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What amount of complaining from a wife is normal?
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Date: December 1st, 2022 8:52 AM Author: Electric degenerate Recently married and navigating married life. Wife seems to go between good mood and bad mood every day. Frequent nagging and complaining about stuff. Is this just marriage? At what point is it more serious? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45567744) |
Date: December 1st, 2022 9:02 AM Author: umber razzle-dazzle gas station How recently married? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45567762) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 9:04 AM Author: Turquoise Market Liquid Oxygen "New poaster first day" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45567766) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:12 PM Author: Electric degenerate Less than a year. We didn't cohabit before marriage so some of this is us getting used to each other. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570147) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:15 PM Author: Canary Bat-shit-crazy Stag Film Pistol if the XO hivemind is going to dig into your life, and we're ready to do it, we need more details.
typical comments?
target of complaints?
are they intended to obtain a result or just complaining to complain? |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:17 PM Author: supple trailer park elastic band Also obviously need ages, heights, weights, approximate 1-10 rating looks on obj scale, income and NW for both OP and his wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570174) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:33 PM Author: Electric degenerate She likes to have the best of the best of everything. I'm more frugal and look for bargains. We both grew up well off, but it manifests in her in wanting the finer things in life and in me in trying to preserve and grow assets.
Also doesn't like the idea of spare time. Always trying to find something to do like chores. Much, much neater than me and complains a lot about that. |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:35 PM Author: hilarious multi-colored box office hunting ground protip: wait at least a year before you try to have kids, if not two. kids make the fighting and stress 100000x worse, so you need to build a solid foundation with each other before you throw kids into the mix. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570270) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:43 PM Author: chocolate casino Why would you marry such a woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570320) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2022 6:54 AM Author: appetizing coffee pot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45573001) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:47 PM Author: black fortuitous meteor generalized bond This person does not respect you and will make for a miserable spouse. Condolences. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570356) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2022 6:57 AM Author: appetizing coffee pot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45573003) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:49 PM Author: Cracking gold nowag Fucking enjoy that man. Ten years in and you'll be suicidal. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570366) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2022 6:55 AM Author: appetizing coffee pot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45573002) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:55 PM Author: White circlehead "Also doesn't like the idea of spare time. Always trying to find something to do like chores. Much, much neater than me and complains a lot about that."
Brother this is every woman. There is definitive xo scholarship on this, something like nothing makes a woman more angry than seeing her husband at rest |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:57 PM Author: hilarious multi-colored box office hunting ground eh, my marriage is the opposite. my wife always complains that i constantly find shit for her to do when shes sitting around trying to relax. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570424) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:01 PM Author: wine rigor crotch I can't think of a more literal way to say stop being a bitch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570452) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:02 PM Author: hilarious multi-colored box office hunting ground the dishes arent going to put themselves away! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570455) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:03 PM Author: wine rigor crotch Who the fuck cares if the dishes are in the sink (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570462) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:04 PM Author: hilarious multi-colored box office hunting ground you can't rinse off the new ones if there's an existing pile of crap in the sink, and it just becomes an exponentially worse mess (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570466) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:05 PM Author: Diverse underhanded tattoo factory reset button have you ever thought about marrying a husband instead of a wife? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570474) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:22 PM Author: White circlehead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570562) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2022 6:58 AM Author: appetizing coffee pot lmfao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45573004) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:56 PM Author: supple trailer park elastic band You should make her go to marriage counseling with you right away. The only chance your marriage has is for you and her to learn to “fight effectively” ie establish a baseline of what effective communication requires and then hold her to that. Nagging neat freak wife is like what marriage counseling was designed to fix. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570415) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:02 PM Author: wine rigor crotch Marriage counseling is designed to skim some money off you before you go to the divorce attorneys (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570457) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:17 PM Author: White circlehead always seemed like a huge scam to me and unlikely to benefit a man at any point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570531) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:16 PM Author: hilarious multi-colored box office hunting ground >>We didn't cohabit before marriage so some of this is us getting used to each other.
religious?
turdskin arranged marriage? |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:30 PM Author: Electric degenerate Religious. Both of us. Took her v card during the dating phase. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570233) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:32 PM Author: hilarious multi-colored box office hunting ground prior to marriage, did u spend significant time at each others' places even if not cohabitating formally, like spending the entire weekends together and several nights a week? or did u like go from 0-60? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570246) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:34 PM Author: Electric degenerate The former. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570263) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:35 PM Author: amber old irish cottage roommate what kind of guys did she date before you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570268) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:16 PM Author: Cracking gold nowag Really depends on the woman and what you do to respond when she does it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570165) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:17 PM Author: Naked personal credit line shrine Depends on the woman, but a lot of complaining is the norm. Being married is both miserable and also a part of what makes life worth living. Congratuations. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570176) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:35 PM Author: Alcoholic Soggy Twinkling Uncleanness 8-10 hours of complaining per day is considered normal. more than that and you should have it checked out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570267) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:36 PM Author: hilarious multi-colored box office hunting ground * less than that, you should have it checked out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570272) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:53 PM Author: Flatulent Slate Parlour * less than that, and consider giving the bull an extra large tip next time for keeping your wife happy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570396) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:38 PM Author: hilarious multi-colored box office hunting ground (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570639) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:40 PM Author: Diverse underhanded tattoo factory reset button hilarious thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570303) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:49 PM Author: Cracking gold nowag lmao can't believe people do this to themselves (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570369) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:55 PM Author: Diverse underhanded tattoo factory reset button it's just bizarre to listen to guys talk about how marriage is unbearably awful but also the best thing to ever happen to them
like listening to some child with stockholm syndrome after being systematically abused for years |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:02 PM Author: wine rigor crotch Having a family and having kids is the best thing to ever happen to me, everything else is a living hell (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570454) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:02 PM Author: Vigorous resort is divorce on the table for you or no? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570456) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:03 PM Author: wine rigor crotch Yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570463) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:04 PM Author: Vigorous resort sorry to hear. how close are you to a final straw? have you thought about impact on kids and finances? remember, divorce fucks up kids permanently no matter how easy the divorce goes. how long married? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570467) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:05 PM Author: Vigorous resort http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=4911315&mc=97&forum_id=2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570475) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:06 PM Author: Diverse underhanded tattoo factory reset button https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5242430&mc=14&forum_id=2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570478) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:42 PM Author: olive big base https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oo0d1zTAFKA (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570311) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:46 PM Author: hairraiser massive stage My fiancée nags me all the time about tidyness. She hates clutter and my office is a disaster. I'm extremely disorganized, but have been working on it. Sometimes the nagging is too much and I'll call her out on it (e.g., we have Christmas towels on the oven door that look like Santa's legs (don't ask), and she got mad because some flour got on them while cooking), but other times, it's deserved. Welcome to cohabitation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570351) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:49 PM Author: Vigorous resort all women pull a bait and switch post marriage. it will get worse as you are still in the early phase. about 4-6 hours a day of whining/complaining with zero attempt to actually fix anything seems baseline for most. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570364) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:50 PM Author: hilarious multi-colored box office hunting ground i'm the one who nags her to do shit. she thinks i'm the girl in the relationship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570373) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:56 PM Author: wine rigor crotch For the most part I find that my wife only complains when she's awake and not ill.
Get friends and a hobby and get them quick, because wives were not intended to be your best friends. It's an inherently adversarial relationship all this stuff's in the Bible just wise up quick. |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:36 PM Author: Insecure Floppy Parlor Reading Party (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570621) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2022 6:59 AM Author: appetizing coffee pot wow lol holy shit lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45573005) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:56 PM Author: Cracking gold nowag Hey guys MASE here, have a question for you all about my wife. We're newly married (six months and counting) and while domestic life has been nearly bliss, a few problems have started to crop up that I wanted to get some input on. My wife is an enormous spender and is on Amazon making purchases all day. She won't let me spend more than $15 on myself for dinner but demands $50 meals sometimes (she's a great tipper). When I try and bring up her spending, she will playfully slap and hit me. It's all in good fun and I don't think she intends it to be emasculating. Additionally, she leaves a house a mess (she's a stay at home dog mom) and when I mention to her that she should use some of her home time to clean, she takes off in the car in a huff (we had to sell her car to pay off credit card debt). Any idea how I can make more money for her/hire a maid? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570416) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:33 PM Author: sapphire field useless brakes Link to reddit thread por favor? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570608) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:38 PM Author: Cracking gold nowag Brother MASE here, trying to get advice about my personal situation with my wife of six months and counting. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570635) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2022 7:00 AM Author: appetizing coffee pot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45573007) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 4:57 PM Author: White circlehead This is par for the course but you need to tread carefully. You can find nominal gestures to maintain good relations but if you give in too much she's just going to ratchet up the pressure and expectations and you'll be fucked. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570423) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:19 PM Author: avocado bespoke indian lodge windowlicker Thirty minutes of squawking per day. Can be spread out over the entire day or can be in one intense half-hour burst. Not bankable, credit doesn't carry from one day to the next, use it or lose it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570540) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:26 PM Author: chocolate casino Anything more than 5-10 minutes is insane. Lmao @ devoting what could be more than 10% of your free time to placating some squawking birdbrain. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570580) |
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Date: December 1st, 2022 5:39 PM Author: Domesticated unhinged set dragon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45570644) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2022 7:01 AM Author: appetizing coffee pot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45573008) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2022 6:54 AM Author: appetizing coffee pot Do not tolerate nagging and complaining. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45573000) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2022 7:07 AM Author: appetizing coffee pot Sent this thread to my wife and she said "Yeah he’s fucked" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45573017) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2022 7:24 AM Author: avocado bespoke indian lodge windowlicker She sounds Korean, bud. That’s just how they are. Let her go on for a bit and then firmly tell her to can it once she’s plucked your nerves. Remember, they grew up whining; it’s in their culture.
My wife used to complain to me for hours at a time about our kid’s grades, and she’d get wound up when I didn’t get upset with a B+ or a missed assignment, and she finally knows not to talk to me about that nonsense when I come home or at other times. Instead, she just sighs tragically from another room which is an invite for me to ask but I don’t take the bait. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2022 11:29 AM Author: Vigorous resort (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45574019) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2022 11:30 AM Author: Beady-eyed Public Bath Electric Furnace Recently married and asking this q is a really bad sign. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5245065&forum_id=2#45574025) |