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Is it weird to meet your ex GF for drinks or dinner from time to time?

Here’s the facts. I’ve been dating a differen...
chestnut den gaping
  10/19/21
Well you clearly want to get back with her. She probably und...
arousing principal's office becky
  10/19/21
What’s weird is I really don’t want to get back ...
chestnut den gaping
  10/19/21
Yeah there is zero practical utility in what you're describi...
arousing principal's office becky
  10/19/21
Right. I’m well aware there’s no utility in it f...
chestnut den gaping
  10/19/21
Hello, women love attention and feeling desired.
dashing grizzly gay wizard
  10/19/21
Men and women only maintain purely social relationships for ...
citrine plaza
  10/19/21
If you’re a weird beta faggot yeah it’s pretty n...
cowardly weed whacker
  10/19/21
its completely inappropriate lol
bateful personal credit line school
  10/19/21
Well ya I’m lying to my gf. She’s point blank as...
chestnut den gaping
  10/19/21
its gross and weird either fuck and get back together or don...
bateful personal credit line school
  10/19/21
...
Startling locale
  10/19/21
Only weird if you don’t fuck her
Claret shivering church building fortuitous meteor
  10/19/21
this is immature bullshit and reflects poorly on your virtue...
Startling locale
  10/19/21
cr
dashing grizzly gay wizard
  10/19/21
surprisingly cr advice from a grossly immature beta dork
cowardly weed whacker
  10/19/21
hey i'm not beta
Startling locale
  10/19/21
I WALK ALONG THE CITY STREETS YOU USED TO WALK ALONG WITH ME
Soul-stirring station volcanic crater
  10/19/21
It really depends how big your ex's dick is.
Soggy swashbuckling kitchen
  10/19/21
is she into you? you already fucked her who cares
boyish stage death wish
  10/19/21


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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:52 PM
Author: chestnut den gaping

Here’s the facts.

I’ve been dating a different girl for over a year that I met right after my ex. My ex knows I’m dating her and knows I don’t tell my gf that I meet with her.

My ex is also dating someone else. I think it’s more casual than my thing but I’m not sure. I’m pretty certain my ex also does not tell her bf (or whatever she is with him) about our continued meetings. Because she always texts me when he wouldn’t be around her or wants to arrange times to meet me when he wouldn’t be around.

We haven’t so much as kissed or done anything physical but the meetings are a little flirty. One time we met at her place for lunch and she wanted me to look at some bullshit in her bedroom. I didn’t make a move.

Do you bros think she’s still into me?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298225)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:54 PM
Author: arousing principal's office becky

Well you clearly want to get back with her. She probably understands this. Maybe keeping you around, keeping you warm, as a contingency incase things with Big Bad Chad don't work out. Sorry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298230)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:55 PM
Author: chestnut den gaping

What’s weird is I really don’t want to get back with her but I want her to want to get back with me. I am a very messed up person

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298234)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:58 PM
Author: arousing principal's office becky

Yeah there is zero practical utility in what you're describing. Truth is - there is almost a universal dynamic of ex-lovers reacquainting and discreetly fucking, if even once. That this hasn't happened yet is very telling. If you abruptly cancel or pull back a little bit, your ex will likely be very turned on and look to fuck you - but this is somewhat of a delicate balancing act that you may or may not be capable of pulling off.

Long story short - abort mission.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298239)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:04 PM
Author: chestnut den gaping

Right. I’m well aware there’s no utility in it for me. But I’m just curious as to what’s going on in her head. For me it’s quite clear - I’m a dumb idiot with an insatiable need for approval (especially from hot women) and she’s hot and I like attention. But what’s in it for her? What does she get out of this? She’s my only ex that has acted this way. The others I have no contact with (either my choice or theirs). This is the only one where we both still want to keep up with each other.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298262)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:23 PM
Author: dashing grizzly gay wizard

Hello, women love attention and feeling desired.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298358)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:57 PM
Author: citrine plaza

Men and women only maintain purely social relationships for sex (97% of the time). So no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298237)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 6:58 PM
Author: cowardly weed whacker

If you’re a weird beta faggot yeah it’s pretty normal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298244)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:06 PM
Author: bateful personal credit line school

its completely inappropriate lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298267)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:09 PM
Author: chestnut den gaping

Well ya I’m lying to my gf. She’s point blank asked me if I’ve ever communicated with her since my breakup and I say no even though we meet in person like every 6 weeks and probably text every other week, sometimes more. For a good month or so we were texting daily and sending pics of our food and shit. Pretty weird. Not sure why but for some reason it gives me a dopamine bump

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298273)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:10 PM
Author: bateful personal credit line school

its gross and weird either fuck and get back together or dont.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298276)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:19 PM
Author: Startling locale



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:18 PM
Author: Claret shivering church building fortuitous meteor

Only weird if you don’t fuck her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298330)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:22 PM
Author: Startling locale

this is immature bullshit and reflects poorly on your virtue and manliness. not to be too harsh since we all fuck up, but this is not cool at all.

worst part is there's no way out. you can't tell your gf now because she'll be pissed you've been doing it for a year. so your option is either to cut off things with your ex or continue lying to your gf, which will eventually poison any real relationship you have. if you're looking for a life partner this is the type of thing that'll fuck it up forever.

you should stop thinking with your dick and man up. you know full well if you found out your gf was ("oh tee hee just having lunch with my ex, i mean he came back to my place once to change batteries in the fire alarm but totes nothing happened haha") you would be apoplectic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298351)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:24 PM
Author: dashing grizzly gay wizard

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298364)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:26 PM
Author: cowardly weed whacker

surprisingly cr advice from a grossly immature beta dork

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298370)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:27 PM
Author: Startling locale

hey i'm not beta

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298377)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:24 PM
Author: Soul-stirring station volcanic crater

I WALK ALONG THE CITY STREETS YOU USED TO WALK ALONG WITH ME

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298365)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:25 PM
Author: Soggy swashbuckling kitchen

It really depends how big your ex's dick is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298367)



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Date: October 19th, 2021 7:28 PM
Author: boyish stage death wish

is she into you? you already fucked her who cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4945538&forum_id=2#43298379)