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Date: January 13th, 2025 4:58 PM Author: vibrant effete national jap
I previously posted a lengthy thread about creating my first Seeking arrangement profile and how it completely blew my mind.
It has continued. I've realized that many many chicks on here only check their messages once a week at best, sometimes longer. As a result the quality of potential candidates has been improving.
Again I've been trying to filter out the obvious whores and/or strippers for the time being.
So far I have a meet up scheduled Thurs with the tatooed girl who was previously posted. https://ibb.co/nnxwGXm
She is married but very clearly has some sort of kink for something like this.
Currently talking to this girl: https://ibb.co/vJH6cVQ
Who wants to do overnights but at $1500 which is steep for this shit but she's an hr away and by far one of the hotter chicks on here. https://ibb.co/1Lc58Hp
Casually talking to several other very hot chicks who I seem very interested based on pics and personality alone so while we haven't talked about money, all of them are routinely texting me throughout the day. Obviously they all want to be paid, but it does seem that if you're decent looking with a decent personality, that the number is very flexible.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48549766)
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Date: January 13th, 2025 5:15 PM Author: Arousing casino mad cow disease
If u pay extra for an "overnight" you are setting yourself up to get fleeced
I think $500 is the maximum for any kind of meetup of whatever duration
Don't think "top 10%"
You don't want the best one, you want the right one
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48549842) |
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Date: January 13th, 2025 5:20 PM Author: Arousing casino mad cow disease
You are setting expectations wrong if you pay "extra" for overnight, like if the ceiling is $1500 then that's what she expects
Ultimately you want a girl who is basically decent and conscientious as weird as that sounds
I always gave them money upfront
If they flaked then great, saved me from getting scammed or robbed etc
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48549861) |
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Date: January 13th, 2025 5:06 PM Author: vibrant effete national jap
brother im doing my best.
I will not be in the intermountain west until this week. After that I will be out there extremely frequently and should have adequate updates at that time.
Just trying to post some content for my bros.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48549806) |
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Date: January 13th, 2025 5:16 PM Author: vibrant effete national jap
the zoomer didn't give me a set rate just said a range so she could make sure it was worth the drive would be fine. But said "i like to work for it anyway" with a wink and a nudge emoji.
She's super tan, thin and i like the zoomer tattoos so i offered her 400-500 and plan on paying her 5 the first time and then renegotiating future meet ups assuming we're compatible to a significantly lower rate
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48549846)
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Date: January 13th, 2025 5:30 PM Author: vibrant effete national jap
Also SA is incredibly acceptable in modern day culture. We live in a very popular area of socal, with lots of extremely hot chicks, a much higher than normal concentration of pros or ex pros in the surf, skate, snowboard realm which also attracts a certain caliber of women.
My wife and I have been here a long time and are fairly connected so we know tons of these chicks. I would say at least 25% are straight up on the app and openly talk about it, Another 20% are probably on there under different names and are just slightly more incognito but all the signs are still there... Expensive hotels in far off locations with only photos of them and no real job or significant income that would allow for that.
My wife has even commented "like wow it seems like every girl who's single now is on only fans or fucking rich guys for money/vacations"
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48549885) |
Date: January 13th, 2025 5:02 PM Author: Erotic Potus Corner
this all seems pretty dire
"so there's an app where you can pay women to be your sugar baby"
"Oh wow, they must be hot young things, right?"
"I'm meeting up with a tattooed married woman"
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48549786) |
Date: January 13th, 2025 5:08 PM Author: flatulent flushed box office coffee pot
I'm honestly amazed ur talking to real people
When I tried in NYC it was 60% strippers/run through hookers, 30% black guys in jail trying to entrap you and maybe 10% real chicks
Had one uni student who straight up told me she was hooked on my money and would do anything to keep me
Was paying her $500 per visit w no time limit
She was so hot
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48549824) |
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Date: January 13th, 2025 5:14 PM Author: vibrant effete national jap
I tend to engage in conversations that I suspect a bot would have a hard time with. Also, I'm firm on no money pre-meet. I also shy away from the chicks who look like obvious hookers or strippers as well as anyone over the age of 30 which seems to have worked out well.
Some very clearly are on here much more than others. For ex the married chick hasn't even logged on aside from our message exchange since we've switched to text.
Others are very clearly on there every single day, multiple times per day and are more than likely "career girls". They also tend to jump to the chase much quicker.
I've largely been excluding WOCs primarily because of safety reasons. chicks with multiple hair colors, tons of tatoos, ultra ultra skinny, and or otherwise look to be strippers or on drugs i also exclude.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48549840) |
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Date: January 13th, 2025 5:38 PM Author: vibrant effete national jap
brother... im paying for them to show up at my residence or a bar that is a 2 min walk away for a drink to then go back to my place and fuck for several hours.
Yeah I could go and get a hooker, but the quality to price is much lower, i would suspect the enthusiasm would be more fake and contrived and finally im not interested in dealing with pimps or even career hookers knowing where im living.
At least on SA there's some element of dating in that they have to look at your photos and find you somewhat attractive or interesting, there's usually some back and forth banter to decide whether you guys would actually connect, etc.
Much more similar to tinder, just wih the algorithm reversed since im willing to pay 300-600 per meet up which is very little in the scheme of things. Gf's, much like wives, become increasingly expensive as life goes on.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48549909) |
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Date: January 13th, 2025 5:42 PM Author: vibrant effete national jap
no children here brother. It's the alternative to me blowing up my life, divorcing a women who loves me, and financially destroying myself.
I have run the numbers of the cost of a divorce, I have actively intiated steps toward divorce in the past during other relationships, and I keep coming back, but not without causing significant emotional pain to my spouse.
The last of which she said, look if its just sex, i dont really care what you do, but if you love this girl i guess you need to try it and figure out if that's what you want. That led to me going on a 6 month spree just a few steps below zurich before realizing the chick i had left her for was unstable and an alcoholic.
Therefore, yes fucking mid 20 yr olds on seeking is a healthier solution for me.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48549917) |
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Date: January 13th, 2025 5:49 PM Author: vibrant effete national jap
long story there, my wife is very late 30s, very early 40s. kids is a long story including biological components. We considered adoption for a while before recently deciding we weren't gonna do it (she initiated the conversation re: no kids and I was fine with it).
We are however a great team, we're both very driven, extremely motivated, similar senses of humor, but sexually she's never really met my needs in a whole host of ways. So if i could go back 10 or so years would I have gotten married to her? No... But I wouldn't have gotten married to anyone.
Now, for the reasons mentioned above I'm somewhat stuck and there's no good objective reason to leave and the financial cost would be devastating as we both came from utterly nothing and I built a very successful business that she has played a non insignificant role in as well.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48549937) |
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Date: January 13th, 2025 6:47 PM Author: vibrant effete national jap
here is how champ... my business requires me to expend large amounts of capital up front. I have a shit ton of employees (20ish) who all cost money and rely on me to feed their families. Also I took big risks and spent a lot of money i didn't have and barely scraped by for the first 5 years of the business in the hope that it would start to pay off in the second 5 years of the business (which it is).
If I get a divorce they will look at the length of marriage... over 10 years, they will look at my wife's contribution... not insignificant, they will look at my wife's earnings using what she has made the past 5+ years... an insignificant amount of money, they will look at all the school and things I did while she worked under the guise that she supported me during school (not the case but that's what the court will see).
All of that means I would owe her more than half. The 2 million dollar home we own outright would be hers. Then I would need to buy her out of a business generating 1-2 mil per year which would be valued out using a 10x profit model, meaning it would cost me at least 3 million to buy her out PLUS ongoing alimony at a standard of living she's accustomed to.
All of that combined means that in the event of a divorce 1) I'd likely need to lay off employees, laying off employees would result in me having to scale down my business, which in turn would mean i'd make less money to buy her out and pay for her alimony.
My standard of living would take a huge hit, I'd go to likely living in a shitty 1 bdrm apartment, I would not be able to take off to the mountains for 3 months a year, I would not be able to take nice vacations, I would not be able to bang seeking arrangement whores with reckless abandon.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48550131) |
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Date: January 13th, 2025 6:06 PM Author: stubborn police squad
"...when one loses their sex job"???
It's immoral to have a formal commitment to someone and cheat on them regardless if they say, "oh, it's totally fine I don't care." Sure, it's a free country and it's impossible for society to police this stuff. But I have every right to look down on it. I guess it "just works" for some people and their individual situations but I still think it's gay as fuck.
A formal separation at least begins the process of divorce even if it takes a long time to hash out the financial ramifications with the court. Everyone knows that Arnold and Maria ended their relationship back when he got caught screwing the maid and moved out even though it took ages to finalize the divorce. No one said Arnold was an immoral faggot for fucking other women post separation while waiting 10 years for the ink to dry. Much better than "just do whores" OP
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48549973) |
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Date: January 13th, 2025 6:59 PM Author: low-t theater feces
it's pretty simple. you said:
"It's immoral to have a formal commitment to someone and cheat on them regardless if they say, "oh, it's totally fine I don't care."
formal commitment = marriage. the marriage still persists during separation. therefore, fucking while separated would still be immoral under your first argument.
what your position actually seems to be is "it's always immoral to have sex with others while in a relationship." and that a separation is sufficient to terminate the relationship. but that has nothing to do with the "formal commitment" part. because to you the actual commitment, such as getting married intending for it to be open, or altering the actual commitment to permit it later, is immoral.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48550168) |
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Date: January 13th, 2025 7:24 PM Author: low-t theater feces
i'm not arguing any of that. i've laid out exactly what i was asking you twice and you've screeded past it both times.
you think that me trying to tease out your logic must mean i'm arguing against it and are addressing arguments you think i have in my head, but what i was asking was narrow and simple, and not addressed here. and it can't be addressed because it's not logically reconcilable, which i why i said "i think what you meant was..."
your imagination of the legal significance and purpose of separation is off. it's not "permitted" it's required in many states and historically. and the purpose is to *encourage* reconciliation, which doesn't require any formalized recommitment. it's a hurdle that's required *before* a divorce is initiated in some states, not an independent formal legal relationship status. i think you may be confused because you think i'm prodding you about the ethics, but it was really just the "formal commitment" part, because that formal commitment is not changed by separation.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48550255) |
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Date: January 13th, 2025 8:05 PM Author: low-t theater feces
most people would be able to understand. let me try to break it down:
you: if you X while A it's immoral. you have to at least B to X morally.
me: but A always still exists during B.
X = having sex with someone who isn't your wife
A = marriage
B = separation
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the FORMAL COMMITMENT still exists during separation. and you've said that the ACTUAL COMMITMENT (e.g. consenting to an open relationship) doesn't matter, it's always immoral during the FORMAL COMMITMENT. but that doesn't logically follow, because the FORMAL COMMITMENT still exists during separation. so your position can only be that what you meant by FORMAL COMMITMENT is a RELATIONSHIP regardless of the FORMAL COMMITMENT status, which you think is always immoral to have sex outside of regardless of the ACTUAL COMMITMENT between the parties.
i've invited you explain where i'm wrong here in your logic but you keep screeding past it and now are just slinging adhoms.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48550414) |
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Date: January 13th, 2025 8:27 PM Author: low-t theater feces
"I still don't get it in the slightest"
i see that
"No one cares about the formal commitment in the legal sense."
YOU ARE THE ONE THAT RELIED ON THE "FORMAL COMMITMENT" AND THE ENTIRE TIME I'VE JUST BEEN ASKING YOU TO EXPLAIN YOUR REASONING
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48550520) |
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Date: January 19th, 2025 12:34 PM Author: vibrant effete national jap
Can confirm this happened several nights ago per my other post...
Started with condoms, the whole time of which she was moaning in my ear how much she couldn't wait to feel my uncovered dick inside of her. After about 30 mins of fucking she took the condom off under the pretense of wanting to blow me more (of which she was incredibly good at) and then promptly hopped on it while moaning in my ear how irresponsible it was until I was like no worries i just had a vasectomy.
To which she started riding my cock with increasing fury and begging me to cum inside her.
Was a truly 180 experience for all involved.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48565587) |
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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:18 PM Author: vibrant effete national jap
she's allegedly coming over tonight brothers but we will see.
Kinda interested in this chick who wants 300-400 per meet "but obviously I don't expect that if we're going out to dinner or something first!" She's ukrainian but has been in the us since age 2.
https://ibb.co/8gd0GsJ
https://ibb.co/nkJWR03
She wants to meet up either tmw or fri, whatever works for me. Can confirm she's definitely NOT FAT but does have a tattoo between her tits and enjoys pole dancing (but not a stripper). I don't mind chicks like that as opposed to many on here who apparently want a 18 yr old mormon virgin and the ppm is hard to beat.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48555857) |
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Date: January 16th, 2025 10:28 AM Author: vibrant effete national jap
Does this change your opinion brother?
https://ibb.co/nCW7dfg
She has also self identified as "slim" and I feel like most chicks who are anything other than thin or at least thin-average mark themselves as "athletic" although some stripper/hooker and/or bodybuilder type chicks mark themselves as athletic too. Fats mark themselves as curvy.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48557467) |
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Date: January 16th, 2025 6:15 PM Author: vibrant effete national jap
LJL this chick rescheduled to today, fine. We had already discussed rate, where we were meeting etc.
Then she goes "I should ask this before hand, will you be paying me tonight. Just wondering because it is a bit of a drive for me."
I respond "i mean... i guess it sorta depends, if it's a m&g and things go well, and we go from there, yeah, if we show up have a drink and realize not a good fit then i'll pay for your drink and i guess i can throw you some gas money. But happy to jump on a video call before hand to prove I'm a real person."
Respond: "It seems like you are looking for more of an escort, so unfortunately I am going to pass."
LJL what the fuck do you think you are doing on this fucking site. And she thinks I'm gonna pay her 300-400 for a fucking nice to meet you drink?
I'm gonna start being ruthless with these whores.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48558726) |
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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5663463&forum_id=2#48557320) |
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