Did this app match flake on me?
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Date: March 16th, 2023 5:43 PM
Author: .,.,..,,.,,.,.,:,,:,;..,::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.::. ( )
She's a nurse and a doula (someone who helps women deliver babies). We matched on Hinge. A few weeks ago, on the day of our first date, she texted me and said she has to cancel because a client's baby delivery was earlier than expected. Ok fine. So we rescheduled for today. Then ,this morning, she texted me and said she was terribly sorry to cancel again because a patient of hers with whom she was close with, passed away. She's processing a lot and doesn't feel as though she can show up to the date as her best self.
Shit happens in life but the odds of both of these things happening on the days of the scheduled dates seems pretty low. Am I being too cynical?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46060964) |
Date: March 16th, 2023 5:47 PM Author: michael doodikoff
Been here done that a lot
1. I'm usually of the opinion that if someone bails twice, its almost certainly a lost cause. There are exceptions, but if nothing else to go by its not looking good
2. Did she suggest any future dates on her second cancelation?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46060969) |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 6:02 PM
Author: .,.,..,,.,,.,.,:,,:,;..,::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.::. ( )
She works as a nurse and doula so shit like this is not uncommon in her job.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46061027) |
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Date: March 16th, 2023 6:31 PM
Author: .,.,..,,.,,.,.,:,,:,;..,::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.::. ( )
Why do you think she's lying? Pretty elaborate and dramatic for a lie, as opposed to just canceling because she's not feeling well or because she's too busy.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46061174) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:19 AM
Author: ,,,,,,.,,,..,,,,..,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063210) |
Date: March 17th, 2023 5:26 AM Author: QueenLaBEEFah
Why not just respond: “Wow sorry to hear that. My deepest condolences. Happy to give you the space you need and if you eventually want to reschedule reach out. Until then, I hope you feel better soon.”
Than the ball’s in her court. You go about your life and if she’s really interested she can make a move instead of your wringing your hands about it.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063211) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:30 AM
Author: .,..,....,...,.,.,...;,,....,......,......,,.,.,..
this is right
and he will never hear from her again
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063214) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:33 AM
Author: ,,,,,,.,,,..,,,,..,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
If these things really did happen, makes total sense for her to cancel. Doubtful that she made it up.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063217) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:01 PM
Author: ,,,,,,.,,,..,,,,..,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Dating apps are easily the most common way for couples to meet. So you're clearly wrong on that.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46065782) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 5:15 PM Author: Oh, you Travel? ( )
Source?
But regardless that’s not persuasive for a number of reasons. First, this depends on geographic area. Second, I highly doubt that’s true for all couples across all generations, and even for younger generations I suspect it is questionable. And are you referring to couples who are together for a long period of time, married, etc? Third, I don’t believe the majority of current marriages meet on apps. Fourth, even if it is common, it doesn’t change the fact that women don’t really like it instinctively and would prefer to meet in person. And l you want to do what these normal NPCs do anyway. Pretty much all desirable men know that they have to date down on apps most of the time, though this depends on region.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46065849) |
Date: March 17th, 2023 8:38 AM Author: Prole Goy Mr. FixIt (gunneratttt)
i dated a midwife for a year and this shit happened frequently, so i buy the excuse.
you can tell if an excuse is real by how enthusiastic they are to set up another date. if she is apologetic and suggesting new ideas, the excuse is real. if she's just like "sorry, i have to cancel." and doesn't say anything after, she is just trying to let you down easy.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46063371) |
Date: March 17th, 2023 8:45 PM Author: Fuck Timmy gon do?
Doulas/midwifes are all crackpots, cut from the same cloth as chiros
I wouldn't have even bothered making a date in the first place
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46066760) |
Date: March 17th, 2023 9:28 PM
Author: .,.,..,,.,,.,.,:,,:,;..,::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.::. ( )
OP here. This is what she wrote in her text.
"Hey XXX, I am so sorry to do this for a second time but one of my patients with whom I'm very close is passing away. I am processing a lot and don't feel as thought I can show up as my best self for a date tonight."
My response: "Sorry to hear that! Let me know if you want to to reschedule and for what date. Thanks."
No response from her. This was sent yesterday at around noon.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46066986) |
Date: March 18th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: ,,,,,,.,,,..,,,,..,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
lol
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5307806&forum_id=2#46069481) |
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