I raised holy hell and demanded to know who the kids were, and my son begged me with tears in his eyes not to do anything because that would only make it worse and he'd have to change schools, etc. So I grumbled that I wouldn't. Wife was about to lose it but restrained herself to tragic enormous sighs for the entire evening.

The next day he confronted the two kids directly and told them in person to knock it off, and not to send those texts or bother him anymore. That was the end of it. I'm proud that he handled his shit on his own. I didn't think he had it in him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45898610)

So why are you bothering me still dude. That was a long time ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45898689)

Wait, we've actually seen your doughbody, no wonder

This, too, is an excuse for you (albeit a self-pwning one), because the truth is you are an utter coward and are filled with fear at the thought of a fight, because you know you'd lose badly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45898734)

yeah, no shit you're a fucking retard who is fat and balding and hideously ugly

your worst trait is still the pedophilia

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45898755)

Do you think it's just a coincidence that you are the most bullied poster on xo?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45898753)

If anything, my poast contradicts that.

I'm bullied on here because of racism. That, and envy and mental illness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45898785)

Aren't you a white goy? lol @ racism.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45898793)

You said that you are bullied on xo because of racism. can you please explain what you meant by that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45898866)

*includes general non-outting info to bolster self-serving claims*

*refuses to provide more specific non-outting info because it will undermine his self-serving claims*

*is a dishonest coward*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45898981)

now is it your belief that your job is to teach me that I'm strange? That belief is part of a personality disorder. Maybe you should take a break from here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899053)

You know its psychopaths and sadists who think like that right? but you've now co-signed on with the freaks. good job.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899193)

You intentionally drew the ire of every mentally ill poster here who knows your IRL info. You continue to poke the bear and most shockingly post specific details about your child, the address of whom is well known to the board.

You intentionally expose your own family to harm all to satisfy your desire for negative attention on the internet.

This is the last time I will interact with you because I'm realizing this kind of attack is actually what you are seeking. I'm enabling your misuse of the board to place your family members in harm's way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899220)

Your poast is your "Crazy" talking. You've become a terrible person by virtue of this boart.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899259)

I'm sorry the boart made Dupa sick like others itt. I would have thought being a family man he could resist that impulse to sadism but I guess not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899399)

1. You have Kallmans

2. You have clown hair

3. You are married to an azn

4. Your child is not biologically yours

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899396)

Sorry you are ill though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899423)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45898846)

that's why he didn't I guess.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45898768)

Let me give you an example of how cell phones have infiltrated the lives of kids: my kid's track coach sends all messages through a specific cell phone app that the kids have to download in order to be aware of their practice schedule, meet locations, etc. It's just a "given" that the kid will have a cell phone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45898778)

It sounds mean but listen up... every single kid that got bullied in school, in hindsight, deserved it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45898837)

Uhhh, he confronted them yesterday (using your timeline). I wouldn't be so sure.

Also, the teasing sounds pretty normal to me. Nothing that would prompt your reaction of rage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899017)

Being a parent is always a guessing game. Hopefully that is the end of it. At some point a kid does need to stand up for themselves.

I will say that if these kids may be just busting balls, which is easier now when you can do it on Discord or during gaming.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899216)

bullying victims stand up maybe 1/10000 times. The normal course and often the wise course is to simply roll with it. Bullies do bore and find new targets.

If he really did "stand up" to them, you would be getting a call from the school because words would not suffice, he would have gotten into a fight.

all told, Id reinforce his friend group by making sure that group activities happen the next few weekends and cool shit gets done. Take them to an amusement park or somewhere expensive

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899221)

These were texts, from anonymized numbers. Racial epithets. And we forget sometimes how anonymity adds malignity. And as it turns out they were from Indian kids my kid doesn't hang with except in robotics class.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899357)

What does this teach the child? Doesn't dad's approach just reinforce to the child that it's OK for people to mistreat him and to expect to be dominated?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899325)

But if you are asking because you want to know how to handle the situation yourself in the future, I would suggest the following:

First, read over the thread to understand the relative scale and degree and cause for concern and my response in light of that. Understand that there was a racial component involved as well.

With that in mind, parents have to parent. And sometimes that means taking a strong position or demanding certain compliance. It's not a fun position to be in. Ultimately I did what he asked, which was not to get involved, and when he solved it on his own I told him exactly why I was proud of him and that I should honor his ability to handle himself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899374)

if true, shows the relationship with sp and junior is an elite one.

but yeah, sp wants to incentivize that kind of honesty so the kid keeps doing it when its more important. its an eternal dilemma. you want the kid to tell you shit that will make you angry, and you cannot preclude your anger, but you dont want to scare the kid off from telling. it becomes much harder when the kid himself has done something wrong, but it got out of hand.

i think a perfect response would be something like, "this really angers me. i really want to do X about it. but because you were so truthful I want to respect what you think should be done. I cant promise I will follow your plan, but I will give it serious consideration. what do you think is the best way forward?" and then scare them a little as well. "i would probably find out eventually and if you had not told me, i would act very differently" -- but that is a lie and the kid may see through it.

its fucking tough, man. and teens just lie. there's really no way around that, so youve got to prep for that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899588)

Much more interesting. Of course, I haven't clicked on a CSLG thread in over a year, so maybe he actually has developed a personality beyond "I make a lot of money"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45899513)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45900636)

my son begged me with tears in his eyes

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5285697&forum_id=2#45901729)