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Mother in law mad I fed dog from "human" dish. Who's right here?

We're staying with my in laws for Thanksgiving. Just got in ...
Glassy spot
  11/23/22
JM have some coffee first.
Ruby trip stain
  11/23/22
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vermilion mediation
  11/23/22
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Buck-toothed laughsome bawdyhouse
  11/23/22
Bro you literally undermined the status of humans everywhere...
Bronze contagious generalized bond theater stage
  11/23/22
You should've asked her first. I let me dog lick off my pla...
Ocher Soul-stirring Heaven
  11/23/22
No one was up but me, kids, and dog. There was no one to ask...
Glassy spot
  11/23/22
It's not your tupperware. Your logic doesn't apply.
Ocher Soul-stirring Heaven
  11/23/22
What's a better solution? It's easy to be a critic.
Glassy spot
  11/23/22
Apologize to your MIL and tell her you should've checked in ...
Ocher Soul-stirring Heaven
  11/23/22
I already told her sorry and that I didn't realize that she ...
Glassy spot
  11/23/22
End of thread
Orchid alcoholic crackhouse ladyboy
  11/23/22
Which third-world country is she from?
zombie-like pit
  11/23/22
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aromatic mahogany son of senegal
  11/23/22
ljl @ all the doggo slobs rushing in to say it's all good
Useless Background Story Associate
  11/23/22
Tbf there was only one
Ruby trip stain
  11/23/22
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Coiffed site factory reset button
  11/23/22
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concupiscible queen of the night
  11/24/22
conversely, what is the etiquette here if my spouse is into ...
blathering clown
  11/23/22
Women are stupid cunts
Chestnut stage
  11/23/22
OP is ritually impure and should be cast out of the home to ...
motley electric furnace
  11/23/22
I'm not a dog person and I too would not like this. I would ...
vermilion mediation
  11/23/22
Why would you have a problem with the dog eating out of an o...
Glassy spot
  11/23/22
There’s no logic but your MIL’s disgust mechanis...
hyperactive sienna puppy
  11/23/22
yes and this cannot be un-done
massive public bath corn cake
  11/24/22
Congrats on the Asian American wife. There is no logic to th...
vermilion mediation
  11/23/22
I can tell simply from the thread title that your MIL is asi...
Cordovan whorehouse international law enforcement agency
  11/23/22
And also, like your wife, they would prefer to feed ON the d...
Flesh Dead Scourge Upon The Earth
  11/24/22
ran here
massive public bath corn cake
  11/24/22
She sounds like a cunt.
navy frozen friendly grandma
  11/23/22
Take your cock out and smear the smegma on her face
aromatic mahogany son of senegal
  11/23/22
Make your wife drink out of a dog bowl during doggy style se...
provocative gaped antidepressant drug
  11/23/22
Gross and rude, brother. Be more considerate with things th...
salmon vibrant old irish cottage
  11/23/22
Wife cleared bringing the dog in advance. My kids and their ...
Glassy spot
  11/23/22
Here's the thing--most moms are going to say "sure, bri...
salmon vibrant old irish cottage
  11/23/22
You should have asked, it’s illogical but she’s...
hyperactive sienna puppy
  11/23/22
You're right - it doesn't matter - but how would you feel if...
Stimulating startling newt
  11/23/22
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Orchid alcoholic crackhouse ladyboy
  11/23/22
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concupiscible queen of the night
  11/24/22
...
vermilion mediation
  11/24/22
your MIL is a dumb bird-brain cunt
Red bateful cruise ship partner
  11/23/22
Yuge dog person here and grew up surrounded by dogs, livesto...
Mauve Box Office Milk
  11/24/22
"It's not that it's 'unclean' its just weird and degrad...
Buck-toothed laughsome bawdyhouse
  11/24/22
('dog mom' AKA dog fucker)
Mauve Box Office Milk
  11/24/22
edit/ ok, Tupperware is difficult to autoclave and make disi...
massive public bath corn cake
  11/24/22
Basically the entire family sucks. He sucks for not askin...
hyperactive sienna puppy
  11/24/22
Autoclave? Tell me more about your NERD background sir.
salmon vibrant old irish cottage
  11/24/22
Holy shit this is why I spend thanksgiving with friends &hel...
splenetic school idea he suggested
  11/24/22


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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:37 AM
Author: Glassy spot

We're staying with my in laws for Thanksgiving. Just got in last night. This is the first year we brought our dog with us. My wife's family doesn't love dogs. They say they're messy. This morning, I got up with the kids and when I went to feed the dog, I saw we'd forgotten her bowl. No problem, I grabbed a big tupperware bowl from the cabinet, fed her in that, and went on with my morning. Mother in law came down later, asked why the bowl was on the floor, and flipped out when my son told her. I said "what's the big deal--you marinate raw chicken and pork in the tupperware then wash it out and use it again. It's fine." She said it's different. She threw the tupperware in the trash and left.

Who's right here? Wife isn't picking sides. She just says I shouldn't have done that, but she doesn't have a better solution. It's going to be an awkward next 4 days.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534592)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:38 AM
Author: Ruby trip stain

JM have some coffee first.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534594)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:09 AM
Author: vermilion mediation



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534736)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:58 PM
Author: Buck-toothed laughsome bawdyhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45538061)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:39 AM
Author: Bronze contagious generalized bond theater stage

Bro you literally undermined the status of humans everywhere by treating a dog as an equal, not cool. Everybody in that house that day was lowered to the level of an animal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534599)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:40 AM
Author: Ocher Soul-stirring Heaven

You should've asked her first. I let me dog lick off my plates b/c I know she'll lick it clean and I'll just throw it into the dish washer right after. Not everyone's as comfortable with dog drool as me tho.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534603)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:42 AM
Author: Glassy spot

No one was up but me, kids, and dog. There was no one to ask.

It's not about being "comfortable" with dog drool. They put raw meat and stuff in the tupperware. That's not worse/dirtier than dog drool. Either way, you wash it before you use it again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534614)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:51 AM
Author: Ocher Soul-stirring Heaven

It's not your tupperware. Your logic doesn't apply.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534642)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:52 AM
Author: Glassy spot

What's a better solution? It's easy to be a critic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534647)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: Ocher Soul-stirring Heaven

Apologize to your MIL and tell her you should've checked in w/ her first. Tell her the dog needs a bowl tho and that you'll use the one that she threw away. When you get home order some tupperware replacements and mail it to your MIL.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534693)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: Glassy spot

I already told her sorry and that I didn't realize that she would have a problem with it, which she shouldn't. No need to order her "replacement" tupperware. She made the choice to throw that one away. That's on her. I would have washed it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534767)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 4:49 PM
Author: Orchid alcoholic crackhouse ladyboy

End of thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45536506)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:40 AM
Author: zombie-like pit

Which third-world country is she from?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534604)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 1:30 PM
Author: aromatic mahogany son of senegal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45535527)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:47 AM
Author: Useless Background Story Associate

ljl @ all the doggo slobs rushing in to say it's all good

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534627)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 10:50 AM
Author: Ruby trip stain

Tbf there was only one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534638)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 4:29 PM
Author: Coiffed site factory reset button



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45536433)



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Date: November 24th, 2022 9:48 AM
Author: concupiscible queen of the night



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539078)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: blathering clown

conversely, what is the etiquette here if my spouse is into petplay and wants to eat thanksgiving dinner from a dog bowl?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534712)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:08 AM
Author: Chestnut stage

Women are stupid cunts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534723)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: motley electric furnace

OP is ritually impure and should be cast out of the home to live with the dogs for a week as penance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534738)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:16 AM
Author: vermilion mediation

I'm not a dog person and I too would not like this. I would not even have allowed the dog inside my house.

Interesting hypo, JM. Typically someone raised in a non-dog-family would not get with a dog person. I tried dating girls with dogs and it never worked. I was always too annoyed by something or other the dog did. Or she was way too into bringing the dog everywhere etc. And the smell in the house was always there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534776)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:20 AM
Author: Glassy spot

Why would you have a problem with the dog eating out of an old tupperware bowl? Explain the logic. It's OK to let raw chicken soak in there, then wash it and use it for leftovers the next day...but it's not OK for a dog (whose mouth is way cleaner than a human's mouth) to eat out of it? It's not like I put it back without washing it. It would have gone through the dishwasher before anyone used it again.

Wife is much more "American" than her parents. She always wanted a dog growing up but they wouldn't get her one. She's totally a dog person anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534802)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 11:38 AM
Author: hyperactive sienna puppy

There’s no logic but your MIL’s disgust mechanism has been activate so that’s the end of the story.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45534910)



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Date: November 24th, 2022 10:10 AM
Author: massive public bath corn cake

yes and this cannot be un-done

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539153)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 12:14 PM
Author: vermilion mediation

Congrats on the Asian American wife. There is no logic to these things. Dog people are as illogical as non-dog people. Both have visceral reactions to the other side. It is her house so respect her wishes. When she visits you and your dog is slobbering all over her and she doesn't like it, ask her to gtfo.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45535103)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 1:26 PM
Author: Cordovan whorehouse international law enforcement agency

I can tell simply from the thread title that your MIL is asian, probably Chinese. Chinese people in general don't trust dishwashers to get dog-cooties off a plate.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45535511)



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Date: November 24th, 2022 9:49 AM
Author: Flesh Dead Scourge Upon The Earth

And also, like your wife, they would prefer to feed ON the dog on a human plate.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539080)



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Date: November 24th, 2022 10:10 AM
Author: massive public bath corn cake

ran here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539156)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 1:27 PM
Author: navy frozen friendly grandma

She sounds like a cunt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45535515)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 1:29 PM
Author: aromatic mahogany son of senegal

Take your cock out and smear the smegma on her face

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45535526)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 6:03 PM
Author: provocative gaped antidepressant drug

Make your wife drink out of a dog bowl during doggy style sex. Keyfob and send to MIL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45536855)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 6:28 PM
Author: salmon vibrant old irish cottage

Gross and rude, brother. Be more considerate with things that aren't yours. And---don't bring your dog to someone's home when you know they don't like dogs. That's next level rude and inconsiderate.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45536947)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 6:36 PM
Author: Glassy spot

Wife cleared bringing the dog in advance. My kids and their cousins are all into having her there. It's a big house with a yard.

And again, lots of people--poa, MIL, wife-- are critical. But no one can tell me why this matters. At all. These tupperwares get filled with salmonella covered raw meat, washed, and re-used. And no one has a better solution. It was early. No one was up except me, kids, and dog. This was the best option.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45536972)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 6:39 PM
Author: salmon vibrant old irish cottage

Here's the thing--most moms are going to say "sure, bring the dog." But if you know your mom doesn't like dogs, the polite thing to do is to refrain from asking in the first place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45536989)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 6:50 PM
Author: hyperactive sienna puppy

You should have asked, it’s illogical but she’s a woman. Are you autistic?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45537034)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 9:14 PM
Author: Stimulating startling newt

You're right - it doesn't matter - but how would you feel if I used one of your Tupperware containers (a very small one) to collect my semen? Why would it matter at all if I masturbated into your Tupperware container and filled it with my jizz? It's nowhere near as unsanitary as raw meat or spoiled food, so who cares, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45537571)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 9:46 PM
Author: Orchid alcoholic crackhouse ladyboy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45537740)



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Date: November 24th, 2022 9:50 AM
Author: concupiscible queen of the night



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539085)



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Date: November 24th, 2022 1:15 PM
Author: vermilion mediation



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539807)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 6:57 PM
Author: Red bateful cruise ship partner

your MIL is a dumb bird-brain cunt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45537064)



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Date: November 24th, 2022 10:03 AM
Author: Mauve Box Office Milk

Yuge dog person here and grew up surrounded by dogs, livestock, etc. Will happily throw my dogs generous cuts of slightly-expired meat, human food, etc.

Clearly your MIL is asian. That said, I have also done a 180 in recent years and don't let anyone - guests or family - use human bowls in our house for feeding animals EVER anymore.

It's not that it's 'unclean' its just weird and degrading. Wipe that shit off your human plate and throw it in a dog bowl or out in the yard first. Don't hand over YOUR plate to an inferior creature.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539136)



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Date: November 24th, 2022 4:48 PM
Author: Buck-toothed laughsome bawdyhouse

"It's not that it's 'unclean' its just weird and degrading."

What is this mental illness?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45540481)



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Date: November 24th, 2022 6:40 PM
Author: Mauve Box Office Milk

('dog mom' AKA dog fucker)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45540709)



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Date: November 24th, 2022 10:07 AM
Author: massive public bath corn cake

edit/ ok, Tupperware is difficult to autoclave and make disinfected, so I get where MIL coming from.

Bad, JM, BAD

Also, buy her a new Tupperware and call it a day

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539147)



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Date: November 24th, 2022 1:10 PM
Author: hyperactive sienna puppy

Basically the entire family sucks.

He sucks for not asking permission and not being prepared to feed his dog with his own possessions.

She sucks for making a big deal about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45539779)



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Date: November 24th, 2022 4:56 PM
Author: salmon vibrant old irish cottage

Autoclave? Tell me more about your NERD background sir.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45540492)



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Date: November 24th, 2022 6:45 PM
Author: splenetic school idea he suggested

Holy shit this is why I spend thanksgiving with friends ….

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5240662&forum_id=2#45540715)