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How many people here are in your 30s and still trying to get married/have kids?

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Pontificating piazza
  08/05/22
Nah. 40s and hopeless.
Dark quadroon
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sepia mind-boggling locus clown
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40s and hopeless tp
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greedy chest-beating home codepig
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Modern women are so vile & selfish that I stopped even b...
sepia mind-boggling locus clown
  08/05/22
Gross. Why flirt with these women. It sounds like you're afr...
irradiated therapy market
  08/05/22
no kidding they’re paid to be nice. I’m just lau...
sepia mind-boggling locus clown
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It creates good vibes and will make you seem chill and welco...
rough-skinned dingle berry church
  08/05/22
Exactly. I’m back on NODRINK but these bartenders will...
sepia mind-boggling locus clown
  08/05/22
is there a differnce between being friendly and flirting? an...
irradiated therapy market
  08/05/22
with a hot chick you might slightly tease about something oc...
sepia mind-boggling locus clown
  08/05/22
Gotcha. I figured. I'm friendly but I don't like giving them...
irradiated therapy market
  08/05/22
I will say that alcohol plays into it. If I'm sober at a bar...
sepia mind-boggling locus clown
  08/05/22
Plurality of NYC career shrews are like this
talented deer antler goyim
  08/05/22
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Chrome stead doctorate
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I'm that age and actively trying for kids with my wife.
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Laughsome naked hunting ground
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Lmao I have 5
Twinkling Disturbing Property
  08/05/22
Nobody asked you FAGGOT
Emerald milk
  08/05/22
What do you mean by “still”? Vast majority of s...
rough-skinned dingle berry church
  08/05/22
XO mental Illness on display ITT
Twinkling Disturbing Property
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Would like the wife with no kids. Finding a woman who act...
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mischievous sapphire institution son of senegal
  08/05/22
I this really true? How old are you/the women you're conside...
cyan multi-colored meetinghouse
  08/05/22
I set my range 30-45, women in their 20's are exhausting. A...
Razzle-dazzle cream rehab
  08/05/22
Very interesting, are you on the shitcoasts or in are countr...
cyan multi-colored meetinghouse
  08/05/22
i'm gay
Emerald milk
  08/05/22
40s, and if I can find a young woman, I'd like to do it, but...
hairraiser medicated box office
  08/05/22
Late 30s and same
Odious Magical Immigrant
  08/05/22
cr. maybe we'll make it? grateful to this board for the per...
hairraiser medicated box office
  08/06/22
One thing for people to remember is this: life isn’t a...
mischievous sapphire institution son of senegal
  08/05/22
This is some seriously illuminating and frightening shit.
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I wonder what message board he was looking for when he stumb...
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Wow, you sure have a lot of insight into what God wants. Min...
swashbuckling doobsian coffee pot generalized bond
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I've grown a lot through having kids. I've developed a lot m...
Green stage
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Kids are a gift from God, and I agree with you. But it&rsquo...
mischievous sapphire institution son of senegal
  08/05/22
"Many secular people have them as a distraction and foc...
chartreuse stimulating telephone
  08/06/22
Great thread
greedy chest-beating home codepig
  08/05/22
I'm 35 and have 5 kids and have been married for 12 years?
Vibrant Frum Casino
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Are you me?
Twinkling Disturbing Property
  08/05/22
Yes?
Impressive hospital degenerate
  08/06/22
only know (closely) two couples trying. both have not been s...
Cerebral Silver Sandwich
  08/05/22
here for a 100+ thread
buck-toothed concupiscible ticket booth lettuce
  08/06/22
thread has already run its course. OP and its variants have ...
Emerald milk
  08/06/22
Fair
mischievous sapphire institution son of senegal
  08/06/22
given up
misunderstood buff native legend
  08/06/22
32, open to it but it's not going to happen.
glittery corner background story
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Why not?
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Have never even been in a relationship, comically inept at t...
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i went bald in my 20s, but look at me now! still bald
misunderstood buff native legend
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Sup Charles
Disrespectful Roast Beef
  08/06/22
36 and newly married. Kids are on the horizon.
chartreuse stimulating telephone
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30s. My 9.5 wife was 30 when we met. IN NYC. She is a Uni...
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What is your longstanding obsession with tall blondes?
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and you're happy and faithful?
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Having sex with 450 people is indicative of extreme personal...
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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:19 PM
Author: Pontificating piazza



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:25 PM
Author: Dark quadroon

Nah. 40s and hopeless.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970376)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:26 PM
Author: sepia mind-boggling locus clown



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:40 PM
Author: Chrome stead doctorate

40s and hopeless tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970447)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:01 PM
Author: cerise alpha address



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:18 PM
Author: Pontificating piazza



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: seedy tripping halford mood



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:41 PM
Author: cyan multi-colored meetinghouse



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Date: August 6th, 2022 2:06 AM
Author: glittery corner background story



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:26 PM
Author: Soul-stirring glassy factory reset button location

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970385)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:39 PM
Author: light patrolman theater stage



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: Passionate Bipolar Pisswyrm



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:38 PM
Author: greedy chest-beating home codepig



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:30 PM
Author: sepia mind-boggling locus clown

Modern women are so vile & selfish that I stopped even bothering with them. If a hot bartender or woman wants to chit chat I can’t help but go into semi-flirtatious mode, it’s the male DNA. But I don’t actively seek out relationships.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970401)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:36 PM
Author: irradiated therapy market

Gross. Why flirt with these women. It sounds like you're afraid of rejection a little bit. Those women are paid to be nice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970433)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:38 PM
Author: sepia mind-boggling locus clown

no kidding they’re paid to be nice. I’m just laughing how it’s autonomous to respond somewhat flirtatiously to a hot woman’s flirtations even when you know they’re skanks & it’s their job. you telling me you ignore bantering with a hot woman & sit stonefaced like an autist?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970685)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:48 PM
Author: Hyperactive menage

Unblinkingly

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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:51 PM
Author: hairraiser medicated box office



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:15 PM
Author: dull flickering masturbator heaven



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:22 PM
Author: sepia mind-boggling locus clown

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970839)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 1:04 AM
Author: Spruce Pistol Station



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Date: August 6th, 2022 1:13 AM
Author: sable appetizing national crotch



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Date: August 6th, 2022 3:30 AM
Author: Puce exciting garrison



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: rough-skinned dingle berry church

It creates good vibes and will make you seem chill and welcoming to others at the bar. Also if you become a regular the bar can be your cheers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970696)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:19 PM
Author: sepia mind-boggling locus clown

Exactly. I’m back on NODRINK but these bartenders will cut my bill in half when I get to know them. And they turn my bill upside down so my friends don’t see the difference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970832)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:29 PM
Author: irradiated therapy market

is there a differnce between being friendly and flirting? and do you guys chat up guy bartenders as well?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970859)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:35 PM
Author: sepia mind-boggling locus clown

with a hot chick you might slightly tease about something occasionally, you kind of automatically go to a paul newman-type somewhat devious glint in the eye and wry smile. hard to explain. it just happens.

with guy bartenders it's different. it's like you're hanging with one of your bros watching sports.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970878)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:11 PM
Author: irradiated therapy market

Gotcha. I figured. I'm friendly but I don't like giving them extra attention beyond the banter I'd have with a male bartender

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971037)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:30 PM
Author: sepia mind-boggling locus clown

I will say that alcohol plays into it. If I'm sober at a bar I'm more matter-of-fact. I'll still play around a little bit, but probably not as much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971126)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:49 PM
Author: talented deer antler goyim

Plurality of NYC career shrews are like this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970475)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:49 PM
Author: Chrome stead doctorate

tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970478)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:39 PM
Author: dashing wagecucks bawdyhouse

I'm that age and actively trying for kids with my wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970688)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:40 PM
Author: Laughsome naked hunting ground



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:42 PM
Author: Twinkling Disturbing Property

Lmao I have 5

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970699)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:01 PM
Author: Emerald milk

Nobody asked you FAGGOT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970778)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:42 PM
Author: rough-skinned dingle berry church

What do you mean by “still”? Vast majority of successful men don’t start having kids until their 30s.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970702)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:58 PM
Author: Twinkling Disturbing Property

XO mental Illness on display ITT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970766)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:43 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle cream rehab

Would like the wife with no kids.

Finding a woman who actively doesn't want kids is nearly impossible, it's actually a massive imbalance because 85% of women have a kid by the time they're infertile but only like 75% of men. But it's worse than that because a lot of the childless women are stepmoms-- the guy effectively destroyed two women because one isn't single and the other has primary custody of her ex husband's kid. The competition for barren women is even more insanely impossible than the regular dating market, they can demand a helicopter and probably get it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970704)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:54 PM
Author: mischievous sapphire institution son of senegal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970755)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:44 PM
Author: cyan multi-colored meetinghouse

I this really true? How old are you/the women you're considering?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970930)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:01 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle cream rehab

I set my range 30-45, women in their 20's are exhausting. And yeah everybody has a baby or wants a baby. Even if their kids are grown and out of the house it doesn't really help, by the time the youngest is out of the house their oldest has a kid and now it's all about their grandkids. It's absolutely brutal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970994)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:33 PM
Author: cyan multi-colored meetinghouse

Very interesting, are you on the shitcoasts or in are country?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971140)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:50 PM
Author: Emerald milk

i'm gay

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970736)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:52 PM
Author: hairraiser medicated box office

40s, and if I can find a young woman, I'd like to do it, but I understand it's unlikely

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970746)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:26 PM
Author: Odious Magical Immigrant

Late 30s and same

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970851)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 11:59 AM
Author: hairraiser medicated box office

cr. maybe we'll make it? grateful to this board for the perspectives on such things, in any event

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44972530)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:01 PM
Author: mischievous sapphire institution son of senegal

One thing for people to remember is this: life isn’t about procreating and being married etc. Having a family and kids are great, but it’s really not why we are here. Atheists will say it’s the only reason we are here because “muh evolution,” but in reality God put us here to seek him, love him, love others and learn to love and serve others. The results of those good things are all we can take with us to the next life. Having kids is great but you are not your kids and they do not always help us in that role. Many secular people have them as a distraction and focus, and end up raising kids with the wrong values or ignoring the true reason we are here. Certainly this is not a good outcome either, for anyone. God wants to bless us with families but he also wants us to learn to love. And sometimes single people haven’t learned enough, or haven’t sought God enough, and God is wanting them to seek him first. And then there is the foundation for a healthy relationship and family.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970780)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:05 PM
Author: dashing wagecucks bawdyhouse

This is some seriously illuminating and frightening shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970789)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:30 PM
Author: Hateful public bath

I wonder what message board he was looking for when he stumbled onto this place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970863)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:42 PM
Author: brindle diverse nibblets people who are hurt



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Date: August 6th, 2022 5:50 AM
Author: dashing wagecucks bawdyhouse



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Date: August 6th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: sable appetizing national crotch



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:38 PM
Author: swashbuckling doobsian coffee pot generalized bond

Wow, you sure have a lot of insight into what God wants. Mind sharing your secrets?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970889)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:43 PM
Author: Green stage

I've grown a lot through having kids. I've developed a lot morally, become way more patient and less selfish. So I think kids can bring you closer to God

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970924)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:25 PM
Author: mischievous sapphire institution son of senegal

Kids are a gift from God, and I agree with you. But it’s not always the case.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971093)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 2:36 AM
Author: chartreuse stimulating telephone

"Many secular people have them as a distraction and focus, and end up raising kids with the wrong values or ignoring the true reason we are here."

Totally.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971626)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:38 PM
Author: greedy chest-beating home codepig

Great thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970892)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:12 PM
Author: Vibrant Frum Casino

I'm 35 and have 5 kids and have been married for 12 years?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971041)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:21 PM
Author: Twinkling Disturbing Property

Are you me?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971074)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 1:06 AM
Author: Impressive hospital degenerate

Yes?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971476)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:22 PM
Author: Cerebral Silver Sandwich

only know (closely) two couples trying. both have not been successful. tragedy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971077)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 1:14 AM
Author: buck-toothed concupiscible ticket booth lettuce

here for a 100+ thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971499)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 1:52 AM
Author: Emerald milk

thread has already run its course. OP and its variants have been made a billion times and by now everyone is just used to the fact that 95% of posters are chronically depressed and want to drag you down with them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971569)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 7:18 AM
Author: mischievous sapphire institution son of senegal

Fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971886)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 1:14 AM
Author: misunderstood buff native legend

given up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971500)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 2:07 AM
Author: glittery corner background story

32, open to it but it's not going to happen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971587)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 2:08 AM
Author: Lascivious Aqua Water Buffalo Pocket Flask

Why not?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971589)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 2:42 AM
Author: glittery corner background story

Have never even been in a relationship, comically inept at trying to pick up chicks (and most of them are horrible). Also I’m bald.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971638)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 3:06 AM
Author: misunderstood buff native legend

i went bald in my 20s, but look at me now! still bald

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971662)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 10:59 AM
Author: Disrespectful Roast Beef

Sup Charles

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44972322)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 2:36 AM
Author: chartreuse stimulating telephone

36 and newly married. Kids are on the horizon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971628)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 5:48 AM
Author: scarlet fighting house

30s. My 9.5 wife was 30 when we met. IN NYC.

She is a Unicorn. Blonde. Tall. Fit. And mid western. Extremely funny. Like a super fun barbie. Head turner just with her energy, let alone her looks. Very down to earth. Mades 120K as an ICU nurse. Believes in me. Loves me. annoys me. and loves me harder.

I slept with...honestly I lost count before I met her. conservative estimate is between 450-500 partners.

Our first child, daughter, is due in August.

Real talk. "Success" is a never ending treadmill. The more women you sleep with, the hotter the women you sleep with, and the objectively more value you see in yourself -- all this makes you think you deserve more, and better.

This is the same game you guys are playing when you're a 37yr old lawyer trying to bag that 23yr old stunner.

The lucky ones who have their shit together will do so. But if your head is not on right, that jump from a 6 to a 7, or an 8 to a 9 will becomes more and more addicting, very warped. You're going to demand more. "She's a 9 but she is not funny." "She's a 10 but is boring." Or the more likely the case, "she's a 6 but I want hotter."

Go for it. "Trying for more" is how we advance our species. Just don't lose sight of the big picture. ***Achieving more than what you ever thought you can get = YOU WON.***

If you cannot satiate your desire for MORE WHORE, know that eventually, at the tail end of the female bell curve, you are making your mate decisions on marginal and trivial issues.

If you fail to realize that last point, you won't be able to pair up successfully.

Did I need to date and fuck so many girls in order to find my wife?

If I say "yes", then the "amazing woman" you see me with might seem impossible to get for you.

If i say "no", then it belies the objective hierarchy of the "sexual marketplace."

But surely, if we both look at our partner and think about where we've been, what it took to find "her", and if an indescribable awe jolts through our bodies each time we look at "her" --- then we are the same.

Whatever increased sensitivity, gained through experience, to "price" women in the sexual marketplace and to see differences in "objective value" has no bearing on anyone's life except mine.

But if we take one look at "her" sleeping, making dinner, carrying your child, laying on the couch, etc., if that stokes a feeling of gratitude , joy, and incredulity for your relationship -- then we are one and the same, friend.

I don't know how many women, how much money, how Chad you have to be to get that feeling.

I just know its fucking incredibly difficult and you must keep trying.

Spolier: and if you are one of the lucky ones to find her....you still keep trying for her, and with her - until you are no longer present on this Earth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971806)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: lemon liquid oxygen

What is your longstanding obsession with tall blondes?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44972597)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: hairraiser medicated box office

and you're happy and faithful?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44972603)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 12:58 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good Outnumbered Set French Chef

Having sex with 450 people is indicative of extreme personality disorder and mental illness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44972797)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 12:14 PM
Author: Vigorous Circlehead Gaming Laptop

Sup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44972589)