Late '20s here. I used to a be a awkward nowig dork. It's gotten significantly better after UG

The brutal honest truth is that short men - particularly minorities - are UGLY to many American women. U-G-L-Y. You shouldn't take advice from other men because they simply aren't in the same position you are. "Just be confident bro" and taking a trip to Vancouver isn't a good approach because it doesn't solve some underlying fundamental issues you probably have. If anything, I'm guessing you'll strike out and go home even more depressed. This is going to require an entire change in mindset and personality because that's how badly the world can fuck over short minority dudes in today's world.

The truth is you will never be a player. Not in a 2014 anglo nation at least. At 33, you probably figured this out. When you look at a picture of a BBW - unless it's bloodacre, do you get a rock hard boner? No you probably don't, and that's analogous to what most modern western women feel when they look at a guy shorter than them. Maybe not repulsion, but definitely little to no sexual attraction.

Yet knowing and understanding this I still get action from time to time.

A few topics to consider

1) Being short is arbitrary

2) Why do you need validation?

3) Why height is an issue

4) Where to look for women

1) As I'm writing this there's probably some Kurd who is getting assfucked by an ISIS terrorist. There's another person dying of malnutrition in Africa. There's another person who has been laid off and can't provide for family after working for a company for 15 years after a retard VP was trying to cover up his own mistakes. There's another person who is getting divorced several years after initially attracting her with his looks and charm but is now having his kids taken away, and he's experiencing pain and emotional turmoil brutal heartbreak. 110 billion humans have ever lived on this planet and most of their lives sucked.

At the same time, you were born with brains and have a strong work ethic instilled into you at an earlier age. If you were living in a different time or different country, yes it's very likely you wouldn't be <><><>NOWAG<><><>.

All of the above are examples where arbitrary elements of the universe come into play - raw intelligence, profession, short height, being invaded by a foreign army, malnourished, abused as a child, etc. It makes absolutely no sense why some are given everything and most others nothing. So let me ask you this - how can you respect a world where this occurs? You shouldn't. IT IS STUPID and not worthy of your respect. Being short and women not liking short asian men is no different from this standpoint. Just another very stupid and arbitrary element of this world.

2) Building on point #1, there are a LOT of shitty women out there. Growing up and hanging around men, did you feel as if many were douchebags? Same is true for women. A lot of them suck, have low IQs, and generally make bad decisions. This is where your inexperience hurts you because many can be ruthless, selfish, irrational, or just plain crazy at times and you may have never seen that side of them since they'll often keep it together out in public. Ask yourself this: If they're going to pass up a Dentist making 200k and is otherwise stable, how fucking stupid are they? Why do you even care what they think? Let them go back to their bad decisions and future divorces. They are STUPID and not worthy of your respect.

I once read that over half of strippers have borderline personality disorder. I imagine that for prostitutes, the % is even higher. It's very likely some legitimately liked you and found you attractive due to their own mental illness and their warped sex drive....but it will fade away after a few hours since all of their emotions are very temporary. There's your validation right there, even if its tainted

3) Height is a proxy for dominance, and this is why short beefy cholo thugs can still do well with women. What's your personality like? Taller, good looking males can get away with being introverted awkward dorks but a smaller male? It's a death sentence. Our biology cannot keep up with society so even though it doesn't make sense in today's world, attraction is still driven by ape biology. If you're not assertive nor confident, work on this. Take tips on how to look people in the eye, speak clearly, give firm handshakes, etc. but a more fundamental and long lasting approach to go about in doing this learning how to respect and love yourself. Learn to accept who you are.

4) If I were you, I would not give up escorts. If you're a dentist you prob have money, so I'm assuming you're banging attractive ones and not some backpage meth addict. Don't bother aggressively looking for one night stands or FWBs - in your situation the reward might not be worth the effort. The funny thing is it's very likely you've have had sex with hotter women than even most Chads

Black, fobby asian, and fobby indian women are the most receptive to me. Don't bother with white women in America - ironically, I've had more experience with them than any other race, but that's largely due to an overexposure to them compared to other race. The hit rate is just way, way lower.

I would recommend focusing on fobby asian women who still have traditional values. I would not suggest limiting yourself to upper middle class women since a large portion are trashy hypergamous shrews with mental issues nowadays. Focus on loyalty, compatible personalities, has good relations with family, and the ability to resolve conflicts more than any other quality including looks. You may not get a dimepiece, so bang all of the hot escorts you can and get that out of your system before settling down. Most women do not look very good at 40 anyway, so NBD if you can't find someone very attractive. Beauty is temporary.

At the end of the day, accept reality for what it is (retarded and arbitrary) and just enjoy the ride. It really comes down to self respect, living life on your terms, and understanding that some of the more idiotic and lucky parts of our lives is just randomness

That's what gotten me laid. Telling the world (and women) to take it or leave it. I love me and I know who I am. That's all I need.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4579437&forum_id=2#40569283)

i think 5 '4.5"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4579437&forum_id=2#40570939)

'Cause I'm a piece of shit, it ain't hard to fuckin' tell

It don't make sense, goin' to heaven with the goodie-goodies

Dressed in white, I like black Timbs and black hoodies

God'll prob'ly have me on some real strict shit

No sleepin' all day, no gettin' my dick licked

Hangin' with the goodie-goodies, loungin' in paradise

Fuck that shit, I wanna tote guns and shoot dice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4579437&forum_id=2#40570994)

Tinder and the other dating apps changed all this. Every woman has Chad on demand on her smartphone. True, she might only have Chad once every other week, but she'd still rather wait her turn to be P&D'd then settle for a shortmo.

By reducing the search cost to zero, Tinder has completely eliminated the ability for short guys to get laid. Either they're already married or they'll die alone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4579437&forum_id=2#40571396)