so NTA
cerebral
  12/01/25


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Date: December 1st, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: Matt Walsh's "What Is A Goyim?" (Goy First, America Always)

I dated a woman for 4 years. We broke up and a year later she began dating my first cousin. It's awkward because they met through me and we all used to hang out together all the time. Pretty scummy.

The main reason we broke up is that she wanted to travelshrew and thingdo constantly and that wasn't my thing. I just wasn't into that lifestyle and she was unhappy dating a guy who didn't want to do what she wanted to do.

My cousin swooped in after I left. I saw on social media they just got back from an elaborate overseas trip. I know that was the exact kind of thing she would have wanted me to do for her. I could have been that type of guy but I'm just not like that and I have other interests. We were never aligned on lifestyle and goals. We had no future.

The thing about my cousin is that he basically has no inherent capability to meet women on his own. Before he was dating my ex he had a longterm crush on his best friend's sister, who went on to date one of his other close friends and my cousin was extremely bitter and jealous about this for many years. This guy just sits around coveting other dude's girlfriends until something opens up. This is pretty sick, right?

And here's the other thing that bothers me about him. He runs a fake business which his parents bought him that loses money every year. His friend started a business and didn't want to run it anymore. So my cousin's parents just bought it for him. The business loses money every year and his parents just give him more money to run it. He pays himself a salary out of a failing business. To compound the irony, my cousin's parents, my aunt and uncle, in true boomer fashion live way above their means not from their own sweat and toil but because they inherited a ton of money from their parents.

In other words my cousin is second generation hand me down fun money running a fake business that to my knowledge has never been profitable. He is flying around the world with my materialistic travelshrew ex who I used to do in the butt for 4 years paying with essentially his grandparents hand me down equity after he couldn't find a gf of his own and sat around for decades pining after his friends girlfriends. Literally a moans of my future wife situation where he had to endure listening to me plow her for ages through the wall when we all lived together.

I'm not saying I'm a saint here but am I the asshole?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2#49474101)



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Date: December 1st, 2025 11:50 AM
Author: Roblox

This is a good situation for you and everyone in your cousin’s orbit. He is now saddled with a travelshrew you didnt want anyway. And anyone new you meet, he can’t be eyeing her because he is now in a relationship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2#49474123)



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Date: December 1st, 2025 11:57 AM
Author: Matt Walsh's "What Is A Goyim?" (Goy First, America Always)

I haven't talked to him in years. He tries to text me now and again but I don't respond. A couple times a year he says hey man, how ya been, let's catch up! I just can't stomach it.

I am jealous because my ex has enormous natural beasts and is really good at sex. Dare I say, she had perfect tits. Porn star level cans. She is very submissive in the bedroom and will do anything. I seriously miss fucking her which was a great joy in my life. I would say her body comp is someone like Skylar Vox. For a tittiboi like me she was perfect.

She was also very doting and kind. Basically just worshipped me and heaped affection constantly and was extremely warm and loving. I really liked that. She absolutely threw herself at me, which was enjoyable. If I was upset about something she would move heaven and earth to make me feel better.

Things I don't miss: she was incredibly boring and dull at conversation. Bordering on mind numbing. She was a Disney Adult. I basically couldn't relate to her at all. Her stories sucked, her friends were trashy and prole. I don't think I was ever fully in love.

Overall the situation though was pretty good until I had to put more effort into the relationship to keep her happy at which point dating her became a massive chore and was exhausting. Keeping up with all her prole travel shit was annoying as fuck and I hated it. I was miserable towards the end. She also ruined her body with really terrible, disgusting tattoos after we broke up. She was resentful that I didn't like tats so after we broke up she went crazy with the tats that look horrible.

I don't really think about her anymore but I get enraged when I think about my cousin who I now hate although to be fair I kind of began hating him long before this but now it's worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2#49474144)



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Date: December 1st, 2025 12:15 PM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


I think I can picture what you’re saying, but you should probably poast some of her ig pics so that we can be sure. Scratch out her face and name if you want.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2#49474205)



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Date: December 1st, 2025 12:23 PM
Author: Matt Walsh's "What Is A Goyim?" (Goy First, America Always)

Interestingly she dresses unfashionably on insta. In fact she's almost committed to doing the opposite of looksmaxing. Incredible genes, no motivation. She doesn't have any of the personality traits of a Hot Chick which was actually kind of cool. This was actually a point of contention in the relationship, too. A little bit of makeup would have gone a long way. She was hot, but she could have been REALLY hot with a little bit of effort. I had to beg her to wear lingerie. By the end of the relationship she was sleeping in oversized t-shirts. I was like please can you put on a hooker outfit before bed? She would have been a dime with a tiny amount of effort. Eat a little healthier, put on some makeup, dress better. Think of all the girls in the world who try extra hard to be hot now imagine a chick who IS hot but doesn't care... Annoying!!!

Sadly I only have porn of us we made 😣. Too graphic for zozo I don't want you all to see my wang.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2#49474218)



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Date: December 1st, 2025 12:09 PM
Author: Matt Walsh's "What Is A Goyim?" (Goy First, America Always)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2#49474188)



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Date: December 1st, 2025 12:19 PM
Author: Juan Eighty

not sure why you're asking if you're an asshole. You haven't really taken any actions that would warrant a judgement

I predict you will remain resentful about the situation for two months and then something new will happen in 2026 that makes this back of mind for you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2#49474210)



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Date: December 1st, 2025 12:26 PM
Author: Matt Walsh's "What Is A Goyim?" (Goy First, America Always)

I look down on my cousin. I essentially view him as a bottom feeder. I feel guilty about this because we grew up together and used to be close.

Thank u saar 180. I have to find a new pair of big cans then I will restore my inherent level of happiness. I'm a fairly positive person. Mostly upbeat guy. Just brings me down when I think of my idiot cousin. My undying love of giant boobs is really what sustains me in life. I just hate my cousin and feel guilty about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2#49474225)



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Date: December 1st, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: ....,.,.;;;,.,,:,.,.,::,.....,:,..,..


so basically the cousin's mom had rich parents and his dad was enough of a chad to marry into $$? otherwise wouldn't you also have some of that cash coming your way?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2#49474222)



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Date: December 1st, 2025 12:29 PM
Author: Matt Walsh's "What Is A Goyim?" (Goy First, America Always)

This is correct. My aunt's father was a stoic self made richmo from the Greatest Generation. My uncle was a Chad. Unironically he and I are still boys. I talk to my uncle all the time and he is 180. He is a Trumpmo to the hilt. We never talk about his son, who I think he knows is kind of a fuckup. We just literally never bring up the topic. He is based and a great dude.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2#49474233)



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Date: December 1st, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: cerebral

no asshole behavior cited, so NTA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5804714&forum_id=2#49474238)