Unsuccessful — “oh great they’re doing to be an asshole because of it”

Having the exact same amount of success as you — they want to shrewdly one-up you probably and will Leave you on Read.

The only people who aren’t assholes don’t care about success. They live quiet, invisible lives. You don’t see them much. The world isn’t built for them. So you get the ones it is built for. And they’re all assholes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5695253&forum_id=2#48754359)