(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970859)

with guy bartenders it's different. it's like you're hanging with one of your bros watching sports.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970878)

Finding a woman who actively doesn't want kids is nearly impossible, it's actually a massive imbalance because 85% of women have a kid by the time they're infertile but only like 75% of men. But it's worse than that because a lot of the childless women are stepmoms-- the guy effectively destroyed two women because one isn't single and the other has primary custody of her ex husband's kid. The competition for barren women is even more insanely impossible than the regular dating market, they can demand a helicopter and probably get it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970704)

Totally.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971626)

She is a Unicorn. Blonde. Tall. Fit. And mid western. Extremely funny. Like a super fun barbie. Head turner just with her energy, let alone her looks. Very down to earth. Mades 120K as an ICU nurse. Believes in me. Loves me. annoys me. and loves me harder.

I slept with...honestly I lost count before I met her. conservative estimate is between 450-500 partners.

Our first child, daughter, is due in August.

Real talk. "Success" is a never ending treadmill. The more women you sleep with, the hotter the women you sleep with, and the objectively more value you see in yourself -- all this makes you think you deserve more, and better.

This is the same game you guys are playing when you're a 37yr old lawyer trying to bag that 23yr old stunner.

The lucky ones who have their shit together will do so. But if your head is not on right, that jump from a 6 to a 7, or an 8 to a 9 will becomes more and more addicting, very warped. You're going to demand more. "She's a 9 but she is not funny." "She's a 10 but is boring." Or the more likely the case, "she's a 6 but I want hotter."

Go for it. "Trying for more" is how we advance our species. Just don't lose sight of the big picture. ***Achieving more than what you ever thought you can get = YOU WON.***

If you cannot satiate your desire for MORE WHORE, know that eventually, at the tail end of the female bell curve, you are making your mate decisions on marginal and trivial issues.

If you fail to realize that last point, you won't be able to pair up successfully.

Did I need to date and fuck so many girls in order to find my wife?

If I say "yes", then the "amazing woman" you see me with might seem impossible to get for you.

If i say "no", then it belies the objective hierarchy of the "sexual marketplace."

But surely, if we both look at our partner and think about where we've been, what it took to find "her", and if an indescribable awe jolts through our bodies each time we look at "her" --- then we are the same.

Whatever increased sensitivity, gained through experience, to "price" women in the sexual marketplace and to see differences in "objective value" has no bearing on anyone's life except mine.

But if we take one look at "her" sleeping, making dinner, carrying your child, laying on the couch, etc., if that stokes a feeling of gratitude , joy, and incredulity for your relationship -- then we are one and the same, friend.

I don't know how many women, how much money, how Chad you have to be to get that feeling.

I just know its fucking incredibly difficult and you must keep trying.

Spolier: and if you are one of the lucky ones to find her....you still keep trying for her, and with her - until you are no longer present on this Earth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971806)