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Accepting myself as a LOSER has been LIBERATING. 34/m/alone but happy.
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:38 AM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' It's probably something akin to stoicism, but I've found it LIBERATING to just ACCEPT REALITY and not fight it anymore. With women. Work. My family.
I just do what brings me peace. I don't strive anymore. I don't have a glamorous life but it works for me.
I'm 5'7" btw, and a lot of it has to do with being short. But once you give up chasing women, you are freed from that biological prison.
At work I no longer stress. I do the minimum to not be fired. I won't be fired. I won't be promoted, either, but I can just ride this out as long as I want.
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:39 AM Author: '''''''''''''''''''''' Have you sought advice from Coach Corey Wayne or Coach CSLG? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579634) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:40 AM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' I gave up my law license years ago. I can't be helped by CSLG. But in my LOSERDOM I have found confidence which in a way makes me more like him.
Don't know Corey Wayne.
Don't want or need coaching. What is there to coach? It's predicated on the idea that you must continuously be striving. But what if I don't want to? |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:44 AM Author: '''''''''''''''''''''' CSLG can help you get women. Same with Corey Wayne (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579679) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:44 AM Author: north atlantid (luis) What did you do after giving up on the law?
You should get to know Coach Corey Wayne. |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:45 AM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' I took a related but bar license not required job. I get paid a very reasonable amount to do very little actual work. When you don't have to save for kids and a wife, 150K+ is more than enough. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579687) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:42 PM Author: .,.,...,...,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,.,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,. (luis) LMAO at calling yourself a loser yet making 150k+ as a single guy. JFC. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580151) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:44 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' I live in an expensive city. In ARE COUNTRY it would be nothing more than a good salary, but sub-100K.
Loser is all about mindset and expectations. I should have done so much more. I am a fucking loser in so many ways. I explain below, but I will never achieve the real milestones in life, some that you have already achieved, like getting married. |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:46 PM Author: .,.,...,...,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,.,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,. (luis) ok rich boi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580175) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:22 PM Author: north atlantid (luis) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580475) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:20 PM Author: (~: the fuk? you could lock down countless philipino chicks, or east EU chicks with those credentials, they dont care how tall you are. fuk, you really ARE a loser. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580459) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:21 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' I don't want that, why the hell do I want some fobbish wife? I would only disappoint her eventually too not to mention would then have to provide for her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580471) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:27 PM Author: (~: all of the above could get secretary jobs, and once they have your spawn, you'll have other things to feel loserish about so you really need to spread this self-loathing out a bit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580526) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:49 PM Author: .,.,..,,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,.,..,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,. (🦈) "I don't want that, why the hell do I want some fobbish wife?"
Yeah, you're clearly too good for a hot foreign woman. |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:44 AM Author: Upset Jew Why would you give up your license to Law? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579682) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:45 AM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' I was not a successful lawyer. I am a loser. I wasn't in BIGLAW. I couldn't get BIGFED. I could only do SHITLAW and for most people that's a miserable existence. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579694) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:01 PM Author: Upset Jew Shitlaw could make you a multi-millionaire...are you just lazy? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579848) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:06 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' why are you fighting the premise? I am a LOSER, I fucking suck, I got fired from one firm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579885) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:43 AM Author: Bortnite (Dork Enlightenment) mods (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579668) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:44 AM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579677) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:57 AM Author: TWO WEEKS AWAY he's calling for the mods to sticky this thread so people realize it's ok (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579808) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:21 PM Author: (~: trigger warning (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580467) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:43 AM Author: '''''''''''''''''''''' (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579673) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:48 AM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' Taking Qs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579718) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:49 AM Author: boomerboat This is me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579724) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:55 AM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579785) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 11:58 AM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' 160K salary 550 sq ft 1 bedroom apartment Car with 40,000 miles Photography hobby Like to take night drives for hours by myself Enjoy volunteering too |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:14 PM Author: boomerboat Are you in NYC? You don't want more room? I like it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579926) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:31 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' DC/Boston/Philly -- another east coast city that's slightly less expensive
I don't really need more room. I have everything I need. Even have room for weights and a bench. I have a 65 inch TV. A nice working station for WFH. Big bed. |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:39 PM Author: Wilbat Mercer (Krugerrand) Step one is figure out which exact city you live in (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580137) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:16 PM Author: '""''''" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580429) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:40 PM Author: boomerboat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580138) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:57 PM Author: Just your average poaster Lol bro you don’t have room for weights and a bench in 550sq ft wtf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580269) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:57 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' look up corepower weights brother, I easy do and the bench folds up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580281) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:00 PM Author: Just your average poaster Oh some yoga equipment. I thought you meant a full 7ft bar and plates (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580310) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:03 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' no obviously it's just a little tiny way of trying to not be totally fat all of the time (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580324) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:15 PM Author: prince not bad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579929) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:15 PM Author: TRUMP rulez how much are you saving? are you on track to retire by 40-50? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579930) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:33 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' In all my accounts, so that's brokerage + back door Roth IRA + 401K (plus employer match) + any cash in the bank, I save about 65-70K a year.
I'm not sure what I will do yet. I just came to this realization a few months ago. I am liberated by accepting that I am a loser. |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:18 PM Author: LetsGetOutofThisTown what was your last "success?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40579948) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:28 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' Small success: I got a project done at work
Big success: I did an evening master's program, mostly paid for by work, because I wanted to do it
You have to understand I've failed at almost everything in my life. I went to bad schools. Bad grades. Failed the bar. I'm short. I've failed at every relationship. I have multiple psychiatric disorders. I fucking suck. |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:29 PM Author: prince was the masters in some lib art or was in in stem? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580024) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:33 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' fucking lib arts of course brother, I am not smart enough for anything STEM related nor would I pursue something that meaningfully advances a career as I will never be above middle management (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580072) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:36 PM Author: prince u sound alright to me. you were just probably highly ambitious at some point in your youth and didnt live up to that? overall ur doing ok compared to some plumber or some grocery store supervisor/clerk.
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:37 PM Author: LetsGetOutofThisTown (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580115) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:38 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' Yes, re: not living up to expectations. But dude that's the whole point. I grew up in a HUGE home with successful parents. I had many advantages in life. I just failed. Everything must be scaled to reach a relative conclusion.
A guy I work with is about as "successful" as me, but he comes from nothing. He's way more successful because of that. |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:39 PM Author: prince yes, the mind and potential that is wasted or lost is a hard pill to swallow. until you do swallow it and move on.
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:42 PM Author: LetsGetOutofThisTown cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580149) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:37 PM Author: LetsGetOutofThisTown what's driving you to focus on your failures you think? You make a good living, have time to explore whatever you want to explore.
were you conditioned to expect something else or your definition of "success" warped by a rough childhood?
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:43 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' Because I fail at most things. It's constantly in my face. I won't ever get promoted at work. I won't have a stable relationship with a woman. I will never have kids. I will likely never own a home.
These things add up, especially if you were born into at least semi-luxury.
Childhood was only rough due to the typical white UMC divorce. |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:42 PM Author: ''''' Spit out my coffee laughing here
180 Hang it up bro |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:50 PM Author: .,.,..,,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,.,..,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,. (🦈) "I have multiple psychiatric disorders."
This is the real story here, isn't it? |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:45 PM Author: '''''''''''''''''''''' Describe your failings with women (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580169) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:47 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' Every relationship ended poorly. No woman was ultimately happy. I am too moody. My sex drive goes down, too far down, after a while. I am not good in bed. I am not ugly but I am not attractive and my penis size is very normal.
But the kicker is that I AM SHORT. I AM SHORT. I AM SHORT. Every woman fucking hates that. They're disgusted with themselves when they date me.
Then add in the fact urban downtown women are shitlib freaks and you'll see I have a bad dating pool nor am I any kind of catch myself. |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:51 PM Author: prince the way i see it, unless you are a super stocky dude, ur main failing in life is that you are 5'7". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580219) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:45 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' It's the most liberating thing for work. I never volunteer for anything. I never do more than exactly what I have to do. I never come in early. I never stay past 5pm.
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:43 PM Author: ''''' I like this thread a lot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580651) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:52 PM Author: '"""""" came in here to make some pithy snarky quip but you actually have a very mature outlook on life friend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580230) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:56 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' ty. I went through a lot of therapy between ages 32-33 and at the start of 34, I came to the conclusion once you accept the reality, it's incredibly liberating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580268) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:56 PM Author: Driving back in silence from retirement home Same height, similar background - I wholly understand these feelings. Haven't come to a conclusion on what to do about them yet though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580263) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:57 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' I don't want to push my unorthodox life on to others but it's liberating
I just got so tired of striving, and failing, and hating myself, and disappointing everyone ... it's basically stoicism if you boil it down to the core |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:57 PM Author: .,.,...,...,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,.,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,. (luis) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580274) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 12:57 PM Author: Username13729278 alone is what we always wanted (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580275) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:03 PM Author: kilroy lol is this a johnsmeyer thread you are not deformity level short. you can maek it |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:04 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' I'm right on the cusp but it doesn't matter. I don't know what else to say. Every single woman is disgusted she has to settle on someone short like me. It poisons the entire relationship. It's best not to engage. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580336) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:05 PM Author: kilroy lol this simply isn’t true man. which is why it seems like you’re flaming (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580346) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:06 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' I am 100% not flame and I think anyone denying my premise is just lying to themselves. I risk becoming flame-level here, but I do think height is the single most important thing for a man and it's completely out of his control and many MANY short men would benefit from just dropping out of the race. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580349) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:08 PM Author: kilroy it’s a big factor in that you won’t ever be a chad but plenty of short bros end up with a beautiful, loving wife and family (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580359) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:09 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' well then that's when I add in the fact that I am not good at "life" so to speak. I am short, but I am also a person with many psychiatric conditions, a failure at almost everything he's ever tried to do, and just generally not a person who can sustain a family life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580369) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:10 PM Author: kilroy stop being a pussy. that’s my only advice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580372) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:11 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' understood and this is probably the best counter-argument to my life, that I am being a huge pussy
but once you accept you're a loser you don't care if you're being a pussy, you know you suck, and you just live for your self
I am essentially a narcissist |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:16 PM Author: kilroy ill pray for u (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580431) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:17 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' ty and I will pray for you too, kilroy, not flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580435) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:05 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' One of the BEST things that happens when you get older is your T goes down. So now I can masturbate in the morning and then not have to sexualize women or even care all day. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580341) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:14 PM Author: aurelien What did therapy do for you, and why did you stop it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580414) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:15 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' well I have some conditions and I needed help and CBT addressed some problems
I also needed to explore deep sadness and depression that stems from a bad family experience with divorced parents and every relationship failing with women
I stopped going because there was nothing left to explore, I realized that essentially a Volcel chill internal life was best for me |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:20 PM Author: aurelien (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580455) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:21 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' Mom and dad got divorced when I was 3 and both were kind of old when they had me so they were not as attentive to me as they should have been which resulted in emotionally underdevelopment, emotional needs not being met, and resentment (which I have since forgiven them for)
I had my economic needs met but not my emotional needs and because of that I am permanently in trauma |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:26 PM Author: aurelien Did they neglect you? How did you split your time between your parents, and how do you think it affected you? What was the most damaging part of the divorce? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580516) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:28 PM Author: (~: your an attentive dad, right, and so is mom? - kid will be ok (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580540) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:33 PM Author: aurelien Thanks. Thought of my kid again and cried. But yeah, I'm attentive and spend as much time as I can with him and think about his needs all the time. Mom is pretty attentive, too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580590) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:34 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' ur gonna be ok dude i promise (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580596) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:31 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' They didn't neglect like you'd see in the movies. It was more like dad stopped really being interested in my life and I'd see him maybe once a week or stay with him every other weekend. He couldn't tell you a single friend of mine.
Mom had me fed and clothed and all that shit but she wasn't very interested in my day to day life. For example, a lot of people would recount their days with their parents. Mine never asked.
You can survive the divorce. Just care. Show up. Be attentive. It doesn't have to be this way. |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:36 PM Author: aurelien That's horrible, dude. Gonna take your words to heart. Kills me to think of the trauma the divorce is going to cause for my kid, which I think is inevitable at some level when parents split. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580612) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:38 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' you control this destiny. it will hurt but it can be normalize or traumatizing--you decide. be present. that's all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580618) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:43 PM Author: aurelien ty. I found comfort in your words, and cried again. I wouldn't say that you're a loser at all, even if you think of yourself that way. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580653) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:47 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' ty brother
post on here in future if you need some advice/thoughts ... again, just show up, it's not so much the divorce it's how the parents react |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:57 PM Author: aurelien Will do, thank.
Fwiw, I think traumas can be healed, even if the process is difficult. Mushroom and MDMA have been used to treat trauma, and I think it's worth at least looking into. I assume this is what the other person meant. If you're interested, here's a description of my experience with mushroom. (I lost the password to that account shortly after posting that and signed up with a new one).
http://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=4452352&mc=72&forum_id=2 |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:14 PM Author: ...:...:............:;;;..... my internet recommendation is psychedelic regimen (recommendation is heavy mushroom trip, wait 3 months, then Molly usage), followed by intense meditation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580415) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:14 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' to pass the time or what is the purpose? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580417) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:26 PM Author: ...:...:............:;;;..... to see what you can see (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580519) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:17 PM Author: '""''''" This is me except I’m gay and it’s 180. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580439) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:22 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' xo gay or IRL real gay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580473) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 3:47 PM Author: '""''''" Gay gay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40581670) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:46 PM Author: Nowhiring I'm 5'7 too, not particularly attractive, and I don't have a deep voice. It's all in your head, man. You can find a woman who is good looking and will love you, you can find a job that fulfills you. You just need to change your state of mind. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580672) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:47 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' you made 5.6M last year + have an organic wife from school
give me a break
you're also the top .01% of outcomes
most men have a wife who resents being with them
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:49 PM Author: Nowhiring That's my point. My point is there is nothing inherent about you that prevents you from getting what I have. Just your mental state and effort. Being short or ugly or having inherently bad physical traits doesn't matter. What you are saying supports my point. You just need to reprogram yourself to get there. I want you to be happy, that's why I'm telling you that you can fix it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580710) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:50 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' I am happy being disconnected. Being "in" on the world has only caused my pain. Failure and losing. I don't want to live like that. You are incorrect because you come from a place of great success. You are tainted, essentially, with the pleasures of the world.
Accepting one is a loser and living their best life IS fixing the problem |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:52 PM Author: Nowhiring I strongly disagree and believe you can find the greatest happiness through personal relationships, but I am glad you feel happy either way. If you ever want to chat about life, I always am down to talk. Just email me and we can chat on the phone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580732) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:54 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' thanks bro, I might take you up on that
I think the problem is that we're both biased toward our choice of life and I think it means we cannot agree |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:57 PM Author: .,....,,..,.,.,:,,:,..,..,:::,....,:,.,.:.,:.,:.: A huge part of your work ethic, drive, and ability to constantly think about money 24/7 like a sociopathic freak is genetic. You are born with a lot of traits that helped you succeed. Stop bullshitting people with this motivational speaker nonsense about how everyone can be as happy as you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580775) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 2:00 PM Author: Nowhiring Everyone can. There is nothing magical about me or special. The drive/people skills can be learned. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580818) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 2:04 PM Author: .,.,...,..,,.,:,,:,...,:::,...,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,. This is laughably false. You’re either delusional and unable to see beyond yourself or just being a conman salesman giving people false hope (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580858) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:51 PM Author: .,,,.,.,..,.,:,..::,,...,:,...,:,.,..:.,:.::,. i know plenty of short guys who banged a lot of chicks and generally weren't losers. you guys just like to use it as an excuse. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580723) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:52 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' what does it matter, I am a fucking loser, I don't have "it" in me like they do, so I'd rather accept my fate and aggressively lean into it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40580727) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 1:55 PM Author: Driving back in silence from retirement home to be fair, the height meme has become more extreme in women more recently.
talking to Gen X about their dating experiences is like talking to a martian about martian dating rituals - it's that utterly alien to dating now
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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:52 PM Author: .,.,..,,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,.,..,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,. (🦈) Right, so don't date American women. This isn't hard. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40582625) |
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Date: July 10th, 2020 5:57 PM Author: .,.,...,...,.,.,:,,:,...,:::,.,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,. (luis) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4580774&forum_id=2#40582667) |