Should I continue to date someone who seems nice but dumb?
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Date: August 19th, 2024 6:23 PM Author: Vigorous jewess
She's German, and nearly every time I ask her a question, she'll give me the wrong answer at first, so I have to ask again to get the right one.
For example, she rented an Airbnb, and I noticed everything in the place was in German. I asked if she had talked to the owner about the fact that she spoke mainly German. She said, "Oh no, I actually have no idea why everything is in German." Then, a couple of minutes later, while discussing her trip, she casually mentioned, "Oh, I actually had a long call with the Airbnb host. I told him I was from Germany, and he even mentioned he had family there." I was just sitting there, thinking, WTF?
Later, I asked her if "Bahnhof" is made up of two words in German. She said, "No, it's just one word." So I clarified, saying, "Like 'train station' in English—it’s one phrase but made up of two words, 'train' and 'station'." Then she responded, "Oh yes, 'Bahn' means train" and 'hof' means yard but altogether it means train station.
Basically, this kept happening—wrong answer first, then the right one would come out later.
I know some guys are fine with this kind of thing as long as the girl is good-looking. I even know guys who are dating girls who barely speak English and they have to repeat themselves 2-5 times. Is this tolerable long term or are we better off with an American?
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Date: August 19th, 2024 6:27 PM Author: chartreuse fiercely-loyal base scourge upon the earth
i find i struggle to connect with ESL people, not just because of the language thing, but also their sense of humor and general cultural touchstones are quite different.
it's fine for casual acquaintances and work colleagues, but i'd struggle to sustain a deep long-term relationship with someone like that
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Date: August 19th, 2024 9:05 PM Author: overrated misunderstood church building
ELAINE: So what's the problem?
JERRY: We get along great and the sex is wild, but I think she's dumb.
*laughter*
ELAINE: Dumb?
JERRY: Yeah, like just yesterday I asked her about how she's German and how German has those weird compound words.
ELAINE: Uh huh.
JERRY: And she didn't even understand what I was talking about.
ELAINE: Did you mention bahnhof?
JERRY: Yeah, and handschuh! It's literally a hand and a shoe!
*laughter*
[GEORGE enters]
JERRY: Hey George.
GEORGE: So what's going on?
ELAINE: Jerry's about to break up with Melissa because she's dumb.
GEORGE: I haven't been with a woman in six months.
*laughter*
ELAINE: Still living with your parents?
GEORGE: I'm helping them with some work around the house.
*laughter*
[KRAMER enters]
KRAMER: So you told them about Melissa?
JERRY: Yeah, I think I'm going to break it off.
KRAMER: Would you mind if I give her a call?
JERRY: We haven't even split up yet!
KRAMER: But I really like Germans!
JERRY: Let me guess, because of your uncle from Argentina?
KRAMER: Yeah, he moved there in '46, Jerry. '46!
*laughter*
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