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The profound sadness of watching a 20+ yr friend with kids wreck it all
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Date: January 26th, 2023 2:55 PM Author: soul-stirring home macaca for the tawdry temptation of a midlife crisis wrought of growing pains & some deep dissatisfaction at the identity level. All for what?
Those poor kids. |
Date: January 26th, 2023 2:56 PM Author: alcoholic out-of-control school new version (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845595) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 2:56 PM Author: big mad-dog skullcap institution if his wife wasn't a cold bitch this probably wouldn't have happened (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845596) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 2:57 PM Author: overrated stag film alpha In a just society his wife's brother should be able to just kick him in the nuts once, and then everybody moves on with their lives with the family intact and a tight leash on the husband.
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Date: January 26th, 2023 2:59 PM Author: Sickened Round Eye In a just society the wife should be put in the stocks in the town square until her gut recedes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845621) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 2:59 PM Author: soul-stirring home macaca She's thin. Asian woman. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845624) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:00 PM Author: Sickened Round Eye ah. those poor kids indeed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845628) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:00 PM Author: soul-stirring home macaca One boy one girl; usual pattern already evident. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845633) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:12 PM Author: pink senate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845694) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:05 PM Author: Know-it-all genital piercing lol imagine advocating for this system. you people are savages. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845658) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 6:00 PM Author: overrated stag film alpha Alot better than the complete implosion in the family. Right this minute the guy who will mug and beat you up in 2035 is being raised in a single mother house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846484) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 2:58 PM Author: Flesh greedy telephone personal credit line 20 is pretty young to be having kids, especially in this day and age. The trad in me wants to applaud it, but I know that most modern men and women are not ready for a family that young. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845611) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 2:58 PM Author: soul-stirring home macaca To clarify: I mean we were friends for 20+ years, not that his age is 20+ lol. He's in his 40s. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845616) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:01 PM Author: Flesh greedy telephone personal credit line Well that explains the "mid-life crisis" bit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845641) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:00 PM Author: Sooty stirring gay wizard mediation The problem is that you understand your entire time growing up that your primary goal as a person is to be a family man/support your family. If you get married young just because you think that's what you're supposed to do then it's going to go bad. Hell, you can prep for it for years and it still can go bad. It requires more maturity than most young people have. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845626) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:05 PM Author: Flesh greedy telephone personal credit line "I can't, my xenoestrogens" - 25 year old "man" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845657) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:06 PM Author: Sooty stirring gay wizard mediation People are still drinking "tap water" ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845663) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:07 PM Author: Arousing meetinghouse A 20 year old woman should already have 1 or 2 kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845669) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:08 PM Author: Sooty stirring gay wizard mediation Yes, and she should be married to a 30 year old man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845675) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:10 PM Author: Flesh greedy telephone personal credit line Yeah haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845687) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:13 PM Author: Sooty stirring gay wizard mediation At least the study of Physics can replace that child sized hole in your heart. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845708) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:17 PM Author: Flesh greedy telephone personal credit line Yeah... *heads down to physics building sub-basement for daily scream therapy session* |
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Date: January 27th, 2023 2:10 PM Author: mind-boggling piazza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45849896) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:06 PM Author: Avocado temple dragon very sad for the kids, it will fuck them up permanently.
he just divorced her or cheated? when is divorce "better" if he's unhappy - after the kids are in college, right? |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:08 PM Author: soul-stirring home macaca Divorce, yes, but it's much worse than merely cheating. She would have been fine with cheating.
Much worse. |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:08 PM Author: Know-it-all genital piercing please elaborate about what this bastard did (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845677) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:11 PM Author: soul-stirring home macaca In an apparent effort to get out of the marriage in a guilt-free way, he accused _her_ of being an abuser (of him + the kids) and varied other things, and involved police, courts, social workers, brought the kids into it in various scary/hard to process ways, etc. She was willing to bear with a lot, but not all of that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845689) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:12 PM Author: Mustard Black Woman Wow, what a "friend" u got there
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:13 PM Author: soul-stirring home macaca Former friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845705) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:12 PM Author: Avocado temple dragon damn, thats really fucked up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845699) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:39 PM Author: Know-it-all genital piercing so he did what women usually do? that's terrible. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845896) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 4:15 PM Author: Violet maniacal locale (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846119) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 5:49 PM Author: soul-stirring home macaca Unironically yes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846439) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 7:34 PM Author: motley marketing idea base (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846858) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 7:36 PM Author: Sooty stirring gay wizard mediation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846864) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:11 PM Author: Wine Contagious Really Tough Guy Set got this same situation. 20 year friend. Dude married a nice girl, they had a kid. Kid is a teenager now, super nice. a few years ago dude had some alcohol problems that drove wife to leave him. he ended up getting addicted to strip clubs and blow, currently has a live in female "roommate" he shares a bed with who is a straight up escort - in a tiny one bedroom apartment. This escort also has a pimp/boyfriend who is extremely violent (beat her up, makes her walk home from 15 miles away in the middle of the night, etc), no idea how this situation works out for my friend. He does blow every weekend, often stays awake for 48-72 hours over the weekends. When his son comes over, he makes the escort leave. There is weed and coke stashed all over their apartment though. He has gotten fired multiple times over the years and always lands in a higher paying job somehow. We've confronted him a few times about it and he always claims he is going to get his life together but he keeps doing this. Drives blackout drunk as fuck around town every weekend with blow in his car. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845693) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:12 PM Author: big mad-dog skullcap institution damn thought zurich turned his life around (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845697) |
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Date: January 27th, 2023 10:29 AM Author: ivory friendly grandma shrine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45848777) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:13 PM Author: soul-stirring home macaca Oh yeah, guy I'm talking about also got into strip clubs (became a regular at several); was also going to festivals and raves and the like.
Really, the pandemic did him in, IMO. Some couples were just not meant to be confined together for too long -- lots of people went mad. (I even predicted he'd be divorced by the end of it to my wife, but didn't think it could be this bad.) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 3:53 PM Author: Arousing meetinghouse Honestly, I'm really envious of this guy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45845996) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 4:17 PM Author: Wine Contagious Really Tough Guy Set the thing is, despite all of that he is a legitimately good guy with a great heart. He outwardly cares about his friends more than probably anyone I know. We've tried to talk to him about his lifestyle several times and he always thanks us for being such good friends to him but nothing changes. We are trying to convince him to buy a condo so that his son can move in with him and kick the escort out (she doesn't pay rent and he has been supporting her for literally years while she LITERALLY whores herself out) - which he and his son both want to do - but it just never happens (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846132) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 7:43 PM Author: racy self-absorbed idiot scourge upon the earth the worst part is that he is supporting the woman. other than that it sounds cr. tell him to stop driving drunk and alert him to the fact that marijuana is gross and cocaine will eventually cause him huge problems. stuff like that is way better than "internet dating". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846894) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 11:20 PM Author: rough-skinned stead death wish Honestly, if they are fucking even semi-regularly, it's probably far cheaper to give her food and a place to stay than it would be to pay her hourly rate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45847696) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 11:34 PM Author: Sinister Native Mad Cow Disease (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45847726) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 4:16 PM Author: free-loading gaming laptop I want to party with your bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846123) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 4:18 PM Author: Excitant mother station this is dumb. the kids will be fine. stop being overly emotional about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846136) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 4:19 PM Author: Sooty stirring gay wizard mediation Yes current society shows that with record breaking levels of absent fathers, people are still thriving. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846144) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 4:21 PM Author: Excitant mother station they are actually. i doubt anything in the research literature would indicate divorce would "devastate" or do irreparable harm to a kid. it's all just hyper-emotional romanticizing from puritan men. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846152) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 4:26 PM Author: Sooty stirring gay wizard mediation Yeah, if it's all the same to you, I'm just going to call you a "kike" and move on. Mazel Tov. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846168) |
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Date: January 27th, 2023 10:26 AM Author: pink senate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45848764) |
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Date: January 27th, 2023 10:30 AM Author: heady brilliant whorehouse ratface cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45848781) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 4:27 PM Author: topaz hideous regret locus recent modernity really did a number on libs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846172) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 5:51 PM Author: soul-stirring home macaca The kids will likely be fine over the longer run; but then, in the longer run, we'll all be dead. They've already suffered much misery, and apart from that, it was tough watching my friend wreck his life, which he'd struggled for mightily, so comprehensively.
I think all of this bears passing comment as a sad thing, for me; you're free to disagree. |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 4:18 PM Author: Hateful peach associate coldplay fan It is amazing how much a man is willing to ruin his life that he's spent years constructing, for a little piece of ass. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846137) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 5:52 PM Author: soul-stirring home macaca The crazy thing is he could've had that -- just cheat, or get the wife to agree to an "arrangement," or whatever. It was already a pro forma marriage of convenience between aspie/psychotic dude & Azn bride. But he needed for it to be "Right". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846455) |
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Date: January 27th, 2023 11:13 AM Author: nubile point potus Sounds like a selfish retarded fag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45849053) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 4:19 PM Author: translucent aromatic tanning salon main people What did he do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846141) |
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Date: January 26th, 2023 7:35 PM Author: racy self-absorbed idiot scourge upon the earth how old are they and how old were they when the started "dating" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45846859) |
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Date: January 27th, 2023 11:17 AM Author: nubile point potus Root cause error is being a shitty father. I do plenty of dumb shit and subject myself to plenty of one wrong move risk day to day, and I constantly feel guilty and launch into recurring shame spirals about it. But the only thing that really stops me from going off the deep end is being with my kids. People who are so far gone that they blow off their kids—or worse, use them as props in a divorce—are the fucking devil. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45849074) |
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Date: January 27th, 2023 2:08 PM Author: soul-stirring home macaca He fell into a deep hole of NPD. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45849889) |
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Date: January 27th, 2023 11:22 AM Author: multi-colored yellow private investor kitchen What kind of Asian is she? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45849098) |
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Date: January 27th, 2023 2:13 PM Author: spectacular indian lodge legal warrant The parents are the only ones who can be said to have any good judgement with the situation. I’m sure if their kids didn’t suck they wouldn’t be having these insane crises. Usually this kind of stuff happens out of a mutual recognition that any sort of parental investment is no longer useful or constructive. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45849923) |
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Date: January 27th, 2023 2:20 PM Author: soul-stirring home macaca Finally, someone with the courage to blame the children. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45849958) |
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Date: January 27th, 2023 2:21 PM Author: Avocado temple dragon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5278313&forum_id=2#45849967) |