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At some point in your 40s, you realize you're done

whether you live one more day or another 50, you're about as...
violent chocolate pit cuckold
  04/08/26
Life begins when you realize it’s over
fantasy-prone crystalline parlor
  04/08/26
it's a second life in a way, yes.
violent chocolate pit cuckold
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disrespectful vigorous stage alpha
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henna multi-colored garrison
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Turquoise filthy associate
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indecent giraffe
  04/08/26
"Age" is flame and I still look very young.
Concupiscible slate pozpig
  04/08/26
I look anywhere from 29 to 33, and pass for it too (33 year ...
violent chocolate pit cuckold
  04/08/26
are you hung?
violent indian lodge
  04/08/26
no, but he is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PxOQriOSFdQ
violent chocolate pit cuckold
  04/08/26
a homo in st b told me I look max 28 lmao
Swashbuckling mustard ceo heaven
  04/08/26
Did you top or bottom w him?
Beady-eyed Submissive Box Office Becky
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Concupiscible slate pozpig
  04/08/26
Wow oh wow
Adventurous soggy private investor
  04/08/26
fag
Godawful angry property
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bronze idiot telephone
  04/08/26
At some point, there aren't many doors open and possibilitie...
Mind-boggling zombie-like laser beams chapel
  04/08/26
what percentage of people have saving graces by 40 no cha...
fantasy-prone crystalline parlor
  04/08/26
The vast majority of people have a kid by 40--even in our de...
Mind-boggling zombie-like laser beams chapel
  04/08/26
I know a few career military bros getting out after 20 yrs a...
fantasy-prone crystalline parlor
  04/08/26
Entertainment--40smos aren't "up" on what's cool, ...
Mind-boggling zombie-like laser beams chapel
  04/08/26
my biglol firm hired a 40s something mo who was a career cha...
fantasy-prone crystalline parlor
  04/08/26
Military retirees seem like they're ideally positioned for a...
nudist electric kitty cat hospital
  04/08/26
Or, e.g., a man well into his 50s can revolutionize the pist...
cyan laughsome knife
  04/08/26
my kids are probably the only thing keeping me living and ce...
appetizing aqua generalized bond wagecucks
  04/09/26
ur kids will 100% be aware of this if it's the case btw
Adventurous soggy private investor
  04/09/26
I'm becoming a policeman at 40 it's never too late to maek i...
Adventurous soggy private investor
  04/08/26
In my daydreams I do this. Detective seems like the best job...
Vengeful Apoplectic Dingle Berry Gaming Laptop
  04/08/26
I mean I may literally have to do this because codemonkeying...
Adventurous soggy private investor
  04/08/26
I'm sure there is a lot of BS on The Force, but it genuinely...
Vengeful Apoplectic Dingle Berry Gaming Laptop
  04/08/26
I know a guy who was a successful startup founder. Hit his ...
Buff Lodge Gunner
  04/08/26
I feel lucky to have figured out my direction in my early 30...
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Mind-boggling zombie-like laser beams chapel
  04/08/26
i will no longer contribute to Society any more than require...
titillating state
  04/08/26
In truth a man only needs so much. If you are without attach...
Vengeful Apoplectic Dingle Berry Gaming Laptop
  04/08/26
cooked, done like dinner, etc. pretty much whatever we want
bronze idiot telephone
  04/08/26
by 40 having a family is over unless you already have kids. ...
Abnormal curious hunting ground halford
  04/08/26
Aubrey Plaza drove her husband to suicide at 40 and is havin...
Glittery Pearl Locale Twinkling Uncleanness
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Turquoise filthy associate
  04/08/26
women are 180 tp
bronze idiot telephone
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violent indian lodge
  04/08/26
Thread smells like pedophiles with AIDS dick
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  04/08/26


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Date: April 8th, 2026 1:20 AM
Author: violent chocolate pit cuckold

whether you live one more day or another 50, you're about as developed as you can be, and you're now just waiting for the train

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49802891)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 1:24 AM
Author: fantasy-prone crystalline parlor

Life begins when you realize it’s over

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49802894)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 1:32 AM
Author: violent chocolate pit cuckold

it's a second life in a way, yes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49802900)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 1:34 AM
Author: disrespectful vigorous stage alpha



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49802904)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 6:03 AM
Author: henna multi-colored garrison



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803045)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 9:42 AM
Author: Turquoise filthy associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803290)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 10:55 AM
Author: indecent giraffe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803433)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 2:27 AM
Author: Concupiscible slate pozpig

"Age" is flame and I still look very young.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49802929)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 2:28 AM
Author: violent chocolate pit cuckold

I look anywhere from 29 to 33, and pass for it too (33 year old guy thought he was older than me), but that's besides the point

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49802931)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 2:29 AM
Author: violent indian lodge

are you hung?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49802933)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 2:33 AM
Author: violent chocolate pit cuckold

no, but he is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PxOQriOSFdQ

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49802938)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 2:32 AM
Author: Swashbuckling mustard ceo heaven

a homo in st b told me I look max 28 lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49802937)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 7:11 AM
Author: Beady-eyed Submissive Box Office Becky

Did you top or bottom w him?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803079)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 10:51 PM
Author: Concupiscible slate pozpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49805615)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 6:05 AM
Author: Adventurous soggy private investor

Wow oh wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803046)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 7:18 AM
Author: Godawful angry property

fag

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803084)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:02 PM
Author: bronze idiot telephone



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Date: April 8th, 2026 9:39 AM
Author: Mind-boggling zombie-like laser beams chapel

At some point, there aren't many doors open and possibilities left in your life. In your 20s, you can find young love, start fresh in an industry, be somebody. By 40, you're very likely on the path you're on, and if you haven't already made it in whatever you want to make it in, you're probably not going to.

Two saving graces are (1) having kids, which resets the clock insofar as they can still make it and be and do anything, and (2) making enough money to get out and the wage cage and at least chill for a bit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803283)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: fantasy-prone crystalline parlor

what percentage of people have saving graces by 40

no chance at all to turn the ship around in 40s and above?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803287)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 10:10 AM
Author: Mind-boggling zombie-like laser beams chapel

The vast majority of people have a kid by 40--even in our declining birth rate techno-dystopia.

One definitely can, in theory, turn the ship around in his/her 40s and above. Some people have. E.g., Rodney Dangerfield found little success as a comic in his 20s, he quit to get a regular job in his 30s, and he returned to comedy in his 40s, becoming one of the biggest comics of his era and a legend.

The problems are more that (a) very few people who haven't already found success or put themselves on the path to success by 40 are going to have the resources, will power, energy, capacity, etc. to do so after 40 and (b) even if the factors in (a) weren't a problem, a lot of doors still remain closed, by choice or otherwise.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803348)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 10:13 AM
Author: fantasy-prone crystalline parlor

I know a few career military bros getting out after 20 yrs at 42-45, they're looking for 2nd careers. Have a 50% pension, GI bill to do whatever education, and the kids are almost out of the house. It seems like life is sort of starting for them...

What doors remain closed, becoming like a Zuckerberg billionaire? Other than that, I can't see or think of too many

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803355)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 10:53 AM
Author: Mind-boggling zombie-like laser beams chapel

Entertainment--40smos aren't "up" on what's cool, no one wants to see a 40 year old struggling to make it and find his footing, youthful energy and creativity are gone.

Anything that requires being away from family and starting out with little pay. E.g., I'm a reasonably competent guitarist and I could find a band to tour with (but see above about no one wanting to see a 40 year old entertainer who isn't at the top of the craft or who isn't already famous). However, I don't want to be away from my kids, and I want to make money so they can live a good life.

Breaking into a new industry that requires starting on the ground floor. That's cool and fine when you're in your 20s. Would you want to be a 43 year old first year associate? Junior programmer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803431)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 11:21 AM
Author: fantasy-prone crystalline parlor

my biglol firm hired a 40s something mo who was a career changer. not sure about tech but it happens

i can see why Entertainment doesnt work. but its a ruthless industry that chews out even 18 yr olds. its not TCR for most people

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803496)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 11:03 PM
Author: nudist electric kitty cat hospital

Military retirees seem like they're ideally positioned for a second act. In reality, that rarely seems to happen. I don't really hear of those people doing a whole lot with the opportunity. Optimal path seems to be serving for a few years to get the experience and education benefits and getting out while still in the 20s to pursue a civilian career.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49805646)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 11:34 PM
Author: cyan laughsome knife

Or, e.g., a man well into his 50s can revolutionize the pistol industry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49805682)



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Date: April 9th, 2026 12:21 AM
Author: appetizing aqua generalized bond wagecucks

my kids are probably the only thing keeping me living and certainly the only thing keeping me married

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49805772)



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Date: April 9th, 2026 4:42 AM
Author: Adventurous soggy private investor

ur kids will 100% be aware of this if it's the case btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49805904)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 9:49 AM
Author: Adventurous soggy private investor

I'm becoming a policeman at 40 it's never too late to maek it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803303)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 11:49 AM
Author: Vengeful Apoplectic Dingle Berry Gaming Laptop

In my daydreams I do this. Detective seems like the best job that combined intellectual and physical elements. Obviously it also involves a lot of computer, but the human element and the act of being "on the move" physically with regularity is extremely appealing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803599)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 11:54 AM
Author: Adventurous soggy private investor

I mean I may literally have to do this because codemonkeying is DONE HERE. I'm not some real coder like ragnus so I'll be one of the first ones out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803611)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:00 PM
Author: Vengeful Apoplectic Dingle Berry Gaming Laptop

I'm sure there is a lot of BS on The Force, but it genuinely seems like a path that a lot of high IQ dudes would enjoy. Also a job where you can actually "turn off" during your off hours. Probably no "Slack" or Teams "sync-ups" either.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803631)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 6:17 PM
Author: Buff Lodge Gunner

I know a guy who was a successful startup founder. Hit his big exit and took up race car driving as his new “career.” After a few years I think it was all feeling a bit hollow and he went back to work as a patrol deputy for his local sheriff’s department.

Imagine being a centimillionaire with a giant country estate and a barn full of Ferraris who has to pick up night shifts from his cop bros and answer domestic violence calls on the prole end of the county.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49805007)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 11:51 AM
Author: Vengeful Apoplectic Dingle Berry Gaming Laptop

I feel lucky to have figured out my direction in my early 30s and to have made a little money. As OP and others have pointed out, it is pretty brutal to watch someone still trying to "figure it out" in their 40s. People like that would be better off living a very non-traditional life. Not full TT or anything, but not grinding in some "career" either.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803605)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 11:55 AM
Author: Mind-boggling zombie-like laser beams chapel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803614)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 11:58 AM
Author: titillating state

i will no longer contribute to Society any more than required to not starve or be homeless. im not even firm on the homeless part either.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803620)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:01 PM
Author: Vengeful Apoplectic Dingle Berry Gaming Laptop

In truth a man only needs so much. If you are without attachments, then I say go for it. Deep down, many will envy your freedom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803635)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:02 PM
Author: bronze idiot telephone

cooked, done like dinner, etc. pretty much whatever we want

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803640)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:04 PM
Author: Abnormal curious hunting ground halford

by 40 having a family is over unless you already have kids. all you need is more cash than you need to survive. dont take anything too seriously at that point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803646)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 12:07 PM
Author: Glittery Pearl Locale Twinkling Uncleanness

Aubrey Plaza drove her husband to suicide at 40 and is having another man’s child at 41. It’s never too late.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49803667)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 6:39 PM
Author: Turquoise filthy associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49805097)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 10:54 PM
Author: bronze idiot telephone

women are 180 tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49805622)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 11:35 PM
Author: violent indian lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49805683)



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Date: April 8th, 2026 7:00 PM
Author: Rough-skinned azn

Thread smells like pedophiles with AIDS dick

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854909&forum_id=2#49805139)