http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4939104&mc=441&forum_id=2

She went on one date with a 46 year-old African divorce with two kids, one autistic. He is prestigious with a Penn MBA and some kind of president at a financial company. They talked a lot on the phone and by text before they met and he seemed to like her a lot.

She thinks he seemed like he enjoyed the date, but he only had one drink. He said he had an early day the next day though.

Would he have asked her out already if he wanted to or is he possibly shy? He texted he to ask if she got home ok. They exchange some small talk and that was it. She asked a question, he answered and she left it at that. Is the ball in her court now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5283744&forum_id=2#45884013)

Taken with careful thought and a heart full of antique,

From whence doth stem a yearning, a thirst unfulfilled,

To cast aside that which society hath instilled.

Some may judge and decry, call it a path obscene,

But I say nay, for 'tis a choice I've chosen with esteem,

A journey towards self discovery, to know thy true form,

Unfettered by gender expectations, free from social norm.

And though my body may differ from what's commonly seen,

My soul remains unchanged, my spirit still serene,

For 'tis not what we have, but what we make of it,

That doth define our worth, and make us truly fit.

Thus I embrace this change, and wear my nullification,

As a badge of courage, a symbol of liberation,

For I am who I am, and that shall never fade,

And in this truth I find peace, in this truth I am unafraid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5283744&forum_id=2#45884994)

Hemming and hawing over this would be like trent dilfer being down by 5 on his own 40 with 00:02 remaining in the game and being like "should I throw deep here? my arm really isn't that great, and my receivers, well-- meh... I don't want to embarrass myself, and I really feel like I've been most successful this year throwing short out routes; I mean, *that's* really what I enjoy doing...."

No. Throw the fucking ball as high and as far as you can and hope somebody gets the fuck under it. There's no shame in taking a fist full of pills and then blowjobbing a brand new glock 19 at age 53, with your spinster body to be found by your building's super 2 weeks later, if you can look yourself in the mirror in the locker room and tell yourself you left it all out on the fucking field.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5283744&forum_id=2#45890602)

Why hasn’t he asked her out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5283744&forum_id=2#45884452)

Is your advice still to ask?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5283744&forum_id=2#45898172)

I’ll reiterate my advice I gave last year: she needs to get to church, accept Jesus. Also, she needs to go on an animal based diet to get fit and lose the weight.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5283744&forum_id=2#45898349)

if not, no. do not pass go

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5283744&forum_id=2#45890634)

She is sub 40.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5283744&forum_id=2#45899197)

It must really hurt her feelings that these types of dudes are rejecting her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5283744&forum_id=2#45899993)

Oof.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5283744&forum_id=2#45901094)